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Daughter starting nursery job, expected unpaid early starts and late finishes

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Nurserynewby12 · 22/03/2026 21:28

My daughter is looking forward to beginning a new job this week in childcare. She interviewed really well and will be studying for a qualification too. This all seems great. I work in accounts so do not know much about nursery care work but she has told me she has to start fifteen minutes early every day and will have to stay later than her finish time if parents are late or cleaning needs to be done. Both of these early and late instances will apparantly be unpaid. I do not know about nursery things much but did think this is unpaid work and not legal? Is there different rules for nurseries? I think if this happens all time she is being exploited whether she gets a qualification or not? She does not know as she is new to this area of work. I want to protect her from being exploited but need views from childcare/employment lawyers? Anyone around from employment law or a nursery manager to advise?

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Solutionssought2026 · 23/03/2026 09:21

SweetnsourNZ · 23/03/2026 09:19

Shop work and hospitality definitely. If workplaces need setting up the setting up time should be paid for.

It always used to be the case that you had a set up shift
One person each day came in early to set the place up and everybody else walked in at the same time as the parents

SweetnsourNZ · 23/03/2026 09:24

realsavagelike · 22/03/2026 22:14

I work in childcare and the general expectation is that we should be 'on the floor' ready to go at our shift start time, not walking in the door and then spending several minutes settling in before being ready to start. If we are on a later shift e.g. closing or pre-closing, we need to ensure that we are at ratio i.e. 1 teacher to 8 kids max. before we can leave. This usually works out although rarely I may have to stay a few minutes after I am supposed to leave. If staff are having to regularly stay past their leaving time, the supervisor needs to look at amending shift times to ensure adequate cover without lots of overtime having to happen.

That sounds totally reasonable especially as number of carers have to be on at any one time.

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looselegs · 23/03/2026 09:32

I worked in a private nursery several years ago. Opening times were 8 am to 6 pm.
The manager was there before everyone else in the mornings, I started at 8.
Cleaning was done during the last hour of the day. After 5.00, there weren't many children left so they just got moved around the rooms as they were cleaned. If any children were late being collected, the manager stayed with them and we went home. We never worked unpaid.
That's two and a half hours free labour they're getting out of your daughter per week- 10 hours a month. Which equates to quite a bit of money over time!

MassiveOvaryaction · 23/03/2026 09:33

Actually in work and working 15 minutes before the start time, or are they telling her to arrive 15 minutes before start time so she has bag/coat/lunch etc put away and is ready to start on time? Because the latter is pretty normal. Otherwise they'd get people turning up 'on time' then doing personal related stuff on work time instead of their own.
Staying late when she's waiting for other people and not being paid for it is a different kettle of fish imo.

DivorcedButHappyNow · 23/03/2026 09:37

Nobody gets paid for arriving and getting settled or packing up and leaving. That’s the reality of the world of work.

I assume your daughter is on a probation period so I’d advise treading carefully.

Komododragonchocolatecoin · 23/03/2026 09:37

I started working in nurseries 9 years ago, I've worked at 3 different ones and when I started staff meetings were unpaid, you had to start 15 minutes early unpaid, first aid course on the weekend was unpaid. The nursery I worked at slowly started to change and all of these hours were paid / given back in lieu by the time I left there. Times are changing and this nursery is well behind. It's definitely not legal. However it's very difficult to change this as a new member of staff.

Blisteringlycold · 23/03/2026 09:41

JehovasFitness · 22/03/2026 21:51

Grass to HMRC. From April there is a new government agency dealing with it.

I had this in a part-time shop job when I was at sixth form. 5:30 finish but always there til 5:50 unpaid. I kicked up a fuss and in the end I was rota’d to finish at 5:15 instead. Didn’t do any time for free.

And nor should you.

Many many moons ago I worked at John Lewis. Store closed at 6pm, partners were paid until 6.10pm - if you have to do it, it's work

This is outrageous and illegal.

OhBumBags · 23/03/2026 09:47

The13thFairy · 23/03/2026 08:41

It seems though that many unions aren't interested in representing women these days.

I've never heard of this before?

Approximately two thirds of UNISON is female.

ERthree · 23/03/2026 09:49

Nurserynewby12 · 22/03/2026 21:40

Not sure as she has not started yet but at bare minimum she is working for 30 mins a day for free x 5 days

That is the life of a nursery. If you open the doors at 08:00 you need to be there 15 minutes before to get yourself ready and the room ready, If you close at 18:00 you will be there later because you can't chuck the children out of the room, pick up you coat and walk out. Day care providers have been getting away with free labour for the last half century.
I demanded and got my 2.5 hours paid. The bosses asked me not to tell the other staff i was given this money, so of course i told the rest of the staff and they were all given the same pay.

