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Another child killed by a dog...

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tnorfotkcab · 09/04/2026 22:08

Another poor child is killed by a dog.... We already know this is an XL Bully, don't even have to wait for confirmation.

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/ce35zkl9dg3o

A Google street view of Hardale Grove. It is a residential cul-de-sac with cars parked on the pavement.

Child dies in Redcar dog attack, police say

Police remain at the scene in Dormanstown, where one dog was destroyed earlier.

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/ce35zkl9dg3o

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ChimpanzeeThatMonkeyNews · 10/04/2026 14:09

BoyMumNurse · 10/04/2026 14:07

that's just ignorance talking.

in low income areas where these dogs are a status symbol the stats are damming. But in areas like hampshire and the isle of wight where the oiks live cane corsos have the highest stats of attacks. Everything with these dogs behaviour are influenced by humans.

You’re supposed to be on the side of the dead babies - not defending the dogs.

Gassylady · 10/04/2026 14:09

OneDivineHammer · 10/04/2026 10:08

Never, according to the stats on Wiki. 14 of the latest 16 deaths, though.... List of fatal dog attacks in the United Kingdom - Wikipedia

That is an awful read so many horrific details of the injuries. Especially the babies with punctured heads

Blankscreen · 10/04/2026 14:09

They've just said it wasn't a banned breed which means all the morons that defend XL bullies can cite this as an example of the fact that any dog can bite etc.

It may not be a banned breed but I bet it's not a cavapoo or similar.

it will be a huge dog with aggressive traits and I can only assume the IQ / social standing of someone that owns such a dog with a child in the house.

Poor little girl 😢

Cocabuta · 10/04/2026 14:12

That is horrifying reading and at the same time, really sad. What I simply do not understand is if they already know the very high aggression profiles of so many of these dogs, why do they continue to shelter them instead of just euthanising them instantly

I don’t know if it’s red tape or something but in the U.S. recently a woman died in hospital after a severe attacks from a dog. Her family were interviewed saying how angry they were that it was weeks since the attack and the dog hadn’t been put down yet. I don’t get it either but it’s horrible!

It should be done almost immediately after they’ve got any necessary evidence/testing etc from the dog.

I can imagine in America some people are pretty litigious and the system allows for that, but I’m not sure about why they delay things in the UK?

EvangelicalAboutButteredToast · 10/04/2026 14:12

‘A 45-year-old man has been arrested on suspicion of being in charge of a dog dangerously out of control and causing injury resulting in death. He has been released on conditional bail.‘

I posted this upthread. I wonder what the jail time is for having a dangerously out of control dog causing an injury resulting in death. Anyone know?

Gostraight2hellnowtrump · 10/04/2026 14:12

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BackToLurk · 10/04/2026 14:12

Blankscreen · 10/04/2026 14:09

They've just said it wasn't a banned breed which means all the morons that defend XL bullies can cite this as an example of the fact that any dog can bite etc.

It may not be a banned breed but I bet it's not a cavapoo or similar.

it will be a huge dog with aggressive traits and I can only assume the IQ / social standing of someone that owns such a dog with a child in the house.

Poor little girl 😢

I'll put good money that the dog met several of the criteria listed in @Frequency's excellent post

  1. No able-bodied person available to intervene (87.1%): The victim was alone or unsupervised.
  2. Victim was a stranger to the dog (85.2%): Incidental or no familiar relationship between the victim and the dog.
  3. Dogs were sexually intact (84.4%): The dogs involved were not neutered or spayed.
  4. Victim unable to handle/manage dogs due to age or condition (77.4%): The victim was physically or mentally compromised.
  5. Dogs kept isolated from regular positive human interaction (76.2%): The dogs were not kept as family pets, but rather as resident dogs, chained, or confined.
  6. Prior incidents with mishandling/mismanagement of dogs (37.5%): Owner had previous knowledge of the dog's dangerous behavior.
  7. Abuse and neglect of dogs (21.1%): The dog had been subjected to abuse or neglect.
BoyMumNurse · 10/04/2026 14:12

Cocabuta · 10/04/2026 14:07

I agree. I remember in the early noughties walking home from my evening job around 8pm and a horrible Staffy type dog had presumably escaped from a nearby house and it was barking horribly at me and not moving from the path. Somehow I got past it and rang the closest doorbell which luckily was my friends parents house. They were lovely and let me in immediately and waited for a while before me and her oldest sister went out to her car. By this time it was getting dark and it was still there and going crazy at both of us following us to the road where her car was. We really thought one or both of us was going to be ripped apart. But we got into her car and she took me home safely .

