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AIBU to feel life in the UK has worsened since Covid?

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MerryAmberViper · 22/05/2026 22:39

feel everything is just getting worse since covid

Im on a good salary of 32k live alone entitled to no benefits and lucky enough I can afford to put heating on in winter but have to be careful

crime everywhere with lenient punishment or sometimes no punishment at all
everyone seems entitled angry or depressed and no one seems to care about following the law
clear resentment and disagreement in country people on social media saying vote green or vote reform and if you dont you are terrible
divided country especially with brexit when inflation being caused by covid and the war brexit hasnt changed much
stagnant salaries if you can even get a job at all
everything expensive
people on great salaries of 100k+ moaning about the tax they pay because they are bad with managing their money even though they are on over double average salary when people like myself manage on much less
massive wealth inequality
NHS and public services run down
terrible government both tories and labour

OP posts:
ourSusie · Today 08:38

Pickledonion1999 · Yesterday 23:34

YANBU. I think my biggest woryy is young people and no jobs and the ticking timebomb of an ageing population. My ds graduates year and I'm hugely worried for him. Young people massive student debts and poor chances of getting work.
I'm sick of shoplifters, kids on bikes raoming around with masks and balaclavas on. I fear we are drifting into a lawless society.

what does “the ticking timebomb of an ageing population” mean?

(as this sounds threadworthy)

ourSusie · Today 08:46

MerryAmberViper · Yesterday 20:17

@ByPinkOP having children is your decision
your responsibility

i chose not to have children

how convenient ! (to your ‘argument’)

GoodkneeBadKnee · Today 08:47

Ponoka7 · Today 07:50

Do any of your older relatives go to local pubs/social clubs? I'm surprised, if so that they aren't seeing the change. People do seem to be chatting less. Our local pubs certainly have changed. A lot of people are drinking indoors. A lot of people are over fixated on certain topics. We never had corridor care. We didn't have the amount of women dying because their physical health is increasingly being misdiagnosed as panic attacks etc. Teachers are having a difficult time, teenage crime/antisocial behaviour is on the rise. Housing us ridiculously expensive. Where do you live?
It's austerity and lack of funding, finally catching up imo, allowing oversees buying of chuncks of property, seeing property as purely for profit, too many HMO licenses etc with the effects of lock down, thrown in.

I don't have any older relatives. I live in London.

ourSusie · Today 08:49

GoodkneeBadKnee · 22/05/2026 22:47

My life is great thanks. None of the things you've listed have affected me, or my family. We're good.

an astonishing comment
very Henley-on-Thames

planespotter71 · Today 08:52

GoodkneeBadKnee · 22/05/2026 22:47

My life is great thanks. None of the things you've listed have affected me, or my family. We're good.

Same here, minimum wage jobs living in niceish area don’t buy rubbish or glued to social media to read all the doom and gloom posts

GoodkneeBadKnee · Today 08:52

ourSusie · Today 08:49

an astonishing comment
very Henley-on-Thames

I'm sure your comment sounded better in your head than it reads...

GoodkneeBadKnee · Today 08:53

planespotter71 · Today 08:52

Same here, minimum wage jobs living in niceish area don’t buy rubbish or glued to social media to read all the doom and gloom posts

I'm happy you're happy too.😊

ourSusie · Today 08:54

GoodkneeBadKnee · Today 08:52

I'm sure your comment sounded better in your head than it reads...

or maybe Chipping Camden…

Badbadbunny · Today 08:59

It all comes from the 2008 financial crash, just as things were starting to get better, covid struck. Economists said it would take 10 years to recover from 2008. Then Covid! At least another 10 years. That’s just economically, there are also the social aspects of both.

It was blindingly obvious that shutting down for months would have devastating effects on the economy and socially, but so many people enjoyed being paid to do nothing so were in denial about the repercussions. Unfortunately no one had the choice so were swept along with the madness. Lives ruined, businesses ruined, public services on their knees.

We need some kind of major reset otherwise we’ll just limp along for another decade of stagnation.

Newnammmme · Today 09:08

Some bit affect me and some bits don’t .

