AIBU to rethink things over DH's stag weekend Reform shirt?

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DH is on his stag weekend and I’ve just been sent a photo of his night one outfit for their city centre bar crawl.

He’s in a full football kit with a blue Reform shirt complete with ‘Farage 10’ on the back.

AIBU to consider LTB?!

So much Reform shite on MN today.

I get the image of a man who goes to ally pally for beer and snooker, and cant even attempt a conversation with an ethnic minority without shouting

Ltb x

I'd reconsider a friendship let alone a partner.

Oh dear 🤦‍♀️

Lock the door. Tell him to F off. Sorted

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If you care how he votes and are not politically compatible, you've left it a bit late to decide it's a big enough problem to call the whole thing off, but it's your life! 💁‍♀️

You think a quarter of the UK is fascist?

Made to wear it? Oh come on.

And you want to marry that...

Your funeral i guess

Jesus, calm down.

Even if he was doing it to be funny, that shirt will intimidate a lot of people.

I think shite is the word for it!!!

Diddums

Then what are you complaining for if you already know that he is voting for reform but him wearing a stupid football shirt on his stag is the line in the sand for you??

If he’s on his stag weekend then he isn’t yet your DH, so up to you to decide if he becomes it or not. If your political views are so far apart it’s strange that you’ve gotten this far.

Youd really consider marrying a reform voter??

Well that depends on whether you can stomach getting married to someone who thinks voting reform and idolising NF is a good idea. Personally I couldn’t, but each to their own.

Wein, Weib und Gesang.
Local shirts for local people.

Intimidate people?

Where I live it’s likely he would get his face rearranged if he went to the pub in that, not a chance others would find it intimidating.

Maybe you have not seen the recent news about the Sikh woman raped and verbally abused by an Islamophobic white British man who thought she was a Muslim. Or any of the other poor treatment of people who don't 'look British'.

Not everyone is in a position of power to bully the bullies. The fear is real.

I don’t understand why you are shocked
He hasn’t hidden his views, so why the pearl clutching ?
You made your bed Op now go and lie in it

He sounds dreamy …good luck!

And you didn’t call the wedding off then? This one’s on you.

Yes cancel especially if he's cute 😍

There’s your reason not to marry him.

My husband was dressed up in a Swedish football uniform with long blonde plaits on his stag as it was the night England played Sweden in the World Cup . I thought it was funny.