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AIBU to feel life in the UK has worsened since Covid?

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MerryAmberViper · 22/05/2026 22:39

feel everything is just getting worse since covid

Im on a good salary of 32k live alone entitled to no benefits and lucky enough I can afford to put heating on in winter but have to be careful

crime everywhere with lenient punishment or sometimes no punishment at all
everyone seems entitled angry or depressed and no one seems to care about following the law
clear resentment and disagreement in country people on social media saying vote green or vote reform and if you dont you are terrible
divided country especially with brexit when inflation being caused by covid and the war brexit hasnt changed much
stagnant salaries if you can even get a job at all
everything expensive
people on great salaries of 100k+ moaning about the tax they pay because they are bad with managing their money even though they are on over double average salary when people like myself manage on much less
massive wealth inequality
NHS and public services run down
terrible government both tories and labour

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MerryAmberViper · 22/05/2026 23:11

FasterMichelin · 22/05/2026 23:08

I think you have a black and white approach to life and are blinkered by your own experiences. Your tone when you respond to people is also quite rude in my opinion.

Where in the UK do you live that’s crime ridden and allows you to live on a £32k household income? In the Southeast, you’d either be in a hovel or homeless once you consider rent/mortgage plus bills and living costs. And before you suggest it, many of us want to stay near our families and support networks.

Stop calling people redicilous (it’s ridiculous) and allow people to have views on the topic you’ve raised.

I agree that general wellbeing and happiness appears to have diminished, but there’s a load of contributing factors, not limited to social media, current political affairs, cost of living crisis and AI looming. These are issues that are affecting people world wide and most countries are in a similar position to us and feeling the same downturn.

I’ve concluded, for myself, that it’s time to be insular and live a small life; less news and more time with my family. Staying in the moment is very difficult though.

@FasterMichelin living not far from Tamworth in terraced house not too far from birmingham bought it for 160k needs some work but my neighbours are nice

yeh I should do what you said and stay off social media

I just think the uk will never get better sad times

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MerryAmberViper · 22/05/2026 23:16

MasterBeth · 22/05/2026 23:11

Brexit means there are more costs in the economy (trade is more difficult), so prices are higher. It's harder for employers to fill job roles so the country is less efficient and effective. The economy would be significantly heathier if we had not left the EU.

@MasterBeth but is it really?

The costs in the economy are again covid and the war around energy and supply shocks
look at supermarkets this week basically saying no to government to cap costs and saying energy prices being bought under control would help reduce prices energy prices and instability are again due to wars

Im not saying there is no effect from brexit and it was an own goal for uk but the effect of brexit is tiny compared to everything else
trade with europe yes I accept more difficult but it hasnt stopped

people just seem on here to moan about brexit when at the moment the uk has so many bigger more important problems

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jumpingjohnny · 22/05/2026 23:17

MerryAmberViper · 22/05/2026 23:11

@FasterMichelin living not far from Tamworth in terraced house not too far from birmingham bought it for 160k needs some work but my neighbours are nice

yeh I should do what you said and stay off social media

I just think the uk will never get better sad times

Can you not see how people living where a terraced house costs 5x more than that (or more) and only earning 3x your salary (less than 3x take-home) might have reason to say they're struggling?

cloudtreecarpet · 22/05/2026 23:18

I think the main change since Covid is that people are generally more selfish, insular and unwilling to support their fellow citizens.

There is also a general mistrust of the state, politicians of all parties and of authority and as a nation we are very politically unengaged.

More & more people don't see politics as a way to change things and it seems if they could they would rather just sort their own little world out and not engage with wider society and doing things "for the greater good" at all.

MerryAmberViper · 22/05/2026 23:19

jumpingjohnny · 22/05/2026 23:17

Can you not see how people living where a terraced house costs 5x more than that (or more) and only earning 3x your salary (less than 3x take-home) might have reason to say they're struggling?

Oh come on

apart from london and maybe some centres of biggest cities most terraced houses dont cost 800k and even in places where they do there is cheaper housing nearby

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ColdAsAWitches · 22/05/2026 23:20

MerryAmberViper · 22/05/2026 23:16

@MasterBeth but is it really?

