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Are you now more likely to vote for REFORM (the party)

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Decisiondecisions · 18/02/2026 14:49

NC for this and apologies if Q already asked. My quick search yielded no result.

Reform plan to undo the reversal of 2 child cap benefit. Are you now likely (or more likely) to vote for them? There have been endless threads about the welfare bill.

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ForWittyTealOP · 19/02/2026 10:54

ExtraOnions · 19/02/2026 08:48

I’m looking forward to Reform getting in, it’s the only way these goons will be exposed for the shysters they are. The councils they already have, they can’t manage.. they have put up the Council Tax they promised to cut .. they can’t find the waste they insisted was there.. and have found out that there isn’t massive corruption to be uncovered.

As for a National Government it will the same, but just worse on a National Level.

I do sometimes wonder how long it would be before a Reform government collapsed. Would they last the full 49 days?

ForWittyTealOP · 19/02/2026 10:55

Katypp · 19/02/2026 08:48

The question was not directed at me. So no I did not answer it.
I am not Reform voter by the way.
I was merely pointing out that the reason i think Reform is getting a foothold is the perception that Labour - which came to office with such a tide of goodwill - is letting people down badly.
They voted for Labour because they felt let down by the Tories and now they feel let down again. So they are looking elsewhere.
If Labour had not been so supercillious and critical of the Tories when in opposition, they would not appear so hypocritical now and Reform might have been held at bay.
Just my observations, not interested in 'gotcha'

Edited

I think the point of the Opposition is to critique the sitting government. I wouldn't call that supercilious, more part of the job.

ForWittyTealOP · 19/02/2026 10:58

1dayatatime · 19/02/2026 09:33

I would rather vote Labour/ Con / Liberal over Reform, but I would rather vote Reform over Greens.

The Greens would destroy the economy with their failure to understand the difference between national debt and debt interest, a confrontational approach to the bond markets (that will make Liz Truss seem rational in comparison), open borders, a racist immigration policy viewing immigrants as slave labour to do the jobs that are beneath UK nationals, an approach to the trans issue that is at odds with most women, a net zero energy policy that is both unworkable and would make energy unaffordable to both businesses and households.

All topped by a man who claims to be able to increase your breast size through hypnosis.

So yes whilst the venom on this thread has been directed at Reform, the Greens are far more dangerous, hateful and damaging than Reform would ever be.

They're definitely not more dangerous, hateful and damaging than Reform. There's no far right connection for a start, nor are they in bed with Putin's Russia.

WaryCrow · 19/02/2026 11:00

As a woman there is very little you can do to undo the damage of Farage. As someone from a poor background I’ve yet to hear any real plans to overhaul the economy and make it work again… from anyone. I’m certainly not trusting a lying snake oil merchant who knows nothing beyond pre existing capital and financial wheeler-dealing. No go.

And, oh yes, as a British person concerned with British people and British economy I’m not impressed with anyone so obviously hooked into either the USA or Russia.

Sirzy · 19/02/2026 11:10

ForWittyTealOP · 19/02/2026 10:53

It'll help all of us to some extent. Unequal societies are more violent and unsettled places to be. From a reduction in shoplifting for essentials to kids being less disruptive in classes because they're hungry, from fewer parents using NHS resources to cope with the physical and mental ill health caused by poverty to more people being in a position to work because they're not hamstrung by being too poor to meet their essential needs, the removal of this poverty creating legislation benefits everyone.

I could never understand why people thought it was a good idea to legislate in favour of more inequality based on some spurious and ideological moral grounds. This is why I said earlier that advocates of the two child cap lack the ability to think clearly.

I think a lot of people can’t, or won’t, see the impact beyond “giving them more money”. They can’t think about the long term issues that come from childhood poverty

ForWittyTealOP · 19/02/2026 11:19

Sirzy · 19/02/2026 11:10

I think a lot of people can’t, or won’t, see the impact beyond “giving them more money”. They can’t think about the long term issues that come from childhood poverty

I completely agree. There's an assumption that everyone starts from the same point and anything that happens after that point is a matter of individual responsibility/failing.
Unfortunately for them, lack of understanding about how life, and people, actually functions is no excuse for moralising.

persephonia · 19/02/2026 11:20

Sirzy · 19/02/2026 11:10

I think a lot of people can’t, or won’t, see the impact beyond “giving them more money”. They can’t think about the long term issues that come from childhood poverty

I think that has been an issue for a while. And it's hard to see sometimes the connections between small scale programmes and later public issues because of the time lag (it takes several years for a child failed in primary school education to become an adult who struggles to find employment). But we had a large scale social experiment in what happens if you cut public spending and remove services and social programmes. It was called austerity. And a lot of the effects showed up 10, 20 years later. But it is encouraging a shift further right NOT a rethink. You just get threads asking why so many adults are incapable of working etc etc. Plus, it's a lot harder to spend money to get services back when the economy/tax revenue is suffering and stuff has to built up from the ground again.

