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'Being Gordon Ramsay' featuring dead pig!

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paloma7 · 27/02/2026 17:10

Ffs! I'm just watching this Netflix show about Gordon Ramsay and his opening of a new restaurant with amazing views in the city. I'm not interested in him particularly, but thought I might go to this 'Lucky Cat' just for the views over London, if and whenever it opens.

BUT - then there is a scene where he is consulting with his head chef about the menu and there is a whole dead baby suckling pig on a plate. They are talking about making this a restaurant feature, requiring two chefs who carve it at your table.

AIBU to think this is obscene? Yes, I'm vegetarian, but I think even most meat eaters would balk at this?

If I were in his restaurant and that was going at the the next table, I would leave. Wtf is wrong with humans?

OP posts:
anterenea · 27/02/2026 19:15

I understand your point OP, I am not vegetarian and have enjoyed whole roast suckling pigs until i had to prepare one - spear it (or rather her as she was a little female) from mouth to anus, rub it with the butter and herbs sauce- and then I felt like you. Plus I leave in SW France, very near the Spanish border and I have driven past so many lorries full of 6 months old max piglets, and the screams stay with you forever. Also since when if suckling pig deserving of a £100 a head restaurant? It's quite obscene, at least there are some chefs like Hugh Fearnley-Whittingstall who pay lip service to the environmental catastrophe we're in the middle of ; but not Gordon, no, always with the baseless exploitation of animals

Shadowdax16 · 27/02/2026 19:16

I would much rather this than people buying unidentifiable lumps of meat in a supermarket where it’s easy to disassociate from what it is and how it was raised, treated and slaughtered.

FlatErica · 27/02/2026 19:19

faerylights · 27/02/2026 19:12

I live in the country and see and experience all this stuff everyday - nothing you're saying is news to me and none of it puts me off eating meat.

If you apparently care so much about animals feelings, why are you still eating cheese and drinking milk?

Yes, I’d be interested to hear how OP rationalises this too.

NeverDropYourMooncup · 27/02/2026 19:20

ChattyCatty25 · 27/02/2026 18:51

If “omnis” are so comfortable with dead animals, why are they so offended by slaughterhouse and factory farm footage?

They rage and scream against completely standard animal agriculture scenes being shown publicly, such as male chicks being crushed live in a macerator.

You will see a potato harvest on TV adverts, but never an abattoir.

Meh, you'll see babies on an advert, but not the moment they're conceived or born either. Most of us are comfortable with sex, pregnancy and birth but aren't really wanting to see them whilst idly wishing Netflix didn't have two tiers.

DrPrunesqualer · 27/02/2026 19:20

ChattyCatty25 · 27/02/2026 19:04

Uncontrollable global warming, ocean collapse, and deforestation will tell you otherwise.

Meat eaters would rather die than save our only habitable planet.

Well said

HokiePokie · 27/02/2026 19:21

I completely agree with you OP. I am vegetarian, trying really hard to go towards a vegan diet.
I accept other people are free to choose what they eat, but the level of cognitive dissonance between eating meat and the reality of the way animals are slaughtered is something that I find astonishing and very depressing.

zephyr148 · 27/02/2026 19:22

You don’t work for GR’s PR team by any chance? I think you’re doing an excellent job encouraging a lot of people here (me included) to try the restaurant! You should ask him for a bonus.

Ilovecrispytofu · 27/02/2026 19:25

faerylights · 27/02/2026 18:52

Animals have no concept of life spans or how long they're supposed to live - it's not like they go to slaughter sobbing because they're supposed to live until 6 years instead of 6 months!

No but there is something pretty repellant about breeding animals only to kill them while still new born. Not to mention distressing for the mother pig. By breeding animals I think we are responsible for giving them some kind of quality of life and this includes a decent longevity.

faerylights · 27/02/2026 19:26

HokiePokie · 27/02/2026 19:21

I completely agree with you OP. I am vegetarian, trying really hard to go towards a vegan diet.
I accept other people are free to choose what they eat, but the level of cognitive dissonance between eating meat and the reality of the way animals are slaughtered is something that I find astonishing and very depressing.

Hm - surely a meat eater seeing a whole pig on a table and wanting to eat it anyway is pretty much the total opposite of cognitive dissonance?

We know how animals are killed, btw. You're free to find that as astonishing and depressing as you like.

FreshInks · 27/02/2026 19:26

FlatErica · 27/02/2026 19:19

Yes, I’d be interested to hear how OP rationalises this too.

She’s a hypocrite.

Growing up by a dairy farm, the wail made by the cows and their calf’s when they are separated is a sound I won’t forget. But the OP seems to have no problem with that.

faerylights · 27/02/2026 19:27

Ilovecrispytofu · 27/02/2026 19:25

No but there is something pretty repellant about breeding animals only to kill them while still new born. Not to mention distressing for the mother pig. By breeding animals I think we are responsible for giving them some kind of quality of life and this includes a decent longevity.

Okay, so what age do you think it stops being repellent?

Six months? 18 months? 2 years? They can't be too old or the meat would be no good for eating, after all.

Shadowdax16 · 27/02/2026 19:27

DrPrunesqualer · 27/02/2026 19:20

Well said

But actually the OPs posts undermine this argument. They are more comfortable with supermarket bacon, which is likely intensively reared without much thought for the animal or its impact. I’m not saying that the suckling pig might not also fall into this category but I think it is possible to be an ethical meat eater in the same way as it’s possible to be an unethical vegan.

faerylights · 27/02/2026 19:27

FlatErica · 27/02/2026 19:19

Yes, I’d be interested to hear how OP rationalises this too.

