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To feel guilted into being vegan??? AIBU?

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CradleMable · 10/03/2026 22:10

I saw quite a traumatic animal welfare video a few days ago, which had the purpose of trying to encourage viewers to become vegan.

I am not a huge meat lover, but love the occasional beef burger, steak or nice roast dinner. I am a bit of a dairy fiend though, so not sure how I would cope.

However the video pointed towards the awful treatment of farm animals, being separated from their babies after mere hours together, and being slaughtered themselves at a relatively young age, after a life of being exploited.

I haven’t really considered the welfare of farm animals much in my life, if I’m honest, and I feel quite bad for admitting that. Now I’m wondering if what we do to these animals is fair, and I thought posting on here might help me consider both sides to the argument.

AIBU to now feel compelled to drastically change my diet in support of animal welfare?

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MauvePombear · 11/03/2026 19:52

alcoholfreelife · 11/03/2026 19:38

This is what your quick google search comes up with! But fair play if you have a vegan mobile they are bloody expensive and if you don’t use uk money , nor watch tv then you have no need to worry and yes in your case meat is indeed murder oh and if you don’t use biodegradable items in your home then also fair play to you oh and also some house paint and plaster contains animal derivatives too

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My house is painted with vegan paint. Want to keep trying to gotcha me? Put your mobile search into chat gpt and you'll get a different answer.

I suggest you sod off. I have NO time for people like you shouting "house paint"

Just shut up- eh.

Knittedanimal · 11/03/2026 19:53

@Iris2020 easy for billions of humans throughout human history too.
I think your guilty conscience might be riled 😊

MauvePombear · 11/03/2026 19:54

Iris2020 · 11/03/2026 19:49

It was easy for you. As people gain knowledge, it's becoming known why some people find veganism natural and easy and others are just constantly craving meat, unwell and plain unable to stick to
the diet.

The self-righteous pontificating will continue a few years until the science become more detailed and widely known but it nonetheless remains highly irritating.

There's more self righteous meat eaters on here than vegans.

Bank notes. House Paint -gotcha!

Knittedanimal · 11/03/2026 19:55

MauvePombear · 11/03/2026 19:52

My house is painted with vegan paint. Want to keep trying to gotcha me? Put your mobile search into chat gpt and you'll get a different answer.

I suggest you sod off. I have NO time for people like you shouting "house paint"

Just shut up- eh.

Spent a life time responding to these types.
🥱

Iris2020 · 11/03/2026 19:58

Knittedanimal · 11/03/2026 19:53

@Iris2020 easy for billions of humans throughout human history too.
I think your guilty conscience might be riled 😊

Not at all. I'm just a stickler for consistency and was just interested to see recent studies which identify the genes linked with vegetarianism and their metabolic properties.
That explains exactly why billions of people have managed to be vegan and others can't ... even if you offer them a billion pounds.

I'm amused by how staunchly preaching vegans look the other way at this developing area of knowledge and point blank refuse to address it.

Knittedanimal · 11/03/2026 19:59

OP just take the plunge, you won't ever regret feeling morally superior to people who think it's funny to goad people who believe animals should be treated kindly. 😁

claudiawinklemansfringetrimmer · 11/03/2026 20:03

UniquePinkSwan · 11/03/2026 17:17

Why would you ruin your health by going vegan? Meat has everything your body needs and is completely bioavailable unlike plants. Also veganism is bad for the planet. All those out of season fruit and veg need to get here somehow and don’t even start on avocados.

I get my meat from the local farm. I’m doing my bit

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Sorry but this isn’t true and even a cursory google would tell you so. I can sort of understand when people have differing opinions of eating animals because that’s a matter of your personal beliefs and ethics, but arguments about what is better for the environment wind me up because this is something that is very measurable and widely studied!

Transport is a fairly small part of food production’s carbon output and while there are some outliers (poultry isn’t anywhere near as damaging as beef, chocolate and coffee are much more resource intensive than other plant products) on the whole plant based foods are much less environmentally damaging than meat and dairy. A vegan diet is demonstrably much more environmentally friendly.

”All five environmental impacts were associated with the amount of animal-based food consumed. The impacts of vegans were a quarter of those of high meat eaters for greenhouse gas emissions, and land use, just 27% of the impacts for water pollution, 46% for water use and 34% for biodiversity.”

https://www.alumni.ox.ac.uk/article/less-meat-better-for-environment

Really interesting graph re: carbon footprint of different foods and what proportion of it is caused by transport:

https://ourworldindata.org/grapher/food-emissions-supply-chain

There’s also a really interesting book called “How Bad Are Bananas?” which goes into the carbon footprint of loads of different things (bananas, interestingly, despite being shipped halfway across the world are actually not that bad at all)

LESS MEAT BETTER FOR ENVIRONMENT

A huge dataset confirms that a vegan diet is dramatically better than a meat diet across a broad range of environmental measures including biodiversity

https://www.alumni.ox.ac.uk/article/less-meat-better-for-environment

Knittedanimal · 11/03/2026 20:03

Iris2020 · 11/03/2026 19:58

Not at all. I'm just a stickler for consistency and was just interested to see recent studies which identify the genes linked with vegetarianism and their metabolic properties.
That explains exactly why billions of people have managed to be vegan and others can't ... even if you offer them a billion pounds.