For crime - I don't think eradicating poverty would eradicate crime as some of the more idealistics types on the left suggest. Rich people also do crimes. But reducing poverty has been proven to reduce many different types of crime.

TreeDudette · 19/02/2026 11:27

I don't want to vote for Trump-lite thank you. REFORM can keep their racist, divisive and downright foolish policies to themselves.

EarthlyNightshade · 19/02/2026 11:28

Sirzy · 19/02/2026 11:10

I think a lot of people can’t, or won’t, see the impact beyond “giving them more money”. They can’t think about the long term issues that come from childhood poverty

That's a great point and something that I don't think about enough myself.

Of course I don't want child poverty but realising that not having child poverty benefits everyone is a good way to get more people on board.

CaptainMyCaptain · 19/02/2026 11:49

ForWittyTealOP · 19/02/2026 10:53

It'll help all of us to some extent. Unequal societies are more violent and unsettled places to be. From a reduction in shoplifting for essentials to kids being less disruptive in classes because they're hungry, from fewer parents using NHS resources to cope with the physical and mental ill health caused by poverty to more people being in a position to work because they're not hamstrung by being too poor to meet their essential needs, the removal of this poverty creating legislation benefits everyone.

I could never understand why people thought it was a good idea to legislate in favour of more inequality based on some spurious and ideological moral grounds. This is why I said earlier that advocates of the two child cap lack the ability to think clearly.

I agree it is good for us all. I meant I don't just think about my own personal circumstances but the wider picture. We all benefit from a more equal society.

Sirzy · 19/02/2026 12:20

So many things would be better if we could tackle the inequalities from a young age and help to break these cycles. Sadly people want immediate results rather than to invest for the long term.

Things like sure start where fantastic but it’s all been stripped away. I would love to see information on the impact of that but I bet it hasn’t saved any money long term.

JasmineMac · 19/02/2026 12:28

Sirzy · 19/02/2026 11:10

I think a lot of people can’t, or won’t, see the impact beyond “giving them more money”. They can’t think about the long term issues that come from childhood poverty

The two child cap (whether in place/removed) has become a mere gimmick, thus a firm stance on either side is somewhat insincere.
Looking at long term effects through the prism only of child benefit is pretty pointless, because families relient on benefits will be, and are, subject to other benefit cuts. It's notoriously difficult to gauge effects, given other factors.

The inarguable backdrop to any discussion on welfare is that the current welfare bill is entirely unsustainable.

cartfred · 19/02/2026 12:46

I want the 2 child cap to remain in place and for the benefits bill to be reduced. I’m sick of funding everyone else and getting nothing in return when I’m struggling too. So yes, I’d consider voting Reform!

napody · 19/02/2026 12:47

Ediblechalk · 18/02/2026 22:16

I think they’ll do a better job than Labour, I think they’ll do a much much better job than Labour on the economy.
The below is a bit crazy and paranoid if you don’t mind me saying, are you suggesting they’d give away British territory and then what? pay billions each year to who they gave the territory to? Sounds a bit far fetched.

, but not psychopaths who'll sell whats left of the country to the highest bidder (US, Russia, China, or a bit to all three).

Truss crashed the economy in a couple of weeks and we are still paying for it. Labour aren't miracle workers but Reform will absolutely be towards the Truss end of things. Can you imagine anyone spooking the markets more than Farage? But from his pov it'll be deliberate- he doesn't want to improve anything, he wants to burn it down and make a quick buck from the ashes.

Sirzy · 19/02/2026 12:49

cartfred · 19/02/2026 12:46

I want the 2 child cap to remain in place and for the benefits bill to be reduced. I’m sick of funding everyone else and getting nothing in return when I’m struggling too. So yes, I’d consider voting Reform!

And how would forcing others into poverty help you exactly?

ForWittyTealOP · 19/02/2026 12:53

JasmineMac · 19/02/2026 12:28

The two child cap (whether in place/removed) has become a mere gimmick, thus a firm stance on either side is somewhat insincere.
Looking at long term effects through the prism only of child benefit is pretty pointless, because families relient on benefits will be, and are, subject to other benefit cuts. It's notoriously difficult to gauge effects, given other factors.

The inarguable backdrop to any discussion on welfare is that the current welfare bill is entirely unsustainable.

Why do you think the benefits bill (rather than welfare which in the UK is something slightly different) is unsustainable? And what would you do to change that, especially in the light of AI and other threats to jobs, the increasingly ageing population and the better understanding and diagnosis of disability we now have?