She can't, which is why she's ignored every single poster asking her about it.

CornishPorsche · 27/02/2026 19:30

paloma7 · 27/02/2026 19:10

Of course a human being is not a cow or pig. But nevertheless. we are all mammals, with flesh and warm blood and complex nervous systems and therefore will experience physical pain in a similar way. Animals are also highly attuned to be able to sense and feel fear. How do you know animals don't sense fear before their slaughter. They almost certainly do. Do you really think a mother pig or cow just doesn't notice if her piglet or calf is removed? Ever seen a cow mourning her calf? The way people deny animals sentience to justify using them as commodities is too depressing.

But you're not bothered about a tuna?

Franpie · 27/02/2026 19:30

Lucky Cat is GR’s Asian brand.

Whole suckling pigs are common in Chinese restaurants and are seen roasting or hanging on spits in nearly every restaurant window in Soho.

DrPrunesqualer · 27/02/2026 19:31

faerylights · 27/02/2026 19:09

Why not, if they're lab bred and raised specifically for that purpose?

Pigs raised for slaughter only exist because we decided to keep them here as a species - they wouldn't be frolicking around a field living a happy life otherwise, they'd never exist to begin with.

The only people who care that they exist is the ones that want to eat them

As a previous post if you RTT
vegans and non meat eaters would rather they were all extinct. For that matter if they could speak so would they

Would you want to bread your own babies for people to prance them through a restaurant after being slaughtered.

faerylights · 27/02/2026 19:33

vegans and non meat eaters would rather they were all extinct. For that matter if they could speak so would they

How the hell do you know that? 😂 Do you speak pig?

I don't have or want children FWIW. Can't understand why anyone would want to be a parent.

DrPrunesqualer · 27/02/2026 19:33

Ilovecrispytofu · 27/02/2026 19:25

No but there is something pretty repellant about breeding animals only to kill them while still new born. Not to mention distressing for the mother pig. By breeding animals I think we are responsible for giving them some kind of quality of life and this includes a decent longevity.

Meat eaters need to address all the horrors of the Industry

DrPrunesqualer · 27/02/2026 19:35

faerylights · 27/02/2026 18:54

Yes, and it was 30 years ago...that's my point 😂

No parents complained, there was no massive uproar - us kids learnt where our food came from, helped feed and raise the pig (it was considered a big honour to take Sage her veggies) and then we ate her once she had been slaughtered.

And she was delicious with some apple sauce in a bun Grin

Well I’m glad to hear that happened back in the dark ages then

so glad we are more understanding of everyone these days

RawBloomers · 27/02/2026 19:36

FairKoala · 27/02/2026 18:27

You make it sounds so nice.

What if we had people who are given a great life and then before they get too old they are killed humanely and served to meat eating animals.

That did used to happen (except the killed humanely part). Still does occasionally. Many animals, including humans, eat meat and they kill to get it. We don't get killed by other animals much nowadays because we've developed ways to defend ourselves (like urbanization, but also killing off predators). There's generally nothing immoral about a meat eating animal killing another animal to eat. It's the cycle of life that we have evolved to be a part of.

maddiemookins16mum · 27/02/2026 19:39

YABU

Veganpower · 27/02/2026 19:41

Eating animals is depraved. I know it is socially acceptable but lots of cruel unnecessary things were once accepted.

We are not apex predators so I have never understood the use of 'carnivore' for those who bravely visit the local supermarket to purchase chopped up body parts of a poor animal chilled and packed in a fridge, when the term necrovore is more accurate.

There are also compelling environmental reasons for a plant based diet.

AwayADay · 27/02/2026 19:42

paloma7 · 27/02/2026 17:10

Ffs! I'm just watching this Netflix show about Gordon Ramsay and his opening of a new restaurant with amazing views in the city. I'm not interested in him particularly, but thought I might go to this 'Lucky Cat' just for the views over London, if and whenever it opens.

BUT - then there is a scene where he is consulting with his head chef about the menu and there is a whole dead baby suckling pig on a plate. They are talking about making this a restaurant feature, requiring two chefs who carve it at your table.

AIBU to think this is obscene? Yes, I'm vegetarian, but I think even most meat eaters would balk at this?

If I were in his restaurant and that was going at the the next table, I would leave. Wtf is wrong with humans?

I am also a vegetarian and yes it must have to horrible to see but realistically in a food programme you are likely to see meat.
On watching the news tonight , it was all about over fishing of Mackerel and shows hundreds of thousands dead fish , it was horrible to see but I would come on here to make a post of it , no .
There are good things and bad things on t.v. , don't watch it if it upsets you .

HokiePokie · 27/02/2026 19:43

faerylights · 27/02/2026 19:26

Hm - surely a meat eater seeing a whole pig on a table and wanting to eat it anyway is pretty much the total opposite of cognitive dissonance?

We know how animals are killed, btw. You're free to find that as astonishing and depressing as you like.

But the pig is already dead when you see it, not slaughtered in front of you.

We all know how animals are slaughtered, but do most people really think deeply about what actually happens within an abbatoir.
A friend of mine worked in the offices of an abbatoir when she was younger and had to leave because of what she saw. The pigs were so distressed when being unloaded from the trucks, not to mention being kicked and treated appallingly before they even got inside. Some had heart attacks and died as they were so distressed. She never saw the actual slaughter, but what she did see was enough to stop her eating meat.

DeepBlueDeer · 27/02/2026 19:43

At least its not as bad as the David Cameron one.

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