Pineneedlesincarpet · 23/03/2026 09:54

SweetnsourNZ · 23/03/2026 09:19

Shop work and hospitality definitely. If workplaces need setting up the setting up time should be paid for.

I mean specific examples of boys getting paid more than girls.(apologies for calling them boys and girls...just to differentiate between the established worker).

hevs03 · 23/03/2026 09:55

My daughter works in a nursery and has done for the past 3 years, she loves it, and yes she has to sometimes work a little later to finish the cleaning of the room she works in, or to wait for a parent to collect one of the children she is responsible for. However this is not every day more like once every couple of weeks and it is for no longer than 15 mins. It's part of the job for her.

SP2024 · 23/03/2026 09:56

This is fairly standard in lots of jobs. They get a 10-15 mins tea break instead that makes up the time.

user1492757084 · 23/03/2026 10:05

If it is her first job she should show a great work ethic.

After proving herself she could then fairly ask for small breaks during the day to compensate. But working an extra fifteen minutes is expected in many sectors.

marcyhermit · 23/03/2026 10:06

user1492757084 · 23/03/2026 10:05

If it is her first job she should show a great work ethic.

After proving herself she could then fairly ask for small breaks during the day to compensate. But working an extra fifteen minutes is expected in many sectors.

A great work ethic includes knowing your basic rights and getting paid legally.

ruethewhirl · 23/03/2026 10:08

Notmycircusnotmyotter · 22/03/2026 22:06

I find your reaction so bizarre. It's normal to turn up to work 15 min early and leave later if you're public facing.

I find it bizarre that anyone would happily give their employer unpaid time on a daily basis. It might be unavoidable in some jobs, but that doesn't mean to say people should act like it's fine and dandy.

JLou08 · 23/03/2026 10:13

I worked in nurseries about 15 years ago. We were expected to be in at least 20 minutes early if we were on the first shift to set up for the day and if on the last shift we couldn't leave until the cleaning was done, although this rarely meant working later as cleaning would start before the end of the day and children were often all picked up before the end of the day. Luckily things have improved to ensure minimum wage is paid but when I was an apprentice I was on the flat rate of about £84 a week and always did extra hours if staff were off sick or on leave, sometimes working 50 hours pw.
I think they get away with it because it's generally a lot if young people who don't challenge.

Freeyourmind · 23/03/2026 10:30

I've never used a nursery but always assumed that the late pick up fees covered staff wages! Seemingly not.

The13thFairy · 23/03/2026 10:34

OhBumBags · 23/03/2026 09:47

I've never heard of this before?

Approximately two thirds of UNISON is female.

The women pay their union dues but will the unions represent her? Unions wouldn't represent the Darlington nurses.

marcyhermit · 23/03/2026 10:36

The13thFairy · 23/03/2026 10:34

The women pay their union dues but will the unions represent her? Unions wouldn't represent the Darlington nurses.

Can we stop dragging trans into every unrelated thread, you have the feminist forum to complain about trans people.

Shmee1988 · 23/03/2026 10:39

Well, logically, everyone needs to be at their place of work before their start time. Whether thats to stow away belongings, log in to a computer system etc so thats not unusual. Equally, if the work isnt finished by the finish time, she stays late to ensure it is surely?

Timespentwithcatsisneverwasted · 23/03/2026 10:42

Hi. Any time at work needs to be paid. That's why we work. End of. They are taking the mick

marcyhermit · 23/03/2026 10:42

Shmee1988 · 23/03/2026 10:39

Well, logically, everyone needs to be at their place of work before their start time. Whether thats to stow away belongings, log in to a computer system etc so thats not unusual. Equally, if the work isnt finished by the finish time, she stays late to ensure it is surely?

Do you not see the difference between a couple of minutes early to stow your bag away and 15 minutes early to set up the room, carry out checks, get breakfast ready (often called working)?

If the work isn't finished by finish time then either there is too much work, or not enough time. Both of these are management issues that should not be solved by making the employee work for free.

Labelledelune · 23/03/2026 10:44

So she’ll still be training? I worked every hour god sent when training paid or unpaid, I didn’t care. Once fully qualified I demanded top dollar for every minute of my time.

marcyhermit · 23/03/2026 10:46

Labelledelune · 23/03/2026 10:44

So she’ll still be training? I worked every hour god sent when training paid or unpaid, I didn’t care. Once fully qualified I demanded top dollar for every minute of my time.

Minimum wage isn't 'top dollar' 😂

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