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To think it is posh and or pretentious to say you are "drawing" a bath?

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OonaStubbs · 09/06/2026 22:34

What do you think. My DP always says this but I think it is very strange and old fashioned to say this instead of just saying you are running a bath?

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echt · 11/06/2026 09:12

Thinking of drawing, it will be the winter equinox in Australia on or round about 21st June, at which point I message all my UK friends to say our days are drawing out, while their nights are drawing in.

To be fair, the coldest parts of the Melbourne winter happen after this date, as the hottest days of the UK summer do the same. At least in London, which I know well.

For me it's about the light. Can't be doing with dark mornings.

GETTINGLIKEMYMOTHER · 11/06/2026 09:17

Isn’t it a dialect thing? A Scottish housemate used to say she was going to ‘pour’ a bath.

InterestedDad37 · 11/06/2026 09:38

Floatlikeafeather2 · 11/06/2026 08:54

So what you mean is it's "old fashioned and borderline pretentious" amongst your own community and social group. That doesn't mean it's either of those things though. It's not old fashioned if it's in current usage and it's not pretentious if it's in general usage in some places.

You're not wrong, it was a flippant comment 😀

MrsShawnHatosy · 11/06/2026 09:41

echt · 11/06/2026 09:12

Thinking of drawing, it will be the winter equinox in Australia on or round about 21st June, at which point I message all my UK friends to say our days are drawing out, while their nights are drawing in.

To be fair, the coldest parts of the Melbourne winter happen after this date, as the hottest days of the UK summer do the same. At least in London, which I know well.

For me it's about the light. Can't be doing with dark mornings.

God yes,hated dark mornings when I had to drag myself out to work in them. Now I’m retired and can just lie in bed with a cup of tea they don’t seem so bad!

Greebosmum · 11/06/2026 09:59

Nothing to do with the thread really but, as a child I would ask my Mum, what can I draw? She would reply, draw your breath.

mrsjoyfulprizeforraffiawork · 11/06/2026 11:01

MissFancyDay · 10/06/2026 23:23

I like nice words and using them is fun. My grandma used to ask if anyone would like an intoxicant when she was offering a sherry, so that's what we say sometimes. It makes us all laugh (I know, what japes)

My mother would also say "has everyone had ample sufficiency" after a meal. I like using her phrases, they remind me of her.

My older friend used to say, after eating, "Have you had an elegant sufficiency to suit your delicacy?" (laughing). It must be a quote - I am off to look it up.

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