Caught cheating on chatgpt

[chatgptwankr]

Ladies, I’m so shocked & hurt at what I’ve found. I’ll attach photos as I don’t think I can believe it & need to hear that this is as I see it.
4 years deep, don’t live together as I have DC & not wanted to blend houses yet… THANK FUCK

He’s been more distant the last few months and very emotional, started anti depressants 4 weeks ago and been attending weekly counselling.

I’ve still felt something is off & it’s not just depression, I’ve been cheated on and remember the signs too well. But this guy to the outside world is a hero.

so anyway I haven’t been on his phone but I had a chance alone with his iPad, nothing linked ie messages or emails etc but I thought to check chat GPT as I’ve seen people say about weird searches before. Nothing prepared me for this.

im reading the one that looks like a. Break up as someone has sent him the break up message and he’s asking chat gpt for a reply about he sees a future etc but respects her wishes? Am I right?

he has no idea i know. I’m seeing him tonight and I have no idea what the fuck I’m going to say. HELP!!!

YABU - there could be an explanation
YANBU - he’s a dirt bag

Sexy elf 🤮 he’s creepy AF

He can do what he likes and if you find out you are in the wrong? Really! Better to snoop and know than be deluded forever. Which is the greater wrong here I looked at my partners Ipad or I'm having an affair?

Exactly what I thought too 😬

There’s not, but I’ve spoken to a friend tonight and he’s told me that if you hold the message down it gives you a date/time. But I know based on the chatgpt convos above and below the ‘break up’ one that it will have been within the last 2/3 weeks!!

I completely agree! Wrong to snoop, but also if he ever felt uncomfortable and looked at my iPad there would be nothing bad for him to find!

Actually it doesn’t matter if there is anything worth seeing, nosing through people’s devices and their ChatGPT history is a horrible thing to do

Thank you 🙏🏼 I don’t plan on telling him what I’ve seen, I’m going to ask him what’s been happening but now how I know (otherwise I’m basically giving him his script) but I know he won’t be honest. And I know I’m going to have to end things. And I’m still super hurt about that even though I now know he’s a total cock. It’s a shock.

I would simply type into ChatGPT .... "how do i let this loser know I've seen these message?".

Say nothing and dump him. He'll eventually see if but it's not even worth your timing discussing it now.

He's no hero. He's a pathetic men with clearly zero intelligence. He's dumb as box of based on the very little you've posted - any decent msn wouldn't need to ask ChatGPT those things and don't even gwt me started on the "sexy elf" shit. That's not attractive and you know it. You deserve better.

Well you certainly come across like that when you’ve seen my posts yet all you care to add is that the problem is mine for looking.

maybe this thread isn’t right for you. Thanks for your input.

This. He sounds like a total idiot. Sorry OP, I know it’s really difficult right now but I’m sure you can do better!

Wow. 🤣🤣 Thanks for casting aspersions on my morals though.

I'm sorry OP but he's obviously been seeing someone behind your back. So he isn't the person you thought he was. He's a liar and a cheat. I don't see any other option but to break up with him.

You are not going to be able to turn your feelings off; however, this doesn't mean you should stay either. Break up, fall apart, grieve. It will all turn out for the better.
How do I know? My loving partner of four years pulled a similar stunt. Nine months post breakup and I am dating an amazing guy and, having looked back at the relationship with my ex, I see that it was not nearly as loving and caring as I imagined while being in it.

That’s what I came here to say. She’s unhinged!
Doesn’t really help OP though

As soon as I read about his North Pole melting his arse would have been out of the door. Don’t fall for the sunk cost fallacy, he’s a shit.