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AIBU to think these boys should have been incarcerated?

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newrubylane · 21/05/2026 14:06

BBC News - Teenage boys sentenced for raping lone girls
https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/clypg68e2neo

I've never started an AIBU before, but I'm genuinely really shocked. I'm just not sure how this sentence is justifiable. Their actions were premeditated and deliberate, they were carrying a knife and they filmed themselves. They're obviously a danger to women/girls, and probably to other boys too.

If anyone knows how and why this sentence might have come about, I'd be interested to hear it.

A footpath beside a river, leading under a road bridge

Teenage boys sentenced for raping lone girls in Fordingbridge

The boys filmed themselves laughing and encouraging each other as they raped girls in separate attacks.

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/clypg68e2neo

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SoLateToTheParty · Today 08:14

It’s another example of why girls and women don’t come forward and report it the police because they do sweet F A!!!!!

Absolutely disgusting, most likely they’ll all go on to reoffend and if this is what they’ve started with, god knows what they’ll carry on to do!

user946372 · Today 08:35

This is crazy to me! They did it twice and shared the footage online! Why would the judge "not want to criminalise" them when they've done it themselves, repeatedly. Just because they haven't been caught committing any crimes before certainly doesn't mean they haven't done anything.

AllyMacbealmyarse · Today 09:57

Sworkmum · 21/05/2026 23:08

Much like @FinchiePink and @Backedoffhackedoff have pointed out we don’t know all the information here.

realistically if they got a custodial sentence it would likely be less than 3 years due to their ages/mitigating factors. Therefore the longer community sentence is actually a better outcome.

not much can be achieved in a custodial sentence. The rehab, assessments etc you are suggesting mostly do not happen in lots of custodial settings, they are more likely to happen in the community.

people are confusing justice for children with justice for adults. Sentences/custody/inteventions/assessments etc are not the same or comparable. Community orders are more effective and better resourced than most youth custody establishments.

they have been criminalised, they will now have a criminal record and this will show on their record. They have an unspent conviction for rape (x however many they have been charged for).

they will be 18 by the time they finish these orders and have time to mature and learn consequences and understand why they should never repeat this behaviour. It may not feel like justice as saying lock them up ‘feels’ more justified. But in reality it is just not as effective at preventing this happening again. Surely that’s the outcome everyone wants is for this behaviour to be prevented in the future - if so this is how. The people in these courts including the judge have all the facts and know how the system works. It is apparent most on here do not.

You are oversimplifying the position. Rehabilitation is an important aim of the criminal justice system yes but punishment is also part of it, as is acting as a deterrent to other potential offenders by ensuring it is clear and known the consequences of the decisions they are taking are not worth the risk of the outcomes- in this case the later purposes are especially important because there is an epidemic of violence against women and girls and these offences are not taken seriously, which is further driving the embedded misogyny in our culture. We need to start giving these offences the consequences these deserve and which are reflective of the effects they have on victims.

Futurehappiness · Today 09:57

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Futurehappiness · Today 09:57

SoLateToTheParty · Today 08:14

It’s another example of why girls and women don’t come forward and report it the police because they do sweet F A!!!!!

Absolutely disgusting, most likely they’ll all go on to reoffend and if this is what they’ve started with, god knows what they’ll carry on to do!

I don't think this particular case is the fault of the police who assembled all the evidence....it is on the judge who imposed these insultingly lenient sentences.

It really makes me despair. Rape has already been described as effectively decriminalised in this country, due to the tiny conviction rate in relation to initial complaints. This is one of the exceptional cases where there actually were convictions thanks to the large amount of evidence; and yet the case ends with a slap in the face to the victims with these pathetic sentences being imposed. It feels as though the justice system as a whole has yet again collectively shrugged its shoulders in the face of the risks to women and girls.

AllyMacbealmyarse · Today 10:29

Pigeonpoodle · 22/05/2026 17:56

Yes, for all their faults, they would at least ensure they boys were locked up.

But they wouldn’t. Farage the idiot has justified and minimised the Giant Tangerine’s misogynistic statements and assaults on women, plus he hangs out with Andrew Tait, and that’s before you start to look at the behaviour of reform councillors and candidates . If you think a party led by him values women and will stand up for them then he has you fooled, and if others are like you we are doomed as a country. The only reason he and others like him would “punish” sexual assaults against women is that it “damages” the property of men, a la the handmaid’s tale.

Blondiebeachbabe · Today 10:35

If I was one of the girls Mums, I honestly would take this into my own hands now and dispense my own justice.

EmeraldShamrock000 · Today 10:43

Blondiebeachbabe · Today 10:35

If I was one of the girls Mums, I honestly would take this into my own hands now and dispense my own justice.

Me too. I’d rather do that than drag my daughter through the vile court system. I’d happily do time knowing he was dead or scarred. I’d drive over them.

PhaedraTwo · Today 11:06

user946372 · Today 08:35

This is crazy to me! They did it twice and shared the footage online! Why would the judge "not want to criminalise" them when they've done it themselves, repeatedly. Just because they haven't been caught committing any crimes before certainly doesn't mean they haven't done anything.

Well we know they committed other crimes - animal cruelty and illegal hare and rabbit coursing.

EdinaMonsoon · Today 11:25

Apparently the government are now reviewing the sentencing (apologies if this has already been mentioned here).

OonaStubbs · Today 11:27

Will the judge be sacked? Surely he has to be?

PhaedraTwo · Today 11:32

OonaStubbs · Today 11:27

Will the judge be sacked? Surely he has to be?

No. Even if the sentence is altered Judges do not get sacked just because they make a sentencing mistake. Nor should they.

