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Having ‘a cuppa’

524 replies

ConstantlyFuriosa · 19/04/2026 10:49

Why does this sentence infuriate me so? I already know I’m probably being unreasonable but it’s so grating. I can’t be the only one?

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ForCosyLion · 19/04/2026 13:03

"Mic drop" has become overdone, as has "hill to die on."

I think the reason most of these words and phrases are annoying is because people have heard them about 100 million times.

BunnyLake · 19/04/2026 13:04

FrankSinatraonToast · 19/04/2026 13:02

Nothing is as bad as panties 😂

Worst word in the world. 🤢

Gowlett · 19/04/2026 13:04

My mum says panties. We say knicks.
Or knicky-boo boos. I’ll see myself out…

BunnyLake · 19/04/2026 13:04

Gowlett · 19/04/2026 13:04

My mum says panties. We say knicks.
Or knicky-boo boos. I’ll see myself out…

Ew I’d have to have words with your mum 😱

ForCosyLion · 19/04/2026 13:05

BunnyLake · 19/04/2026 13:04

Worst word in the world. 🤢

It really is! It's just SO creepy! Has real old-perv vibes.

ConstantlyFuriosa · 19/04/2026 13:05

FrankSinatraonToast · 19/04/2026 12:45

I also hate 'meds'. Especially when the 'meds' in question are a couple of paracetamol.
I admit to using 'sarnie' and 'Sainsbo'. Maybe I'm inadvertently giving my nearest and dearest the rage in doing so!

Oh god, I hate ‘meds’. Why? Is it because it diminishes the seriousness of having to take them?!

I don’t know why. But I hate it!

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ainsleysanob · 19/04/2026 13:05

BunnyLake · 19/04/2026 13:04

Worst word in the world. 🤢

It is a bad one, I’ll give you that. But nothing is worse than ‘succulent’!

PhaedraTwo · 19/04/2026 13:05

isthismylifenow · 19/04/2026 12:56

What is wrong with lunch?

We have breakfast, lunch and supper/dinner.

But then again, I do think that tea used as a term for your evening meal (dinner or supper) falls into the twee category.

Tea for evening meal is a regional thing. It's a working class term used in Scotland, possibly less so now.

Hating its use in that sense makes the person complaining look less well informed or capable of appreciating not everyone is like them than they probably think they are.

SapphireSeptember · 19/04/2026 13:06

ConstantlyFuriosa · 19/04/2026 11:37

They’re not, though. Isn’t tea a diuretic?

It is, but it doesn't really do anything. The diuretic effect is vastly outweighed by the amount of fluid you're drinking.

Dappy777 · 19/04/2026 13:06

Carl Jung said that having tea was a British ritual. His point was that modern Europeans, who think they’re above primitive, ‘ritualised behaviours’, perform them without realising it. Whether you are taking high tea in an expensive hotel, or “having a cuppa” with a friend, you are performing our national ritual.

BunnyLake · 19/04/2026 13:06

ForCosyLion · 19/04/2026 13:05

It really is! It's just SO creepy! Has real old-perv vibes.

It does. It’s probably the only word in the context of this thread that does genuinely make me feel actually sick.

Additup · 19/04/2026 13:06

FrankSinatraonToast · 19/04/2026 13:02

Nothing is as bad as panties 😂

Panties is definitely the worst. It sounds both weirdly old fashioned and really, really elderly man sex-pest-esque. Also, the only people I've heard use this word are trans women.

Noshadelamp · 19/04/2026 13:06

BunnyLake · 19/04/2026 12:50

Now veggies does make my skin crawl. 🤢

I hate the word veggies when used for vegetables but even more when it's used instead of vegetarian "I'm veggie, I have a veggie coming for dinner, any veggie recipes" 😡😡😡

topcat2014 · 19/04/2026 13:06

I hate any kind of abbreviated language at all - especially when it is forced to try and fit in.

ConstantlyFuriosa · 19/04/2026 13:07

Hotafternoon · 19/04/2026 12:52

Hot choccy, bar of choccy.

Picky tea, bits, lunch

😡

What’s the problem with ‘lunch’? I love lunch!

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SapphireSeptember · 19/04/2026 13:07

HelenaWaiting · 19/04/2026 11:38

My cousin refers to a well-known supermarket as "Sainsbo's". Makes me want to tear my skin off.

I do that too! Less typing. 😁

TheDogsMother · 19/04/2026 13:07

I can’t stand cuppa, hubby and holibobs. But picky tea (lunch or whatever) is just horrible. Makes me think of scabs 🤢

Monkeytennis97 · 19/04/2026 13:08

I prefer cuppa to brew too @WildFlowerBees

Brew is urgh!!

Hotafternoon · 19/04/2026 13:08

ConstantlyFuriosa · 19/04/2026 13:07

What’s the problem with ‘lunch’? I love lunch!

I've already pointed out it's not lunch, it's using the word "picky" in front of it.

ConstantlyFuriosa · 19/04/2026 13:09

BunnyLake · 19/04/2026 12:57

Panties 😂

I’ll see your panties and raise you a ‘gusset’

edited to say I’m so sorry!

Filth.

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BunnyLake · 19/04/2026 13:09

ConstantlyFuriosa · 19/04/2026 13:07

What’s the problem with ‘lunch’? I love lunch!

Lunch is a proper word so don’t know why people have an issue with it. I know it’s luncheon but no one is saying they’re having luncheon unless it’s at Buckingham Palace. 😂

AmIReallyTheGrownup · 19/04/2026 13:09

I think you need a cuppa, a choccy biccy and a lie down to get over it all.

SapphireSeptember · 19/04/2026 13:11

honeylulu · 19/04/2026 11:51

God yes, I can't stand baby talk.

Cuppa
Biccies
Veggies
Roasties
Yorkies
Hubby
Drinkies
Kiddies

FFS just talk properly!

You'd hate me. I say sheepy/sheepies instead of sheep. 😅

BunnyLake · 19/04/2026 13:11

ConstantlyFuriosa · 19/04/2026 13:09

I’ll see your panties and raise you a ‘gusset’

edited to say I’m so sorry!

Filth.

Edited

Oh no! I think you may have won 😂

You won’t want to see mine they’re more biggus knickus than pantie 🫣

CrispySquid · 19/04/2026 13:12

All the ones here that people have said - Cuppa, Sarnie, Picky Bits, Nibbles, Smellies, Chippy Tea, PJ’s, Hubby, Wine O’Clock all do my head in too! Picky Bits by far the worst though!

Holibobs is annoying too but at least it’s an amusing sounding word.

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