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AIBU to be amazed my friend does all her laundry in one day?

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Laundryqueen1 · Today 08:52

I called over to a friend yesterday evening with my dc. She was just coming down the stairs with an empty laundry basket when she answered the door.
she took a few minutes to answer the door so as she opened the door, she apologised and said she was putting away the laundry.
I jokingly said oh no bother I must put mine away, It’s been sitting there all week I need to clear the basket for the next lot.
she then proceeded to tell me she does ALL her laundry on a Saturday- washes, dries, irons and puts away! IN ONE DAY! I nearly fell to the floor. She said she had two and a half loads.
I was even more baffled because she couldn’t have us round until 7ish because she had a crazy busy day. Her dd had training, her ds had a friend over for a playdate, her dd then had an appointment in the afternoon. Then she had to collect her dh from the train station. My mind is blown! She fits her laundry in between doing all of this…and she irons! 😅 where am I going wrong?

OP posts:
Lovingapeacefulgarden · Today 12:52

As a family of 5 I do easily 15 loads of washing a week between bedding, towels, swimming stuff and clothes. How people do so little amazes me.

BountifulPantry · Today 12:55

I do mine one week day evening so it doesn’t take up valuable weekend time. Wash and hang out one day, then fold iron and put away the next. I tend to have 2 loads one dark one light.

But then again i only do my own washing as childfree and my partner does his own! When we were young my mum put one load on every evening before bed on a timer, so when she got up she could hang it on the maiden. The dry clothes from the day before were then folded and put in the airing cupboard or put on the ironing pile for dad to tackle at the weekend. Seemed like a good system! A little bit every day.

ForCosyLion · Today 12:59

MillicentFaucet · Today 12:41

Yes, I remember that old thread. Also your undies will fill up with insects if you leave them on the line overnight 😁

Well, they might do! And I can just imagine all the critters that come out at night having a high old time playing with the laundry!

Hallywally · Today 13:01

Me, adult DS and child DD who is with us 50% of the time. DS generates the most washing as he goes to the gym a lot/plays a lot of sports. Probably do around 3-4 loads a week, 1 light, 3 dark. Use a tumble dryer for most of it but DS has quite a few fancy non tumble dry tops which are annoying. Seem to wash a lot of towels. Wash my bedding once a week, DD’s every two weeks & DS whenever he can be bothered to change his bed.

CalliopeFosterBeauchamp · Today 13:03

I live alone and I do an average of 2.5 loads per week!!

One load of cottons and delicates at 30 degrees, and one load of towels, bath mats, flannels etc at 60. And every other week I wash bedding.

My washing machine doesn’t hold a huge amount, and I don’t have a dryer.

Maybe your friend doesn’t wash towels or bedding very often? Maybe they wear clothes several times before washing?

MillicentFaucet · Today 13:04

ForCosyLion · Today 12:59

Well, they might do! And I can just imagine all the critters that come out at night having a high old time playing with the laundry!

Night-time critters you say?
Any excuse to send out the bat signal

AIBU to be amazed my friend does all her laundry in one day?
Mapletree1985 · Today 13:14

I don't have a washing machine but my work does, so I do it there, once a week. It takes me like 2 minute to load and start the machine, then come back during break and take 2 minutes to transfer wet clothes to dryer, then come back during next break, take dry clothes out of dryer & put them in bag to take home. Every couple of weeks I do a linens and towel wash as well. I would be genuinely astonished to find it took me more than 15 minutes a week to do my laundry, maybe 20 in a linens and towels week.

ForCosyLion · Today 13:14

likeafishneedsabike · Today 10:29

Absolutely the same about jeans, but school trousers and skirts need a wash after a full day of school. Playing football at lunchtime in the mud, sitting on filthy canteen chairs - you get the picture.

Skirts absolutely don't need a wash because they've touched cafeteria chairs! Our immune systems are built to withstand everyday germs like that, and you're not letting their immune systems develop by washing everything!

Germs are GOOD for us!

ForCosyLion · Today 13:15

MillicentFaucet · Today 13:04

Night-time critters you say?
Any excuse to send out the bat signal

LOL!

ThatLemonBee · Today 13:15

We do once a day at least , more Fridays and Saturdays as I wash all bedding towels and throws

Sprinkleofspice · Today 13:16

MayDaySunshinePlease · Today 11:25

You don't use detergent to wash your pants?

It did sound like that from the post! I use unscented Ecover or Surcare on pants but nice smelling detergent and conditioner on clothes

ForCosyLion · Today 13:18

Lovingapeacefulgarden · Today 12:52

As a family of 5 I do easily 15 loads of washing a week between bedding, towels, swimming stuff and clothes. How people do so little amazes me.

FIFTEEN! I appreciate there are five of you, but that's an average of three loads per person per week. I am a single person and there's no way I do three loads per week.

ForCosyLion · Today 13:19

MillicentFaucet · Today 13:04

Night-time critters you say?
Any excuse to send out the bat signal

I think I saw one of those in the garden the other week.

ForCosyLion · Today 13:20

chocolateaddictions · Today 11:11

Me too. Towels and sheets alone is 3 loads. Throw in 2 sporty tall teens whose clothes are massive, uniforms and a DH who gyms every day - does your friend just not wash stuff very often OP? Ask hee how often she changes her sheets and towels.

