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What is normal for dog barking? Should I submit my log to the council?

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Carlie97 · 02/06/2026 21:44

After almost a year of next doors dog barking every five or ten minutes, especially when the neighbours are home which is all the time really, I hesitantly submitted a complaint to the council. The council sent me a log to complete over two weeks and the neighbours were informed a complaint had been made.

Immediately following them receiving my complaint, I felt the neighbours made somewhat of an effort in making sure the dog shut up as soon as it barked. Still annoying at the dog barking so frequently but I was grateful they were shutting the dog up on the first bark or so.

That effort continued with the barking becoming less frequent and them shutting the dog up as soon as it started. The past few days however have been shit. Sunday, the dog barked fourteen times in the morning alone, including barking at me in my own garden without it being told off for barking at me or otherwise distracted. This morning was hell. The dog barked from around 8am and was every 20 mins or so until around midday, then started up this evening again until its last bark just twenty minutes ago.

The neighbours are telling the dog to be quiet when it starts but is this adequate training for the long term? I'm anxious it isn't. Is my life still going to be filled with barking every ten to twenty minutes each day, even if it is for one or two very loud barks (some go on for much longer). If I submit, theres a possibility I'll be sent sound recording equipment or perhaps an officer will come round to listen.

OP posts:
OlderGlaswegianLivingInDevon · 05/06/2026 00:05

But

the dog did not bark all day today...

0847
59 minutes no barking
0946
42 minutes no barking
1028
one minute no barking
1029
12 minutes no barking
1041
9 mins no barking
1050
11 mins no barking
1101
4 mins no barking
1105
16 mins not barking
1121
19 mins no barking
1140
19 mins no barking
1159
23 mins no barking
1222
18 mins no barking
1240

so if I were to be bothered to add this all up...

between 8.47am -12.40pm a total of 3 hours ( 180 mins ) + 53 mins = 233 mins

the dog barked for 13 mins ?

and didn't bark for 220 mins

in a 3 hour and 53 minute period

OlderGlaswegianLivingInDevon · 05/06/2026 00:06

However it's now after midnight and I am not convinced I have added that up right...

LaLoba · 05/06/2026 05:47

Velumental · 04/06/2026 23:03

It's not all day though, it barks briefly several times a day and predictably around 11am when someone leaves the home. He doesn't bark at night over night? Got for a walk from 10.45-11.15 daily. You need to take some responsibility for how you manage your own life around your surroundings.

Do you wfh? These things didn't shed to be an issue when people went out to offices, so long as dogs didn't bark at night or wasn't an issue.

You can't change your neighbours, the dog will continue to exist. What CAN you change about yourself? What can YOU do to help yourself? Your mental health is yours to manage

Some really nasty implications in your posts, nice victim blaming there.

The very definition of a noise nuisance involves the person it’s inflicted on having the peaceful enjoyment of their home spoiled. If someone is stressed because of antisocial behaviour, they are not the problem. And if that person has to take measures like leaving the house to avoid the nuisance as you so helpfully suggest, then that itself adds to the evidence that the noise is legally a statutory nuisance.

My neighbour, who makes the Gallaghers from Shameless look like dream neighbours, takes your attitude. She’s finding out the hard way, that her refusal to take responsibility for her dog’s behavioural issues is her problem, not mine.

Shoola · 05/06/2026 06:43

Chihuahua's are not very easy to train and are very barky dogs. They also have a high pitched unpleasant bark which doesn't help. Unfortunately, they are also one of the longest living breeds. OP, you have my full sympathy, but I doubt much will be done about it.

SM33 · 05/06/2026 07:17

We have a dog who was relatively bark free until the last couple of months. Now he is driving us all crazy with his barking (triggered by foxes who are feeding their cubs in a nearby garden). We love our dog but we already can’t cope so you have my total sympathy OP! I hope the council acts!!!

Zanatdy · 05/06/2026 07:19

It’s not something that can be fixed overnight.

LetsMakeThisMomentLast · 05/06/2026 07:51

Velumental · 04/06/2026 18:44

Our dog seems to bark to alert us to things, sometimes that useful (postman and he seems to be able to detect my son's seizures and my migraines as hell follow us anxiously barking at us for an hour or so beforehand) other times less useful (a dog being walked past on the pavement outside, our neighbours home carers coming round) but when we're not in he seems to consider himself off duty, we put white noise on and leave him a treat and his cosy bed and he just rests. He also never barks at night (unless alerting a seizure or the neighbour has an ambulance in which are thankfully rare) it's not always anxiety.

