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Lighthearted- What petty thing(s) bother you?

288 replies

AllaMova · 26/03/2026 14:03

I have quite a specific example.

I have a family member who saves photos from my social media page, saves them and then posts them onto her own page. (Without permission.)

It has been driving me nuts, even though it’s so petty!

What about you?

OP posts:
BitOutOfPractice · 29/03/2026 09:15

GETTINGLIKEMYMOTHER · 27/03/2026 20:50

Anyone over about 7 referring to her ‘bestie’.
Anyone who spells Keir (Starmer) as Kier.
Ditto Lurpak as Lurpack.

Oh my good god I’ve been spelling the PM’s name wrong. I would like to unreservedly apologise. That is really annoying. I’ve annoyed myself actually.

I will add: damp sleeves.

CruCru · 29/03/2026 15:56

People (pretty much always women) who stand around posing with their mouths open. It doesn’t look sexy, it looks like they are daft and have adenoid trouble.

Women who get lip filler and other shit done to their faces. It’s going to look awful soon and it’s going to date. A bit like those barbed wire tattoos.

BatsInHibernation · 29/03/2026 17:09

Dontlletmedownbruce · 27/03/2026 23:55

What word is better though? Shit is awful and crude. I heard someone recently mention faeces and thought that sounded ridiculous, in the context of there being dog faeces on the path. Bowels moving is even worse in my opinion. Number two sounds too childish. Take a dump is gross.

Poo is the only acceptable word.

LoyalMember · 29/03/2026 17:26

Adults who've never learned to drive.

Vroomfondleswaistcoat · 29/03/2026 17:33

People who don't know the difference between discreet and discrete.

Two separate words with very different meanings. Do NOT use them interchangeably.

Thank you.

ToffeePennie · 29/03/2026 17:38

DH tap-tap-TAP-TAP on his laptop.
Tinny music from games from DS phone.
Amazon refusing to ring/knock and just dump the parcel somewhere.
People reading but not replying to messages so you have to ask their partner and/or parents the specific thing you were told to ask them about.
The family in Lidl today who were basically browsing when it was rammed and I had two trolleys and a clear list. They were stood in front of most stuff we needed to buy, just standing there gassing about “oh is this the tomato’s we had in that recipe from your sisters cousins nephew?” And not actually PURCHASING the tomato’s, just standing in the way!

AllaMova · 29/03/2026 17:46

LoyalMember · 29/03/2026 17:26

Adults who've never learned to drive.

That’s me. I had some lessons, but I just couldn’t hack it. I have autism and driving was just too much for me to manage. I’m far safer to myself and others off of the roads.

I wish I could drive though!

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Allseeingallknowing · 29/03/2026 18:32

ToffeePennie · 29/03/2026 17:38

DH tap-tap-TAP-TAP on his laptop.
Tinny music from games from DS phone.
Amazon refusing to ring/knock and just dump the parcel somewhere.
People reading but not replying to messages so you have to ask their partner and/or parents the specific thing you were told to ask them about.
The family in Lidl today who were basically browsing when it was rammed and I had two trolleys and a clear list. They were stood in front of most stuff we needed to buy, just standing there gassing about “oh is this the tomato’s we had in that recipe from your sisters cousins nephew?” And not actually PURCHASING the tomato’s, just standing in the way!

Grrr…tomatoes! Petty, I know!

Allseeingallknowing · 29/03/2026 18:34

AllaMova · 29/03/2026 17:46

That’s me. I had some lessons, but I just couldn’t hack it. I have autism and driving was just too much for me to manage. I’m far safer to myself and others off of the roads.

I wish I could drive though!

Why does that bother you? Some aren’t cut out for driving, and are safer off the road.

LoyalMember · 29/03/2026 18:48

BatsInHibernation · 29/03/2026 17:09

Poo is the only acceptable word.

It's not. It makes you sound like a child. Why on Earth wouldn't you say you were going to the bathroom or toilet?

Catladywithacat · 29/03/2026 18:50

People that don’t know how to drive

TigerRag · 29/03/2026 18:55

Keypad tones on mobile phones. It's one of the first things I switch off when I get a new phone

BeaRightThere · 29/03/2026 19:07

The impossibility of having a light-hearted thread about minor annoyances without the misandrists showing up.

Popworks · 29/03/2026 19:34

My phone autocorrect keeps changing correctly spelled words to other words - like of to if, then to than, were to we're (and vice versa). It makes me want to throw my phone out of a window!

BiscoffCheesecakes · 29/03/2026 19:54

LoyalMember · 29/03/2026 18:48

It's not. It makes you sound like a child. Why on Earth wouldn't you say you were going to the bathroom or toilet?

I say "I'm going to drop the kids off"

ToWhitToWhoo · 29/03/2026 20:25

People who are harsh toward non-drivers, and refuse to consider that some of us have genuine medical/ disability-related reasons.

Oh, and people who drive/continue to drive when they're not fit to do so, and thus endanger others.

Auburngal · 29/03/2026 20:27

Ahwig · 28/03/2026 22:10

People who go shopping and meet someone they know and they stop dead and block the whole aisle with their trolleys while they have a chat.

Oh yes! From my experience working for a supermarket, it was ALWAYS in front of the milk, bananas and in the summer, berries. ie things that other customers need and for us to top up!

LoyalMember · 29/03/2026 20:28

BiscoffCheesecakes · 29/03/2026 19:54

I say "I'm going to drop the kids off"

😆

Auburngal · 29/03/2026 20:35

LoyalMember · 29/03/2026 17:26

Adults who've never learned to drive.

It was quite a common thing, probably still is with older couples, that the man drove the car. The wife didn't drive. Probably took a few lessons from 17-20, then never did the practical test.

Think of your friends and family who are/would have been 80+. You can think of those who the man only drove.

I think about a third of the female colleagues at my last job drove. That was all of them in the 17 years working there.

TroysMammy · 29/03/2026 20:48

BiscoffCheesecakes · 29/03/2026 19:54

I say "I'm going to drop the kids off"

At the pool.

shouldicontactthisperson · 29/03/2026 22:23

Vroomfondleswaistcoat · 29/03/2026 17:33

People who don't know the difference between discreet and discrete.

Two separate words with very different meanings. Do NOT use them interchangeably.

Thank you.

I didn’t know that 🤭 oops

Auburngal · 29/03/2026 22:34

One of my things I do is to go on property websites and do a random search for properties anywhere in the UK.

These things annoy me in property photos:
. TVs are on
. Laundry is on airers. This applies to both inside and outside
. Dirty plates in the sink

You know when the estate agents come round to take the photos in advance. Wait until their photographer goes then put the washing on.

Vroomfondleswaistcoat · 30/03/2026 07:27

shouldicontactthisperson · 29/03/2026 22:23

I didn’t know that 🤭 oops

Then my work here is done. <bows, sweeps off hat>

ToffeePennie · 30/03/2026 08:02

Oh, I thought of another one!
The wet/damp patch on a tshirt when you do anything stood at the kitchen sink! So annoying

WestwardHo1 · 30/03/2026 08:59

Sentientbean · 27/03/2026 04:01

T-shirts in M&S, H&M, primark, etc etc etc, emblazoned with ‘San Francisco’, ‘Chicago’, ‘Florida’, ‘Harvard’, yes it’s a cold, grey, rainy day in little Britain, it’s pretty grim actually, but do I have any ambition or inclination to be in the US right now?, for the record, NONE whatsoever. Message to designers and manufacturers for UK markets, the dream, it’s over, STOP IT.

I quite like the idea of t shirts being sold saying things like Cleethorpes and Bognor and, I don't know, Stevenage.