I'm amused by how staunchly preaching vegans look the other way at this developing area of knowledge and point blank refuse to address it.

No i get that some humans have systems that need meat. It doesn't make much sense as our digestive tracts are so long (compare with cats') and i will look for the literature; until then I can't believe it's more than a fractional amount. Just as there are overweight people who aee genetically disposed to carrying more weight.. but the vast majority just eat too much.

MauvePombear · 11/03/2026 20:04

Knittedanimal · 11/03/2026 19:55

Spent a life time responding to these types.
🥱

How dare I paint my flat

Knittedanimal · 11/03/2026 20:06

@UniquePinkSwan how does getting meat from the local farm constitute 'doing your bit'? for whom?

Knittedanimal · 11/03/2026 20:07

MauvePombear · 11/03/2026 20:04

How dare I paint my flat

My house is daubed with the blood of infants. Does that mean I'm no longer vegan?

MauvePombear · 11/03/2026 20:09

Knittedanimal · 11/03/2026 20:06

@UniquePinkSwan how does getting meat from the local farm constitute 'doing your bit'? for whom?

Better life before slaughter I assume.

alcoholfreelife · 11/03/2026 20:28

MauvePombear · 11/03/2026 19:52

My house is painted with vegan paint. Want to keep trying to gotcha me? Put your mobile search into chat gpt and you'll get a different answer.

I suggest you sod off. I have NO time for people like you shouting "house paint"

Just shut up- eh.

It’s not about the old paint argument it’s just being aware that animal derivatives are used in house building and internal decoration, animal derivatives are also used in electrical cable and other essential household items and equipment yes you said you use vegan paint, don’t use uk money but honestly I can probably come to your home and immediately pick out something with animal proteins in it, I really do applaud you for your beliefs and I genuinely do mean that in a non sarcastic way but I also would appreciate you to acknowledge that in modern society it isn’t possible to be without animal proteins, yes sorry I picked out paint as an example but you made a good point of saying you don’t use cash well debit and credit card production contains tallow in its early production

Iris2020 · 11/03/2026 20:32

Knittedanimal · 11/03/2026 20:03

No i get that some humans have systems that need meat. It doesn't make much sense as our digestive tracts are so long (compare with cats') and i will look for the literature; until then I can't believe it's more than a fractional amount. Just as there are overweight people who aee genetically disposed to carrying more weight.. but the vast majority just eat too much.

The initial studies suggest it's far from marginal.

This is an interest read.
https://journals.plos.org/plosone/article?id=10.1371/journal.pone.0291305

"In conclusion, our findings add to the existing body of data pointing to the genetic contribution to dietary choices and raise the possibility that lipid metabolism and its role in brain function may play a role in the ability to subsist long-term on a strict vegetarian diet. Further studies are required to determine which of the genes we identified play an important role in choosing a vegetarian diet; what particular variants of those genes underlie the vegetarianism phenotype and the mechanisms by which they contribute to this phenotype. It is tempting to speculate that meat may contain unique lipid components that vegetarians are able to adequately synthesize endogenously, whereas others need to obtain them from a meat-containing diet. A better understanding of the physiologic pathways involved in choosing a vegetarian diet is needed in order to design more effective dietary recommendations and interventions."

Genetics of vegetarianism: A genome-wide association study

A substantial body of evidence points to the heritability of dietary preferences. While vegetarianism has been practiced for millennia in various societies, its practitioners remain a small minority of people worldwide, and the role of genetics in choo...

https://journals.plos.org/plosone/article?id=10.1371%2Fjournal.pone.0291305

Knittedanimal · 11/03/2026 20:33

alcoholfreelife · 11/03/2026 20:28

It’s not about the old paint argument it’s just being aware that animal derivatives are used in house building and internal decoration, animal derivatives are also used in electrical cable and other essential household items and equipment yes you said you use vegan paint, don’t use uk money but honestly I can probably come to your home and immediately pick out something with animal proteins in it, I really do applaud you for your beliefs and I genuinely do mean that in a non sarcastic way but I also would appreciate you to acknowledge that in modern society it isn’t possible to be without animal proteins, yes sorry I picked out paint as an example but you made a good point of saying you don’t use cash well debit and credit card production contains tallow in its early production

Yes, it's pretty much impossible to live in the modern world without using things that have some sort of animal part in them. That's why the vegan society says 'vegans avoid animal products wherever practically possible'

reptilemad1985 · 11/03/2026 20:34

Knittedanimal · 11/03/2026 19:44

At the risk of sounding self rightous 🙄 we humans treat animals abominably purely for the sake of our taste buds and cultural conditioning.
Once the Pandora's box is open it can be difficult to keep avoiding the truth.
Being vegan is really easy. Even 30 years ago when I made the change it was managable. I had some wobbles in the early years but always reminded myself that no egg is worth macerating a chick for, and no pork chop is worth throwing a piglet at a wall for or crating its mother. Dairy cows are amongst the most ill treated animals and the idea that their babies are taken from them so we can drink their milk is repugnant and morally bereft to me.
There are so many foods available that are animal free and you can have a rich and varied diet these days. I'm really happy to share some recipes and tips if you like.
Cue the antagonistic meat eaters 5...4..3...2..1

pig crates am sure are banned in the uk same as veal crates plus you can buy outdoor reared

reptilemad1985 · 11/03/2026 20:36

You can also get milk from certain farms where the calve is still on its mum and they just take so much away and lots of farmers now adays use sexed semen so no bull calf's to kill or rear

