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Getting prepared just in case

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Olympeagal · 28/02/2026 15:24

Is anyone else preparing or making plans, in case the situation in the Middle East escalates?
Ive filled my car up with fuel. Should i be doing more?

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tommyhoundmum · 28/02/2026 17:56

TheignT · 28/02/2026 17:54

Oh lent is a struggle. I can just imagine that lovely melt In the mouth.

I'm a bit lapsed

Wasitalwaysgoingtobelikethis · 28/02/2026 17:56

Please buy 10000 rolls of Loo roll right now everyone

JessicaRabbit23 · 28/02/2026 17:56

HappyFace2025 · 28/02/2026 17:50

Funny that. I bought some today too.

Sainsbury’s have a 1kg bag of mini eggs £16

MeAndMyGhost · 28/02/2026 17:57

I live in one of the countries that was struck today.

Put a wash on, that is all.

Andouillette · 28/02/2026 17:59

TheignT · 28/02/2026 17:09

Oh no. How will I entertain GS? This is getting serious.

And yes I'm one of those evil grandmothers who let kids watch screens.

So am I.
Should we be banning Persian cats, just in case?

somuchbedding · 28/02/2026 17:59

There are other things you can do. You can look at Preppers websites, in fact I think there’s a Preppers thread on MN

But the preppers look at the panic buyers with disdain because the preppers are “sensible” & have been stockpiling for years in case of an event as opposed to reacting to an event. Funnily enough the preppers board get busier at times like this 😆

Additup · 28/02/2026 18:03

No, imo you shouldn't be doing more.
The situation in the ME has been escalating and de-escalating my entire life (mid 50's). It's just the way it is in that part of the world.

CreamolaFoam26 · 28/02/2026 18:06

HoppityBun · 28/02/2026 17:54

OP, you are getting a bit of a hard time from people who are not worried and who are not making preparations. None of that helps you and the reason that led you to put a post on here.

I do have a few suggestions and they do not include stocking up on toilet roll.

First, write down what you’re frightened about, what you are worried will happen and why it is that those particular fears are getting to you at the moment. Just take 15 minutes to write that all out.

Second, find someone you can talk to about your fears. I have a friend in a similar situation and she talks to a close neighbour, a man who is older than her and he calms her down. You need to talk to someone. As I read things, you are on your own, worried about your other half and worried about how you will cope. That’s completely understandable.

There are other things you can do. You can look at Preppers websites, in fact I think there’s a Preppers thread on MN. I don’t suggest you go down the lines that they go of getting generators, bags that can store food for up to 10 years without it deteriorating, ground sheets and goodness news what else including digging shelters in the garden. However, you can do little things and those threads might give you some ideas.

One of these might be making sure that you have a set of rechargeable batteries, that they are charged up and that you have a charger to charge them up again. Make sure you have a good torch that they fit into and that you know where to find it.

You could get some tins of food in. You could get a water purifier such as a Water To Go bottle.

Write down what you’re worried about and write down what you can do about these things. Also, I suggest that you have a think about where your fears are coming from.

Best wishes. You are not alone and please do not take to heart the supercilious and jokey comments that are on here. I understand that you are worried and anxious and many people will be feeling the same.

Finally, as an afterthought,I suggest that you do not listen to the news or read newspapers. This is an approach taken by many people and it takes you out of the sphere of unnecessary worrying.

I know you’re trying to help the OP but we’re not even stocking up on batteries or food items here in the Gulf.

Scottishskifun · 28/02/2026 18:09

OP I get that your frightened given your partner is away. I have multiple friends who's husbands work in the middle East. The companies are very good at looking after them and sorting things out.

You don't need to do anything else just try to relax and maybe not watch or read the news.

As for comments re prepping from other PP I think this depends on where you live. We regularly get bad winter storms and can be without power. We always have extras of food, fuel and bottled water because it is a very real possibility for us. Longest was 6 days without power in Winter.

ManukaMoneyMaker · 28/02/2026 18:11

HappyFace2025 · 28/02/2026 17:52

It is highly unlikely power will be cut off here due to the war. OTOH it is very likely to be cut off in Iran and Israel.

Yep I didn't really mean only for war, but when the Prepare website came out I got some things together like wind up radio, torch, a few litres of water etc. I think it's good to be prepared, but not to go mad stockpiling.

EsperTillus · 28/02/2026 18:12

I don’t usually fuss about all this stuff going on in the Middle East but we’ve been personally affected today. Our flight to Qatar got turned back just as we were leaving UK airspace and we were returned to Manchester. We were on our way to Doha to get a connecting flight to New Zealand to go and say goodbye to my dying aunt who likely now has less than 24 hours to live. Her only wish was to have family around her when she goes and she’s now going to die alone. By the time we can all get alternative flights and get there she will likely be gone. we certainly won’t ever forget this. My dad, who had been terrified to fly and had taken a Fearful Flyers course to prepare him for this flight, had a huge panic attack when they announced on the tannoy that the plane was being turned around and I doubt he’ll ever try flying again after this.

in terms of being prepared in our day to day lives, fuck knows. It never ends up reaching the UK so I don’t think it’s necessary to do anything

FloofBunny · 28/02/2026 18:13

It literally would never have occurred to me to stockpile anything.

