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Benefits v Defence Lord Robertson

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Wednesdayschild87 · 14/04/2026 23:46

Lord Robertson’s Speech… seriously does anyone care?? He’s laid out the fact that as a nation we can’t carry on like this… he said we can’t afford to keep throwing money at benefits whilst leaving our country defences I’m actually shocked no one has come out and spoken on this matter before. I’m incredulous.

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MyLuckyHelper · 16/04/2026 06:40

OlympicProcrastinator · 16/04/2026 06:33

i agree but unfortunately the system is way too easy to be abused. The amount of people in the criminal justice system, particularly in prisons who are living off PIP in the community, have not worked in years due to anxiety, depression, ADHD and autism claiming the conditions prevents them from working is a scandal nobody is talking about. How many of those do you think refuse a full days work in prison when it gets them out of their cells and they make a bit of money? Close to zero. Suddenly they can work in the kitchens, gardens, workshops etc just fine. Then straight back onto PIP with a sidehussle of crime on release.

Unless there is a diagnosed mental health or serious personality disorders with a far greater threshold of evidence required, people should be on jobseekers and supported back into work not signed off for years as they are currently.

A scandal no one is talking about?!!

It’s literally all that’s ever talked about. And it’s rarely true in practice.

Seymour5 · 16/04/2026 07:05

XenoBitch · 16/04/2026 00:14

I am not repeating stats for anything to do with me whatsoever.

Fruit picking needs people to live on site, and if you are in social housing, you are not allowed to live elsewhere. Also, fruit picking is infamously low paid... under NMW because they take the accommodation into account. How will anyone work there and also maintain a dwelling somewhere else?
Yes, fruit picking might be good if you are unemployed and also homeless.

When I was young, I went fruit picking in the summer holidays. Lots of young people, and many families (often without dad, he had a regular job) would pick fruit in the summer. I lived in a large town in Scotland, and caught a special bus, laid on by the farmers, every day to the fruit fields. There were no in work benefits to my knowledge, so the money was a bit extra, to add to the pot. That was in the 60s/70s/80s. Seasonal work.

Twenty plus years ago, DN worked in the same area for a large veg growing and packing company, They had to recruit from Eastern Europe.

Kirbert2 · 16/04/2026 07:06

ToffeeCrabApple · 16/04/2026 06:20

Employers already hire many people with disabilities. I have an autistic guy in my team who is allowed to be almost fully remote as an adjustment, and in my last job we had a colleague with a guide dog. My friend has struggled with depression & anxiety but has always worked, but it meant she left a stressful high paid job for something she could manage doing 30 hours a week, and she is sensible about how she plans her weekends and holidays to maximise giving herself a break. I also know lots of people who work in various roles despite having children with disabilities - my friend is head of marketing in major corporate despite having a DD with cerebral palsy who's at special school, another friend works in finance but has a DC with down syndrome & a lot of health issues who will never live independently.

Employers already offer huge adjustments & flexibility but people also need to be realistic that if they've got disabilities they might have fewer options and can't work in their dream profession, or might need to accept lower pay.

and there will be just as many people on here with their own personal anecdotes in the opposite direction.

I have a disabled child and my workplace couldn't get rid of me quick enough and weren't interested in any kind of flexibility when they could simply hire someone else who wouldn't need as much flexibility. I'm far from alone.

Needspaceforlego · 16/04/2026 07:19

Alexandra2001 · 16/04/2026 06:40

Generally speaking, women didn't, they raised families (just 30% worked in 1950, its now 78%)
Also much more manual repetitive employment available, which suit some people with MH issues.

Employment rate in the adult population is 75.1% it highest ever point was in 2018 @ 76%

Male employment rate is also at near record highs.

This idea we are all on PIP and claiming is for the birds.

Low wages is much of the reason we, as a society are struggling to afford what we want, together with the demand the state step in whenever times get tough but of course the biggie is we are all living loinger... take a walk around your local hospital, it isn't full of the under 50s...

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The 1950s is a weird blip in history.

A whole generation of young men had just returned from the war. The government recognised they needed to get them into work.
But there just wasn't enough jobs for everyone so Women were encouraged / forced to stop work. Nurseries which had been set up in the war years were closed. And of course there was a massive boom in babies.
It wasn't unusual right up until the 1975 equal rights act for women to be forced out of jobs when they married.

LakieLady · 16/04/2026 07:25

PoppinjayPolly · 15/04/2026 23:30

What’s the worst that can happen to you with anxiety re working?

In the case of a former client of mine, it led to a total breakdown, a suicide attempt and a long stay in an acute psych unit.

I guess the worst would be a "successful" suicide.

Anxiety isn't just feeling a bit anxious. When it becomes severe, it can be absolutely debilitating.

