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Reform wants women barefoot and pregnant

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Sweetiedarling7 · 14/02/2026 07:57

Reform candidate Matt Goodwin wants women to have children early in life and introduce extra taxes as punishment for anyone who chooses not to have children.

Misogyny in plain sight.

How long till they ban abortion too?

Women voting Reform may want to consider if they are turkeys voting for christmas.

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NeverDropYourMooncup · 14/02/2026 09:28

WelshRabBite · 14/02/2026 08:22

Reform want conflicting things.

They hate “benefit scroungers” and yet want women to have DC in their 20s, which statistically means they’re more likely to need/receive benefits.

They want women to breed young (like cattle), so they can then berate her for taking money from the state to help raise that child, knowing she didn’t have the time to build her career to a level that would support a child.

Also, divorce rates lower the older you get, so essentially you’ll end up with a lot of young single mums, which is another sector Reform voters hate.

They want women to breed young but be hated for it.

Oh, I don't think so.

What they actually want is for the young women to marry the middleaged men because the financial consequences of choosing somebody the same age or not doing so are so punitive that they become more tolerable as a choice.

Men like them in their 40s and 50s with 19-24 year old wives. Because the alternative for the women is extreme financial hardship/destitution and outright punishment for failing to meet the social obligation these men wish to impose upon them.

It's a bunch of middleaged and elderly men seeking a way to force access to young women's bodies.

(Vomit bags are available at the back of the auditorium, along with some rubble sacks for whoever has the mental image of Farage and his mates looking at a bunch of late teens thinking 'how can we make them see that we are the men they should be birthing children for?')

They're just ageing incels.

EverythingGolden · 14/02/2026 09:28

I do genuinely find Reform’s ideological stance confusing and contradictory. With Thatcherism I understand the general direction of travel and what it was based on. Reform is either confusing through incompetence and lack of intellectual rigour or they are trying to suppress the true agenda and either is concerning in power.

Catwalking · 14/02/2026 09:28

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CotswoldsCamilla · 14/02/2026 09:28

Thisseasonsdiamante · 14/02/2026 08:11

I had children in my twenties and early thirties and I do think it is the right time to be having children biologically. It is still much later than previous generations on average. So I definitely would like to see policies enabling this.

I also think both parents should get a years leave each in their children’s first two years, mothers year 1 and fathers year 2 so children are with both parents in early years Housing and living costs and policies should broadly support this. That’s who I would vote for.

This involves the taxpayer supporting these people with their two years off though. Supposing they have 4 children. Should they have 8 years off in prime earning years? All supported by the taxpayer? Is the taxpayer not burdened enough with the ever rising cost of welfare?

BoredZelda · 14/02/2026 09:28

SumUp · 14/02/2026 08:50

What would a higher birth rate achieve?

Theres a massive employment crisis amongst young people due to a weak economy and AI. What are Reform’s policies that will make this better?

Even if there is a need these babies for the economy, it will take 20 years for the policy to start delivering workers. So it’s nonsense.

It’s all about.controlling women of course, and not part of any coherent plan for the nation.

You think reform won’t cook the books so they remain in power for that long?

PersephonePomegranate · 14/02/2026 09:29

Won't this also lead to an increase in non-white people though, too? Imagine their horror as they realise 😂

FourCheese · 14/02/2026 09:30

FreeTheOakTree · 14/02/2026 09:11

But 24 is very young by today's standards. 16 is still a child and my thoughts on that I shall keep to myself.

Whilst I appreciate some have read the OP and made it about when they had children, the overall point and concern being expressed is of Reform's intentions, which will not be sincere or in support of women.

The wider implications are concerning.

She’s not saying it’s ideal to have a child at 16 and none of us know her circumstances, so there’s no opinion for you to have.

Her point was she doesn’t think 24 is young to have a baby and how standards have shifted.

Happyjoe · 14/02/2026 09:31

speakingofart · 14/02/2026 09:27

I mean…. If you want to get technical about it, I suspect most childfree women already pay more tax - I certainly wouldn’t work full time and at the level I do if I’d chosen to have children. Plus I live on my own so pay more council tax etc. I’d rather live on a pittance than have children though - it’s not the right path for me so no amount of tax will convince me.