I work in a school as a ta and so see first hand that we have halved our ta numbers (and lunch staff and caretakers) in the ten years I have been there. Yet sen numbers have gone up.

I also see that we( ta ) are fairly regularly used as cover for sickness and ppa , where as ten years ago that would never have happened, a supply would have come in. (still on minimum wage though 🙄)

that’s purely because schools have absolutely no money and going into a deficit

we live in a low crime area generally, but still see an increase in boy racers during the night , vandalism and no police anywhere.

daughter going to uni to study nursing- but apparently there’s a recruit crisis (not too worried as she could go into nursing homes , and they will start hiring eventually) money to send her comes from parent top ups if you are earning- even if it’s a very low wage (ie a ta with a degree on minimum wage)

i Do think lots of people are addicted to phones and social media, more then we realise (and I probably included myself in that number) that’s going to highlight as a real problem in a few years.

behaviour in schools since Covid has seen a real decline, and I know lots of people blame different things, but honestly I think it’s a mix of lots of different issues that cause an overall problem (having half the staff isn’t helping, a generation of parents that can’t say no/ cope when their child is disappointed/ kids coming into school already 3 hours of YouTube deep for the day and then being separated from their beloved device and the withdrawal- but both parents have to work full time so what are you going to do ? Someone needs to babysit the kids and before school YouTube does it)

personally for me life is better than in Covid , because my kids are now fairly independent (ish) we have more money (husbands wage not me ha) and our very old mortgage is low, I am 8 stone lighter and we have a lovely allotment to escape to which is nice to even just go sit in on a sunny day with a cup of tea- especially when we have little money. I even have £1500 in my savings/ shares account (slightly mared by the 4k of household debt we have, but that’s less debt and more savings then we had in COVID)

darksideofthetoon · Today 09:19

MerryAmberViper · 22/05/2026 22:39

feel everything is just getting worse since covid

Im on a good salary of 32k live alone entitled to no benefits and lucky enough I can afford to put heating on in winter but have to be careful

crime everywhere with lenient punishment or sometimes no punishment at all
everyone seems entitled angry or depressed and no one seems to care about following the law
clear resentment and disagreement in country people on social media saying vote green or vote reform and if you dont you are terrible
divided country especially with brexit when inflation being caused by covid and the war brexit hasnt changed much
stagnant salaries if you can even get a job at all
everything expensive
people on great salaries of 100k+ moaning about the tax they pay because they are bad with managing their money even though they are on over double average salary when people like myself manage on much less
massive wealth inequality
NHS and public services run down
terrible government both tories and labour

You lost me at ‘good salary of 32k.’

That’s barely above minimum wage.

Davros · Today 09:51

FoulBlister · Yesterday 11:11

Your Original Post is 100% negative and sounds like it's been 90% driven by social media and the constant drip, drip of negative articles in the media.

Get out in the world - travel by train, meet real people, see a million acts of kindness and generosity happen every day. Watch people move around London on efficient public transport - helping mums with prams on and off buses and standing up so older folk can sit down on the tube. See hundreds of thousands of people stand back to let people off first.

So many millions of people abiding the law, enjoying the free museums, safely having picnics with their families in parks, working to make our streets clean/safe/efficient, volunteering to put flowers in parks, donating to charity, litter picking, paying taxes and thinking that's the price you pay for society.

I've just traveled Britain extensively by public transport for six months. I have witnessed no crime, been taken everywhere by efficient buses and trains operated by polite, knowledgeable, kind, helpful staff. I've eaten fantastic local food and met thousands of interesting, fun, gentle people from overseas tourists to Indian waiters here to learn the language to policemen to old ladies on benches.

Not everyone is resentful, angry, entitled, lawbreaking or depressed and, if the people you meet in your day to day life are then change the people you meet.

Yes the economy is taking a nose dive for lots of reasons VERY MUCH INCLUDING BREXIT, yes some people will always be greedy, but there is SO MUCH GOOD.

Anyone who says Broken Britain is missing a lot of really good stuff that goes on right under their nose a million times every single day.

