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Today in Brighton the facsists turned up. Brighton barely let them out of the station. Well done Brighton !

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00K · 13/06/2026 18:05

I want to live there

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PinkandPerky · 14/06/2026 13:59

Dandelionsalad · 14/06/2026 13:56

You know full well you are being selective over which violent protests you are condemning - only those you disagree with.

I don't agree with any violent protest of any kind.

Watdidyousay · 14/06/2026 13:59

Gkei737djdh · 14/06/2026 12:23

Wow you know where everybody on MN lives. Incredible!!!

You do know that makes no sense?

Dandelionsalad · 14/06/2026 14:00

meisafairy · 14/06/2026 13:55

How is the actions of one sick weirdo the fault of every other person of colour?
Are you for real justifying people fearing for their lives?
I’m guessing you haven’t lived with the fear that many are doing every day.

The policeman in question was not ‘just one sick weirdo’ (not a description I would have used for him); there was more than one involved in Nowak’s death and they were folllwing procedures they were trained in. it was those attitudes that lead to thousands of young white girls being left to be raped by grooming gangs.

80smonster · 14/06/2026 14:01

EasternStandard · 14/06/2026 12:45

No go with the keenest areas. Brighton and where some of the earlier keen posters are.

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I’m afraid I’m not going to pretend that capitalism isn’t the construct we are operating within here. Brighton is a commercially viable seaside town. Many of the areas that are asylum seeker heavy are those who have unviable economies and therefore empty hotels. It’s not rocket science.

LuckyHazelFox · 14/06/2026 14:01

Sorry @Dandelionsalad I was amused at the description of @PinkandPerky peacemakers. These would be the same peacemakers who batter women and tell the likes of Sharon Davies and JKR to STFU!

EasternStandard · 14/06/2026 14:02

southerngirl10 · 14/06/2026 13:48

the uk is called a democratic nation. Racism is awful in any shape or form. But, given the swing to Reform, many people are concerned about the influx of refugees and asylum seekers.

I think yesterday in Brighton showed that a lot of people want refugees and asylum seekers here.

So, I think the only fair way to listen to both sides is to let the people vote. Take names and postcodes.

Then, place them in the areas where most people want them. Build the hotels there and offer them housing there.

It's a win win situation. Areas that don't want them will have less, or none of them. Places like Brighton, where the population will welcome them with open arms can have them there.

That's the only fair way to do it, isn't it?

Yes just do this. An easy win.

Watdidyousay · 14/06/2026 14:02

BoredZelda · 14/06/2026 12:35

She doesn’t “have to”, she could probably avoid it taking a different route. She could also report it to the police.

This is also true when it happens walking past a building site.

Wow! What an unbelievable thing to say.

GoodkneeBadKnee · 14/06/2026 14:03

EasternStandard · 14/06/2026 13:13

It is a great way for Labour to see where to place asylum accommodation. They should absolutely listen and put it in Brighton and other keen areas.

You mean the hotels ( which are really ex hotels) that the Tories approved for this when they were in power?

PinkandPerky · 14/06/2026 14:04

LuckyHazelFox · 14/06/2026 14:01

Sorry @Dandelionsalad I was amused at the description of @PinkandPerky peacemakers. These would be the same peacemakers who batter women and tell the likes of Sharon Davies and JKR to STFU!

Oh sorry - I forgot you were part of the 'tar everyone with the same brush' brigade.

You really don't recognise nuance do you?

EasternStandard · 14/06/2026 14:04

80smonster · 14/06/2026 14:01

I’m afraid I’m not going to pretend that capitalism isn’t the construct we are operating within here. Brighton is a commercially viable seaside town. Many of the areas that are asylum seeker heavy are those who have unviable economies and therefore empty hotels. It’s not rocket science.

Canary Wharf has a hotel. There’s no way the area is not subject to the capitalism you cite.

Are you in Brighton but don’t want the hotels there?

CornishDaughteroftheDawn · 14/06/2026 14:04

BoredZelda · 14/06/2026 12:35

She doesn’t “have to”, she could probably avoid it taking a different route. She could also report it to the police.

This is also true when it happens walking past a building site.

Good grief, we are not living in the 1980s. Builders in general do not behave like that - they would get sacked immediately!

Interesting that your first reaction is to suggest that the teenage girls being harassed by these men change their behaviour. How about we tell the men to change their behaviour or get deported immediately. They’ve got to learn at some point.

And while I’m thinking of that, why is our bar so low on behaviour expectations of immigrant men? We have the power to remove them, we should be demanding exemplary behaviour - zero rapes, murders or beheadings.

LuckyHazelFox · 14/06/2026 14:06

CornishDaughteroftheDawn · 14/06/2026 14:04

Good grief, we are not living in the 1980s. Builders in general do not behave like that - they would get sacked immediately!

Interesting that your first reaction is to suggest that the teenage girls being harassed by these men change their behaviour. How about we tell the men to change their behaviour or get deported immediately. They’ve got to learn at some point.

And while I’m thinking of that, why is our bar so low on behaviour expectations of immigrant men? We have the power to remove them, we should be demanding exemplary behaviour - zero rapes, murders or beheadings.

Absolutely well said 👏

LuckyHazelFox · 14/06/2026 14:08

PinkandPerky · 14/06/2026 14:04

Oh sorry - I forgot you were part of the 'tar everyone with the same brush' brigade.

