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AIBU to post solidarity with the Jewish community here?

163 replies

RochelleMajerKrich · 03/05/2026 19:16

I deleted my previous account (due to poor mental health) but I’m back.

Solidarity with the Jewish community.

Much love to you all.

I will always support you.

OP posts:
DoraTheExplorer9 · 04/05/2026 11:52

RochelleMajerKrich · 03/05/2026 19:45

😭

I want to stand with the Jewish community..my heart is hurting when I think of what they’re going through

I want to set an example but I don’t want to ‘culture appropriate’ which makes me wonder if wearing those pins my husband ordered might be offensive

it’s so hard to know what’s right

at the end of the day we both just want to let Jewish people know that you are no alone

we stand with you

and we hate all the whataboutery which always raises its face when it comes to antisemitism

So so much love to the Jewish community here and abroad

❤️❤️❤️

I know I can’t speak for all Jews but I would never view your wearing of a Star of David as cultural appropriation. It’s a truly heartwarming gesture so thank you!

balabusta · 04/05/2026 15:30

BunfightBetty · 04/05/2026 11:11

Wow, if you really genuinely believe that people recognise Polanski as being antisemitic because he ‘disagrees on Gaza’, you really need to inform yourself much more of what he’s doing, saying, allowing and encouraging within his party.

I’m not going to derail this thread by detailing it here, but you will find other current threads where you can be informed - if you want to be.

And the idea that Gaza (so yes it has indeed been mentioned) is the worst atrocity since the Holocaust. The partition of india, the Pakistani genocide in Bangladesh, the Indonesian genocide in East Timor and West Papua,.Sri Lankan genocide, Russia in Chechnya, Rwandan genocide, Khmer Rouge in Cambodia, Sudan,.DRC, Biafra civil war, Syria, Iraq, Rohingya genocide, Balkan civil war etc etc (sadly plenty more). But no THIS is the worst....
Perhaps the pp needs to read about history and not jsut get information from social media.

ShockingBritain · 04/05/2026 15:31

SpecialAgentMaggieBell · 03/05/2026 19:19

Who TF voted that you were being U? Confused

There are antisemites everywhere, including on MN. You should see some of the posts regarding conflict, appalling comments.

ShockingBritain · 04/05/2026 15:33

Davros · 03/05/2026 19:31

Oh no, I pressed YABU by mistake

You can change it. Just click on preferred answer and it changes

ShockingBritain · 04/05/2026 15:34

BlakeCarrington · 03/05/2026 20:50

In contrast, threads bashing Jewish people are a dime a dozen, so how great to have one reassuring them how loved they are 🥰

Indeed they are.

Thanks @RochelleMajerKrich for a thread supporting the Jewish community.

SeriousTissues · 04/05/2026 15:45

Much love to the Jewish community x

CoffeeCantata · 04/05/2026 16:13

HermioneWeasley · 03/05/2026 19:41

Agree, solidarity with our Jewish community, always but especially now.

Me too.

HobGobblynne · 04/05/2026 17:18

ShockingBritain · 04/05/2026 15:34

Indeed they are.

Thanks @RochelleMajerKrich for a thread supporting the Jewish community.

Could you link me to a thread set up to bash Jewish people? I'm struggling to find one.

HobGobblynne · 04/05/2026 17:19

balabusta · 04/05/2026 15:30

And the idea that Gaza (so yes it has indeed been mentioned) is the worst atrocity since the Holocaust. The partition of india, the Pakistani genocide in Bangladesh, the Indonesian genocide in East Timor and West Papua,.Sri Lankan genocide, Russia in Chechnya, Rwandan genocide, Khmer Rouge in Cambodia, Sudan,.DRC, Biafra civil war, Syria, Iraq, Rohingya genocide, Balkan civil war etc etc (sadly plenty more). But no THIS is the worst....
Perhaps the pp needs to read about history and not jsut get information from social media.

Mentioned after OP baited it twice yes.

Why does a genocide have to be the 'worst' genocide to be worth discussing? What an odd standard to measure mass murder by.

AcquadiP · 04/05/2026 19:19

balabusta · 04/05/2026 08:22

It's really breathtaking.

Sure, Jews have generally been treated well in the UK (second time around at least). Yet the British government only allowed children on the kinder transports in 1938 - their parents were deemed to be too Jewish and were abandoned to their fate, mostly murdered.

And the winds can always change in the UK too. We see it happening.

I think it's important to add that an estimated 70 - 80, 000 Jewish refugees arrived in GB prior to the start of WW2 in 1939; and a further estimated 10,000 arrived during the war.

