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To think we don’t know how lucky we are under Starmer.

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SevenYellowHammers · 11/05/2026 19:50

Russia have a mad despot who is responsible for the deaths of Russians and Ukrainians and has caused untold damage on the world’s environment and economy. But he’s still in power.

The USA have a mad despot who’s causing deaths worldwide and has started a war he can’t win causing untold damage to the world’s economy and environment. But he’s still in power.

Israel have a mad despot who is committing genocide and putting Jewish people at risk across the world. But he’s still in power.

In the UK, we have a dull bloke who’s doing his best to stand up to the mad despots while not leading us into war. And we’re all trying to get rid of him.

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stuckdownahole · 11/05/2026 21:04

There was a good interview with Rishi Sunak (I think former PMs are always interesting to hear from, except Liz Truss) in which he pointed out that the small boats crisis has been running for longer than the Second World War. He admitted that he was wrong to say that he would "stop the boats" because in essence neither he nor any other PM had the power to do so. They were being frustrated in all their efforts by the law courts and the web of international obligations and treaties we have signed up to and wish to uphold.

Starmer is the wrong bloke to deal with this, probably, because he's a great believer in international law and won't challenge it. But any PM is being forced to drink poison every day at present while they lack the ability to stop small-boat migrants. It's impossible to overstate how much the general public hate these guys. They don't think any of them are genuine asylum seekers but are all chancers, cheats and criminals who wouldn't be allowed into any safe, developed country via a legitimate route.

I don't think Labour will do anything about this because Starmer is too entrenched in the idea that the law is always right and any alternative leader would be crowned by the Labour left who are mostly concerned with appearing virtuous. But stop the small boats and you have taken the first step towards having a calm and rational conversation about immigration which will put Reform at a disadvantage. Don't stop the small boats, we are getting Farage as PM in 2029.

Justusethebloodyphone · 11/05/2026 21:05

Yes I agree and I’m a very angry labour voter. They are being run by the backbenches and Starmer who I think is about as good as they can currently offer biggest weakness is not having a hold on his party.

If his challengers really think the country wants to move further to the left they are absolutely insane and by departing the edges of the centre, they are handing the country to the right.

Italiangreyhound · 11/05/2026 21:06

Starmer is a good one.

Blahblahblahabla · 11/05/2026 21:06

If his challengers really think the country wants to move further to the left they are absolutely insane and by departing the edges of the centre, they are handing the country to the right.

And this!

It would absolutely guarantee a Reform/ Conservative coalition. Which is perhaps why everyone wants it.

SevenYellowHammers · 11/05/2026 21:08

Badbadbunny · 11/05/2026 19:59

Is it too much to ask for a leader who isn't a raving lunatic AND has a coherent plan for economic growth??

Just not being a raving lunatic is a pretty low bar as a qualification for being a PM!

Fair point but what I was trying to point out was that Starmer’s getting more vitriol than the other three nutters combined. Moreover, those three nut jobs are making Starmer’s job well near impossible!

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quocket · 11/05/2026 21:08

WinterBlues26 · 11/05/2026 20:03

😂😂

Good one OP, very funny.

Edit.
Perhaps I should clarify. He has just appointed Harman who believes children as young as 10 can consent to sex, paedophilia doesn't exist unless there is actual harm, and that women can have penises. He is destroying us in a different way.

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I don’t disbelieve you but I haven’t seen that about Batman before, do you have a link? I don’t want to google for obvious reasons

NewspaperTaxis · 11/05/2026 21:08

ProudAmberTurtle · 11/05/2026 20:00

Pretty sure those pesky election results played a role in it as well.

Didn't Labour come second?

TeenagersAngst · 11/05/2026 21:09

hollygoolightly · 11/05/2026 20:01

People are literally being radicalised by the media and social media. It's scary.

Agree about social media. I think traditional media does very little to radicalise people these days.

