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AIBU to be amazed my friend does all her laundry in one day?

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Laundryqueen1 · Today 08:52

I called over to a friend yesterday evening with my dc. She was just coming down the stairs with an empty laundry basket when she answered the door.
she took a few minutes to answer the door so as she opened the door, she apologised and said she was putting away the laundry.
I jokingly said oh no bother I must put mine away, It’s been sitting there all week I need to clear the basket for the next lot.
she then proceeded to tell me she does ALL her laundry on a Saturday- washes, dries, irons and puts away! IN ONE DAY! I nearly fell to the floor. She said she had two and a half loads.
I was even more baffled because she couldn’t have us round until 7ish because she had a crazy busy day. Her dd had training, her ds had a friend over for a playdate, her dd then had an appointment in the afternoon. Then she had to collect her dh from the train station. My mind is blown! She fits her laundry in between doing all of this…and she irons! 😅 where am I going wrong?

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PepsiBook · Today 11:11

If she only has such a small washing load, yes do it on one day. But she must rarely wash her stuff, we have 2 full loads most days.

chocolateaddictions · Today 11:11

TheCurious0range · Today 09:00

I do 7-10 loads a week, if I only had 2.5 I could do it in a day!

Me too. Towels and sheets alone is 3 loads. Throw in 2 sporty tall teens whose clothes are massive, uniforms and a DH who gyms every day - does your friend just not wash stuff very often OP? Ask hee how often she changes her sheets and towels.

We only change towels once a week and sheets once a fortnight but everyone has a king size bed so it’s all massive sheets etc.

Gwenhwyfar · Today 11:11

theresbeautyinwindysun · Today 09:03

I have no understanding why people spend valuable time ironing. I just don’t understand it.

I do it in front of the TV and I'd be watching TV anyway so no time lost.

PurplishGemstones · Today 11:12

My mum’s old twin tub used to dance round the kitchen with me hanging on to it for grim death

I'd forgotten about that! Yes, you had to get the clothes distributed evenly round the spinner or the machine would be out the back door in a trice.

Northermcharn · Today 11:13

😂There's no way 4 people can only have 2 loads of washing a week. Unless they wear the same clothes all week. Maybe that's her secret.

ERthree · Today 11:14

So there are 3 beds in that house yet she only does 2 loads of washing ? I had 3 children so 4 beds in our house, each bed changed weekly and at the very least 2 loads of towels washed every week so 6 loads before i washed clothes. One load of whites, 1 load of school uniform, 2 load of lights and at least 2 loads of darks, a grand total of 12, then every fortnight t towels and cloths. How on earth can she only do 2 loads for 3 possibly 4 people?

Northermcharn · Today 11:14

Agree with PP about ironing. Only done here when really necessary.. which isn't often..

Kitchenbattle · Today 11:19

Northermcharn · Today 11:13

😂There's no way 4 people can only have 2 loads of washing a week. Unless they wear the same clothes all week. Maybe that's her secret.

My household is the same 2 loads and 4 people. 10kg washing machine.

MayDaySunshinePlease · Today 11:25

Sprinkleofspice · Today 10:03

I live on my own and I have more than 2.5 loads a week and can’t do it all in one day! I don’t even iron anything.

But I have a washer dryer (the drying takes bloody hours) and I do towels and bedding every week, plus I do a separate small load for pants and pillowcases because I don’t want detergent on them.
So perhaps friend has two big machines and doesn’t do all towels or bedding every week. I would’ve thought two or three beds’ worth wouldn’t even fit in one wash?

You don't use detergent to wash your pants?

Miraclemuma03 · Today 11:26

2.5 loads a week is super easy to keep up with in one week. Try getting through that ever single day if not more. I have a 14kg washing machine and can do 2 loads of that a day if not more if its bedding on top.

Nogimachi · Today 11:27

That doesn’t sound unreasonable in one day if you put your mind to it, although we only iron shirts in our house. It sounds as if she treats it like a job.
I’m more interested to know if she works full time and that’s why she does it on a Saturday, then whether her husband contributes anything in terms of laundry?

ShockingBritain · Today 11:28

ItaGonnaBeMay · Today 11:09

Nah this must be fake. It isn’t possible to put washing away on the same day it’s dried, I actually think it’s illegal to wait any fewer than 5 days.

😂

Remember the threads about people that leave washing out overnight. It will get 'darked' on....

Movingstressangst · Today 11:31

My newborn has created more than one load of washing this morning alone 😂.

ChangePrivacyQuestion · Today 11:32

TittyGajillions · Today 09:05

Laundry is literally the easiest domestic task there is, it takes minutes to sort and put the machine on. It's not rocket surgery.

That made me laugh, didn't realise rockets got operated on!

But for the 3 of us, it’s 4 loads, done on my WFH day. Dryer in full force and unapologetically so - yes, it costs, but is a lot less than I'm paid per hour. I don't iron, though.

honeylulu · Today 11:33

My husband does the laundry. I just asked him how many loads per week. He said between 3 and 4 (family of 4 though eldest away at uni some of the time).

He is astounded to hear about those who do 2 loads a day. Are those families who soil themselves daily and piss the bed every night?

suki1964 · Today 11:35

PurplishGemstones · Today 11:04

In the olden days, when it were all fields around here, everybody did all their washing on a Saturday. Pull the twin tub out, get the hose fixed and fill the washer with hot water. Put your first load in and get the agitator going. Wind the little timer at the top round to 10/15/20 minute wash. Then when it's finished get your laundry tongs and heave it all into the spinner. Put your next load in whilst spinning the first lot. Then get the cold hose running into the spinner to rinse out the soap. Spin again. Then more cold water into it. Spin again. Depending how soapy it all still looks, more water and more spins.