I agree that anti-Semitism was a factor in the decision to stop refugees. But it wasn't the only one. Once the war began, the Government's view was that arrivals from a Nazi-occupied country were potential spies or enemies. There was also grave concern as to whether there would be sufficient future food supplies to feed the existing population and my Grandparents lived through rationing and shortages of various food types throughout the war. The future food supply concern was such that the government issued a pamphlet to pet owners at the beginning of the war advising them to euthanise their pets as feeding them would become unsustainable. An estimated 750,000 cats and dogs were put to sleep as a consequence.

cantstartagain · 04/05/2026 22:22

drspouse · 03/05/2026 20:58

Well, I could have stopped working with my Israeli colleague but I don't. It could impact who else is prepared to have me work with them.
Is that performative or is that about my livelihood? Or is it just a very very small gesture of solidarity with a friend.

Eh? Who are you? 🤣

I left a comment directed at the OP, why have you twisted it and made it about you. Are you low on attention?

I think if you’re a non-Jew then wearing a pin of the Star of David is performative. Like wearing a Black Lives Matter t-shirt, or leaving a “Free Palestine” comment on a random YouTube video.

It’s done to appease conscience rather than to create substantive, systemic change.

balabusta · 04/05/2026 23:08

HobGobblynne · 04/05/2026 17:19

Mentioned after OP baited it twice yes.

Why does a genocide have to be the 'worst' genocide to be worth discussing? What an odd standard to measure mass murder by.

No, i was referring to a poster claiming that Gaza was the worst atrocity since the Holocaust.

The demonization of israel as somehow uniquely evil is both driven by and a contributor to anti semitism.

Obviously that poster, like many others, relies on social media as the sole source of their knowledge.

BunfightBetty · 04/05/2026 23:09

cantstartagain · 04/05/2026 22:22

Eh? Who are you? 🤣

I left a comment directed at the OP, why have you twisted it and made it about you. Are you low on attention?

I think if you’re a non-Jew then wearing a pin of the Star of David is performative. Like wearing a Black Lives Matter t-shirt, or leaving a “Free Palestine” comment on a random YouTube video.

It’s done to appease conscience rather than to create substantive, systemic change.

It’s done to appease conscience rather than to create substantive, systemic change.

Well, I wonder about that.

Would the ability to create substantive, systemic change not depend on how many people started wearing them? What prominence they were given, if it was a movement that was reported on, debated, got a high profile, grew...

The marches have had an impact, haven't they? They've contributed to the rise in antisemitism and legitimised antisemitic views, while leaving Jewish people more fearful. Perhaps an attempt to redress the balance could go some way to doing that. I'd like to think so, at any rate.

Perhaps a badge wouldn't be the thing that would do it, but something needs to happen to turn this shit around.

balabusta · 04/05/2026 23:15

cantstartagain · 04/05/2026 22:22

Eh? Who are you? 🤣

I left a comment directed at the OP, why have you twisted it and made it about you. Are you low on attention?

I think if you’re a non-Jew then wearing a pin of the Star of David is performative. Like wearing a Black Lives Matter t-shirt, or leaving a “Free Palestine” comment on a random YouTube video.

It’s done to appease conscience rather than to create substantive, systemic change.

It's certainly less performative then all those people now wearing a keffiyah.

balabusta · 04/05/2026 23:20

AcquadiP · 04/05/2026 19:19

I think it's important to add that an estimated 70 - 80, 000 Jewish refugees arrived in GB prior to the start of WW2 in 1939; and a further estimated 10,000 arrived during the war.

I agree that anti-Semitism was a factor in the decision to stop refugees. But it wasn't the only one. Once the war began, the Government's view was that arrivals from a Nazi-occupied country were potential spies or enemies. There was also grave concern as to whether there would be sufficient future food supplies to feed the existing population and my Grandparents lived through rationing and shortages of various food types throughout the war. The future food supply concern was such that the government issued a pamphlet to pet owners at the beginning of the war advising them to euthanise their pets as feeding them would become unsustainable. An estimated 750,000 cats and dogs were put to sleep as a consequence.

Britain did more than others, true. But they also shut off immigration to mandatory Palestine even though the Jewish community there would have happily absorbed those immigrants.

End of the day though, Jews learnt that tbey can only rely on themselves. Even a friendly country wasn't willing to save them. Now Jews always have a safe haven when needed.

cantstartagain · 05/05/2026 00:20

BunfightBetty · 04/05/2026 23:09

It’s done to appease conscience rather than to create substantive, systemic change.

