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What is going on with Brooklyn/Harper Beckham?

210 replies

IberianLynx · Today 13:20

https://www.mirror.co.uk/3am/celebrity-news/harper-beckhams-devastating-gesture-after-37292907.amp

AIBU to feel sorry for Harper? If BB has an issue with his parents it shouldn’t mean that he also stops talking to his siblings. It’s equally as sad if the parents did choreographed the letter/visit.

Brooklyn Beckham accuses parents of using Harper for 'choreographed' house visit

Harper Beckham was spotted making a failed attempt to reunite with her brother Brooklyn, with a spokesperson dismissing the visit as another stunt from 'brand Beckham'

https://www.mirror.co.uk/3am/celebrity-news/harper-beckhams-devastating-gesture-after-37292907.amp

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SaffronsMadAboutMe · Today 16:04

Genevieva · Today 15:37

All the girls at round her wear floor length dresses with more structure. But there a big difference between a teenage prom and a daytime event.

They've moved mostly away from the structured floor lengths here (London), but you see the petticoat type dresses everywhere anyway.

And we'll probably see more in the Summer.

I don't like them on young teenage girls at all though.

SleepingStandingUp · Today 16:07

Wynter25 · Today 13:53

Hes an arsehole

he can be an asshole and right about his parents manipulation. one doesn't preclude the other

Gowlett · Today 16:11

TheAutumnCrow · Today 14:22

Except Meghan ‘Backgrid’ Sussex is building this exact same branding dynamic with her five year old daughter Lil, and Harry is enabling it. Go figure 🤷‍♀️

Yes, absolutely! I was just thinking this.

The Beckhams, the RF are still playing the old press game. Brooklyn & Nicola are operating in the social media era. It’s a different ballgame. Meghan is the same. She has nothing to lose using the kids for publicity. It brings the clicks. None of them want privacy, that’s for sure!

The Kardashian children are an example of what the next gen will be. Look at North. And Blue Ivy. This is the future, even the now, for Harper. She will “arrive” as soon as her beauty brand is launched. She’s a goldmine! Won’t be long until we have a big reveal of the Sussex kids, either…

TheAutumnCrow · Today 16:12

ForWiseRoseCat · Today 15:34

The Beckham's will be the masters of their own downfall and the sooner that happens the better.

There is no way they didn't know Harper was going to do that visit. They would have had to have the driver and security ready. The fact they told the press and agreed to her pap walk is disturbing. But then this is the family that will turn everything into a media circus including private moments like this and their children's baptisms, his ridiculous 50th birthday celebrations plastered all over the news. Their fake displays of love and Victoria and her new face are so transparent.

They could have said no to the photos being used but they'd rather paint their eldest son in a bad light for ignoring his little sister even though he wasn't home.

The serial cheating man also makes a mockery of his knighthood. How he has the nerve to use 'Sir' alongside the likes of Sir Chris Hoy or Sir Kevin Sinfield.

This has really opened my eyes fully to just how ghastly the Beckhams really are.

They've messed up here, badly.

Twatalert · Today 16:17

Whether or not that dress is fashionable amongst harpers age group is a moot point. She looked uncomfortable and that is all that matters. I do not believe for a second it was her free will to be there and turn up in that dress.

She also didn't like her father still kissing her on her forehead in public, but he did it anyway. I feel terribly sorry for her. Hopefully Brooklyn will step up if she ever wants out.

mindutopia · Today 16:26

It sounds like he wasn’t home and it was a clear PR move to garner some sympathy.

I’m NC with my family. This is exactly the sort of thing they’d do and post about it on social media (because they aren’t famous and the press aren’t following their every move). This is exactly why they don’t know where i live! Very performative. My mum is absolutely the sort to be posting all sorts on social media about how desperate she is for a relationship with her (only) child and grandchildren. Behind the scenes, I tried for years. She hasn’t seen them in 6 years.

The front stage performance for everyone else’s benefit looks very different to the complete indifference behind the scenes. She’d never sit down with me and talk things out to find a solution. She absolutely would turn up wailing on my doorstep and filming it though. And again, this is why she doesn’t know anymore where we live.

TheFlyingPenguin · Today 16:27

So the Beckham family were there 5 miles for an event - it would not take much for a pap to think - hmm might stake out Brooklyns place to see who turns up. Harper turns up by herself, likely with permission from her parents who stayed away.

tbh this is such a non event and I suspect her parents did it so Harper can get the closure she is looking for that her brother is not interested in keeping in touch.

Whilst I am not a fan of the D&V Beckham the pair of them have worked hard to earn their wealth.

Brooklyn (& Nicola) have just done very little with their lives, neither have had to work hard for anything and just seem thick and self centred. I would have more respect for him if he had not just staggered out of one mansion, into a bigger one whilst claiming family cruelty. He has hardly had to support himself, being part of brand Beckham is probably all he was capable of but has prepared him for being part of brand Peltz.

TheAutumnCrow · Today 16:32

Regarding Nicola Peltz and her 'controlling' ways - I think maybe I'll need to reassess that factoid as well, given that someone upthread made reference to the Hadid family. I mean, they're a bit crackers, too, aren't they? Maybe that young man wanted to escape from Brand Hadid for a while and Nicola sells sanctuary, as it were.