NewspaperTaxis · 11/05/2026 21:10

hobbledyhoy · 11/05/2026 20:15

It’s the usual. The right wing parties can do whatever they like and get little scrutiny, Labour or left leaning have their backgrounds scoured to find a mole to make a headline mountain. Case in point, Farage’s multiple donations totalling over £5million from Christopher Harborne and £200k from JCB, also accepting donations in crypto that are untraceable - very little reaction. Starmer and wife getting football tickets and some clothes - utter fucking outrage.
It’s the fact that the media peddles this shite and people believe it without thinking critically about why it’s being fed to them this way that convinces me we’ll continually vote against our own interests.

^ This

TeenagersAngst · 11/05/2026 21:10

NewspaperTaxis · 11/05/2026 21:08

Didn't Labour come second?

Second? By which metric? Seats gained or lost?

TeenagersAngst · 11/05/2026 21:11

Italiangreyhound · 11/05/2026 21:06

Starmer is a good one.

I’m agree, I don’t think he’s a bad person at all. But he is out of his depth.

NewspaperTaxis · 11/05/2026 21:12

MissAmbrosia · 11/05/2026 20:44

Renationalisation of British Steel today I heard, plus trying to take more control over the shabby water companies and rail network...waiting lists down, small boats down, asylum backlog halved, investment in the poorest wards etc. It's all drowned out by bloody Reform and flag shaggers.

Yes, I like this sort of thing. Would also like to see the Post Office wrongdoers actually held to account, they all seem to have gotten away with it.

stuckdownahole · 11/05/2026 21:12

Blahblahblahabla · 11/05/2026 21:06

If his challengers really think the country wants to move further to the left they are absolutely insane and by departing the edges of the centre, they are handing the country to the right.

And this!

It would absolutely guarantee a Reform/ Conservative coalition. Which is perhaps why everyone wants it.

I agree. I think there still is some small hope for Labour in that the Greens are drawing away the Corbynite hippies and the Muslim bloc who are becoming increasingly difficult to appease. With those factions gone, a leader like Blair who wants to appeal to normal people has a chance to emerge. But probably not until they have tried being more left wing in the manner of stubborn small children who purposely soil themselves in an attempt to get what they want.

TeenagersAngst · 11/05/2026 21:12

MissAmbrosia · 11/05/2026 20:44

Renationalisation of British Steel today I heard, plus trying to take more control over the shabby water companies and rail network...waiting lists down, small boats down, asylum backlog halved, investment in the poorest wards etc. It's all drowned out by bloody Reform and flag shaggers.

British Steel was renationalised last year as far as I know.

mumofoneAloneandwell · 11/05/2026 21:13

Things really aren't that bad 😕 😫

NewspaperTaxis · 11/05/2026 21:14

TeenagersAngst · 11/05/2026 21:10

Second? By which metric? Seats gained or lost?

I thought it was total number of seats won - am I wrong? Labour have more council seats than the Tories, the Lib Dems and obviously the Greens. Happy to be corrected - all the results on the news channels tend to focus on how many a party has lost, but if they had loads to start with, in the wake of Opposition hope and the Tories' party gate furore, that doesn't mean they did so badly.

RollOnSunshine · 11/05/2026 21:16

mummaneedsarest · 11/05/2026 20:54

Agree with the post from @Slowdownyouredoingfineand the other rational posters on here. He’s a decent man who’s doing a steady job surrounded by despots. Obviously the Brexiters won’t support him, but if you’re generally centrist or left of centre then we need to club together to stop the rw press and social media companies getting Reform in meaning all scrutiny and checks and balances go out the window and the rich just continue to get richer. You think Farage / Trump and the rest care about poor people getting wealthier or healthier? Think again.

Yes, Labour have actually begun to make some positive changes - which ALMOST NEVER get reported, eg:

the renters rights bill,
NHS waiting lists down
free school breakfast clubs
free childcare rollout
workers rights reform
500,000 more kids receiving free school meals
highest defence spending since Cold War
railways under public ownership
youth EU travel scheme

Plus closer ties to Europe and economy was slowly progressing until Trumps war.

