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To think compulsory national service for young people could be helpful for many?

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Jane379 · 17/05/2026 20:50

The recent thread on benefits generational cycle got me thinking...could compulsory national service period help some young people, including ones like these?

Or would it make things worse?

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Natsku · 19/05/2026 11:01

BrownBookshelf · 19/05/2026 08:59

It couldn't possibly be male only, which is one of the reasons why Finland is a bad example. Compulsory universal national service for young people, ie both sexes, with only the minimum necessary exemptions for health etc and no carveouts for selected groups, actually isn't a common model at all. The countries people have cited most commonly in this thread are probably Israel, Switzerland and Finland, and none of them do it. Or even try to.

It's for this reason that again, it can't be British exceptionalism to say something that doesn't happen and wouldn't work in most societies also wouldn't happen or work here. British exceptionalism requires a belief that the UK method is fundamentally different from other nations. That's where the 'exception' part comes in.

It doesn't just mean saying something couldn't work in the UK, because there are so many things that would be unviable both here and in much/all of the planet. It's actually rather British centric to pretend that the UK is unusual in a quality we share with so many other societies.

Britain doesn't need to copy any particular system exactly though so it doesn't matter that there isn't a perfect enough example to use. We know national service can work and be popular in a country, the UK is already used to women serving in the military (though again, national service does not need to be military at all) so including women is not a big leap, and we ought to all know that society, even British society, can adapt to change.

BrownBookshelf · 19/05/2026 11:12

Natsku · 19/05/2026 11:01

Britain doesn't need to copy any particular system exactly though so it doesn't matter that there isn't a perfect enough example to use. We know national service can work and be popular in a country, the UK is already used to women serving in the military (though again, national service does not need to be military at all) so including women is not a big leap, and we ought to all know that society, even British society, can adapt to change.

It matters very much to the claim about British exceptionalism.

We do not already know that the model OP proposes can work. Saying societies can change isn't an argument that it would because it also means society could change to make it less viable.

Nospecialcharactersplease · 19/05/2026 12:40

On the issue of compulsory military service for women - the obvious example here is Israel, where women are enlisted and there is broad consensus for this across society.

Isreal is a very interesting example because almost all young people serve (men and women), except for Palestinian citizens of Israel and the Ultra Orthodox Jewish community (with a few notable exceptions). It is interesting to me that women fare pretty well in Israel (at least compared to regional norms), but Palestinian citizens and ultra orthodox communities are both very marginalised. This is why it is important to have as many types of people as possible participating if a scheme exists - because those that don’t can easily start to get left behind if they don’t have a record of service.

Greenfinch7 · 19/05/2026 12:59

In Singapore, NS is compulsory for all men, and starts with fitness. If you don't pass their physical fitness test (sit-ups, pushups, and running) or are obese they start with training and weight management.

InconsequentialFerret · 19/05/2026 13:13

Greenfinch7 · 19/05/2026 12:59

In Singapore, NS is compulsory for all men, and starts with fitness. If you don't pass their physical fitness test (sit-ups, pushups, and running) or are obese they start with training and weight management.

Now this sounds like a good idea...can we start with all the obese people who missed out on NS last time round - i.e. the 83 year olds and under?

x2boys · 19/05/2026 13:24

Greenfinch7 · 19/05/2026 12:59

In Singapore, NS is compulsory for all men, and starts with fitness. If you don't pass their physical fitness test (sit-ups, pushups, and running) or are obese they start with training and weight management.

Presumably they must have some exceptions on health grounds and disabillties?
My oldest son haa type 1 Diabetes, he cant join the UK millitry regardless of how fit he is.

pointythings · 19/05/2026 13:26

Greenfinch7 · 19/05/2026 12:59

In Singapore, NS is compulsory for all men, and starts with fitness. If you don't pass their physical fitness test (sit-ups, pushups, and running) or are obese they start with training and weight management.

Singapore is not an example to follow.

Greenfinch7 · 19/05/2026 13:33

pointythings · 19/05/2026 13:26

Singapore is not an example to follow.

Obviously Singapore is a completely different society from the UK. I just spent 2 weeks there and found it extremely interesting to see such a different way of being! It was nothing like what I was expecting, though.

I just thought this was an interesting start to a military service- I would love a boot camp which helped me get strong and in shape (I am a 60 year old woman).

To answer another poster's point, servicemen with diabetes are exempt from strenuous work and given medically safe vocation postings.

Natsku · 19/05/2026 14:54

BrownBookshelf · 19/05/2026 11:12

It matters very much to the claim about British exceptionalism.

