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To think benefits need to be cut to fund increased spending on defence

686 replies

Viviennemary · 14/06/2026 20:04

This is absolutely necessary. Keir Starmer shouldnt have backed down the last time. But now with the current situation with Russia drastic steps need to be taken. We simply can't afford to sustain the current benefits bill with the armed forces so depleted. The money is needed to increase defence.

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Curveygirl · Today 13:26

youalright · Today 13:13

This same poster told me yesterday to quit my job and get a work from home job even after repeatedly telling her I already have a job

No i didn't, i said you had skills that could be used and transferred to other jobs?!

Tedsnan1 · Today 13:27

caringcarer · 14/06/2026 20:18

Minimum wage has been put up year on year and above cost of inflation. It's harmful to businesses so the government has to try to strike a balance. My DS simply works more hours to up his wage.

If a business can't afford to pay its employees a living wage, then the business isn't viable.

ThreadGuardDog · Today 13:30

WitchesCauldron · Today 13:18

Cancel the triple lock. Lots of very rich pensioners out there. Boomer generation have been the luckiest financially.

So you’d cancel the triple lock for the wealthiest - or just penalise everyone ?

ThreadGuardDog · Today 13:33

Has anyone else noticed that @Viviennemary has only been back to the thread twice - and that was two days ago. I know something of their posting and thread history so the post and run doesn’t surprise me. The title is a red herring. There is nothing altruistic about it. It’s a benefit bashing post disguised as something else. Evidence ? The title asks if benefits should be reduced in order to increase defence spending. How many posters have actually answered that ?

bladada · Today 13:33

Tedsnan1 · Today 13:27

If a business can't afford to pay its employees a living wage, then the business isn't viable.

How to say you know nothing about running a business or basic economics.

Better close the business and everyone gets on benefits than trying to build wealth and growth, because benefits' money will magically appear from somewhere, if we close our eyes and manifest it real hard, it will happen, promised, and there are pots of gold at the bottom of rainbows, guarded by leprechauns.

smh

Curveygirl · Today 13:44

Curveygirl · Today 10:32

Benefits aren't compensation though and shouldn't be used as such. The world is vastly unfair to all sorts of people for all sorts of reasons, it doesn't mean that some should be allowed to have a better standard of living without working.

People with disabilities who are able to go to uni can and are supported more than the average student via DSA and hall allocation etc and in some cases lesser entry requirements for the course.

@Pikachu150

This is my direct comment.

Your post : "you said that disabled students get more support than other students and in the next sentence said that people on benefits shouldn't have a better standard of living than those who work which strongly gives the impression that you begrudge everything they get if you don't get it too.
Also, the support you mention isn't something other students particularly want anyway. Nobody particularly wants the ground floor or have a noisy mini fridge in their room. The DSA is very limited too. It in no way levels the playing field."

I do believe people on benefits shouldn't have a better standard of living than those who work full time. It isn't right or fair, I own that i wrote that as that is what I believe.

Benefits should be a safety net for people in difficult circs and people should have a minimum standard of living regardless. As I've written many times on this thread though there is only so much in the pot and we are discussing how it should be spent. I believe work should pay and people should see a difference in their lives who work full time to those who are on benefits. That's common sense.

In regards to the uni comment the pp to most post wrote that disabled people can't just go to uni or something similar, they can and they are supported to do that. I agree with that and don't want people thinking the reverse is true.

I can hold two different thoughts at once about benefits, it isn't an all or nothing. Ie work should pay and disabled students should be supported to improve their qualifications.

You might want to see my post correcting a pp who said that all disabled people had care in the community now too. I pointed out that they don't and some of the most vulnerable are still locked away without commiting a crime in hospitals because it costs too much to care for them in the community. Benefits are varied and people are varied.

Sgurrdubh · Today 13:47

MissConductUS · Today 10:36

How would you have different minimum wages for some companies than others? In an industry like food service with low profit margins, they'd have to raise prices, which leads to fewer customers, which means fewer jobs.

I don’t have the answer if I’m honest! But perhaps if those companies who make a certain level of profit, and have employees who are paid in work top up benefits, were charged in lieu of the benefit paid by the government, thus paying from their profits, and making less, obviously. There would be issues - e.g. if people choose to work part time when full time jobs are available- and how that affects in work benefit paid.

I just think it cannot be right that a higher level of profit is generated on the back of pay that is too low to live on, via the taxpayer. There must be a solution. As others have said though housing costs are a huge factor and I would start to look at rent controls.

youalright · Today 13:49

ThreadGuardDog · Today 13:33

Has anyone else noticed that @Viviennemary has only been back to the thread twice - and that was two days ago. I know something of their posting and thread history so the post and run doesn’t surprise me. The title is a red herring. There is nothing altruistic about it. It’s a benefit bashing post disguised as something else. Evidence ? The title asks if benefits should be reduced in order to increase defence spending. How many posters have actually answered that ?