A friend of mine I used to babysit for got a staffy and I told her I couldn’t babysit for her anymore since I wasn’t going to be in that house alone with the dogs and children. A few years later her middle child was bit on the face by the same dog.

I made the right call - I steer clear from all
those bully breeds. XL bullies to me are the worst of a bad bunch, but it doesn’t mean the others are any good either.

I have been attack by 2 dogs in my life. neither were bullies of any kind. so does your anecdote trump mine.

I do wish people would research statistics instead of relying on their own limited experience and shit they've been told

BackToLurk · 10/04/2026 14:13

EvangelicalAboutButteredToast · 10/04/2026 14:12

‘A 45-year-old man has been arrested on suspicion of being in charge of a dog dangerously out of control and causing injury resulting in death. He has been released on conditional bail.‘

I posted this upthread. I wonder what the jail time is for having a dangerously out of control dog causing an injury resulting in death. Anyone know?

14 years imprisonment. It's upthread

Gostraight2hellnowtrump · 10/04/2026 14:13

BackToLurk · 10/04/2026 14:12

I'll put good money that the dog met several of the criteria listed in @Frequency's excellent post

  1. No able-bodied person available to intervene (87.1%): The victim was alone or unsupervised.
  2. Victim was a stranger to the dog (85.2%): Incidental or no familiar relationship between the victim and the dog.
  3. Dogs were sexually intact (84.4%): The dogs involved were not neutered or spayed.
  4. Victim unable to handle/manage dogs due to age or condition (77.4%): The victim was physically or mentally compromised.
  5. Dogs kept isolated from regular positive human interaction (76.2%): The dogs were not kept as family pets, but rather as resident dogs, chained, or confined.
  6. Prior incidents with mishandling/mismanagement of dogs (37.5%): Owner had previous knowledge of the dog's dangerous behavior.
  7. Abuse and neglect of dogs (21.1%): The dog had been subjected to abuse or neglect.

Now you're going to try and argue that these dogs are perfectly fine to keep as pets provided all those conditions don't apply.

BoyMumNurse · 10/04/2026 14:14

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EvangelicalAboutButteredToast · 10/04/2026 14:14

BackToLurk · 10/04/2026 14:13

14 years imprisonment. It's upthread

Let’s see what he gets. My bet is absolutely nothing.

EvangelicalAboutButteredToast · 10/04/2026 14:15

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Reported.

Frequency · 10/04/2026 14:17

ChimpanzeeThatMonkeyNews · 10/04/2026 14:09

You’re supposed to be on the side of the dead babies - not defending the dogs.

Personally, I'm on the side of education and prevention. I find knee-jerk reactions, repeating myths like lockjaw, and laws proven to be ineffective to be useless when it comes to prevention.

BackToLurk · 10/04/2026 14:18

Gostraight2hellnowtrump · 10/04/2026 14:13

Now you're going to try and argue that these dogs are perfectly fine to keep as pets provided all those conditions don't apply.

By 'these dogs' you presumably mean 'dogs that aren't banned'. In which case yes, dogs that aren't banned are perfectly fine to keep. Did you have any more prophecies to share?

Cocabuta · 10/04/2026 14:21

BoyMumNurse · 10/04/2026 14:12

I have been attack by 2 dogs in my life. neither were bullies of any kind. so does your anecdote trump mine.