Alexandra2001 · 16/04/2026 07:39

Women, generally speaking didn't work pre 1939 either, esp once married.

As real wages fell, being able to stay at home, become something only the M/C's could do as we hit the 1970s and 80s, now, only the very wealthiest can or want too.

Lots bang on about all these "so called" economically inactive people not working but it was ever thus.

We need to stop demanding the state step in all the time...

Chocaholick · 16/04/2026 07:47

LakieLady · 16/04/2026 07:25

In the case of a former client of mine, it led to a total breakdown, a suicide attempt and a long stay in an acute psych unit.

I guess the worst would be a "successful" suicide.

Anxiety isn't just feeling a bit anxious. When it becomes severe, it can be absolutely debilitating.

All of this is irrelevant. We can’t ruin the country and slide into 2nd world status because people are anxious. The more people that drop out of the workplace, the fewer people paying taxes to fund those benefits anyway, so the problem will sort itself out.

LakieLady · 16/04/2026 07:47

OlympicProcrastinator · 15/04/2026 11:52

Absolutely nobody should be getting benefits for ADHD or anxiety. Autism is massively over diagnosed and depression should be treated and time off work granted for a specific amount of time paid, but no benefits paid for it.

You clearly don't work in mental health or a related field.

All the conditions you have mentioned are on a spectrum, and at the more severe end of the scale are absolutely disabling.

Depression and anxiety can be very resistant to medication and therapy is often ineffective. ADHD can make it near impossible for someone to sustain employment, because their inability to focus causes them to make frequent errors and it is very difficult for them to learn new processes and procedures. Autistic burnout can lead to sickness absence at a level that few employers will tolerate.

Maybe go and volunteer with a charity that runs projects that support one or other of these groups of people and educate yourself a bit.

Chocaholick · 16/04/2026 07:52

OlympicProcrastinator · 16/04/2026 06:33

i agree but unfortunately the system is way too easy to be abused. The amount of people in the criminal justice system, particularly in prisons who are living off PIP in the community, have not worked in years due to anxiety, depression, ADHD and autism claiming the conditions prevents them from working is a scandal nobody is talking about. How many of those do you think refuse a full days work in prison when it gets them out of their cells and they make a bit of money? Close to zero. Suddenly they can work in the kitchens, gardens, workshops etc just fine. Then straight back onto PIP with a sidehussle of crime on release.

Unless there is a diagnosed mental health or serious personality disorders with a far greater threshold of evidence required, people should be on jobseekers and supported back into work not signed off for years as they are currently.

I can vouch for this one hundred per cent.

The number of able bodied criminals with enough mental capacity to commit sometimes fairly sophisticated crimes but ‘not enough to work due to my autism and ADHD’ would actually horrify anybody who is currently unaware of it.

Amazing how they manage prison work without issue but hop straight back onto benefits the moment they get released.

We need a total ban on benefits unless for the most extreme circumstances (eg very disabled not just ‘anxiety’) for under 25s, and thereafter a tapered system where you’re supported to look for work for 6 months and then that’s it, no more handouts.

I don’t believe jobs are as difficult to come by as the benefits lot make out they are, I think people simply won’t work where they can claim benefits unless that job is exactly what they want.

Chocaholick · 16/04/2026 07:54

LakieLady · 16/04/2026 07:47

You clearly don't work in mental health or a related field.

All the conditions you have mentioned are on a spectrum, and at the more severe end of the scale are absolutely disabling.

Depression and anxiety can be very resistant to medication and therapy is often ineffective. ADHD can make it near impossible for someone to sustain employment, because their inability to focus causes them to make frequent errors and it is very difficult for them to learn new processes and procedures. Autistic burnout can lead to sickness absence at a level that few employers will tolerate.

Maybe go and volunteer with a charity that runs projects that support one or other of these groups of people and educate yourself a bit.

It doesn’t matter if that poster is right or wrong, we can’t afford it. It’s a financial question, not a moral one. These people are going to have to go back to work and fight for their own existence a bit. That’s life.

SomedayIllBeSaturdayNight · 16/04/2026 08:08

Chocaholick · 16/04/2026 07:54

It doesn’t matter if that poster is right or wrong, we can’t afford it. It’s a financial question, not a moral one. These people are going to have to go back to work and fight for their own existence a bit. That’s life.

You completely ignored the post you quoted! It's not about trying harder, in some cases it is not possible for them to work, and no amount of 'fighting' is going to change that.

