If I have brought a child up wrongly - in your opinion

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for example. indulged my child too much or not set boundaries, would you judge me?
Why?
Have you done any better?

I do think that you always have to consider the long term, for example you may be willing to pander to your child's behaviour, the rest of the world will run a mile from an adult that throws tantrums. It doesn't always mean that you get it right though.