AIBU to rethink things over DH's stag weekend Reform shirt?

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DH is on his stag weekend and I’ve just been sent a photo of his night one outfit for their city centre bar crawl.

He’s in a full football kit with a blue Reform shirt complete with ‘Farage 10’ on the back.

AIBU to consider LTB?!

I couldn’t live with a Reform voter.

So what’s the issue with the T-shirt?

You already knew that he was a massive twat because this.

I don't get your sudden issue...you know he wants to vote reform. Thats his choice.

Even if you don't like reform and would never vote for them, you obviously haven't felt that much of an issue with your fiancés political choice until now, since you are at stag do stage of your relationship and wedding planning?

Why is this outfit the deal-breaker?

Men are weird. They think it’s funny to dress up as the likes of Jimmy Saville on nights out and stags. If he’s taking the piss it’s kind of a good thing as it shows he thinks Farage is something to be mocked. If he’s actually supports him and votes reform then that would give me the ick.

I suspect because he’s a walking advertisement for reform. People often keep their political beliefs to themselves but this is a very clear and public display of his values and op is (rightly) embarrassed.

yuck I wouldn’t marry him, being out in a personalised football top over the age of 18 is bad but a reform one is grim.

I don’t understand why you have an issue with the football shirt
you already know he supports reform this isn’t a surprise

He is supporting the disgraceful stunt that Mr Farage played on Ipswich Town FC a few weeks ago. A club with several overseas players some of whom would be deported under the policies Reform advocate.

Don't marry him.amd don't procreate with him. Arseholes aren't going to die out if women keep shagging them.

This 😅

Are you bothered by him voting reform OP? If not, then why does the t-shirt bother you?

Or is your issue with the t-shirt that it amplifies your discomfort about his politics? In which case you need to think if you can be married to someone you disagree with politically.

I think a lot of people would struggle to be married to someone with different values to them, but not always. Sometimes it can work…though I think the fact this t-shirt bothers you so much could be a bit of a warning sign.

I absolutely would not marry anyone that was vocal about voting reform

or that voted reform at all tbh

Because she’s happy marrying a Farage supporter but doesn’t want her friends and colleagues to know he supports Farage so she can pretend they are a normal couple.

No, some of them are just stupid and easily manipulated.

Ffs really? I’m not a reform voter but Labour voters are truly something else. My way or the highway…

LTB. He’s a prick.

Exactly. I would never marry a Reform supporter in the first place. It's a complete red flag that shows he's racist or not very bright, or both.

Don’t marry a reform supporter

You’re shagging a facist, but you already know this. Why has the shirt made you recoil?! I think you have bigger fish to fry

To be fair I would never marry a Socialist. Luckily I’ve never met an attractive, masculine one so I’m happy with my lot.

Why is it only bothering you now then? You must’ve known that before the stag do.

So you already knew he was a reform supporter, and you were quite happy to marry him but the shirt makes you want to post on MN and there are local elections coming up.... Maybe I'm just paranoid but this sounds like an reform party political broadcast

Yes I would break up with anyone who voted reform as our values don't align.

Well then why are you surprised about the Reform, football hooligan outfit? Is it because he has only mentioned he'd vote Reform but never actually come out as a proper Reform hardliner type and that's made you re-consider who this person is?
I would not be with someone who has different politics than me but also I would worry that this is the middle of a long slide down into much darker stuff.
You will need to have a talk when he gets back.

Is he wearing lederhosen too 😉😀