I really agree with this. I’ve been on a few long bus journeys in London recently, everyone was fine, friendly and helpful, staff and passengers. I went past Trafalgar Square at around 9.30pm on Friday and it had been taken over by Middlesbrough supporters, even visiting northerners know how to have fun and enjoy themselves 😹
I would add that I have had outstanding NHS treatment and experiences for years and so have many of my extended family, in different areas although all South East. Without Brexit we would have to follow EU rules on gender self ID so I’m grateful we are autonomous on that issue

Pickledonion1999 · Today 10:17

ourSusie · Today 08:38

what does “the ticking timebomb of an ageing population” mean?

(as this sounds threadworthy)

Yes there have been numerous threads about it. The ticking timebomb is that unless governments start to seriously address the problem that in the next twenty/ thirty years time there will not be enough people working and paying tax to support an increasingly ageing population then we are going to have some very difficult choices to make.

GoodkneeBadKnee · Today 10:23

ourSusie · Today 08:54

or maybe Chipping Camden…

Careful not to peak too soon. You're really really funny.

ScotiaLass · Today 10:24

Let me fix your thread title for you:

AIBU to feel life in the UK has worsened since Brexit?

chocolateaddictions · Today 11:01

Of course Brexit is a factor. It is incredible that a country like this has scored such a terrible, self destructive own goal.

the 2008 crisis is where things started going wrong, Brexit is nail in coffin and Covid and Ukraine / Iran wars have compounded everything.

chocolateaddictions · Today 11:05

WildEnergySupplier · Today 07:42

I'm afraid you've been lied to.

Since 2016, the UK's cumulative real GDP growth has exceeded that of Germany, France, and Italy. For the period roughly 2016–2025, estimates show the UK around 12–14%, compared to Germany at roughly 7–8%, with France and Italy also lagging behind.

Yes our economy has been performing badly - and has been for the last 20+ years.

The reason for that is high taxation and high spending.

Brexit?

Nope - nothing to do with it, sadly.

The EU's economy is doing even worse - and has been performing badly for many years.

😂 oh hello Nigel

I can’t believe there are people still peddling this bullshit. On paper yes, but economists broadly agree on the negative effects of Brexit for this country.

chocolateaddictions · Today 11:09

FoulBlister · Yesterday 20:19

No cancelled trains at all. Some delays but none more than 15 minutes.
No elbowing. No louts. No tinny music - I saw posters telling people to use earphones and that's all I saw, never any noise from them.

I imagine if you're the sort of person who calls complete strangers liars you tend to look for the negative side of life.

I’m also struggling to believe this although I agreed with a lot of your post. A 15 minute delay is pretty significant. I can’t believe that you didn’t see one person acting like a dick or didn’t see any shoplifting, graffiti, etc.

Ihateboris · Today 11:15

All that money that was wasted during covid didn't help (paying people to stay at home/dodgy PPE contracts and fraudulent bounce back loans) hasn't helped. Did people really not realise it would need to be recouped?

TheGreatDownandOut · Today 11:18

MerryAmberViper · 22/05/2026 22:59

I dont get why though, living on the uk on 6k a month after tax is easy
if you cant your bad at managing your money

Unless you have one or two kids in nursery and lose your 30 hours free childcare to the tune of thousands a month because you earn one pound over £100k

FoulBlister · Today 14:22

chocolateaddictions · Today 11:09

I’m also struggling to believe this although I agreed with a lot of your post. A 15 minute delay is pretty significant. I can’t believe that you didn’t see one person acting like a dick or didn’t see any shoplifting, graffiti, etc.

Against the sort of delays you can come up against in road traffic sitting with a coffee on a train platform waiting for 15 minutes is a pleasure.

I honestly didn't see anyone acting like a dick. School kids larking about, a few people a bit drunk yes but no shoplifting. Of course I saw graffiti but I come from a city famous for street art so perhaps am immune to it.

OhThePotential · Today 14:56

Sand0 · 22/05/2026 23:07

In a strong field, this is hands down the dumbest thing I’ve read this week 👏

And its unnecessarily nasty.

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