Yep always the way with these threads

Locutus2000 · Today 13:52

ThreadGuardDog · Today 13:33

Has anyone else noticed that @Viviennemary has only been back to the thread twice - and that was two days ago. I know something of their posting and thread history so the post and run doesn’t surprise me. The title is a red herring. There is nothing altruistic about it. It’s a benefit bashing post disguised as something else. Evidence ? The title asks if benefits should be reduced in order to increase defence spending. How many posters have actually answered that ?

It’s a benefit bashing post disguised as something else.

I mean with a title like AIBU To think benefits need to be cut to fund increased spending on defence it's not very well disguised 😃

It always turns into disability bashing because people have to concede basic UC is shit and instead pick on those getting the most - usually the disabled. Or picking on some family living in Kensington and claiming everything, then represent their income as typical.

WitchesCauldron · Today 13:59

ThreadGuardDog · Today 13:30

So you’d cancel the triple lock for the wealthiest - or just penalise everyone ?

Everyone. The triple lock is not sustainable full stop. We can't continue to pay it when young people are struggling so much.

youalright · Today 13:59

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OneThreadOnlybyN · Today 14:11

ThreadGuardDog · Today 13:33

Has anyone else noticed that @Viviennemary has only been back to the thread twice - and that was two days ago. I know something of their posting and thread history so the post and run doesn’t surprise me. The title is a red herring. There is nothing altruistic about it. It’s a benefit bashing post disguised as something else. Evidence ? The title asks if benefits should be reduced in order to increase defence spending. How many posters have actually answered that ?

Yes, I advised another oyster early in the thread that she was wasting her time trying to explain.

Curveygirl · Today 14:16

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Maybe i can afford to?!

Have you thought about how not to be an arse? Maybe you could consider or learn how to debate without resorting to stupid comments.

ThreadGuardDog · Today 14:16

Curveygirl · 14/06/2026 22:47

I suggested removing the lower rates of pip not the higher or are you not entutled to the higher?

Removing or reducing benefits will always impact on a group of people who were once entitled but then due to the change wouldn't be. Removing lower rates would ensure those with the most need will still get it and are supported. I believe as a society we should support those who cannot support themselves due to the severity of their disability. You can clearly argue online so there is some argument that you could if pushed wfh in an admin or customer service based position for example. You are not completely unable of devoid of useful skills that you could not be employed. You may not like that idea but many people have to take jobs that they don't like to support themselves.

Yes, i believe pip and dla should be looked at and changed. I won't apologise for that. I think other areas of benefits should be also changed as I posted earlier.

This is what I take issue with. There are no ‘lower rates’ of PIP. There is the standard and the enhanced rate. There are some very severely disabled people claiming the standard rate because their condition doesn’t meet the threshold for enhanced rate. That’s why two rates exist - because it’s enshrined in law that all disabled people are supported, not just the most severely affected.

These people would lose all support. And it’s not very forward thinking either. Just because you abolish the support doesn’t mean the need disappears. You don’t save any money because inevitably the people who lose the standard rates of PIP/child DLA and carers allowance along with it, will end up moving to social care, which is much more expensive. It’s robbing Peter to pay more to Paul.

ThreadGuardDog · Today 14:18

Curveygirl · 14/06/2026 22:21

There are people who are so disabled that they cannot work at all- this is what I class as severly disabled.

Thank goodness no one else does because it’s massively over simplifying disability. More ill informed nonsense.

ThreadGuardDog · Today 14:24

Curveygirl · 14/06/2026 22:50

Why do you find it insulting that somebody may be in a worse position than you are and not able to work at all? Ofcourse there are people who are more disabled than you are, that isn't an insult, it's factual.

Why do you not understand that an able bodied person telling a disabled person they are lucky not to be more severely disabled than they are, and that there are other people worse off than themselves, is not insulting in the extreme ? Where is your filter for offence, because there doesn’t seem to be any evidence of it here.

Curveygirl · Today 14:29

ThreadGuardDog · Today 14:16

This is what I take issue with. There are no ‘lower rates’ of PIP. There is the standard and the enhanced rate. There are some very severely disabled people claiming the standard rate because their condition doesn’t meet the threshold for enhanced rate. That’s why two rates exist - because it’s enshrined in law that all disabled people are supported, not just the most severely affected.

These people would lose all support. And it’s not very forward thinking either. Just because you abolish the support doesn’t mean the need disappears. You don’t save any money because inevitably the people who lose the standard rates of PIP/child DLA and carers allowance along with it, will end up moving to social care, which is much more expensive. It’s robbing Peter to pay more to Paul.

For pip it is colloquial as there are two rates; one being lower than the other.