We do not already know that the model OP proposes can work. Saying societies can change isn't an argument that it would because it also means society could change to make it less viable.

Britain can take any system and adapt it to fit, but thinking it absolutely cannot try is British exceptionalism, thinking that Brits will never accept it is British exceptionalism, thinking Brits will try and evade it as a much higher rate than young people elsewhere is British exceptionalism.

BrownBookshelf · 19/05/2026 15:03

Natsku · 19/05/2026 14:54

Britain can take any system and adapt it to fit, but thinking it absolutely cannot try is British exceptionalism, thinking that Brits will never accept it is British exceptionalism, thinking Brits will try and evade it as a much higher rate than young people elsewhere is British exceptionalism.

Again, no it isn't exceptionalism because that would require thinking Britain is exceptional. And actually, there being bugger all appetite for compulsory, dual sex national service is globally common. This is a fact. Britain is the opposite of exceptional in this respect.

We can all come up with hypotheticals of Britain becoming a completely different society where this might fly, they're just pointless. If you fast forward a century or two and Britain is like North Korea, we'd perhaps have it. If civilisation has collapsed by then and we're all living in mud huts, we won't.

BrownBookshelf · 19/05/2026 15:16

Nospecialcharactersplease · 19/05/2026 12:40

On the issue of compulsory military service for women - the obvious example here is Israel, where women are enlisted and there is broad consensus for this across society.

Isreal is a very interesting example because almost all young people serve (men and women), except for Palestinian citizens of Israel and the Ultra Orthodox Jewish community (with a few notable exceptions). It is interesting to me that women fare pretty well in Israel (at least compared to regional norms), but Palestinian citizens and ultra orthodox communities are both very marginalised. This is why it is important to have as many types of people as possible participating if a scheme exists - because those that don’t can easily start to get left behind if they don’t have a record of service.

The Israeli exceptions are quite substantial! Especially for women. As well as the ones you mention, Druze women are also exempt, which is interesting because as a community they're extremely pro army and the men are known for military service.

Any Jewish woman stating she maintains a religious lifestyle is also exempt if wished, so it's not just those who'd identify as ultra-Orthodox. Modern Orthodox/Dati Leumi women fall into that category as well, whereas the men mostly join the IDF. A lot of the women from those communities do an alternative non-military national service instead, but by no means all.

From what I can tell though, this is going to stay a big issue in Israel as the Haredis become a bigger percentage of the population.

Greenwitchart · 19/05/2026 15:48

I think the army has better things to do that have to educate young people who don't want to be there, have a variety of behavioural issues and who would never make a positive contribution if the country was at war...

Their job is not to act as surrogate parents or prop up the education system.

TransportNerd · 19/05/2026 16:11

You can fuck right off with that. This isn't the 1950s. National service was abolished because the armed forces were sick of having to babysit unsuitable and unwilling recruits that were completely useless to them.

TransportNerd · 19/05/2026 16:13

pointythings · 19/05/2026 13:26

Singapore is not an example to follow.

Yeah, it's pretty totalitarian, and woe betide anyone who doesn't fit in.

igelkott2026 · 19/05/2026 16:35

I always think those who advocate national service are always the ones who are old enough to safely avoid it. I also don't think anyone owes their country anything, other than to obey the law and pay their taxes.

However, given the high levels of youth unemployment I think it would be helpful to have an entitlement for every youngster who isn't in work to have a paid placement for 3-6 months so that they can gain experience and then be more attractive to employers. I think there are schemes but you have to be claiming UC for x amount of time and a lot of kids don't so they fall off the NEET radar altogether.

I think employers bleat a lot about the expense of training people but they just want to poach from other employers. They should all do their bit to train the workforce.

Jane379 · 19/05/2026 16:36

TransportNerd · 19/05/2026 16:13

Yeah, it's pretty totalitarian, and woe betide anyone who doesn't fit in.

Yes, I wouldn't advocate Singapore as a model for this, definitely.

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Jane379 · 19/05/2026 16:38

Nospecialcharactersplease · 19/05/2026 12:40

On the issue of compulsory military service for women - the obvious example here is Israel, where women are enlisted and there is broad consensus for this across society.

Isreal is a very interesting example because almost all young people serve (men and women), except for Palestinian citizens of Israel and the Ultra Orthodox Jewish community (with a few notable exceptions). It is interesting to me that women fare pretty well in Israel (at least compared to regional norms), but Palestinian citizens and ultra orthodox communities are both very marginalised. This is why it is important to have as many types of people as possible participating if a scheme exists - because those that don’t can easily start to get left behind if they don’t have a record of service.

