AIBU to think most women wouldn't recognise a decent man?

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I've a few male friends (single) who are indifferent to women because they are decent blokes but most women are to sceptical. So much so it deters them from dating or getting serious.

My son isa lovely guy ( 28 today) he’s hard working, fun, clean, likes nice food, intelligent, loves his mum !! still didn’t stop him dumping his very lovely girlfriend after 2 years recently because he was having a funny 5 minutes of feeling somewhat constrained - changed his mind after 4 months and yep she is with someone else. So I don’t think it’s always as simple wouldn’t recognise a good bloke - many have had seemingly good blokes go flakey on them -same is of course true in reverse

He only cares because it provides an excuse for lashing out at us because he can’t get a proper girlfriend.

Kind, funny, interesting. All important. These three decent blokes you speak of, OP, probably think they have some sort of charisma. The likelihood is they'll dull and are lacking in character in some way.

I’m not sure masturbation counts as being sexually active, but you do you Boo.

Oh, have now read back on the thread. The poster is an incel! Figures!

Maybe you're one of those pin regulars who gets women drunk, gets into their knickers, calls her a slag and then bad mouthes her to everyone you can. Been there done that, and none of them can shag for England! 🤭😂

What does being from a “decent family” mean or have anything to do with it???

Are you meeting people and they’re saying “Oh actually, you’re not the eighth Earl of Penwood so I think I’ll pass”

So many of the women I know are with decent men, they’re in nice family units, and we spent our teens and twenties happily dreaming of meeting the one and getting married and starting families (along with all our other dreams). Not everyone is miserable or alone and if you tend to attract or hang around with people or are looking for partners in places where all the women are skeptical about you, maybe you should change your behaviour, outlook or where you’re looking.