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Meant to be moving to Dubai in 4 weeks

967 replies

Medesres · 01/03/2026 15:42

We've been planning a move to Dubai for a while now. Dh's work has an office out there and it seemed like great opportunity to live abroad and experience sth different. I've got a couple of friends out there already too who love the lifestyle.

Watching the news for the past 24 hours and I'm really starting to question things. I had no idea how close to Iran it was and who knows what might happen next. Part of me is hoping it will all be resolved soon but hard to believe.

My friend who already lives there has spent the night sleeping in one room with her dh and kids scared of all the missile noises.

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BlimeyOReillyO · 01/03/2026 19:32

VickyEadieofThigh · 01/03/2026 19:30

Can I just check if I understand your point correctly?

You're comparing those of us who are gay to paedophiles?

Good god! I hadn’t seen that gem! That’s vile @Jerys !

KatiePricesKnickers · 01/03/2026 19:33

Wait until the OP finds out it’s above 50deg C in the summer with a UV of 12. Burn in less than 10 minutes.

SleeplessInWherever · 01/03/2026 19:34

Katypp · 01/03/2026 19:32

They will likely be evacuated if the situation does not settle
Assuming by 'they' you mean Brits livong or holidaying there.
Nothing to do with Oakshotte or Tice, not sure where the connection is there?

Our responsibility for people who relocated to Dubai ended when they stepped on the airplane.

Citizen or otherwise - if you moved there so you could enjoy 100% of your income and avoid UK taxes, you can also enjoy your missile filled skies.

Jerys · 01/03/2026 19:35

Cardomomle · 01/03/2026 19:13

"stupid planning laws"
😂😂

If HS2 was being built in the middle east they would have finished it by now

MamaToABeautifulBoy · 01/03/2026 19:35

Medesres · 01/03/2026 15:53

I knew it was in middle east Gulf and obviously Iran is in that area too but I hadn't studied the map in great detail until today.

The problem is Dubai and parts of the middle east have been really glamorised now so everyone wants to move there. Then something like this happens and you get a reality check

Dh going to speak to his work tomorrow. I'm sure they wouldn't send him if it escalates

“The problem is Dubai and parts of the middle east have been really glamorised now so everyone wants to move there”.

They really don’t.

Cardomomle · 01/03/2026 19:36

Jerys · 01/03/2026 19:35

If HS2 was being built in the middle east they would have finished it by now

Yeah, who cares about people's homes and wildlife and woodland and historic sites 😂

Cardomomle · 01/03/2026 19:37

SleeplessInWherever · 01/03/2026 19:34

Our responsibility for people who relocated to Dubai ended when they stepped on the airplane.

Citizen or otherwise - if you moved there so you could enjoy 100% of your income and avoid UK taxes, you can also enjoy your missile filled skies.

This x 💯

BlimeyOReillyO · 01/03/2026 19:37

Jerys · 01/03/2026 19:35

If HS2 was being built in the middle east they would have finished it by now

But they’d have committed gays to the death penalty as well?

Which would you prefer?

HS2 or living happy gay people?

Cardomomle · 01/03/2026 19:37

BlimeyOReillyO · 01/03/2026 19:32

Good god! I hadn’t seen that gem! That’s vile @Jerys !

It just keeps getting worse.....

BlimeyOReillyO · 01/03/2026 19:38

Cardomomle · 01/03/2026 19:36

Yeah, who cares about people's homes and wildlife and woodland and historic sites 😂

Exactly! Not important!

Cardomomle · 01/03/2026 19:38

BlimeyOReillyO · 01/03/2026 19:37

But they’d have committed gays to the death penalty as well?

Which would you prefer?

HS2 or living happy gay people?

Don't pull at that thread! 😱

BlimeyOReillyO · 01/03/2026 19:39

SleeplessInWherever · 01/03/2026 19:34

Our responsibility for people who relocated to Dubai ended when they stepped on the airplane.

Citizen or otherwise - if you moved there so you could enjoy 100% of your income and avoid UK taxes, you can also enjoy your missile filled skies.