Well, I wonder about that.

Would the ability to create substantive, systemic change not depend on how many people started wearing them? What prominence they were given, if it was a movement that was reported on, debated, got a high profile, grew...

The marches have had an impact, haven't they? They've contributed to the rise in antisemitism and legitimised antisemitic views, while leaving Jewish people more fearful. Perhaps an attempt to redress the balance could go some way to doing that. I'd like to think so, at any rate.

Perhaps a badge wouldn't be the thing that would do it, but something needs to happen to turn this shit around.

If your ‘action’ doesn’t actually affect anything outside your own image, it’s performative—no matter how many people join in

BunfightBetty · 05/05/2026 00:27

cantstartagain · 05/05/2026 00:20

If your ‘action’ doesn’t actually affect anything outside your own image, it’s performative—no matter how many people join in

But that's what I'm saying. If enough people join in, then it could affect things.

It's not that the numbers matter per se. It's what the numbers achieve. The way that numbers can sometimes achieve a shift - a movement of the Overton window, even.

It's the very opposite of performative when that happens.

The problem with saying this or that is 'performative' is that it can sound a bit sneery, and that potentially stops people doing things that could move the needle.

Might some people do things 'performatively' - well, perhaps. You always get a bit of that, don't you? Whether it's wearing a poppy, a red ribbon, a a keffiyeh. But many others will genuinely be trying to change things. When they start doing something, nothing has changed yet - it could look performative. But later things could change. I'd far rather people try.

balabusta · 05/05/2026 00:28

cantstartagain · 05/05/2026 00:20

If your ‘action’ doesn’t actually affect anything outside your own image, it’s performative—no matter how many people join in

Imagine if during Nazi times everyone would have decided to have worn the star of david Jews were forced to have worn....
Someone willingly exposing themselves to the antisemtiism Jews face daily as a sign of solidarity is more than performative.

BunfightBetty · 05/05/2026 00:30

balabusta · 05/05/2026 00:28

Imagine if during Nazi times everyone would have decided to have worn the star of david Jews were forced to have worn....
Someone willingly exposing themselves to the antisemtiism Jews face daily as a sign of solidarity is more than performative.

Absolutely - it would be so powerful.

cantstartagain · 05/05/2026 00:41

balabusta · 05/05/2026 00:28

Imagine if during Nazi times everyone would have decided to have worn the star of david Jews were forced to have worn....
Someone willingly exposing themselves to the antisemtiism Jews face daily as a sign of solidarity is more than performative.

Because that comparison is the same 🙄.

Jewih people are not being systematically marked by being forced to wear a pin. So a non-Jew choosing to wear the symbol isn’t disrupting a system of oppression.

BunfightBetty · 05/05/2026 00:49

cantstartagain · 05/05/2026 00:41

Because that comparison is the same 🙄.

Jewih people are not being systematically marked by being forced to wear a pin. So a non-Jew choosing to wear the symbol isn’t disrupting a system of oppression.

Ok.

Just so I can understand - what is your objection to people posting in support of Jewish people, or wearing a badge to show support?

Is there something you would prefer people to do instead? Or would you rather people do nothing?

Bones101 · 05/05/2026 01:23

I'm half German. I support Jewish people.

I do not support genocide and I am pro Palestine as I hope ye all are too.

balabusta · 05/05/2026 01:26

BunfightBetty · 05/05/2026 00:49

Ok.

Just so I can understand - what is your objection to people posting in support of Jewish people, or wearing a badge to show support?

Is there something you would prefer people to do instead? Or would you rather people do nothing?

Performative suggests it's just an empty gesture - like wearing a keffiya as a fashion item - and it's not.

Obviously, the example of the nazis is extrene - I'm not suggesting Jews are being stripped of their assets and loaded onto cattle cars to Treblinka. But to suggest that because it's not "that bad", that it's not happening, that Jews aren't being oppressed could be a chapter in "Jews Dont Count"

balabusta · 05/05/2026 01:45

Bones101 · 05/05/2026 01:23

I'm half German. I support Jewish people.

I do not support genocide and I am pro Palestine as I hope ye all are too.

Why did you feel the need to qualify your statement? Why did you feel the need to add that you're pro Palestine (whatever that means)?

No one "supports genocide". Hth.
Im anti genocide, who isnt? What haa that got to do with your supposed support of jewish people?

BlakeCarrington · 05/05/2026 08:49

balabusta · 04/05/2026 23:15

It's certainly less performative then all those people now wearing a keffiyah.

Ain’t that the truth!

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