Which of the thousands of sets of data and pieces of research are you interested in? I’m summarising outputs from decades of pieces.
However don’t take my word for it - have look at places like the ONS, DFE for historic data disaggregated, plus of course cohort studies used as additional source data for influences on outcomes in education, health, social progress, earnings across lifetimes. Look for papers on the influences on success in education - over and over its parental engagement and poverty as a combination accounting for the worst underachievement.
There is no shortage of work on the differences in treatment and expectations of boys vs girls behaviour either, some dating back 60+ years with more recent observational studies showing the same effects.
As for why is there no white history month - there are 11 white history months, the bulk of the curriculum remains focused on white history, scientists, writers etc. That is why there are specific initiatives to highlight the actual existence of creatives, scientists etc who were not white men (and overwhelmingly white affluent men). Much as international women’s day was set up to recognise female success and systemic disadvantages (although there was so much whinging about have a whole day labelled for women, we now have an IMD as well)
The reluctance to have men in certain roles and situations comes from the reality that certain types of crime are overwhelmingly male committed - men need to address this. Men are certainly not “getting the shit kicked out of them” but men are doing the literal kicking the shit when it happens. If men do not want to be excluded from certain roles or spaces - its in their gift to promote better behaviours amongst men instead of excusing and minimising it as “just bantz” or “just locker room”.