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Why do Brits boil everything ?

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Lotc · 20/06/2026 11:33

I’m European but not British. I have to say the way you guys cook (vegetables in particular) ie boiling everything) really isn’t for me. It just makes everything so bland even if you add butter and salt after. Carrots especially. Why not roast or lightly sautee in a pan with some olive oil? My husband boils everything. I’ve never seen anything like it. Why boil carrots? Same as ILs. The first time I met ILs we had poached chicken. It’s so weird to me. Is it a health thing?

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Hundslappadrifa · 20/06/2026 15:05

Lotc · 20/06/2026 11:57

I asked a friend why she boiled baby potatoes and then added a knob of butter at end. She said it’s faster and easiest. But roasted in oven to me is easier!

But not necessarily healthier?

ComePlayMyTrombolise · 20/06/2026 15:06

Lotc · 20/06/2026 12:04

boiled potatoes are just very unusual to me

How do you make potato salad?

DimwittedSkater · 20/06/2026 15:08

countrylife00 · 20/06/2026 11:37

We lightly boil veg before roasting. Why do Europeans put everyone in the same category?
Why don’t you do all the cooking if you hate how your husband cooks?

That sounds like such a faff. Who's got time for that after work?

pigsDOfly · 20/06/2026 15:10

Why are you judging every British person by what your husband does OP.

I never boil vegetables: I roast or stir fry them, or I make them into ratatouille.

And it's not a generational thing, I'm 77.

rc22 · 20/06/2026 15:12

I boil vegetables but have rarely poached chicken. I either roast it or grill it and so does everyone else I know!

harveythehorse · 20/06/2026 15:12

Lotc · 20/06/2026 11:41

Green veg sauteed in butter is the best way to cook it though.

I can remember when I was given boiled, mushy broccoli for the first time. It makes everything wet. Not in a good way

In your opinion. Personally, I think steamed veg is nicer.

DimwittedSkater · 20/06/2026 15:14

Lotc · 20/06/2026 11:43

I have. No problem. Cut the cauliflower nice and chunky with spices and herbs. Bit of olive oil and salt. Amazing. Boiling it ruins cauliflower

Spices and herbs in cauliflower cheese? That sounds awful! Why would you mess with the cheesy sauce that way?

Unusualsuspects · 20/06/2026 15:14

harveythehorse · 20/06/2026 15:12

In your opinion. Personally, I think steamed veg is nicer.

Not if the OP is French, then it’s a fact 😂

DimwittedSkater · 20/06/2026 15:18

Lotc · 20/06/2026 11:45

My friends give their kids boiled peas as the most often side dish for dinner. I wouldn’t be able to eat that. Feel sorry for the kids

OP, I don't why you've got such a thing against boiling. It's a perfectly good way of cooking things as long as you don't over-boil. Your way of doing things, using lots of butter, sounds delicious but not the healthiest. Boiling is a very healthy method, assuming you don't add salt to the cooking water. Boiling is also the quickest, if you're cooking after work,

There really is nothing wrong with boiling veg and potato. Maybe it's just that your in-laws and husband overdo it?

TragicMuse · 20/06/2026 15:19

I don’t like carrots at the best of times but roasted carrots are an abomination. I really hate roasted vegetables! I’d rather something lightly steamed or boiled to take the rawness off. All the freshness is retained. They’re crisp but not crunchy, no need for salt or butter.

Yum!

MonetsLilac · 20/06/2026 15:19

katepilar · 20/06/2026 15:04

Oh, there is loads! Just in a different way. Germans have their own way too.

I love Germany, and am properly Germanophilic, however - I cannot cope with mayonnaise on chips.

katepilar · 20/06/2026 15:20

Lotc · 20/06/2026 11:57

I asked a friend why she boiled baby potatoes and then added a knob of butter at end. She said it’s faster and easiest. But roasted in oven to me is easier!

Because thats what people often do? Its tastes good.
Roasted potatoes are good too, but I cant eat many of them, they are more of a treat then food to fill me up.
Its ok you preferr roasted to boiled but I dont get why you asked your friend about it as if boing baby potatoes was unusual?

DimwittedSkater · 20/06/2026 15:20

Smallorveryfaraway · 20/06/2026 11:46

Horses for courses. I prefer my cauliflower cheese soft, melting and mustardy. I can only achieve that if I parboil.