The costs in the economy are again covid and the war around energy and supply shocks
look at supermarkets this week basically saying no to government to cap costs and saying energy prices being bought under control would help reduce prices energy prices and instability are again due to wars

Im not saying there is no effect from brexit and it was an own goal for uk but the effect of brexit is tiny compared to everything else
trade with europe yes I accept more difficult but it hasnt stopped

people just seem on here to moan about brexit when at the moment the uk has so many bigger more important problems

Every other European country had COVID, energy cost increases and austerity. They are not falling apart the way the UK is. Saying Brexit is only a tiny part of the problem is sticking your fingers in your ears because you don't want to hear the truth.

MerryAmberViper · 22/05/2026 23:20

cloudtreecarpet · 22/05/2026 23:18

I think the main change since Covid is that people are generally more selfish, insular and unwilling to support their fellow citizens.

There is also a general mistrust of the state, politicians of all parties and of authority and as a nation we are very politically unengaged.

More & more people don't see politics as a way to change things and it seems if they could they would rather just sort their own little world out and not engage with wider society and doing things "for the greater good" at all.

yes definitely agree

I think mental health of UK has gone down sharply

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Dontjumptoconclusions · 22/05/2026 23:23

Covid put a motor on the decline of the country. Things becoming more expensive, people becoming more selfish and openly racist, flakey and antisocial. We have become much more individualistic rather than community focused, so it's every man and woman for themselves and it's palpable.

Now AI jeopardises millions of jobs too.

Meanwhile it's a warzone in other countries so perhaps it could be worse...

NonComm · 22/05/2026 23:25

Austerity and Brexit have really changed the UK for the worse, however, I think that the rot really started with Thatcher.

mumofoneAloneandwell · 22/05/2026 23:25

Theolittle · 22/05/2026 22:45

i think everything you describe came following the 2008 worldwide financial crisis and the years of austerity that followed. Wages have been stagnant for more than 5 years

Homeworking has been the worst thing from Covid - don’t think it’s good at all for mental health

Agree re 2008

They keep renaming the credit crunch but its still here 20 years later and life is worse

I think its improved since the pandemic for me - telephone appointments have been a godsend

MasterBeth · 22/05/2026 23:29

NonComm · 22/05/2026 23:25

Austerity and Brexit have really changed the UK for the worse, however, I think that the rot really started with Thatcher.

Thatcher was an evil witch but the UK economy still grew strongly during the late 80s and 90s, up until 2008. Cameron and Osbourne's austerity choked growth and left us with the infrastructure/ investment/ productivity crisis we have today.

MerryAmberViper · 22/05/2026 23:32

yes but with all this credit crunch stuff you didnt have 10% inflation followed by high or near high inflation after that for 3-4 years

anyway good night mumsnetters I need to go and tickle my cactus

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MasterBeth · 22/05/2026 23:33

MerryAmberViper · 22/05/2026 23:16

@MasterBeth but is it really?

The costs in the economy are again covid and the war around energy and supply shocks
look at supermarkets this week basically saying no to government to cap costs and saying energy prices being bought under control would help reduce prices energy prices and instability are again due to wars

Im not saying there is no effect from brexit and it was an own goal for uk but the effect of brexit is tiny compared to everything else
trade with europe yes I accept more difficult but it hasnt stopped

people just seem on here to moan about brexit when at the moment the uk has so many bigger more important problems

Yes, there are global shocks to our economy beyond Brexit, but the fact we can't trade as simply and freely with our closest neighbours has meant we are less able to cope with those shocks.

Brexit would have damaged us in healthier times. It's had an even bigger impact when there are global catastrophes all around us

jumpingjohnny · 22/05/2026 23:33

MerryAmberViper · 22/05/2026 23:19

Oh come on

apart from london and maybe some centres of biggest cities most terraced houses dont cost 800k and even in places where they do there is cheaper housing nearby

I think you are naive to the price difference between outside Birmingham and the South East, not even London, outside the M25. A terrace in London would be a hell of a lot more. Even somewhere like Clapham, you'd expect to pay well over £1m for a 2 up, 2 down.

MerryAmberViper · 22/05/2026 23:36

jumpingjohnny · 22/05/2026 23:33

I think you are naive to the price difference between outside Birmingham and the South East, not even London, outside the M25. A terrace in London would be a hell of a lot more. Even somewhere like Clapham, you'd expect to pay well over £1m for a 2 up, 2 down.

@jumpingjohnny
like I said apart from london....
Clapham is near london

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MerryAmberViper · 22/05/2026 23:39

84% agree

why dont only 14% of you agree voting I bu?

