To think kids in blended families don’t have two homes

[StRidiculous]

In EOWE type scenarios where the vast majority of time is spent with one parent, I don’t think the children believe they have two homes at all.

We do have 6.5w of holidays with them too, but often that’s actually spent on holiday, not just hanging at home.

I agree with you - our focus should be on the quality of the relationship going forward, not the quantity.

My step son calls his (our) house home and his mums house mums house. He didn't see her for a long time right enough and he doesn't have a room there so there's no wonder he doesn't think of it as home.