Lalgarh · Today 11:35

The judge is probably just applying guidelines in their most lenient sense.

I'm wondering how "180 days of close supervision" that one of the rapists has been ordered to undergo is applicable outside of a secure setting. What. Probation officers following him round?

If you saw the documentary series Police Protecting Children (iirc the name) there are already huge surveillance operations tracking convicted sex offenders once they're out and inevitably there are slip ups.

SoLateToTheParty · Today 11:37

Futurehappiness · Today 09:57

I don't think this particular case is the fault of the police who assembled all the evidence....it is on the judge who imposed these insultingly lenient sentences.

It really makes me despair. Rape has already been described as effectively decriminalised in this country, due to the tiny conviction rate in relation to initial complaints. This is one of the exceptional cases where there actually were convictions thanks to the large amount of evidence; and yet the case ends with a slap in the face to the victims with these pathetic sentences being imposed. It feels as though the justice system as a whole has yet again collectively shrugged its shoulders in the face of the risks to women and girls.

Yes sorry I didn’t mean just the police but the whole system in general, I have a close friend who went through a similar ordeal and the case was thrown out regardless of the amount of evidence against them.

Disgusting!

chipsticksmammy · Today 12:47

Blondiebeachbabe · Today 10:35

If I was one of the girls Mums, I honestly would take this into my own hands now and dispense my own justice.

Same. This again shows how the system lets women & girls down. I’m so angry and those brave girls deserve so much more from us as a society.

Not wanting to criminalise children who committed crimes of this degree is mind blowing. Stealing a packet of sweets from a shop as a one off. Being caught drunk in a park and taken home by the police. I can see that as fair. Multiple organised violent gang rapes on multiple victims and sharing of child pornography online? That’s so far from the line we can longer see it.

ArabellaScott · Today 12:53

Lalgarh · Today 10:22

No consideration from judge fudge as to the victims brain development huh

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/cjrp98285yvo

The judges remarks sound like a benign and kindly adonishment dished out to children who have done something mildly irritating.

These boys organised, co ordinated, carried out, recorded and broadcast the violent rapes of young girls.

ArabellaScott · Today 12:56

chipsticksmammy · Today 12:47

Same. This again shows how the system lets women & girls down. I’m so angry and those brave girls deserve so much more from us as a society.

Not wanting to criminalise children who committed crimes of this degree is mind blowing. Stealing a packet of sweets from a shop as a one off. Being caught drunk in a park and taken home by the police. I can see that as fair. Multiple organised violent gang rapes on multiple victims and sharing of child pornography online? That’s so far from the line we can longer see it.

I'm anti vigilante justice and anti violence. But when the courts and the system have given organised violent rape their blessing, I can understand how and why it happens.

This judge hasn't the faintest idea of the damage he's done.

FernandoSor · Today 13:06

Blondiebeachbabe · Today 10:35

If I was one of the girls Mums, I honestly would take this into my own hands now and dispense my own justice.

Bearing in mind the community these boys come from, that would likely end very badly for you.

SequoiaTree · Today 13:07

FernandoSor · Today 13:06

Bearing in mind the community these boys come from, that would likely end very badly for you.

True.

chipsticksmammy · Today 13:11

ArabellaScott · Today 12:56

I'm anti vigilante justice and anti violence. But when the courts and the system have given organised violent rape their blessing, I can understand how and why it happens.

This judge hasn't the faintest idea of the damage he's done.

Punishment should fit the crime, I’ve always believed that. I don’t believe the criminal justice system is fit to protect victims given this sentence.

EvieBB · Today 13:12

EmeraldShamrock000 · Today 10:43

Me too. I’d rather do that than drag my daughter through the vile court system. I’d happily do time knowing he was dead or scarred. I’d drive over them.

Yes I was telling my DH about this - he said he'd definitely be doing time if that happened to either of his DDs

prh47bridge · Today 14:06

This offence is clearly at least category 2A and possibly category 1A. If it was category 2A, the starting point for sentencing an adult would be 10 years with a range of 9-13 years, and I would expect the aggravating factors to push it towards the top end of the range. If it was category 1A, the starting point for an adult would be 15 years with a range of 13-19 years.

As the offenders were under 18, they would normally receive a lower sentence than an adult committing the same offence. Given the contents of the sentencing guidelines regarding children and young people, I can understand why the judge may have thought a YRO was an appropriate sanction for these offenders. However, I think he has got it badly wrong. In my view, this crime is so serious that the only appropriate sanction is a custodial sentence. I hope the Attorney General decides to appeal the sentence on the basis that it is unduly lenient and that the appeal is successful.

My thoughts are with the victim.

jeffgoldblum · Today 14:48

prh47bridge · Today 14:06

This offence is clearly at least category 2A and possibly category 1A. If it was category 2A, the starting point for sentencing an adult would be 10 years with a range of 9-13 years, and I would expect the aggravating factors to push it towards the top end of the range. If it was category 1A, the starting point for an adult would be 15 years with a range of 13-19 years.

As the offenders were under 18, they would normally receive a lower sentence than an adult committing the same offence. Given the contents of the sentencing guidelines regarding children and young people, I can understand why the judge may have thought a YRO was an appropriate sanction for these offenders. However, I think he has got it badly wrong. In my view, this crime is so serious that the only appropriate sanction is a custodial sentence. I hope the Attorney General decides to appeal the sentence on the basis that it is unduly lenient and that the appeal is successful.

My thoughts are with the victim.

Informative post , many thanks 🙏
just wanted to point out , it was victims, there was two girls .

Twinandatwoyearold · Today 15:14

I think I read the judge praised the boys behaviour in court. Shows they can behave when it’s in their interest to behave.