MUSTARDY! Blimey, why is everyone fiddling about with their cauliflower cheese so much? It should taste of...cheese. Which is quite a strong taste.

pizzaHeart · 20/06/2026 15:22

It’s just your DH.

I’m non British and never heard of roasted carrots, parsnip and potatoes before coming to UK. My non UK family over boil everything.

katepilar · 20/06/2026 15:23

MonetsLilac · 20/06/2026 15:19

I love Germany, and am properly Germanophilic, however - I cannot cope with mayonnaise on chips.

I couldnt cope with schitzel and spaghetti. Both dry as a bone.

MonetsLilac · 20/06/2026 15:24

katepilar · 20/06/2026 15:23

I couldnt cope with schitzel and spaghetti. Both dry as a bone.

Too true, as much as I love schnitzel 😋

MyDeftDuck · 20/06/2026 15:27

Hmmm……..I’m British and I’ve never always boiled all vegetables so I guess you’ve simply been associating with a small network of individuals who do!
However, when me and the OH got together I discovered that he would put cabbage into cold water, bring to the boil, and cook for 20 minutes ( because that how long the spuds too )…….apparently, that was how his ex cooked cabbage 🤷‍♀️🤣. He knows better now!

Jk987 · 20/06/2026 15:27

I love boiled carrots! 🥕

CoffeeCantata · 20/06/2026 15:29

What a silly generalisation, OP! Honestly!

We 'Brits' don't 'boil everything'.

But as pps have said, some people would not have had (or still don't have) access to an oven. They may only have a stove top or a couple of rings to cook on. I had this situation when I got my first tiny flat.

Is turning on the oven to roast all veg more expensive than using a ring to boil them? I don't know - but I'd imagine so. That's a consideration for some people.

I'm careful about turning on the oven for cost reasons (and so as not to waste energy roasting 5 carrots in terms of contributing to climate change etc). But my daughter happily turns it on high a few times a day to do just that! I love roast veg but I would only do it if there were several people eating and not just for myself, esp if the main dish didn't need the oven.

PermanentTemporary · 20/06/2026 15:30

My name is PermanentTemporary, I’m British and I boil vegetables.

Mostly in fact I steam them these days but I do boil things. If I’m cooking good quality fresh vegetables, particularly from the garden, then I don’t necessarily want to taste lots of oil or butter or even salt tbh, I want to taste the vegetables. Lightly boiling or steaming them makes delicious veg and I challenge anyone not to enjoy what I serve.

I am capable of cooking in other ways and I often do that too. The other day I did baked salmon fillets with herbs and lemon, steamed new potatoes, very lightly boiled peas, shredded steamed sweetheart cabbage, cherry tomatoes on the vine griddled and then baked, and then carrots roasted with oil and cumin seeds. Followed by rhubarb crumble and cream. If you’d refused all that then that’s your prerogative but I’d think you had a limited view of life.

GhoulWithADragonTattoo · 20/06/2026 15:37

It sounds like you DH is not very good at cooking. I boil rice, pasta and noodles none of these are British food…

Oriunda · 20/06/2026 15:38

Lotc · 20/06/2026 11:39

I also don’t get why everything needs to be parboiled.

Everything doesn’t. But roast potatoes absolutely do need parboiling. Apart from anything, it means you can prep them the night before (essential during the Christmas lunch prep).

You’re wildly generalising based on one family.

DimwittedSkater · 20/06/2026 15:38

WaltzingWaters · 20/06/2026 12:02

It may have been standard years ago, but I think very few people just boil everything nowadays. Most of my veg is sautéed, steamed or roasted.

I haven’t had smushed soggy broccoli since I was a kid.

Edited

Very few? I'm not old, and to me boiling potato and veg is totally normal and the mainstream way of doing things. I'm talking about cooking ordinary dinners after getting home from work. I can see roasting and sauteing veg more at the weekend.

DimwittedSkater · 20/06/2026 15:39

@Lotc What's your view on Marmite? And also milk in tea?

HScully · 20/06/2026 15:39

Smallorveryfaraway · 20/06/2026 11:41

Try making cauliflower cheese without parboiling and you'll get it 😁

I never parboiled my cauliflower and it turns out beautifully soft in a rich cheese sauce.

Par boiling just adds water