I hate our dog barking at least as much as the neighbours do but we've tried behaviourists. Anti anxiety medication and moving house and ever since our older dog died he just can't seem to stop alerting

You admit that you find the noise of your own dog difficult and that you’ve tried to do something about it and yet in your subsequent posts you basically suggest that the OP needs to get a life. Your neighbours may well be in despair. Perhaps they should get a life too. People have lots of reasons for being at home all day. For example, I’m my son’s carer. If our neighbour’s dog kept barking at various times throughout the day, I would be demented. I have misophonia and dogs barking is one of the triggers that makes me want to pull my own ears off. Barks on certain frequencies seem to be worse than others. The OP should be able to live her life without her nervous system constantly being ‘on’ in anticipation of the next few minutes of barking. I think that’s a form of torture.

DrNo007 · 05/06/2026 10:54

OP, as someone who has been in your position, I advise you to ignore (i.e. don't waste time replying to) those posters who suggest, however kindly, that you "need help" or should "focus on other issues"/"get a life". Those who have not been subjected to repeated or constant noise have absolutely no clue about how it affects mental and physical health. There are many studies attesting to the fact that it does, and there are torture techniques that consist of subjecting people to such noise. If you want to do something about your undoubtedly serious situation, then please take my advice and take action. Just worrying about it and replying to misguided people on here isn't going to help you. The law is out there to help you and it isn't expensive to learn how to use it, if you go about it in the way I've suggested.

Dogsbarkingnotok · 05/06/2026 19:56

Cheeseandolivesplease · 04/06/2026 23:53

@Carlie97 Are you in at home all day, every day?

No.. I’m in the office two days a week and work from home for three. And my neighbours dogs disturb meetings and break my concentration every day I wfh. There’s a dog on the other side that I never hear. The problem really is the owners not the dogs.

Carlie97 · 05/06/2026 20:40

Dogsbarkingnotok · 05/06/2026 19:56

No.. I’m in the office two days a week and work from home for three. And my neighbours dogs disturb meetings and break my concentration every day I wfh. There’s a dog on the other side that I never hear. The problem really is the owners not the dogs.

Have you copied and pasted that from somewhere @Dogsbarkingnotok ? It's a bit odd that you've posted as if you're me!

OP posts:
LaLoba · 05/06/2026 22:02

@DrNo007 , just wanted to say thank you for the info on where to go for legal advice. For us, we have got this far by quoting the ombudsman at the council whenever they have tried to drop it. It’s good to know there’s more options if we need them, many thanks.
OP, follow the advice from the above poster, it is sound.

UncannyFanny · 05/06/2026 22:13

Of Course the irony is that when one of you gets burgled you’ll all be wondering why the dog didn’t bark.

EmeraldShamrock000 · 05/06/2026 22:13

Carlie97 · 04/06/2026 23:08

I cannot go for a walk at that time because im trying to work. It's funny when people suggest things on here without thinking whether the person is able to do them. It is all day. The dog barked from morning today and the last time it barked was 10.20pm. The barks might be brief but its many times a day. The neighbours are antisocial twats who don't give a fuck. I know that because they used to shout at each other at gone 11pm every night before I complained. They still shout through the day at the dogs but you can't change people who are common as muck, eh?

Can you move as you’ve reported them twice.
It is stressful for everyone.
Living in close proximity to others is always difficult when it comes to noise. It’s easier when you have more in common with your neighbours. I didn’t mind children’s noise when mine were smaller, now I shut the window on a Sunny day.

LaLoba · 05/06/2026 23:12

UncannyFanny · 05/06/2026 22:13

Of Course the irony is that when one of you gets burgled you’ll all be wondering why the dog didn’t bark.

My dogs will bark if someone invades our house. They don’t bark at everyone passing by, or enjoying their garden, because I’m not a selfish arsehole who’s failed to train them the difference, And if they are unsure of the difference, they are so well trained that they come to me to check. I’m not an expert, just an ordinary, considerate person.

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