This is not Amazon Prime life, it’s real life and real politics and progress takes time and a bit of patience. We have 5 year terms for a reason -to allow a realistic timeframe to get things done. I run a business and I’ve moved into other organisations to head departments - whenever I have a development plan I know it will take me a few years to implement and not overnight. We all need to get real.

"free school breakfast clubs"
"free childcare rollout"

People need to stop calling these things FREE. They are not FREE.

They are another expense added to the ever increasing tab of the UK tax payer. Refer also to the scrapping of the two child benefit cap - also picked up by the tax payer.

Echobelly · 11/05/2026 21:16

He's not great but this media obsession with removing him is just stupid, they are determined to paint this picture that the government is utter chaos and in disarray and it's just not. It's just your bog-standard boring, rubbish government... I don't actually think most of the public is calling for him to go, it's just media owners wanting to flex their muscle and undermine the government because they'd prefer Reform or Tories.

Sherbs12 · 11/05/2026 21:17

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Bestnottalkaboutit · 11/05/2026 21:19

RollOnSunshine · 11/05/2026 20:37

So you think we are doing well to have Starmer because he is not as bad as Putin or Trump?

I think we can do a bit better than that!!

He is an utter tool (makers son).

So, who do you think then?

Give some names of decent, honest, balanced, experienced politicians who could step in tomorrow and do a better job getting us out of the mess that the UK is in.

No-one springing to my mind yet!

ByGraptharsHammer · 11/05/2026 21:19

I think it’s literally any old rubbish for clicks. Basically Britain is a dull country. Good. Who wants it to be exciting? Mostly power hungry oddballs who want the public seething. Get you emotional and then they have grip on you.

Sherbs12 · 11/05/2026 21:20

RollOnSunshine · 11/05/2026 21:16

"free school breakfast clubs"
"free childcare rollout"

People need to stop calling these things FREE. They are not FREE.

They are another expense added to the ever increasing tab of the UK tax payer. Refer also to the scrapping of the two child benefit cap - also picked up by the tax payer.

Think of it as an investment into kids born into deprivation through no fault of their own - if we invest in them while they’re young, ensuring they have safe housing, enough food, good health, a sound education then it drastically improves their life chances as adults, which benefits us all.

SingleSexSpacesInSchools · 11/05/2026 21:21

Starmer has less than 24 hours.

DrCoconut · 11/05/2026 21:23

mummaneedsarest · 11/05/2026 20:54

Agree with the post from @Slowdownyouredoingfineand the other rational posters on here. He’s a decent man who’s doing a steady job surrounded by despots. Obviously the Brexiters won’t support him, but if you’re generally centrist or left of centre then we need to club together to stop the rw press and social media companies getting Reform in meaning all scrutiny and checks and balances go out the window and the rich just continue to get richer. You think Farage / Trump and the rest care about poor people getting wealthier or healthier? Think again.

Yes, Labour have actually begun to make some positive changes - which ALMOST NEVER get reported, eg:

the renters rights bill,
NHS waiting lists down
free school breakfast clubs
free childcare rollout
workers rights reform
500,000 more kids receiving free school meals
highest defence spending since Cold War
railways under public ownership
youth EU travel scheme

Plus closer ties to Europe and economy was slowly progressing until Trumps war.

This is not Amazon Prime life, it’s real life and real politics and progress takes time and a bit of patience. We have 5 year terms for a reason -to allow a realistic timeframe to get things done. I run a business and I’ve moved into other organisations to head departments - whenever I have a development plan I know it will take me a few years to implement and not overnight. We all need to get real.

This. People seem to expect to wake up the day after an election and find everything exactly how they want it. The right wingers have tried to seize on this saying they'd introduce <insert populist idea> immediately. People cheer this on rather than thinking through the consequences of abolishing due process and debate.

WhereYouLeftIt · 11/05/2026 21:25

So, let me get this straight - we should be grateful because we don't have a mass murdering despotic crackpot heading our government?

That's one low fucking bar you've got there, OP.