I can see what you mean but I don't think that's why Haredi are marginalised. Haredi women often work in some way without of issue and if anything most Israelis want Haredi men to work. The issue is that Haredi religious authorities prefer to men to study scripture as much as possible (ideally all day) and do not recognise Israel as legitimate (as the Messiah has not yet come) so don't believe military service is legitimate for Haredi men (moreover, it would disrupt their Torah study which they see as spiritually protecting Israel)

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Jane379 · 19/05/2026 16:47

AuxArmesCitoyens · 18/05/2026 18:35

My proposal is a) everyone does it at 17 for 9 months, with carve-outs for ill health / Northern Ireland / lone parents or whatever. You can choose from 5 broad areas > national defence, learn a trade, social care, culture, or environment. You get NMW and can bank university credits. Efforts are made to ensure the programme is not undermining local employment. You can spend your time learning to thatch or as a library assistant or planting trees in the National Forest if that is your thing. There[s also a national Time Bank where you get a month off for every 5 years you work to contribute to community projects, so adults can join in as well, either as mentors or as volunteers.

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This sounds good overall to me.

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Jane379 · 19/05/2026 16:48

maxslice · 18/05/2026 19:00

Or the people who get killed.

People are killed in Israel for refusing to serve?

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Jane379 · 19/05/2026 16:49

GertrudePerkinsPaperyThing · 18/05/2026 19:25

Funnily enough, I think my DS with ADHD might really love it. He loves Scouts and generally anything with firm, clear boundaries.

I wouldn’t see ADHD as something that should necessarily be a barrier, maybe should be judged on a case by case basis.

Edit - I have said up thread that I don’t think we should do a mandatory version, but perhaps have a voluntary one that we make actually attractive

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This, people shouldn't assume those with ADHD by default can't serve.

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maxslice · 19/05/2026 16:50

Jane379 · 19/05/2026 16:48

People are killed in Israel for refusing to serve?

No, for serving. Or, in fact, for just living there these days.

darksideofthetoon · 19/05/2026 16:50

Jane379 · 17/05/2026 20:50

The recent thread on benefits generational cycle got me thinking...could compulsory national service period help some young people, including ones like these?

Or would it make things worse?

Bob Dylan once sung, ‘join the army if you fail.’

So many people would never want to be forced into this and, for many, joining the army was only an option due to lack of other opportunities. It was a last resort and often for kids looking to escape poverty.

Some would benefit but I’m not sure of the real long term benefits and, knowing the UK, could possibly end up costing taxpayers more than any resulting benefit.

Now, Bob Dylan may also have been stoned when he wrote those lyrics but I know what he meant.

Jane379 · 19/05/2026 16:51

Somersetbaker · 18/05/2026 20:38

The armed forces don't want NEETS, they want technologists who understand modern warfare is drones, robots and computer networks. The days of sending soldiers over the top to be mown down by machine guns, while the generals downed another pink gin are past.

This isn't accurate. Modern warfare clearly still does involve boots on the ground too (Ukraine is only the most obvious example) and many people in the UK military have made clear we should not assume Putin would only target via drones (whether us, or more likely, another European NATO member)

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Jane379 · 19/05/2026 16:53

BarbBarbbarb · 18/05/2026 20:47

My kids are motivated, hardworking, doing well in school, volunteer, on sort of paths to futures the last thing they need is a hiatus of playing toy soldiers somewhere.
How about OPTIONAL service, that gives kids real opportunity if they want/need it, and pays decent money, and gives them actual
useful skills. Rather than forcing everyone - but let’s face it, the well off will find exemptions for their offspring- to do some pointless national
service.

As pp said, the well off shouldn't necessarily be able to opt out, and this doesn't by default happen in other Euro countries (Natsku mentioned European partliament's son). We shouldn't assume some well off will always spoil things by avoiding and there's nothing we can do about that.

Also, BrownBookshelf, you mentioned Ursula von der Leyen's kids but that is a but different as it was voluntary during that period.

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Jane379 · 19/05/2026 16:59

Re NI, I understand the history makes exemption crucial if this did happen.
But in theory, it seems unfair for people in NI who don't want to be part of the UK to disrupt conscription in that way. Some people in Scotland and Wales want to be independent, but they don't have a right to disrupt conscription, at least arguably, as most Scots and Welsh want to stay in UK. Most in NI want to be part of UK, too.

I know an exemption would be crucial : it just seems arguably unfair.

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