Victoria Beckham collaborates with Brand Hadid, does she not?

Just musing, really, about the fake narratives these Celebrity Brand Families get their PR people to spin.

TheAutumnCrow · Today 16:35

@TheFlyingPenguin Under California law, you generally cannot publish or post images of minors without express consent from their parents or legal guardians.

AnAlpacaForChristmasPleaseSanta · Today 16:35

It was a set up on behalf of their parents, would be my guess (while I will admit D&V have worked extremely hard for their millions, they also pimped those kids out at every given chance).

I have been extremely critical of Brooklyn in the past, but AFAIK he has not mentioned his family or tried to work the press with leaked stories since he put his statement out asking to be left alone. Same can't be said for dear old ma and pa Beckham.

AnAlpacaForChristmasPleaseSanta · Today 16:36

TheAutumnCrow · Today 16:35

@TheFlyingPenguin Under California law, you generally cannot publish or post images of minors without express consent from their parents or legal guardians.

Interesting...

Anarchy99 · Today 16:37

Given that none of us know the parties involved personally, who knows? Or cares really?

I get curiosity but it’s weird how people talk about the family like they know them and have witnessed some of these events for themselves

TheFlyingPenguin · Today 16:41

AnAlpacaForChristmasPleaseSanta · Today 16:36

Interesting...

Tabloid press are not exactly known for their law abiding ways - they used to hack phones of murder victims to get a headline.

AnAlpacaForChristmasPleaseSanta · Today 16:44

TheFlyingPenguin · Today 16:41

Tabloid press are not exactly known for their law abiding ways - they used to hack phones of murder victims to get a headline.

True. And yet there are so many Hollywood A listers whose children I either never see pap photos of or if I do then they're faces are heavily pixilated.

TheAutumnCrow · Today 16:44

TheFlyingPenguin · Today 16:41

Tabloid press are not exactly known for their law abiding ways - they used to hack phones of murder victims to get a headline.

You not heard of the Leveson Inquiry?

And the law is what it is in CA.

superchick · Today 16:48

She's 14. She should be in school and bloody girl guides or whatever. Not being photographed in staged stunts on the other side of the world. Brooklyn can do what he wants but Harper is still stuck with D and V and their madness for another few years.

EineReiseDurchDieZeit · Today 16:52

A stunt. A blatantly obvious one as well designed to generate animosity toward Brooklyn and sympathy to Harper. She didn’t randomly do this without their parental consent

Seabubbles · Today 16:58

I appreciate this is off the subject but how on earth does David Beckham have a star on the walk of fame? I won't lose sleep over it but it baffles me.

BeardySchnauzer · Today 17:00

Seabubbles · Today 16:58

I appreciate this is off the subject but how on earth does David Beckham have a star on the walk of fame? I won't lose sleep over it but it baffles me.

They are paid for. That’s why they are normally unveiled around the time a movie is released for example

perhaps it’s to honour his acting ability in the multitude of ads he seems to be in🙄

XiCi · Today 17:00

God the Beckhams are truly vile people. What a horrible stunt setting up Harper like that. If Harper truly wanted to write a letter she could just post it, or she could email him, or text him or phone him. Privately. No need for this performative nonsense with a camera crew recording it. I actually find it sickening the way they exploit those children.

TheAutumnCrow · Today 17:01

Seabubbles · Today 16:58

I appreciate this is off the subject but how on earth does David Beckham have a star on the walk of fame? I won't lose sleep over it but it baffles me.

Paid for it (around $30,000??) and agreed to the terms & conditions which is to agree to a papped ceremony to which he would bring a few celebrity pals and the family.

I believe Alan Rickman turned one down, put it that way.

TidyDancer · Today 17:02

This has definitely not done anything to help brand Beckham with damage control has it? Very clearly a set up engineered by them. It’ll be interesting to see if Harper or the other sons end up doing a similar runner as Brooklyn.

I think you can feel sorry for Brooklyn while realising he’s also a bit of a knob. The trouble with people like him and Nicola is that their extreme wealth and privilege growing up can lead them to erroneously believe they are something special and when that isn’t coupled with any actual talent it must be quite difficult to accept or even see.

It’s the grandparents I feel most sorry for tbh.

BeardySchnauzer · Today 17:05

And now ‘friends’ are briefing the press about how furious they are that Beckham has accused them of a publicity stunt

VictimNoMore · Today 17:11

Pabbel · Today 13:35

To cut off siblings and other family members when your problems are with your parents is childish and hurtful

Really?
Feel free to tell that to my psychotherapist of 40 years of experience, psychiatrists and psychologist who diagnosed me with Complex PTSD and high functioning Anxiety of a score of 18 out of 18, to the point I am unable to use public toilets, use public transport, use an umbrella or wear a hood over my head, sleep for only 2 hours in any 24 hour period due to sibling flying monkey abuse from a parent.

What is going on with Brooklyn/Harper Beckham?
TheAutumnCrow · Today 17:12

BeardySchnauzer · Today 17:05

And now ‘friends’ are briefing the press about how furious they are that Beckham has accused them of a publicity stunt

I think the Beckhams are more likely furious they fucked up the bit about the California law and the use of children's images.

It's pretty obvious they DID set it up and gave permission. Otherwise why aren't they saying they'll sue the photographer(s)?