Best post in this whole thread!!

👏

Papyrophile · 01/03/2026 19:39

@Cardomomle there's not much woodland and wildlife and very few historic sites. Comparisons are not valid

Cardomomle · 01/03/2026 19:39

BlimeyOReillyO · 01/03/2026 19:38

Exactly! Not important!

...nor people's opinions nor the right to live their lives in their way...

FrozenFebruary · 01/03/2026 19:39

TheignT · 01/03/2026 16:20

She probably doesn't mean a couple of weeks. It probably means something quite different.

What? I don't understand you??

she wrote ' give it a couple of weeks'

IsEveryUserNameBloodyTaken · 01/03/2026 19:39

Wellthisisdifficult · 01/03/2026 17:54

Ironically, the reason most want to adapt the human rights laws here is through fear of letting in too many people who come from countries with no human rights and bring that attitude here.

I don’t think people in the west want rid of human rights, they want to stop the abuse of our human rights laws

Absolutely this.

GreenCandleWax · 01/03/2026 19:40

MrFluffyDogIsMyBestFriend · 01/03/2026 16:24

I would love to get all the people mocking the op to draw their own map of the area. I spend ages on Google maps but I only have a rough idea of the location of Middle Eastern countries...I thought Iran was slightly further west rather than just across the gulf. I don't think that makes me an imbecile.

But presumably you are not planning to move there with your DC in less than a month from now! Is this thread genuine? It beggars belief anyone could be so passive and uninterested in the reality of where she was planning to go.

Cardomomle · 01/03/2026 19:40

Papyrophile · 01/03/2026 19:39

@Cardomomle there's not much woodland and wildlife and very few historic sites. Comparisons are not valid

Ok. You're right, just build whatever, wherever. Who cares.

BlimeyOReillyO · 01/03/2026 19:41

Papyrophile · 01/03/2026 19:39

@Cardomomle there's not much woodland and wildlife and very few historic sites. Comparisons are not valid

But there is here, hence the delay for HS2.

And @Jerys analogy of the fact that it’s so efficient in Dubai, is irrelevant!

Twooclockrock · 01/03/2026 19:41

Cardomomle · 01/03/2026 19:40

Ok. You're right, just build whatever, wherever. Who cares.

The people who built the historic sites destroyed woodland to build them though?

BlimeyOReillyO · 01/03/2026 19:42

Cardomomle · 01/03/2026 19:39

...nor people's opinions nor the right to live their lives in their way...

Exactly!

CharlotteRumpling · 01/03/2026 19:42

SleeplessInWherever · 01/03/2026 19:34

Our responsibility for people who relocated to Dubai ended when they stepped on the airplane.

Citizen or otherwise - if you moved there so you could enjoy 100% of your income and avoid UK taxes, you can also enjoy your missile filled skies.

I don't feel that strongly, but I do think that people like Isabel Oakeshotte who demonise immigrants for not integrating- and then move to a place where they do not integrate in any way- deserve a bit of comeuppance. A tiny bit.

Cardomomle · 01/03/2026 19:43

This thread has to be a spoof....and I don't just mean the OP.
Unbelievable 😟

SleeplessInWherever · 01/03/2026 19:43

CharlotteRumpling · 01/03/2026 19:42

I don't feel that strongly, but I do think that people like Isabel Oakeshotte who demonise immigrants for not integrating- and then move to a place where they do not integrate in any way- deserve a bit of comeuppance. A tiny bit.

She also dragged a disabled person across the city so her daughter could have weekend tuition today, she can definitely stay.

Cardomomle · 01/03/2026 19:44

CharlotteRumpling · 01/03/2026 19:42

I don't feel that strongly, but I do think that people like Isabel Oakeshotte who demonise immigrants for not integrating- and then move to a place where they do not integrate in any way- deserve a bit of comeuppance. A tiny bit.

The thing is, they're not even sharp enough to know they're being hypocritical.
They just don't want to pay tax, and have servants.