We only change towels once a week and sheets once a fortnight but everyone has a king size bed so it’s all massive sheets etc.

Your teenagers each have a king-size bed? Blimey, talk about spoilt! They'll get a shock when they go to uni and have what most young unmarried people have - a single!

WonderfulSmith · Today 13:21

I’m the same, sort of.

I have to have a routine. Bed linen changed on Friday night and washed and dried. Then on Saturday morning load one, washed and into the dryer, load two is washed and hung up (this is none tumble dryer stuff), load three washed by which time the dryer has finished, load four (whites) on to wash and into the dryer with load three. Towels on after that and into the dryer the next day. Ironing done on a Sunday. Heat pump dryer which doesn’t cost nearly as much to run as people think. Only two people though.

Kitchen linen and sports clothes are done every other week at some point in the week.

Tableforjoan · Today 13:25

We must do at least 2 loads a day sometimes 3.

Takes four loads just to do the bedding for the whole house.

I only iron school and work clothes regularly though everything else is if required.

shuffleofftobuffalo · Today 13:27

Assuming she’s not sitting in front of the machine and watching it wash, that’s very achievable. I’ve just put on a massive load of bedding and towels, it will wash for about 3 hours, then I’ll hang it out. Total time about 20 mins max, including putting on another load to dry overnight. I between I will take DD to her friend’s, do the shopping and have a Sunday chillax.

my washing machine is so big I could rent it out as. Spare room - if I wasn’t fussy about how I treat different fabrics I reckon I could easily do 2.5 loads a week.

MayDaySunshinePlease · Today 13:29

Iwanttobeafraser · Today 11:51

I was using a certain amount of hyperbole! :)

Yes, I aim for weekly. Although what actually happens is the children leave the old towels still hanging up and bring up new ones and so we do it fortnightly, but it's about 8 towels by then! Grin

🤣🤣

ForCosyLion · Today 13:31

PrincessofWells · Today 11:43

Changing pyjamas every day ffs . . .

I know! Crazy.

Aliflowers · Today 13:35

MayDaySunshinePlease · Today 11:58

My towels get washed at least once a week
(they get done on a 'good drying day' not on set days)

bur WHY would towels ever be left 'festering' mine now go in the heated towel rail after a shower (which is cold in summer as it comes on with the heating) or sometimes I put them
in the line for a blow.

As a child they either went on hooks in the airing cupboard or over the bannister. (Different houses)

various other arrangement when there were too many of us for the heated towel rail, but always somewhere fir them to dry out properly.

Because with 5 people in the house all using bath sheets they can’t all hang on the towel rail. And I’m not having towels littered around the house drying so they’re not damp going into the laundry basket. We all use a towel twice then wash it. In between washes they go into a drying rail in the hot press but once deemed used they go into the laundry basket to get washed. And not up to me as chief washing machine operation to deem others towels as clean or dirty. So they’re used and into laundry basket damp where they’ll be out that day/next morning for a wash

if you can line up your washing day with your weekly towel use more power to you.

ForCosyLion · Today 13:38

NoMoreSocks · Today 12:46

I don’t know how people get laundry done in a day. It’s a never ending story here, I don’t think it’s ever really done except in a heat wave and then it ends up hanging round waiting to be ironed and put away for days.
We seem to have a lot of time sensitive sports kits that require immediate attention, DH for example has one pair of running shorts he prefers and likes to wear them three times a week, one teen has training kit that is required twice a week, one teen has swimming 6 times a week, I have two sets of gym kit but it’s needed 5-6 times a week.

But you don't need to launder swimsuits after one use! Just make the swimmer rinse their suits in cold water to get the chlorine out, since it eats fabric! Then put all the swimsuits in a wash with other things once a week.

MayDaySunshinePlease · Today 13:42

Kitchenbattle · Today 12:16

Mine are clean…I clean them on a Saturday…

A family of 4, washing clothes, bedding, towels etc frequently enough to be clean is more than 2 loads of washing a week, so not to my standard you're not. If you have lower standards, that's your choice, but don't pretend it's the same thing.

JehovasFitness · Today 13:43

2.5 loads sounds about right to me. Two adults and one baby and we do two full loads per week PLUS one load for bedding and towels monthly.

Heisrevising · Today 13:47

Mapletree1985 · Today 13:14

I don't have a washing machine but my work does, so I do it there, once a week. It takes me like 2 minute to load and start the machine, then come back during break and take 2 minutes to transfer wet clothes to dryer, then come back during next break, take dry clothes out of dryer & put them in bag to take home. Every couple of weeks I do a linens and towel wash as well. I would be genuinely astonished to find it took me more than 15 minutes a week to do my laundry, maybe 20 in a linens and towels week.

You take your dirty washing to work, wash and dry it there @Mapletree1985 ? Do your colleagues?

NoCommentingFromNowOn · Today 13:48

Standard sized UK machines are between 5ish and 13ish kg per load.

So ‘I do two loads per day’ etc is meaningless. A half filled 5kg machine, or a slightly overstuffed 13kg machine?