Seymour5 · 16/04/2026 08:09

x2boys · 16/04/2026 00:54

Some peoole with mental health conditions are never going to be able to work
Some people have severe and enduring mental illness,s such as shizophrenia ,Bi polar disorder ,shizo aaffective disorder etc
And some people with these diagnoses are unable to reach a point of stability for a variety of reasons

I had a cousin with severe schizophrenia, she was in a residential psychiatric hospital. She was comfortable and safe, society was safe. Then we moved to (don't) Care in the Community, which for many who are ill, and some victims, has been a disaster.

Sunglade · 16/04/2026 08:12

The true workshy are the ones who have profited from the housing market, taking rent and letting it be inflated beyond the grasp of any actual worker. We have allowed this to happen because it meant a few of us got really really rich with very little effort. This is why we allow millions of vulnerable people to flood into the country, because it keeps it super inflated with their government backed rent.
At what point do the working homeowners in their 40s and 50s now wake up and see their children can't afford even a fraction of the life they've had, no matter how much they try? Do we care or do we just watch it happen and call it another 'crisis'?

Pickledonion1999 · 16/04/2026 08:14

Chocaholick · 16/04/2026 07:54

It doesn’t matter if that poster is right or wrong, we can’t afford it. It’s a financial question, not a moral one. These people are going to have to go back to work and fight for their own existence a bit. That’s life.

People who have been off work for years are never going to get employed again. I see loads of them in my job, usually middle aged men who've not worked for years on end. Low level mh issues, then drift into being carers for parents. There are loads of them. My colleague has a friend who is 50, not worked for years, has anxiety and gets her husband to speak for her at PIP assessments etc. Doesn't stop her doing most things though, riding her bike, looking after grandkids, weekends away, fairground rides. It's just a way of life for many, they have no intention of ever trying to get back to work.

TigerRag · 16/04/2026 08:15

Chocaholick · 16/04/2026 07:52

I can vouch for this one hundred per cent.

The number of able bodied criminals with enough mental capacity to commit sometimes fairly sophisticated crimes but ‘not enough to work due to my autism and ADHD’ would actually horrify anybody who is currently unaware of it.

Amazing how they manage prison work without issue but hop straight back onto benefits the moment they get released.

We need a total ban on benefits unless for the most extreme circumstances (eg very disabled not just ‘anxiety’) for under 25s, and thereafter a tapered system where you’re supported to look for work for 6 months and then that’s it, no more handouts.

I don’t believe jobs are as difficult to come by as the benefits lot make out they are, I think people simply won’t work where they can claim benefits unless that job is exactly what they want.

I'm sure you'll be glad to know that you can't get LCWRA if you're under 22 unless you meet the severe conditions criteria

Julen7 · 16/04/2026 08:32

TigerRag · 16/04/2026 08:15

I'm sure you'll be glad to know that you can't get LCWRA if you're under 22 unless you meet the severe conditions criteria

Yes you can, this is only a proposal.

BarbiesDreamHome · 16/04/2026 08:47

GardenCovent · 15/04/2026 23:58

So you would allow an asylum seeker or someone seeking immigration not via a legal route to join our armed forces, for them to have insider knowledge about our defence strategies/planned operations etc and not see a problem with this?

I think there have been a lot of answers like this and I suppose what this raises for me is that if we don't want asylum seekers in the armed forces because they can't be trusted, do you think they should be in the UK at all? Because if you don't want them in the army, you probably don't want them living next to your nan.

So what's the solution for those people?

And there have been a few points made about wanting the best of the best, knowing you can rely on those next to you, not wanting NEETS etc, yet there is targeted recruitment from the armed forces in deprived areas and results in many of these entrants going into low ranking roles (compared to privately educated children who are more likely to go onto a fast track senior progression route).

Hamalam · 16/04/2026 09:01

69% of 25 year olds claiming disability benefits are claiming it for mental health conditions. Does anyone think that these claims are valid?

SomedayIllBeSaturdayNight · 16/04/2026 09:10

Hamalam · 16/04/2026 09:01

69% of 25 year olds claiming disability benefits are claiming it for mental health conditions. Does anyone think that these claims are valid?

Why would they not be? They have been assessed and found to be valid I assume.

notimagain · 16/04/2026 09:12

BarbiesDreamHome · 16/04/2026 08:47

I think there have been a lot of answers like this and I suppose what this raises for me is that if we don't want asylum seekers in the armed forces because they can't be trusted, do you think they should be in the UK at all? Because if you don't want them in the army, you probably don't want them living next to your nan.

So what's the solution for those people?

And there have been a few points made about wanting the best of the best, knowing you can rely on those next to you, not wanting NEETS etc, yet there is targeted recruitment from the armed forces in deprived areas and results in many of these entrants going into low ranking roles (compared to privately educated children who are more likely to go onto a fast track senior progression route).

Fundamentally yes there's the whole issue of who the heck some asylum seekers are and (as one P P pointed out) can some of them be trusted with live weapons on a range....and weapons handling is something probably almost everyone in the armed Forces does early on in training.