They really are the most vile misogynists / racists/ insert other ism here!

Our tax also goes to schools, nursery spaces, free school meals, sixth form college. Childless people already contribute to the children of our future. Why should folk pay more? It's a lifestyle choice.

itsthetea · 14/02/2026 09:31

The birth rate isn’t too low
we are overpopulated

we can’t house everyone even if we stopped all immigration tomorrow and”returned” any recent immigrants - can only be recent as I am sure farage won’t won’t go back to france

we can’t feed ourselves and the problems this cause in terms of food shortages and rising prices ( chocolate was your canary in the pit ) as climate change bites are immense

our population is likely to decline and a slow and controlled fashion based on current predictions

let’s not make a mountain out of a pimple to cover up mysogeny and racism

I have never yet met a right wing person who sees women as equal in intelligence to men

Happyjoe · 14/02/2026 09:31

We don't need more and more people on the planet. It's kicking the can down the road. Yeah, need more now to look after us later, but what about the next generation, and the generation after that? Unsustainable.

Ginmonkeyagain · 14/02/2026 09:31

@speakingofart indeed. I have worked full time since the age of 21, part time since 16. I have been a higher rate tax payer for 15 years. I've paid, and continue to pay, a good amount of tax. Some of which goes to fund services and benefits for children and parents (I am more than happy that it does). We child free women already contribute a lot to the next generation.

ThreeTescoBags · 14/02/2026 09:31

LydiaFunnyGums · 14/02/2026 08:56

“Reform UK welcomes backing from adult film star Bonnie Blue’ Look it up. Says it all really doesn’t it. I won’t be voting for Reform!

If pregnancy is the goal, I hear she has produced a number of educational films that demonstrate various techniques one might employ...

EatMoreChocolate44 · 14/02/2026 09:31

Thisseasonsdiamante · 14/02/2026 08:11

I had children in my twenties and early thirties and I do think it is the right time to be having children biologically. It is still much later than previous generations on average. So I definitely would like to see policies enabling this.

I also think both parents should get a years leave each in their children’s first two years, mothers year 1 and fathers year 2 so children are with both parents in early years Housing and living costs and policies should broadly support this. That’s who I would vote for.

Policy to have children younger! I had my two kids at 35 and 39 and it was right for me and my family. I was financially secure, in a loving relationship and emotionally ready. You can't implement a policy that tells woman when they are ready! Only we ourselves can decide that. The alternative is actually rather frightening. Being forced almost. I agree with more time off when you have kids though. That part of paid leave would never happen. Maternity leave pay is rubbish as it is. I'm a teacher and after 3 months I was down to half pay and after 6 months statutory.

SusanChurchouse · 14/02/2026 09:32

NeverDropYourMooncup · 14/02/2026 09:28

Oh, I don't think so.

What they actually want is for the young women to marry the middleaged men because the financial consequences of choosing somebody the same age or not doing so are so punitive that they become more tolerable as a choice.

Men like them in their 40s and 50s with 19-24 year old wives. Because the alternative for the women is extreme financial hardship/destitution and outright punishment for failing to meet the social obligation these men wish to impose upon them.

It's a bunch of middleaged and elderly men seeking a way to force access to young women's bodies.

(Vomit bags are available at the back of the auditorium, along with some rubble sacks for whoever has the mental image of Farage and his mates looking at a bunch of late teens thinking 'how can we make them see that we are the men they should be birthing children for?')

They're just ageing incels.

I almost posted something similar. They want men to be able to build careers and wealth in their 20s and 30s (helped by having fewer women in the workforce) then marry women 20 years their junior who will provide them with children. And bonus, be young enough to care for them in their later years.

Imdunfer · 14/02/2026 09:32

FussyFancyDragon · 14/02/2026 09:25

I hate reform, but don’t know about this. How are they planning on punishing women for not having children, what’s been said by who?

Read the Guardian article that I pointed to above, hopefully with a more analytical and rational mind than some of it's other readers!

