Caught cheating on chatgpt

[chatgptwankr]

Ladies, I’m so shocked & hurt at what I’ve found. I’ll attach photos as I don’t think I can believe it & need to hear that this is as I see it.
4 years deep, don’t live together as I have DC & not wanted to blend houses yet… THANK FUCK

He’s been more distant the last few months and very emotional, started anti depressants 4 weeks ago and been attending weekly counselling.

I’ve still felt something is off & it’s not just depression, I’ve been cheated on and remember the signs too well. But this guy to the outside world is a hero.

so anyway I haven’t been on his phone but I had a chance alone with his iPad, nothing linked ie messages or emails etc but I thought to check chat GPT as I’ve seen people say about weird searches before. Nothing prepared me for this.

im reading the one that looks like a. Break up as someone has sent him the break up message and he’s asking chat gpt for a reply about he sees a future etc but respects her wishes? Am I right?

he has no idea i know. I’m seeing him tonight and I have no idea what the fuck I’m going to say. HELP!!!

YABU - there could be an explanation
YANBU - he’s a dirt bag

Here’s the photos!

Do you have her name? I'd just say 'I know all about Jodie. How long have you been seeing her?' and leave a lovely silence for him to fill.

I’m really sorry OP.

No all I have is the picture above! I don’t want to say I’ve seen those as he will never tell me who it is or the full story. He’ll simply blame me for looking.

I’m physically shaking still, I saw them this afternoon :(

LTB immediately. Looks like she’s dumped him too so I’m guessing he’ll spend some time flitting between you both, making empty promises, then end up single.

Just dump him. Doesn’t matter who she is, secret admirer messages and gross Christmas messages tell you all you need to know about him.

Be thankful your dc never lived with him. It's awful dragging dc through another upheaval... Don't let him worm his way out of it op.

How has she gotten could of and should of wrong twice and then pulled out a correct should have at the end.

Oh god that's gross.

I'm so sorry.

Sorry I don’t understand this message?

Just break up. You don't need excuses and he doesn't deserve your reasons

Also very easy to say just leave, I know I’d think the same if a friend told me. But I am human & I’ve spent 4 years with this man and genuinely thought we loved and respected each other. I’m not for one moment saying I’m going to stay with him, but I also cannot just turn off my feelings and “break up” and be done with it. I’m heartbroken

4 years. What a shit. I'm sorry. Bin.

(Unrelated- how boak and obviously fake are those suggested Christmas messages? I'd be disappointed to get one of those. An ex (20 years ago) wrote me a poem once. It was a bit shit, but at least it was him writing it and quite sweet of him to make the effort as he wasn't the poetry type).

Those ChatGPT prompts are amazing 😂 I’d dump him just from the lack of creativity and brain power to write his own “elf admirer” text… 🤮

Jokes aside, I’m really sorry OP. He doesn’t sound like a hero at all, I’d be very disappointed too. I think you have good reasons to suspect him.

I think it’s terrible that you snooped but you can’t undo it and you don’t trust him so better to split

I assume she dumped him because of that sexy elf message, and presumably every other message he's also sent her via chatgpt.

The style of everything these LLM's spit out is so screamingly obviously AI. Do the senders really not realise? I think so much less of anyone who sends me that stuff, instant turn off.

I bet he'll claim he was helping a friend work out how to reply in their breakup etc

I bet he'll claim he was helping a friend work out how to reply in their breakup etc

It doesn't matter, it's not your fault he's done this stuff who cares if he's upset that you looked it shouldn't exist for you to find. Just dump him. You really think he can do this stuff but you are in the wrong for finding out?

Is there a date on the convos? Are these definitely recent?