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AIBU to want cafes to be dog free after grandchild was bitten?

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OhSoTrue · 05/04/2026 03:07

What to do? Took my 12 year old gc into a cafe for lunch today, and a dog
snapped her ankle as we walked by. It drew blood. No idea why it picked on her.
She did nothing beyond walking in the door.

The dog owner 'fled the scene' as it were. Made a hasty exit while he had the chance and everyone was looking at the injury.

Wouldn't it just be better if we kept dogs out of what really should be an exclusively human area?

The argument that "they are allowed here so suck it up" is wearing thin.
We are all very fed up of your dogs in human spaces. The vast majority of us would prefer a dog free space.

OP posts:
Onleemoi · 06/04/2026 09:03

Yes, much bigger a number than the 80% who are happy.

Imdunfer · 06/04/2026 09:04

Credittocress · 06/04/2026 08:59

Does it matter if the data exists? If it is the cafe owners preference then that is enough of a reason anyway.

Any cafe owner can make what decision they like.

People on this forum are stating that it's s a financial business decision. Statements like that need backing up with data or they are meaningless.

Onleemoi · 06/04/2026 09:05

Imdunfer · 06/04/2026 09:02

I don't.

I like hard data, there is none. I'd be very happy to see the accounts of a business showing the uplift after they allowed dogs in that they based their decision on. But until then it's all just the gut feeling of owner/managers who themselves like dogs around.

20%, by the by, if that figure is correct, is a huge proportion of your customers to disincentivise.

And, you do seem to think you know best. Your posts are literally I suspect, I think and I believe.

gannett · 06/04/2026 09:06

Imdunfer · 06/04/2026 09:02

I don't.

I like hard data, there is none. I'd be very happy to see the accounts of a business showing the uplift after they allowed dogs in that they based their decision on. But until then it's all just the gut feeling of owner/managers who themselves like dogs around.

20%, by the by, if that figure is correct, is a huge proportion of your customers to disincentivise.

This is backwards. Your assumption that cafe owners are making a bad business decision just because they like dogs is YOUR gut feeling. No hard data is involved in the conclusion you've drawn. I presume cafe owners are working on slightly more data than you regarding their businesses.

Also 80% of customers is a larger proportion than 20% to disincentivise.

Imdunfer · 06/04/2026 09:06

Onleemoi · 06/04/2026 09:03

Yes, much bigger a number than the 80% who are happy.

Businesses survive on margins. There will be a point where one less customer makes a business unprofitable. It matters not if 80%of your potential customers are happy if it's 81% that puts you into a profit.

Credittocress · 06/04/2026 09:07

Imdunfer · 06/04/2026 09:02

I don't.

I like hard data, there is none. I'd be very happy to see the accounts of a business showing the uplift after they allowed dogs in that they based their decision on. But until then it's all just the gut feeling of owner/managers who themselves like dogs around.

20%, by the by, if that figure is correct, is a huge proportion of your customers to disincentivise.

44% of searches on OpenTable are from people looking specifically for dog friendly venues. Bills of people with dogs are 36% higher as they have a higher dwell time. More people own dogs than your 20% who are put off by them-so that 29% figure doesn’t really tip the scales as too much to lose

Imdunfer · 06/04/2026 09:09

gannett · 06/04/2026 09:06

This is backwards. Your assumption that cafe owners are making a bad business decision just because they like dogs is YOUR gut feeling. No hard data is involved in the conclusion you've drawn. I presume cafe owners are working on slightly more data than you regarding their businesses.

Also 80% of customers is a larger proportion than 20% to disincentivise.

I haven't suggested that they are making a bad business decision.

BIossomtoes · 06/04/2026 09:10

Imdunfer · 06/04/2026 09:06

Businesses survive on margins. There will be a point where one less customer makes a business unprofitable. It matters not if 80%of your potential customers are happy if it's 81% that puts you into a profit.

It’s never going to be 81% that puts you into profit. You know nothing about running a business, do you?

Imdunfer · 06/04/2026 09:12

Credittocress · 06/04/2026 09:07

44% of searches on OpenTable are from people looking specifically for dog friendly venues. Bills of people with dogs are 36% higher as they have a higher dwell time. More people own dogs than your 20% who are put off by them-so that 29% figure doesn’t really tip the scales as too much to lose

The sources i can find for that data are mostly pretty biased. Pet insurers, kennel club, etc.

Imdunfer · 06/04/2026 09:14

BIossomtoes · 06/04/2026 09:10

It’s never going to be 81% that puts you into profit. You know nothing about running a business, do you?

More than you, I think. There is a point at which one customer is the difference between being profitable and not profitable, wherever that point is.

Onleemoi · 06/04/2026 09:14

Show me data. No, not that data.

Imdunfer · 06/04/2026 09:16

Onleemoi · 06/04/2026 09:14

Show me data. No, not that data.

Lies damned lies and statistics 🤣

Data is no good without quoting sources, if you're planning to provide any more.

LVhandbagsatdawn · 06/04/2026 09:19

Imdunfer · 06/04/2026 09:02

I don't.

I like hard data, there is none. I'd be very happy to see the accounts of a business showing the uplift after they allowed dogs in that they based their decision on. But until then it's all just the gut feeling of owner/managers who themselves like dogs around.