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sleepwouldbenice · 22/05/2026 23:43

MerryAmberViper · 22/05/2026 22:50

@MasterBeth I dont agree with you on brexit but yeh austerity has really damaged this country

Very basic research ( non biased) would tell you that brexit was a key factor...

Overall
Brexit
Covid
Ukraine war
Iran war
Other shocks like tariffs and Truss
We weren't doing great before these but they have really compounded the issue

NonComm · Yesterday 00:02

MasterBeth · 22/05/2026 23:29

Thatcher was an evil witch but the UK economy still grew strongly during the late 80s and 90s, up until 2008. Cameron and Osbourne's austerity choked growth and left us with the infrastructure/ investment/ productivity crisis we have today.

I’m older now and I can see that post WW2, people wanted to do better; intro of the nhs, better education, building social housing, more social mobility , joining the Common Market etc. Whereas Thatcher only thought of the rich and started dismantling; privatising our utilities, selling social housing and not letting councils use the money to build more but also no strategy to replace the mining industry eg she could have got us into renewables in the 80’s, created jobs for the former miners but no and we’re years behind now. Norway invested their North Sea Oil into a Sovereign Fund worth one trillion pounds that benefits its citizens but Thatcher sold ours off. She famously said that ‘there’s no such thing as society’. I’m sure that there’s more but the lack of strategic planning has continued since and I think that’s why most things are a bit shit. It’s also all made worse by our appalling billionaire owned mainstream media and social media.
Sad times but hopefully we’ll all get through it.

beautifuldaytosavelives · Yesterday 00:11

£32k isn’t a good salary.

beautifuldaytosavelives · Yesterday 00:23

MerryAmberViper · 22/05/2026 23:16

@MasterBeth but is it really?

The costs in the economy are again covid and the war around energy and supply shocks
look at supermarkets this week basically saying no to government to cap costs and saying energy prices being bought under control would help reduce prices energy prices and instability are again due to wars

Im not saying there is no effect from brexit and it was an own goal for uk but the effect of brexit is tiny compared to everything else
trade with europe yes I accept more difficult but it hasnt stopped

people just seem on here to moan about brexit when at the moment the uk has so many bigger more important problems

You are woefully ill informed if you think Brexit has a minor effect on the overall economic financial and wider wellbeing of our country. The costs of Brexit were already being felt and have been compounded by the impact of Covid and then the war on Ukraine.
Also, seek out your comma key for the benefit of all readers.

Crispsandcola · Yesterday 00:32

YANBU welcome to late stage capitalism 😊 COVID wasn't the only thing that happened. Remember that little thing called Brexit? It just hastened the decline a bit. It's going to get a lot worse to so buckle up buttercup.

Livelovebehappy · Yesterday 00:37

dannyufcfan · 22/05/2026 23:06

It has very little to do with covid.

It's brexshite.

Covid has definitely been partially responsible for the dire NHS. GPs liked not having to have face to face contact with patients so much during COVID, that they carried it on. Now we have a situation where doctors waiting rooms are empty because the GPs are all at home diagnosing you over the phone.

nixon1976 · Yesterday 00:40

sleepwouldbenice · 22/05/2026 23:43

Very basic research ( non biased) would tell you that brexit was a key factor...

Overall
Brexit
Covid
Ukraine war
Iran war
Other shocks like tariffs and Truss
We weren't doing great before these but they have really compounded the issue

Brexit is hugely to blame.

Plus (obviously) the 2008 worldwide financial crisis and austerity that followed it.

I agree with PPs that WFH has been terrible for mental health. Great for some of us, not great for new starters or the overall workforce

Livelovebehappy · Yesterday 00:43

beautifuldaytosavelives · Yesterday 00:11

£32k isn’t a good salary.

It’s a pretty okay salary if you live in the North, where if you are on your own, like OP, you can get a nice terrace in a nice area for less than £100k, as opposed to,possibly getting a bed in someone’s shed in 2026.

TheOliveDreamer · Yesterday 00:51

It's harder to build generational wealth now, the boom years are over.

Its now just going to be about a mega elite super rich class, and every else. Of course if you don't a flashy lifestyle it doesn't really matter. You just have to aim for average or slightly above average to be comfortable and cut your cloth accordingly.

I also agree that working from home is not good for mental health.