JasmineMac · 19/02/2026 13:11

ForWittyTealOP · 19/02/2026 12:53

Why do you think the benefits bill (rather than welfare which in the UK is something slightly different) is unsustainable? And what would you do to change that, especially in the light of AI and other threats to jobs, the increasingly ageing population and the better understanding and diagnosis of disability we now have?

The growing cost is well documented. Discussing individual outcomes is a luxury we don't actually have, because on the current trajectory the welfare system faces complete collapse (in the short term!).

In terms of what can be done, an honest discussion is required; succesive governments avoiding same and opting to kick the can down the road has got us into this precarious position. Perhaps that's why reform are appealing to growing numbers? They're talking radical change, not just lip service.

ExtraOnions · 19/02/2026 13:32

cartfred · 19/02/2026 12:46

I want the 2 child cap to remain in place and for the benefits bill to be reduced. I’m sick of funding everyone else and getting nothing in return when I’m struggling too. So yes, I’d consider voting Reform!

Those Children are our future Doctors, nurses, teachers, carers, firefighters, solidera etc. With immigration now falling we need our birth rate to rise, and surely children who come from more financially stable homes do better

MrsBennetsPoorNervesAreBack · 19/02/2026 13:34

cartfred · 19/02/2026 12:46

I want the 2 child cap to remain in place and for the benefits bill to be reduced. I’m sick of funding everyone else and getting nothing in return when I’m struggling too. So yes, I’d consider voting Reform!

So you want to the state to enrich the billionaires rather than supporting low income families with children?

ForWittyTealOP · 19/02/2026 13:48

JasmineMac · 19/02/2026 13:11

The growing cost is well documented. Discussing individual outcomes is a luxury we don't actually have, because on the current trajectory the welfare system faces complete collapse (in the short term!).

In terms of what can be done, an honest discussion is required; succesive governments avoiding same and opting to kick the can down the road has got us into this precarious position. Perhaps that's why reform are appealing to growing numbers? They're talking radical change, not just lip service.

I'm wondering what statistics back up what you're saying? Because if demonstrably right, the collapse of the benefits system would be a terrible catastrophe, leaving many millions destitute. If you were able to prove that this is imminent, in what way do you think a Reform government would alleviate the problem? I'm not familiar with their policies in this area.

DurinsBane · 19/02/2026 13:50

I am, in theory, in support of the 2 child benefit cap (with some exceptions). However, it wouldn’t make me vote for Reform. I wouldn’t vote for one party on a single issue.

Sirzy · 19/02/2026 13:59

If we want to reduce the welfare bill long term we need to look now at why people are needing support. A lot of that comes back to issues not being picked up on and steps taken to alleviate them early enough.

prevention is what we need to really tackle so many of the issues we currently face

1dayatatime · 19/02/2026 13:59

ExtraOnions · 19/02/2026 13:32

Those Children are our future Doctors, nurses, teachers, carers, firefighters, solidera etc. With immigration now falling we need our birth rate to rise, and surely children who come from more financially stable homes do better

In the past 30
years the UK population has gone up 12 million (22% increase) or effectively a ne London.
This has placed enormous pressure on existing infrastructure, services and the environment. If you want to know why services and infrastructure doesn't seem to work as it used then it's simply down to more people using the existing infrastructure and services. On an environmental level the most cost effective way to protect the environment is less people.

We most definitely do not need the Government encouraging population growth whether that be by immigration or birth rate.

JasmineMac · 19/02/2026 15:17

ForWittyTealOP · 19/02/2026 13:48

I'm wondering what statistics back up what you're saying? Because if demonstrably right, the collapse of the benefits system would be a terrible catastrophe, leaving many millions destitute. If you were able to prove that this is imminent, in what way do you think a Reform government would alleviate the problem? I'm not familiar with their policies in this area.

Welfare spending has grown rapidly year on year, I'm surprised you're unaware of that? The OBR forecast it to reach dizzying heights by 2030. In terms of stats, the economic affairs committee has been sounding the alarm for a long time, I doubt there is any government official in any of the parties who would say it was sustainable. All of the parties agree it absolutely isn't.

I wasn't suggesting reform has the answer (my question about reform was rhetorical).

justtheotheronemrswembley · 19/02/2026 15:39

TooBigForMyBoots · 18/02/2026 22:05

OMG, Reform really is the party where shite Tories go when they become unelectable.🙈

This constituency got rid of that waste of oxygen when she resigned, thank God. Not that she was ever here in her constituency. She was far too busy writing shitty novels, smiling for the tv cameras, and sucking up to Boris to have any time to serve her constituents.

The Reform party is welcome to her. She's about as much use as a cardboard saucepan.