" yet there is targeted recruitment from the armed forces in deprived areas and results in many of these entrants going into low ranking roles (compared to privately educated children who are more likely to go onto a fast track senior progression route)."...

Look at the detail and you'll see quite a few of those joining in these "low ranking roles" go on to have highly succesful careers, maybe take a commission and sometimes then progress to end up at very elevated rank.

I'm not really sure what you mean by "fast track seniot progression route"...I guess you mean joining as a officer and hoping to get through somewhere like Sandhurst...

If you do I think you might want to look at the educational background of a lot of the officer cohort these days, including a few of the current very senior officers. Many of those (certainly RAF and Navy) are products of the state education system...

Focacciaisyum · 16/04/2026 09:17

Chocaholick · 16/04/2026 07:52

I can vouch for this one hundred per cent.

The number of able bodied criminals with enough mental capacity to commit sometimes fairly sophisticated crimes but ‘not enough to work due to my autism and ADHD’ would actually horrify anybody who is currently unaware of it.

Amazing how they manage prison work without issue but hop straight back onto benefits the moment they get released.

We need a total ban on benefits unless for the most extreme circumstances (eg very disabled not just ‘anxiety’) for under 25s, and thereafter a tapered system where you’re supported to look for work for 6 months and then that’s it, no more handouts.

I don’t believe jobs are as difficult to come by as the benefits lot make out they are, I think people simply won’t work where they can claim benefits unless that job is exactly what they want.

What?? Why the under 25's? Its not that group thats costing the country the most in benefits. Its the elderly. Pensions and NHS. Why are you picking on the young?

x2boys · 16/04/2026 09:24

OlympicProcrastinator · 16/04/2026 06:33

i agree but unfortunately the system is way too easy to be abused. The amount of people in the criminal justice system, particularly in prisons who are living off PIP in the community, have not worked in years due to anxiety, depression, ADHD and autism claiming the conditions prevents them from working is a scandal nobody is talking about. How many of those do you think refuse a full days work in prison when it gets them out of their cells and they make a bit of money? Close to zero. Suddenly they can work in the kitchens, gardens, workshops etc just fine. Then straight back onto PIP with a sidehussle of crime on release.

Unless there is a diagnosed mental health or serious personality disorders with a far greater threshold of evidence required, people should be on jobseekers and supported back into work not signed off for years as they are currently.

There needs to be professionsl evidence to support a PIP claim,and i dont just mean a qiick visit to the GP
The PIP assesors will want to see evidence ftom CPN ,s OT,s ,physios etc involved in the persons care.

x2boys · 16/04/2026 09:36

ToffeeCrabApple · 16/04/2026 01:12

Modern definitions of "disabled" have become so broad that they are covering a huge proportion of the population, including many who in the past would not have been considered disabled and would simply have been expected to suck it up somewhat, struggle with whatever difficulties they had and work regardless. This is quite unpalatable for a lot of people to hear, because its a scary change imagining no longer living on benefits and having to work.
But actually there are a lot of people for whom might initially be a shock & struggle but longer term it would provide structure, purpose and fulfilment and improve mental health.

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Having a disabillity
Doesnt entitle anyone to disabillity benefits its how that disabillity impacts a person that does/ doesnt entitle them
My oldest son would be considered to have a disabillity
Because three yeaes ago he had acute necrotiizing pancreaititus ,which totally destroyed his pancreas he now has type 3c Diabetes ( treated as type 1)
He hss to inject himself with insulin up to 5 times a day and pay constant atrention to his blood sugars
This doesnt entitle him to PIP because he is independent in his self care etc and csn travel independently

littleorangefox · 16/04/2026 09:39

ToffeeCrabApple · 16/04/2026 06:26

If its that hard how have so many people qualified?

There was a piece on the bbc only a couple of weeks back about a lady who was getting pip on the basis she'd claimed (and presumably had extensive medical evidence for) anxiety so severe she couldn't leave the house, but was in fact off on adventure holidays.

With mental health the vast majority of evidence is formed through several years of self reporting your symptoms. To be clear I don't think most people deliberately abuse the system, I do think they genuinely think they are disabled & undoubtedly struggle but we can't afford to fund such a huge proportion of working age people to not work. I think a good few would find they could manage some work if they had to to eat & pay the bills.

Sure. It's not that difficult. Just say you're anxious/depressed for a few years then start raking in the benefits.

TigerRag · 16/04/2026 09:42

littleorangefox · 16/04/2026 09:39

Sure. It's not that difficult. Just say you're anxious/depressed for a few years then start raking in the benefits.

Oh really? Why are so many people going to tribunal? I know people who are blind who've had to take their claim to tribunal