Then get your tongs out and haul the next load out of the washer into the spinner. Repeat all steps until washing has gone, occasionally topping up the washer with more powder and hot water because you lose a fair bit on every load. When all is done, get the water pumped out through the hose into the sink and dry the inside of both tubs very very well or it will stink by next week.
Push the twin tub back into place. You can hang it out whilst the washer is going or all at the end, whichever you find easiest for you. Tumble dryers were an unheard of luxury so if it was raining you hung it wherever you could.

So basically it was all done in one day because going through that palaver every bloody day just for a couple of light loads would have been ludicrous. No. That had to be done in the sink with a washing board. . . . . . .

Please take my comments lightheartedly - and if somebody could pass me a mug of Sanatogen I'd be much obliged.

You forgot to mention that whatever water was left in the machine was drained into a mop bucket and the front and back doorsteps were scrubbed with a yard brush :)

And there was enough soapy water being sloshed onto the kitchen floor - that got a good clean as well

Isanyonereallyanonymous · Today 11:35

I do roughly 4 loads a week as a single person, how is someone with kids managing 2?!
I don't have a dryer so although at this time of year I can get a wash dried in a day out on a line, I can't generally get more done as I just can't get it dried to make space for the next lot.

watchingthishtread · Today 11:37

2.5 loads a week is just sheets and towels. What about everything else?

ForCosyLion · Today 11:37

Tshirtking · Today 09:04

This is the age of the automatic washing machine. It's not the 70s when we had twin tubs that needed to be monitored and had several loads. That really was a half day event. Now you just need to put it in, turn it on and leave it so you can get on with the rest of your day.

Why did twin tubs need to be monitored?

Thechaseison71 · Today 11:39

Laundryqueen1 · Today 08:52

I called over to a friend yesterday evening with my dc. She was just coming down the stairs with an empty laundry basket when she answered the door.
she took a few minutes to answer the door so as she opened the door, she apologised and said she was putting away the laundry.
I jokingly said oh no bother I must put mine away, It’s been sitting there all week I need to clear the basket for the next lot.
she then proceeded to tell me she does ALL her laundry on a Saturday- washes, dries, irons and puts away! IN ONE DAY! I nearly fell to the floor. She said she had two and a half loads.
I was even more baffled because she couldn’t have us round until 7ish because she had a crazy busy day. Her dd had training, her ds had a friend over for a playdate, her dd then had an appointment in the afternoon. Then she had to collect her dh from the train station. My mind is blown! She fits her laundry in between doing all of this…and she irons! 😅 where am I going wrong?

Was par for the course when I was younger What do you suppose people did with twin tubs or even a wash boiler?i

Thechaseison71 · Today 11:40

ForCosyLion · Today 11:37

Why did twin tubs need to be monitored?

Because you had to get washing out of the wash area and put in spin area. Loved them Would have one now if I could

MayDaySunshinePlease · Today 11:41

DoAWheelie · Today 10:16

It depends on the size of your bedding and towels, and also your machine I guess.

I'm disabled so I shower every 2-3 days as I don't have the energy to shower every day and I don't leave the house most days. I'll re-use towels a bit since they are not really dirty after one use. I have 8 bath sheets and two hair towels which is roughly what my machine fits and they last me a month.

I overheat easily so have a single duvet on my bed despite it being a super king bed. I change it every 10 days so it's 3 sheets, 3 single covers, and 6 pillow covers to wash which again fits in one load.

Clothes - I have outdoor clothes (jeans / nice shirts) and indoor clothes (shorts and older shirts) and I'll wear the indoor stuff for a couple of days each - I swap every time I shower. The shorts barely take up space and the shirts are very thin/light materials as it's what I prefer.

It was closer to 9 loads a month when my OH was still alive as he preferred to layer up and wear heavy materials and slept under a standard double blanket alongside my single.

I'm sorry to hear about your DH 😢. How are you (physically) coping without him?

what size machine do you have?

mine wouldn't fit all that bedding in one load. I love my machine (LG Direct Drive 7kg, it's old now (14)) & I dread the day it does its last wash 😢)

the 7kg suits me (I'm disabled too) & it's more than enough to peg on the line at once🤣

cantthinkofagoodusername1 · Today 11:41

I don’t iron. But the washing and drying part isn’t very labour intensive. Putting items in the machine and taking them out is easy. The trick is to time it right - put the first load on first thing, then you have pretty much all day for it to dry. Then it’s only a few minutes to fold it and put it away. IMO this is easy to fit around everything else.

PrincessofWells · Today 11:43

hopspot · Today 09:36

We are a family of 4 and I do two loads a day at least. Sometimes one member of the family wears per day: pyjamas, school uniform, swimming kit, football kit and Beavers uniform.

I bet they don’t do grassroots sports as players or coaches. In the winter my dc can wear 20 items of clothing for one training session.

Changing pyjamas every day ffs . . .

ForCosyLion · Today 11:44

TittyGajillions · Today 09:05

Laundry is literally the easiest domestic task there is, it takes minutes to sort and put the machine on. It's not rocket surgery.

Rocket surgery 🤣 Do you mean rocket science?