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To be fed up that it seems to be expected that female celebs dress risqué while men dont

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Linoleum81 · 09/03/2026 16:24

Seeing Chappell roan, Dakota Johnson , Madonna basically showing underwear and parts of the body that should be covered up. All these women are talented and successful. We don’t expect Nicolas cage or mick jagger to strut around showing their Y fronts, so why is this expected of female celebs

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gannett · 10/03/2026 13:52

Badlifeday · 10/03/2026 12:45

Ed Sheeran is wearing a jumper - he is not expected to make any effort in his dress, just show up with his guitar and sing. Not the same for Taylor. I'm not saying she's inappropriately dressed. But she's not in jeans and a hoodie, is she?

You could always compare him to Billie Eilish, who generally performs in massive hoodies and baggy basketball shorts.

Or to Missy Elliott, who generally wore baggy tracksuits.

Or to Justin Bieber, who did his last award show performance literally just in his boxers.

Or to Usher, who I don't recall ever wearing a shirt live.

All of these pop stars, including Sheeran, are making a tremendous amount of effort to remain on brand. He is selling himself as a Mr Normal everyman - that is his image.

Badlifeday · 10/03/2026 14:44

Funny how the brand that sells best for female artists is one involving a lot of effort and not a lot of clothing.

EmbroideredGardener · 10/03/2026 15:50

I think if you saw what goes on behind the scenes you'd see that a lot of these young artists do not have as much say as you'd think about clothing choices etc. Britney is a slightly extreme example, but an example nonetheless.

I also have a lot of respect for Pamela Anderson now, however she has such a reputation after years of kowtowing to the whims of male desire that it's hard not to factor that in. She has that leniency now, after decades of being the sexy blonde bimbo. If she hadn't played that role (not just the Baywatch character but the facade she wore) I don't see that she would have gained such 'success'

Tiddlywinks63 · 10/03/2026 15:53

NotSmallButFunSize · 09/03/2026 20:23

Annoys me no end that as a woman, apparently being "empowered" means wear as little as possible 🙄

And the women who offer it as their reason for doing so are absolutely full of BS. You want the attention, just be honest.

Why do men never have to be half naked to be "empowered"?!

I totally agree.
To me it smacks of sheer desperation, anything to get attention at any cost or extreme.
Pathetic that they can’t see it for what it is.

Linoleum81 · 10/03/2026 18:34

21ZIGGY · 10/03/2026 06:27

Nicolas cage and mick jagger are such random examples of men i love it😂

First two guys that came to mind lol.

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something2say · 11/03/2026 07:28

I think this stuff, us thinking about what we do collectively, is going to end up being positive. We have to tease out why we do what we do and eliminate aspects that are not required any longer.

Bertiebiscuit · 04/04/2026 13:42

Notmyreality · 09/03/2026 17:40

Expected by whom? Themselves? They chose to do it as they want to be seen as “young, hot and sexy”.
You do understand that females making themselves look attractive for male attention is a basic trait in the animal kingdom? Humans are no different and no more advanced than the rest of the animal kingdom in that regard.

Peacocks vs peahens?
Most male ducks and birds have flashy feathers, females usually dull brown. Male lions have exaggerated manes, females don't

Your argument falls down

BillieWiper · 04/04/2026 14:21

Slightyamusedandsilly · 09/03/2026 21:02

A couple of years ago, some celeb was naked on the red carpet. The dress was totally sheer. Her escort was next to her in his black tie etc.

I'm sick of the sexism.

Do you mean Bianca Censori? I think she's one person who could do with some 'censorship'. Along with her husband. Who apparently has now been un-cancelled. He's wheeling his 12 yo daughter out on stage for clout...

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