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What do you find yourself avoiding more as you get older?

169 replies

PunnyBeaker · Today 19:00

People

OP posts:
Whosthetabbynow · Today 19:08

Hatty65 · Today 19:04

People, crowds, drama. Going out. Staying in anyone else's home. Saying yes to shit I don't want to do.

I'm perfectly happy pottering about on my own.

Amen to this x

CheddarCheeseAndCrispSandwich · Today 19:08

samlovesdilys · Today 19:03

Driving at night
crowds
places I need to wear make-up/a bra!!

All of these ⬆️😂

OriginalUsername2 · Today 19:08

People pleasing
Spicy food

TerryCallierLookAtMeNowNsoul · Today 19:11

Going out at night (our city centre is akin to the wild west at night)
Prefer daytime coffee,tea cakes etc

SummerBoatingHouse · Today 19:12

Given a chance, I wouldn’t ski again.
Too dangerous.
And I’m not a scaredy-cat!

Gotback · Today 19:13

People not just in crowds.
Going out in the evening.
The news, politics etc. Used to be such an activist, just don't care any more.
Pubs
Live music, used to love live bands but it's all way too loud for me now.
Going on holiday, cannot be arsed!
Volunteering. I've done my share.

Goblinkingsqueen · Today 19:13

People. Neighbours, work colleagues and relations especially.

whiteroseredrose · Today 19:13

Driving at night. I find new car headlights dazzling.

Itiswhysofew · Today 19:14

Gatherings and people. I've been like that my whole life really, but now I won't let anyone pressure me into mixing. I just cannot be bothered. I am not interested in having dreary conversations.

Hardgarden · Today 19:14

Late nights

Ilikewinter · Today 19:15

Yep, another vote for 'people' , any drama to do with work, any where busy or enclosed, like big shopping centres.

CraftandGlamour · Today 19:15

People
The news
Most children
Driving at night
Cheap wine

Spaghettea · Today 19:15

Going out after dark. Thanks for turning the streetlights down / off council. No more walking to evening gym classes for me.

Driving at night. I can't bear the stupid bright LEDs on the huge cars trying to burn my retinas out. I lose my car space if I go out after about 8pm too. So I don't go out.

looselegs · Today 19:16

Crowds....coming from someone who spent their life at concerts and raves when they were younger...
Shops.....hate shopping...much prefer online!

Davros · Today 19:16

I love people but like some downtime.
I haven’t travelled abroad since 2019, not bothered. I’m not avoiding it as such.
Spicy food or eating with sticks 🥢

Miranda65 · Today 19:17

Also people. Obviously.
TV news.
In-person clothes shopping (only online these days).

CeciliaMars · Today 19:18

Going out in the evening.

Besidemyselfwithworry · Today 19:20

Going on nights out
I went thru a phase of saying I’d go but then it now an email comes out at work I just either don’t respond or say no from the get go
it just doesn’t interest me anymore x

Anjo2011 · Today 19:20

Another vote for people!

DuskOPorter · Today 19:20

I absolutely love people but I avoid draining people like the absolute plague these days. Interesting, funny, uplifting people, people who have lived, people with enough bad stuff to know that life is full of need to make lemonade and the willingness to make some are life blood.

Alittlefrustrated · Today 19:20

Men - though I have been with current one for 36 years. I won't be replacing him.
I agree re loud pubs - I have great friends and want to hear them.
Dressing glamorously - can't be arsed.
Work - I've took early retirement. Won't be working again unless I find myself single and have to. . If I do it won't be a bloody "worthy" type job.
I do volunteer though 2 days a week.
Complicated/expensive skin care - my skins never been better with Simple wash and Baby Aveeno.
Mascara and lipstick - less is definitely more re makeup, and I've ditched these.

AltitudeCheck · Today 19:20

Mirrors
People
Sex
Films longer than 90 minutes

feckingcat · Today 19:21

Alcohol, crowds, risky situations, saying yes to things I don’t want to do (even in work), people pleasing, travelling from anywhere other than my very local airport, giving fucks

Yellowpapersun · Today 19:21

People I have to make an effort with.
Noise.
Helping people when I don't really want to. (Luckily, I have no trouble saying no these days.)

Whoowhoopitstbesoundofthedapolice · Today 19:22

People
Alcohol
Spicy food

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