The NHS is NOT FREE.
For most citizens of the UK,
we just pay for our health care in a different way.
However, I suppose once someone is an independent adult, but because of an awful disability, or illness, that cannot be cured, or managed well enough, some people will appear to have free health care for the rest of their lives. But, even then, it is not free, it is just that the number of full tax payers are unfortunately, and scaringly, dwindling.
I believe that the growing lack of tax payers in the UK is due to quite a large variety of reasons, some of which are actually caused either directly, or more often, indirectly, by whatever Government we have in power at any given time.
There is neither the time, nor the space, in a 'normal' Mumsnet thread, for a worthwhile debate about the failure of the NHS, or the rights or wrongs of people like the OP, @catmummy22's desire to be able to pay extra amounts of money to the NHS in order to get preferential treatment. But while I have the opportunity here, I feel the need to tell you OP, that I think your attitude is very selfish, and should not have the ability to succeed in a democratic and caring society.
That doesn't mean that I believe in a fairytale communism, as I certainly don't. In many areas I think that the greater effort someone both legally and morally puts in to advance or maintain their own place in society, such as significantly more hours of physical and/or mental efforts than the average person does, and especially if their extra efforts enhance the lives of all, or at least most of the the society they live and work in. It would also be necessary that their extra income/lifestyle didn't detract from the less able members of their society's ability to have their basic human needs met - as judged by the society they live in, in today's modern day world - eg in the West, to have enough food, heat, roofs over their heads, clothes on their backs, education, health care, and whatever else is the norm for the society they live in, such as smart phones, TVs, fridges, cookers, etc etc etc.
So, as a person myself of very limited means - I am a pensioner who only receives the state pension, and a monthly PIP payment - I think that if all those conditions are met, then yes, they should be able to be awarded with a higher salary, and a more comfortable lifestyle - within, of course, certain parameters. I don't begrudge any kind, moral, hard-working. person being able to live in a much larger house than my terraced 2 up 2 down, plus a bathroom, home, and I don't begrudge them exotic foreign holidays, after all, I can visit nearly all of the same places through my TV, or mobile, screen! I don't even mind them having private health care for many things, but not for emergency care, and not if them having, say, a private hip operation, means that someone less fortunate (in monetary terms) has to forego, or even delay, receiving lifesaving care.
Human beings have a great many differing strengths and weaknesses, including far ranging individual amounts of aptitude, intelligence, memories and recall, to name just a few. We - human beings - encompass en masse, a great many other qualities, many of which can be beneficial to us as a whole, but also many that are only of benefit to themselves, and maybe a select few others. In my opinion, the main problems arise when a person's actions benefits only themself, or just a very small group of people important to them, and in doing so, also makes many other people's lives so much harder. @catmummy22, if you were allowed to pay extra money into the NHS to benefit yourself, and maybe a few others within your own circle of relatives and friends, in times of personal emergencies, that would have a very hard and harsh effect on so many of the rest of us. Please put more thought into your desires, and how they affect the rest of us. Of course I, and everyone else, should live by that last request as well as most of us are probably guilty of selfish behaviour at times!
I only started this post to say that the NHS is not FREE, which unfortunately, is typical me, sorry! 🙄