I do wish people would research statistics instead of relying on their own limited experience and shit they've been told

I was just about to ask you in regards to your earlier posts what’s the point of saying “there’s no bad dogs?it’s the owners”

It’s such a daft and meaningless thing to say.

If someone’s face gets ripped off or their kid is lying dead, it’s zero help to anyone to say it’s the owners fault that the dog did it.
At the end of the day whether it’s a result of the dogs temperament or the outcome of bad training or a bit of both (which is often the case) - the fact is dogs that are capable of such violence have no place in society.

There will always be bad owners so if dogs are so powerful they can and commonly do inflict terrible injury and in some cases kill grown men, obviously no one should own them. There’s no way of identifying or stopping the so-called “bad owners” from having these dogs which are potentially weapons . It’s the same reason most people aren’t keen on guns being allowed.

Oh and what do the stats show? That certain breeds such as XL bullies and other bully breeds disproportionately are responsible for fatal and severe attacks.

likelysuspect · 10/04/2026 14:22

EdithStourton · 10/04/2026 13:43

There is a distinct difference between the pet lines of e.g. Rottweilers and the lines which are bred to work. And there is a difference between a staff bred for the show ring and an XL bully bred to look, and be, as aggressive and intimidating as possible (and yes, I know that staffies are not the same as XLs, I'm just comparing two bull breeds).

And there are is a difference between high-drive dogs in capable hands, and high-drive dogs whose owners haven't got a clue.

People get XLs without either understanding or believing the warnings they are given. They lap up the 'it's the owner not the breed' BS. They don't fulfil the dog. Sometimes everything does swimmingly and everyone is happy and so is the dog. And occasionally it's a complete disaster.

What the answer is, I don't know.

I think you're forgetting the main category of owner, that people get XLs and dogs like them in the past (the trend for staffies/huskies and now I see a lot of alsatians as well that I havent seen for years in numbers like today) - they get those dogs because they want a dangerous, aggressive and scary looking dog

Its purposeful

Andouillette · 10/04/2026 14:23

ObligateAerobe · 10/04/2026 10:53

AFAIK, XL classification isn't done by DNA because they are such a mish-mash. There isn't a specific DNA profile for them. It is done by phenotype, rather than genotype.

Should use both. There is growing evidence that most XLs in the UK have a common ancestor a few generations back. It is entirely possible to back trace from that. Said ancestor was notably vicious and absolutely huge. He sired hundreds of puppies.

Dodorogers · 10/04/2026 14:24

ejmog · 09/04/2026 22:19

If we are.going with statistics more.spaniels and labs are owned uk there are far more stipulations on bully's my bet it lab , alsation rottweiler

You think a Labrador killed someone?

TwoSwannits · 10/04/2026 14:25

BoyMumNurse · 10/04/2026 14:12

I have been attack by 2 dogs in my life. neither were bullies of any kind. so does your anecdote trump mine.

I do wish people would research statistics instead of relying on their own limited experience and shit they've been told

Well statistically it quite possibly does trump yours, yes, on the basis of being a disproportionately common anecdote for that breed, compared to most other breeds.

Why do you think certain breeds earn a bad rep while others don't? If you google dog attacks that have ended tragically and made the headlines in the last 5 years for example, how many of them are not from a very exclusive list of certain bull x breeds or mastiff type dogs?

Given that in the last few years we've been absolutely awash with cockapoos and labradoodles, golden retrievers, French bulldogs, daschunds and vizslas, why don't we see any horror stories about them in the press? I can guarantee they won't all have been bought by intelligent, responsible people who understand how to train and raise a dog, and yet, as badly trained and unmanageable as they might be, they don't appear to be ripping many people's throats out.

MabelAnderson · 10/04/2026 14:25

EvangelicalAboutButteredToast · 10/04/2026 10:16

Both are bully breeds no? With a genetic background of being bred for fighting.

Yes, historically, many of the dog breeds referred to as “bully breeds” were indeed bred for fighting, but it’s important to recognize that this was only part of their history, and these breeds are much more diverse in their temperaments today due to responsible breeding practices.