DeepBlueDeer · 11/03/2026 20:43

BeOchreDog · 11/03/2026 19:29

Over 95% of dairy farms in the UK are Red Tractor certified. Euthanasia of calves is disallowed and calves must be kept with their mother for at least five weeks before they are weaned, they aren’t removed or killed at birth.

calves must be kept with their mother for at least five weeks before they are weaned
This is false.

If someone wants to eat meat, that's their choice. If they want to limit their meat intake, either by volume or welfare, that's their choice too. The amount of outright falsehoods being peddled as arguments in this thread, though, is beyond comical.

Knittedanimal · 11/03/2026 20:43

What percentage of the meat reared in the uk is outdoor reared I wonder?
Ooh, about 15%.
But 53% meat is imported and not subject to our welfare standards..my maths isn't good enough... but most animals eaten in the uk have lived a miserable life before being slaughtered.

Only 5% chickens ever see the light of day.
Not quite the gotcha you'd hoped for.

Knittedanimal · 11/03/2026 20:45

reptilemad1985 · 11/03/2026 20:36

You can also get milk from certain farms where the calve is still on its mum and they just take so much away and lots of farmers now adays use sexed semen so no bull calf's to kill or rear

How much of this milk supplies supermarkets i wonder?
It's a fantasy.

Laura95167 · 11/03/2026 20:48

Veganism just impacts other animals...

1 cow makes about 400 McDonald's cheeseburgers. So if you ate a McDs every day for a year you ate 1 cow

If you eat tofu - they kill every mouse, rat, rabbit, squirrel, vole, bird in the field of crop. As well as a variety of insects..

Veganism means you arent eating animal flesh - but plenty were killed to cultivate the crop.

Im not passing judgement on people who choose veganism, but I am saying it also impacts if its just about the animals.

Maybe reduce your meat in take or research ethical meat sources, a lot of farmers do care for their animals and try to give them good lives. Best of luck with whatever you decide.

Laura95167 · 11/03/2026 20:50

Veganism just impacts other animals...

1 cow makes about 400 McDonald's cheeseburgers. So if you ate a McDs every day for a year you ate 1 cow

If you eat tofu - they kill every mouse, rat, rabbit, squirrel, vole, bird in the field of crop. As well as a variety of insects..

Veganism means you arent eating animal flesh - but plenty were killed to cultivate the crop.

Im not passing judgement on people who choose veganism, but I am saying it also impacts if its just about the animals.

Maybe reduce your meat in take or research ethical meat sources, a lot of farmers do care for their animals and try to give them good lives. Best of luck with whatever you decide.

Knittedanimal · 11/03/2026 20:50

Iris2020 · 11/03/2026 20:32

The initial studies suggest it's far from marginal.

This is an interest read.
https://journals.plos.org/plosone/article?id=10.1371/journal.pone.0291305

"In conclusion, our findings add to the existing body of data pointing to the genetic contribution to dietary choices and raise the possibility that lipid metabolism and its role in brain function may play a role in the ability to subsist long-term on a strict vegetarian diet. Further studies are required to determine which of the genes we identified play an important role in choosing a vegetarian diet; what particular variants of those genes underlie the vegetarianism phenotype and the mechanisms by which they contribute to this phenotype. It is tempting to speculate that meat may contain unique lipid components that vegetarians are able to adequately synthesize endogenously, whereas others need to obtain them from a meat-containing diet. A better understanding of the physiologic pathways involved in choosing a vegetarian diet is needed in order to design more effective dietary recommendations and interventions."

Thanks for this. I mean this with no faeticiousness: i wonder if the documented risk of digestive related diseases is outweighed by the physiological issues outlined here?
It would seem odd that a significant percentage of humans fell into this bracket, given our likeness to herbivourous gorillas, but happy to be challenged on this, will read.

Knittedanimal · 11/03/2026 20:56

@Laura95167 what do you think the cow is being fed?
How much more of that feed does it take to make the burger than eating the equivalent plants?
It's all about scale, and the land use needed to produce meat is many more times that of equivalent plant calories. So your vole body count is much higher for meat.

Laura95167 · 11/03/2026 21:07

Knittedanimal · 11/03/2026 20:56

@Laura95167 what do you think the cow is being fed?
How much more of that feed does it take to make the burger than eating the equivalent plants?
It's all about scale, and the land use needed to produce meat is many more times that of equivalent plant calories. So your vole body count is much higher for meat.

Im just trying to make the point, animals are impacted regardless of what we eat. Theyre killed for food, or to grow food.

I absolutely support anyone's choice with whatever diet best suits their needs and morals.

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