20%, by the by, if that figure is correct, is a huge proportion of your customers to disincentivise.

The error here though is the assumption that a dogs presence is enough to put that 20% off entirely.

As this thread alone shows, even if people don't like dogs in cafés, many will still use the café because they like the coffee / it's convenient / the others are too far away. And it is the same for the general public. Humans are creatures of habit and convenience.

It will be a much smaller percentage for whom "dog-friendly" is an absolute excluder. In most cases, there will be other, larger incentives than that one disincentive.

BIossomtoes · 06/04/2026 09:19

Onleemoi · 06/04/2026 09:14

Show me data. No, not that data.

😂

gannett · 06/04/2026 09:25

Imdunfer · 06/04/2026 09:16

Lies damned lies and statistics 🤣

Data is no good without quoting sources, if you're planning to provide any more.

But you're the one who isn't providing data from ANY sources to back up your bizarre argument.

The argument that being dog-friendly is a good financial decision is based on the assumption that business owners tend to make decisions based on what's most profitable. The evidence is the success (or otherwise) of their business. It may well be the case that cafe owners are engaged in some sort of anti-profit conspiracy against dog-haters simply because they can't resist a wagging tail but I'm not sure why we should take that argument seriously, absent any hard data from you?

Credittocress · 06/04/2026 09:25

Imdunfer · 06/04/2026 09:12

The sources i can find for that data are mostly pretty biased. Pet insurers, kennel club, etc.

How is OpenTable biased in favour of dogs? They’re a restaurant booking platform.

Jumpingthruhoops · 06/04/2026 09:36

Elliebells123 · 06/04/2026 08:54

A child is a human and therefore should be allowed wherever they like. A dog is an pet. If they cannot be left alone at home whilst you visit a cafe for a drink because they are so poorly trained then you need to stay at home too. You cannot compare a dog to a child, however much you may want to compare them, they are not the same, they do not even belong in the same sentence. I hope people were nicer about you when you were a child.

By alone, I meant on his own, not because I worry about him destroying the house. He's very well trained actually...
Unlike the kid I saw out shopping recently tearing along the aisles crashing a basket trolley into everything... 🤔

PhuckTrump · 06/04/2026 09:44

LizzieW1969 · 05/04/2026 15:27

I suspect a good many weren’t bothered one way or the other. I wouldn’t be. I don’t mind dogs in cafes/pubs, as long as they don’t block my way to the bar or to the toilets. I haven’t been bothered by dogs in eating establishments beyond that really.

Good…that’s you. I think we can ascertain from all of the responses on this thread that there are, indeed, people who aren’t neutral—and actively dislike the situation.

Imdunfer · 06/04/2026 09:46

gannett · 06/04/2026 09:25

But you're the one who isn't providing data from ANY sources to back up your bizarre argument.

The argument that being dog-friendly is a good financial decision is based on the assumption that business owners tend to make decisions based on what's most profitable. The evidence is the success (or otherwise) of their business. It may well be the case that cafe owners are engaged in some sort of anti-profit conspiracy against dog-haters simply because they can't resist a wagging tail but I'm not sure why we should take that argument seriously, absent any hard data from you?

I can't produce data that doesn't exist. That's kind of my point?

Imdunfer · 06/04/2026 09:50

Credittocress · 06/04/2026 09:25

How is OpenTable biased in favour of dogs? They’re a restaurant booking platform.

And you believe that a completely neutral platform for any restaurant of any type in the country is registering 44%of is searches as looking for dog friendly?

Still waiting for the source of that because it isn't coming up on a search of OpenTable and dogs, in fact AI explicitly says the data is not available.

Onleemoi · 06/04/2026 09:52

Oh well, with the lack of any data that anyone wants to believe from either side we’ll just have to accept the owners know what they are doing and aren’t sabotaging their businesses to wind up dog haters.

gannett · 06/04/2026 09:53

Imdunfer · 06/04/2026 09:46

I can't produce data that doesn't exist. That's kind of my point?

Righto, so this entire tangent about how cafe owners are only letting dogs in because they like them and it's not a business decision is null and void.

Not that it even matters because cafe owners can let dogs in, or not, for whatever reasons they want.

Imdunfer · 06/04/2026 09:55

gannett · 06/04/2026 09:53

Righto, so this entire tangent about how cafe owners are only letting dogs in because they like them and it's not a business decision is null and void.

Not that it even matters because cafe owners can let dogs in, or not, for whatever reasons they want.

Yup. Everyone's assertions on this thread are only their own personal feelings and opinions. Normal for a forum.

KimberleyClark · 06/04/2026 10:04

WhatNoRaisins · 06/04/2026 08:45

I have seen dogs lick tables at places. I'm not a germphobe at all especially by MN standards but I found that quite gross.

The tables get cleared and cleaned in between customers don’t they? That would be pretty low down on my list of hygiene concerns.

Rileysp · 06/04/2026 10:04

If I were given a choice about dog friendly or non dog friendly, I’d choose the latter

that alone though isn’t often going to be my deal breaker. I imagine for dog owners who feel they need to take their pet for whatever reason, it is.

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