Yes, communication disorders for a start!
DD2 doesn’t understand instructions, books, films, the news, official letters and forms, or any conversation with more than short answers. I or her ex always had to fill in official forms for her. Then, she only believes in functional communication - she doesn’t understand the point of small talk or social niceties. So for example,
- when she was living at home, we rang her up to ask what she wanted from the chip shop for dinner, it took her 5 minutes in a dull monotone to answer “Uhhhhhhh - cod and chips!” Then we’d ask, what if they haven’t got cod? Another 5 minutes to get “Uhhhhhh - fish cake!”
- if I explain something to her, that takes 5 minutes, she’ll say “Oh I zoned out, can you just explain that again?” There’s no guarantee, she’ll understand it any better next time!
You can’t see why this would cause problems in a telephone based job?
- Emails - she just writes to people to tell them what she wants. They come across as downright rude. Now, she gets one of us or her ex to check them, before she sends anything to officialdom.
You can’t see why this would cause problems in a job, involving communication mainly by email?
On the internet, there is no non-verbal communication, no tone of voice (sounding like she’s bored), and she can spend all day, thinking about what to write; and if she can’t understand formal language like in forms and letters; then she doesn’t have to engage with it at all! She tends to go on condition specific support groups, who are going to be accepting of her social difficulties.
If you can’t conceive that some people struggle with communication in real time, why make ignorant comments like this?