Some of the most well-known bully breeds include:

  • Pit Bull Terriers
  • American Bulldogs
  • Bull Terriers
  • Staffordshire Bull Terriers
  • Rottweilers (though not always considered “bully breeds,” they share a similar history)

History of Bully Breeds:

  • Pit Bulls, for example, were originally bred in the 19th century in England for bull-baiting, a cruel sport where dogs were made to attack a bull. After bull-baiting was outlawed in England, these dogs were used in other forms of dog fighting.
  • American Bulldogs and Staffordshire Bull Terriers also have historical ties to dog fighting and were bred to be strong, courageous, and determined in a fight.

Imagine if the ‘responsible breeding’ was rewound by some irresponsible breeding practices that used a massive, nasty, reactive male dog as the starting point. Imagine if you then marketed that as a criminals dream and then imagine if a load of low IQed males thought those dogs made good family pets. I wonder what would happen then 🤔

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Pit Bulls are a newish American cross breed, only appearing in the 1980s. A mix of traditional bull fighting breeds and possibly some sort of Mastiff for size. The first one I ever saw was in around 1987, owned by a young man known to be a drug dealer, he had bought him from the States. Scary looking dog, much bigger than a Staffordshire Bull Terrier, his face covered in scars that looked as though they had been getting him to kill cats.
XL bullies have taken that up another notch by more cross breeding for muscle, size and aggression.
Not all breeds originally bred for bull fighting are problematic. Bulldogs are generally quite laid back. They aren’t usually aggressive. Staffies can be stroppy or soppy, they have the terrier feistiness but more chunk, and would have been used as ratters , not just for fighting. English bull terriers are generally not very aggressive. Of course all bull breeds are strong, but there is something weird about XL Bullies, the way they can suddenly flip, and they are a lot more powerful than your average Staffordshire or English Bull Terrier.
In this tragic case, the victim was a small baby, and in that situation even a small dog can inflict fatal injuries. It seems the dog responsible was some sort of bull breed cross ?

QuintadosMalvados · 10/04/2026 14:26

Somebody up thread mentioned guns.
With these XL bully dogs and other vicious beasts on the streets I see the UK being no different to a f-ing jungle now, so, yes, in the interest of self-defence, maybe we SHOULD be allowed guns now.
Oh no can't have guns! Can have these beasts roaming the land, though.
That's OK.
What a f-ing stupid country this is.

Any country with any sense would have just culled the damned things or shoot them on sight.

Cocabuta · 10/04/2026 14:28

TwoSwannits · 10/04/2026 14:25

Well statistically it quite possibly does trump yours, yes, on the basis of being a disproportionately common anecdote for that breed, compared to most other breeds.

Why do you think certain breeds earn a bad rep while others don't? If you google dog attacks that have ended tragically and made the headlines in the last 5 years for example, how many of them are not from a very exclusive list of certain bull x breeds or mastiff type dogs?

Given that in the last few years we've been absolutely awash with cockapoos and labradoodles, golden retrievers, French bulldogs, daschunds and vizslas, why don't we see any horror stories about them in the press? I can guarantee they won't all have been bought by intelligent, responsible people who understand how to train and raise a dog, and yet, as badly trained and unmanageable as they might be, they don't appear to be ripping many people's throats out.

Very well said! I live in an apartment Building with lots of cockapoos etc and as annoying and irresponsible as some of their owners are I don’t fear for my life or safety, in the same the way I would if those same people owned an XL bully or staffy.

TwoSwannits · 10/04/2026 14:29

likelysuspect · 10/04/2026 14:22

I think you're forgetting the main category of owner, that people get XLs and dogs like them in the past (the trend for staffies/huskies and now I see a lot of alsatians as well that I havent seen for years in numbers like today) - they get those dogs because they want a dangerous, aggressive and scary looking dog

Its purposeful

Are you sure they are Alsations/GSDs and not Belgian Malinois? They look quite similar, but the BMs are hugely popular at the moment. They are truly amazing dogs but absolutely NOT good family pets in inexperienced and irresponsible hands.