I never thought I would see a group of women froth at the mouth at the proposal that women should be given more help with childcare costs!!

jasflowers · 14/02/2026 09:33

Imdunfer · 14/02/2026 09:25

Do we assume your source is this:

https://www.theguardian.com/politics/2026/feb/13/reform-matt-goodwin-fertility-comments-outcry-handmaids-tale

In which case, did you and the journalist and everyone else who is frothing at the mouth about it this miss this? -

"Many women in Britain are having children much too late in life and they would prefer to have children much earlier on."

He's not proposing to "tax childless families more." He is proposing big tax breaks for women who have children. I see repeated calls on this forum for higher benefits for families to cover the costs of having children.

Those are the same thing.

For those saying he wants women to halt their careers and give up work, you might like to notice that you cannot obtain a tax break if you aren't working and paying tax!

We have the situation where deaths and serious problem in childbirth are rising in this country for the first time in spite of medical advances. One of the reasons for that is that women are giving birth older.

What exactly is wrong with pointing out things like that and proposing to enable women financially to choose to have a family earlier if they want to?

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Tax breaks or no, many women are choosing not to have children, regardless of wealth.
Fertility rates in men and women is falling too.

There are plenty of sources for Matt Goodwins views, not just the Guardian.

Goodwins & Reforms views echo that of Nazi Germany, who invested v heavily into getting Aryan women to have "pure" children.

You can bet your last euro, that Reform wont be offering tax breaks to migrant families, legally here.

LeavesOnTrees · 14/02/2026 09:33

The problem is that that pension system is one big ponzi scheme, but the population couldn't keep rising indefinitely (hence previous concerns about overpopulation).
Far east countries are already trying financial incentives to increase the birth rate but it's not working.

I do worry what measures more controlling countries like China will bring in, as it will definitely not be good for women.

At the moment, to get married, get a job, buy a house and have two children is just one long struggle and very tiring. Housing costs, needing 2 incomes and job uncertainty doesn't help. Coercing women into to having more children won't work. They need to tackle the more fundamental problems.

nicepotoftea · 14/02/2026 09:33

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I think most Christians think it is their duty to convert other people to their faith, yet we don't seem to be a nation of church goers.

RichardOnslowRoper · 14/02/2026 09:34

SusanChurchouse · 14/02/2026 09:32

I almost posted something similar. They want men to be able to build careers and wealth in their 20s and 30s (helped by having fewer women in the workforce) then marry women 20 years their junior who will provide them with children. And bonus, be young enough to care for them in their later years.

Exactly this. Ageing incels is right.

IrisPallida · 14/02/2026 09:35

FussyFancyDragon · 14/02/2026 09:25

I hate reform, but don’t know about this. How are they planning on punishing women for not having children, what’s been said by who?

Have you looked at any proper, mainstream news site whatsoever in the last week?

Imdunfer · 14/02/2026 09:35

Imdunfer · 14/02/2026 09:32

Read the Guardian article that I pointed to above, hopefully with a more analytical and rational mind than some of it's other readers!

I never thought I would see a group of women froth at the mouth at the proposal that women should be given more help with childcare costs!!

Its, not it's .

NeverDropYourMooncup · 14/02/2026 09:35

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Dude, it's an obligation for Christians to do the same. It's called proselytisation or evangelism (if you're trying to make it sound like there is less compulsion about the hard sell tactics).

bemoresloth · 14/02/2026 09:36

Reform's new recruit Danny Kruger does not believe that women have an "absolute right to bodily autonomy" in the case of abortion and as a Tory has consistently voted against expanding abortion access

dottiedodah · 14/02/2026 09:38

Well Im not surprised by anything Reform do or say TBH. How are all these young women supposed to get pregnant .with Uni and early careers,BF who dont want to settle down and so on.Are they advocating for more single Mums then ? I doubt it. They just want to turn the clock back, to some imaginary 1950s world where men called all the shots and women were second class citizens .I am worried about the NHS too .I have already had 6 rounds of Chemo, and possibly face another 6.I read that the private cost is 5k per round!

bemoresloth · 14/02/2026 09:38

Ofcourse Matt was 39 when his child was born

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