You really don't recognise nuance do you?

So what are you doing when you call anyone to the right of centre far right?

Boolabus · 14/06/2026 14:09

Well done Brighton and Belfast. England's world cup starting soon which will hopefully distract some of the anti immigrant protests, let's hope England do well because we all know what happens to many women when they don't.

GoodkneeBadKnee · 14/06/2026 14:11

LuckyHazelFox · 14/06/2026 14:08

So what are you doing when you call anyone to the right of centre far right?

What's wrong with being far right?

Watdidyousay · 14/06/2026 14:13

PinkandPerky · 14/06/2026 13:53

This comment makes no sense whatsoever.

It makes perfect sense

PinkandPerky · 14/06/2026 14:13

LuckyHazelFox · 14/06/2026 14:08

So what are you doing when you call anyone to the right of centre far right?

I haven't called anyone far right. You are making things up now.

drspouse · 14/06/2026 14:13

CornishDaughteroftheDawn · 14/06/2026 11:29

Cool. So I haven’t listened to anything Tommy Robinson has said so I can’t reasonably condemn something I haven’t heard.

I have great concerns about many practical and cultural aspects of mass immigration.

I condemn burning peoples houses for any reason which explicitly includes reasons of racism.

I am less interested in the colour or race of people living close to me but large numbers of people from cultures utterly opposed to Western values and from countries where violence is so endemic that they bring it with them (possibly without realising) near me when they impinge on our lives is a problem that I want to discuss.

So am I a fascist by your reckoning?

We don't have mass immigration. As the figures presented up thread have shown, it's down on previous years by a huge margin. We currently have too little to staff hospitals and to pay the whopping great fees that overseas students put into the university system to keep it alive.
And as I've said upthread as well, I am in a refugee welcoming area and we have actually welcomed them, rather than seeing them as the enemy.

CrochetHooked · 14/06/2026 14:13

BoredZelda · 14/06/2026 12:35

She doesn’t “have to”, she could probably avoid it taking a different route. She could also report it to the police.

This is also true when it happens walking past a building site.

It's weird the impact MN can have on one's political views.

I clicked on this thread's ambiguous title feeling curious what it was about. Then I read through the discussion, and came to this post, and bang, I am absolutely furious.

If groups of young men harass female passers-by, then action needs to be taken against the men. If the UK solution is going to be telling women to change their behaviour to avoid the men harassing them in the street, then maybe other posters are right and this country can't handle current levels of immigration.

I can't believe what I've just read. But thanks for radicalising me.

LuckyHazelFox · 14/06/2026 14:13

GoodkneeBadKnee · 14/06/2026 14:11

What's wrong with being far right?

Are you far right? I know I'm not. I am right wing but not a bigot. I treat people on individual ideal merit. Far right is an accusation to shut down debate about immigration and women's rights.

CornishDaughteroftheDawn · 14/06/2026 14:14

Gkei737djdh · 14/06/2026 13:09

And still no interest in Reforms stance on the problem as a whole that is very much a home grown problem. Yeah we see you.

Reform UK has faced intense scrutiny over a series of misogynistic comments, sexist candidate behavior, and controversial stances on domestic and sexual abuse. They often uses gender-based crimes committed by foreign nationals or asylum seekers to push broader anti-migrant agendas, while allegedly ignoring systemic, domestic drivers of violence against women.

Weaponising tragic stories like this is vile.

No, the vile view is you dismissing the fact that if it wasn’t for Rhiannon working in an asylum hotel and coming into contact with an evil man who should t have been here , she’d be alive and her little boy would still have his mummy.

Watdidyousay · 14/06/2026 14:16

80smonster · 14/06/2026 14:01

I’m afraid I’m not going to pretend that capitalism isn’t the construct we are operating within here. Brighton is a commercially viable seaside town. Many of the areas that are asylum seeker heavy are those who have unviable economies and therefore empty hotels. It’s not rocket science.

Its always the poorest

CornishDaughteroftheDawn · 14/06/2026 14:17

meisafairy · 14/06/2026 13:41

People are actually okay with people in the UK being burnt out their homes, people living in fear, people being attacked etc all because of the colour of their skin???
Disgusting abhorrent views allowed as yet again @mumsnet allows incessant racism.

What are you on about? Who has said those things?

LuckyHazelFox · 14/06/2026 14:18

CornishDaughteroftheDawn · 14/06/2026 14:14

No, the vile view is you dismissing the fact that if it wasn’t for Rhiannon working in an asylum hotel and coming into contact with an evil man who should t have been here , she’d be alive and her little boy would still have his mummy.

Is that what that poster did? I've missed some of the posts.

OakAndIron · 14/06/2026 14:18

Skinnysaluki · 14/06/2026 13:57

She WAS a bigot and the most disastrous thing Gordon Brown ever did was apologise to her for calling her one.

Now there are bigots everywhere emboldened in their bigotry to the point of setting people’s homes on fire.

No platform for racists and fascists, never give an inch. Every time a Labour politician said ‘these are legitimate concerns’ they normalised attitudes that used to be the preserve of the national front and the BNP when I was young and these groups were considered to be completely beyond the norm.

Well done Brighton.

In what way was she a bigot? She made an observation. 1.5 million eastern Europeans arrived in this country between 2004-2010. A very noticeable influx of people. It put a strain on local and national infrastructure and would have been something worthy of pointing out to the prime minister at the time.

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