I think you could probably benefit from treatment for anxiety, OP. I mean that kindly. Anxiety can be a very debilitating thing to live with, and getting treatment for it can really enhance your well-being.

BatchCookBabe · 28/02/2026 18:16

TheignT · 28/02/2026 17:53

I struggle with this, I've never smoked, never drunk alcohol, never done drugs so why aren't I rich? I know I buy too much chocolate but that pretty cheap in comparison.

Maybe it's the four kids and eight GC. Too late to do anything about that now.

Yeah, that'll be it. Grin All the kids and grandkids. (Wouldn't be without them though eh?!) Smile

I guess people who smoke must cut back with other things. I don't know what though. A mate of my DH's (and his wife) both smoke and go to the pub 3-4 nights a week. But he works about 56 hours a week (2 jobs... one 40 hours, one 16) His wife works about 35 hours a week - (one job..)

DH works 30 hours a week (one job,) and I work 18 hours a week, (one job,) and we don't smoke or drink alcohol... We go to the pub maybe 5 times a year, for a pub lunch usually, either just us two, or with family or friends...

We have more surplus cash than this fella and his wife. (Despite them doing double the hours we do..) If they dropped their hours they wouldn't be able to afford the pub and the smokes!

ManukaMoneyMaker · 28/02/2026 18:16

JessicaRabbit23 · 28/02/2026 17:56

Sainsbury’s have a 1kg bag of mini eggs £16

"Today on the news, rising tensions in the Middle East have led UK citizens to panic buy Cadburys mini eggs. There have been fist fights over the Lindt in Sainsburys, and in Waitrose a pack of feral women have been mugging people for their 90% Peruvian dark chocolate"

RedRiverShore6 · 28/02/2026 18:17

Probably inevitable that fuel prices will go up, it said on the news that some shipping gate had just closed that lets the oil and stuff through

BatchCookBabe · 28/02/2026 18:18

ManukaMoneyMaker · 28/02/2026 18:16

"Today on the news, rising tensions in the Middle East have led UK citizens to panic buy Cadburys mini eggs. There have been fist fights over the Lindt in Sainsburys, and in Waitrose a pack of feral women have been mugging people for their 90% Peruvian dark chocolate"

Oooooooooooooh! 😱

NewGoldFox · 28/02/2026 18:18

MorrisonsPlatter · 28/02/2026 15:28

Toilet paper 🧻

Hands off, it’s all mine!
🧻🧻🧻🧻🧻🧻🧻🧻🧻

Bearsdolovetrees · 28/02/2026 18:18

TheMoanerLisa · 28/02/2026 15:31

😂

My husband's 9pm flight to Qatar has just been cancelled. We are a baklava free zone!! The purpose of the trip wasn't purely to re-stock but to say I am disappointed is an understatement!

You’re disappointed you can’t fly into a war?

double0seven · 28/02/2026 18:18

Yerroblemom1923 · 28/02/2026 16:06

So, just like we did so well at during Covid, we need to stockpile loo rolls, pasta,baking ingredients (because we have to make our own bread and banana loaves) and as much petrol as we can fit in the tank and maybe some spare cans too in the boot. And bottled water, almost forgot that one, and tins with long shelf-life food in them.
Right, I'm off to the supermarket - wish me luck!

I'm not wishing you luck because it's selfish people like you who cleared supermarket shelves during covid leaving them empty for the rest of us. Don't forget the extra loo roll because you'll need it after eating all that extra food you've bought. Sleep well.

Strangerthanfictions · 28/02/2026 18:18

I've accelerated my uranium enrichment efforts

FloofBunny · 28/02/2026 18:20

Bearsdolovetrees · 28/02/2026 18:18

You’re disappointed you can’t fly into a war?

I think she was joking about the baklava!

ManukaMoneyMaker · 28/02/2026 18:20

Strangerthanfictions · 28/02/2026 18:18

I've accelerated my uranium enrichment efforts

Ooh I started during this in lockdown, it was a lovely hobby to while away the days and a great STEM activity for the DC

MagpiePi · 28/02/2026 18:20

OlympicWomen · 28/02/2026 16:50

Important question:
Is it still ok for me to have a Persian carpet?

I literally do have a pile of about 8 persian rugs. And one tin of mackerel fillets.

HappyFace2025 · 28/02/2026 18:20

ManukaMoneyMaker · 28/02/2026 18:11

Yep I didn't really mean only for war, but when the Prepare website came out I got some things together like wind up radio, torch, a few litres of water etc. I think it's good to be prepared, but not to go mad stockpiling.

DP bought me a windup radio at Xmas and we have torches! At least I've got stocks of cat food if nothing else 😻

KeepPumping · 28/02/2026 18:20

dapsnotplimsolls · 28/02/2026 17:01

Bugger this thread, I'm really tempted to go and get petrol now in case there are massive queues tomorrow ...

People will already be trying to get as much petrol as they can IMO.

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