If you read the other posts and don't take this in isolation you will see that i've wrote that I believe reforms are coming and the gov cannot reform benefits without also looking at disability. I'd rather they removed the lower rates than the people who get the higher who would arguably need more support. I've posted this with other things such as claiming state pension back from estates after the person has passed.

I've also posted that I don't feel the current system is fair and that some people require higher rates than are currently given as they have arguably more needs/ required support than other claiming at the same level.

I've posted quite a bit on this thread I don't want to continue to write out every detail in reply to every post i'm quoted or tagged in.

Just for clarity though I do think that there are also claiments especially for the lower rates where they are trying it on. People do lie.

There has to be some sort of benefit overhaul coming, there are political calls for it. I expect if Reform get in that is likely when it will happen.

ThreadGuardDog · Today 14:29

Curveygirl · 14/06/2026 23:24

Just for clarity

Another little gem there. Government claiming back state pension from the estates of those pensioners who are deceased. Laughed my arse off at that one. Good luck getting anything back from anyone’s estate after they’ve finished paying care costs. You want state pension to be repayable after people have contributed through work/NI for it ? You’re a piece of work.

ThreadGuardDog · Today 14:30

Curveygirl · Today 14:29

For pip it is colloquial as there are two rates; one being lower than the other.

If you read the other posts and don't take this in isolation you will see that i've wrote that I believe reforms are coming and the gov cannot reform benefits without also looking at disability. I'd rather they removed the lower rates than the people who get the higher who would arguably need more support. I've posted this with other things such as claiming state pension back from estates after the person has passed.

I've also posted that I don't feel the current system is fair and that some people require higher rates than are currently given as they have arguably more needs/ required support than other claiming at the same level.

I've posted quite a bit on this thread I don't want to continue to write out every detail in reply to every post i'm quoted or tagged in.

Just for clarity though I do think that there are also claiments especially for the lower rates where they are trying it on. People do lie.

There has to be some sort of benefit overhaul coming, there are political calls for it. I expect if Reform get in that is likely when it will happen.

I wondered when ‘people lie to get PIP’ would be trotted out.

Curveygirl · Today 14:31

ThreadGuardDog · Today 14:18

Thank goodness no one else does because it’s massively over simplifying disability. More ill informed nonsense.

Seriously, you're going through all my posts and taking each one in isolation?

Why do you have issue with me thinking that there are people who are so disabled that they cannot work and describing this as severly disabled?

Curveygirl · Today 14:33

ThreadGuardDog · Today 14:29

Another little gem there. Government claiming back state pension from the estates of those pensioners who are deceased. Laughed my arse off at that one. Good luck getting anything back from anyone’s estate after they’ve finished paying care costs. You want state pension to be repayable after people have contributed through work/NI for it ? You’re a piece of work.

Why not? Pensions make up half the welfare bill. If people claim state pension to help in their retirement and have an estate to leave why not pay it back?

youalright · Today 14:34

Curveygirl · Today 14:16

Maybe i can afford to?!

Have you thought about how not to be an arse? Maybe you could consider or learn how to debate without resorting to stupid comments.

Yeah I'm the one being an arse 🙄

Curveygirl · Today 14:35

ThreadGuardDog · Today 14:30

I wondered when ‘people lie to get PIP’ would be trotted out.

Are you saying that every person who claims pip at every raye for every condition is completely honest?

What nerve did i touch? Was it when i corrected you that not everyone is cared for in the community and some with disabilities are still locked away or when i said i was surprised you agree with the send reform given most disability charities don't?

ThreadGuardDog · Today 14:38

Curveygirl · Today 14:31

Seriously, you're going through all my posts and taking each one in isolation?

Why do you have issue with me thinking that there are people who are so disabled that they cannot work and describing this as severly disabled?

I take issue with the fact that you’re using the ability to work as the yardstick for assessing the severity of disability. Another example of your wrong thinking because PIP and DLA have absolutely nothing to do with the ability to work. They don’t assess for it at all, because it’s not an out of work benefit - it’s purely to help with the cost of disability. It’s also massively over simplifying complex disability.

There are many people who could work but are allowed to choose not to because their disability would cause them difficulties or embarrassment at work. I fully support that, having supported a disabled lad who tried to work despite severe spinal issues affecting bowel and bladder. He lost control at work and couldn’t get to the toilet in time - left a mess on his chair and had to go home to bathe and change. Can you imagine having to walk back into work the following day and face your colleagues after that ? And before you say work from home, where are the work from home jobs. It was all trotted out very neatly by various prime ministers speeches but the fact is that WFH jobs tailored to the needs of the disabled are very few and far between, if they even exist at all.

Pansypots · Today 14:41

Killing people in two ways. Charming.

Why is it always the most desperate people who get the boot? There's this fucking pervasive view that if you receive benefits you're a lazy scrounger who spends all of their time smoking fags and drinking when in reality it's just not true.