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To be confused by 'high earners' complaining about taxes?

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tutuland · 10/02/2026 18:25

So high earners pay lots of tax. The top 20% pay for 70% or whatever the numbers are.

But (beyond printing more money) isn't the money there high income people make just coming from the paying public? No matter who you work for, your company's profit is just an accumulation of normal people paying for things.

So ultimately, isn't it all our money anyway? Just beacuse the game is rigged and you get paid 400K for management whatever, it doesn't mean you're more deserving of that money than anyone.

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andalon · 11/02/2026 13:11

LastMohecian · 11/02/2026 12:52

It is unfair that some people are cleverer than others, at 16 we should test intelligence and partially lobotomise the top 10%. For equality. I bet selfish people with no empathy would complain about that as well!!

Ha!

But no. That wouldn't be fair on the top 10%, would it? (Fairness can be tricky, huh?)

It's not unfair that I'm cleverer than you, as you suggest. It would only be unfair if I misused that advantage. Which I'm not going to do.

Truetoself · 11/02/2026 13:13

Issue is with low wage system. We resent paying more tax as we use private school, mostly private healthcare, and in addition pay council tax, road tax etc. So how do we benefit from paying a higher rate tax than those paying a lower rate?

InWithPeaceOutWithStress · 11/02/2026 13:19

PurpleCyclamen · 10/02/2026 22:14

It is wrong for a high earner to complain about taxes.
They don’t pay any more than anyone else on their basic income; they only pay higher rates on their higher wages (which is fair enough).
If they don’t want to pay high rates they can take low paid jobs: they will work just as hard but will earn less and pay less taxes.

Yes exactly. If it’s that awful being a higher rate tax payer, and everyone below them has it better, they could take a lower paying job. It’s much easier to move down the career ladder than up it.

Mishmosher · 11/02/2026 13:19

andalon · 11/02/2026 12:45

I'm someone else grew up on a relatively rough, tough, deprived council estate (big northern city). Likewise, no contacts, help, etc., etc. Married someone from another council estate in another northern city.

We were both lucky enough to be born clever. So, we went to university, had a good time. (That's when we met.) Travelled the world. Got jobs we enjoyed. Made money gambling on various stock exchanges/financial markets (easy when you know how, perhaps lucky there too (though I suspect not)), enough to set our children up and to not have to work for pay any more. Settled down in a nice house in a nice suburb; children scattered here and there, decent lives all.

Of course I didn't deserve my nice life and lots of money. I was just lucky. Like you, @Thequiveringpossum. And we ought to contribute to society, to other less fortunate people, whether they slag us off or not. We did that in our jobs, for a bit, but that's really not enough.

No-one says you did anything wrong. You were just fortunate to be born the way you are, hard-working and all the rest. Did I do anything wrong? No. (Certainly nothing illegal!) I was just lucky, like you.

Why should you (and I) contribute? You ask. --Because it's the right thing to do. Morality, if you like. Or just call it fairness. You and I both should pay high taxes ... or, failing that, and while we wait for our fellow citizens to see this and make the democratic choice so we have to, we should contribute via charitable donations to help those less fortunate than us. Of course it'd be better to pay tax. But, well, ...

It's only fair.

But where do you draw the line. My marginal income tax rate (Scotland) is 67%. This feels unfair. I have high expenses (kids with disability, local authority unwilling to help with a suitable education so we pay for private). Am I paying enough? Should I be happy to pay more?

TestingDaily · 11/02/2026 13:20

Mishmosher · 11/02/2026 13:19

But where do you draw the line. My marginal income tax rate (Scotland) is 67%. This feels unfair. I have high expenses (kids with disability, local authority unwilling to help with a suitable education so we pay for private). Am I paying enough? Should I be happy to pay more?

I think she was being sarcastic?

andalon · 11/02/2026 13:22

Thequiveringpossum · 11/02/2026 13:06

@andalon you're a better person than I am, because I certainly don't want to be supporting people who can't be bothered and instead of grafting, like I did, spend their time whinging about how unfair things are.

Being hard working isn't something I was 'born with.' It's a choice. Just as being lazy is a choice.

I think it's a bit more complicated than that, to be honest. The old 'nature vs nurture' thing does get a bit tricky. I think I was probably born lazy, rather than choosing it. Perhaps you are different.

But anyway, it seems you'd be in favour of taxing unearned income (interest, dividends etc.) pretty highly? That's a start, at least, I suppose.

TestingDaily · 11/02/2026 13:22

InWithPeaceOutWithStress · 11/02/2026 13:19

Yes exactly. If it’s that awful being a higher rate tax payer, and everyone below them has it better, they could take a lower paying job. It’s much easier to move down the career ladder than up it.

They just don't want to be punished for their success and want to be allowed this enjoy what they've produced.

LastMohecian · 11/02/2026 13:25

andalon · 11/02/2026 13:11

Ha!

But no. That wouldn't be fair on the top 10%, would it? (Fairness can be tricky, huh?)

It's not unfair that I'm cleverer than you, as you suggest. It would only be unfair if I misused that advantage. Which I'm not going to do.

So you’re against partially lobotomising the top 10% of children? What a surprise, the 90% don’t matter!! For the few not the many eh?

Jellybunny56 · 11/02/2026 13:31

InWithPeaceOutWithStress · 11/02/2026 13:19

Yes exactly. If it’s that awful being a higher rate tax payer, and everyone below them has it better, they could take a lower paying job. It’s much easier to move down the career ladder than up it.

I’m not sure anyone complains about wanting less money? Just wanting to keep more of the money they earned?

Papyrophile · 11/02/2026 13:39

I have done both physical and intellectual work over the years. I enjoyed working in hospitality making sure customers had a good time. I also loved working in corporate strategic investment and marketing. But long term, it was more satisfying and definitely financially more rewarding to work at C suite level. Plus most people were nicer and more interesting in boardrooms.

LastMohecian · 11/02/2026 14:03

Papyrophile · 11/02/2026 13:39

I have done both physical and intellectual work over the years. I enjoyed working in hospitality making sure customers had a good time. I also loved working in corporate strategic investment and marketing. But long term, it was more satisfying and definitely financially more rewarding to work at C suite level. Plus most people were nicer and more interesting in boardrooms.

The ability to get along with people is part of why people become high earners.

Papyrophile · 11/02/2026 14:06

That's true @LastMohecian . Over the years, I've known quite a few forces people, and it's almost invariably the case that the more senior they are, the more congenial. Unpleasant people don't get promoted.

TestingDaily · 11/02/2026 14:07

5128gap · 11/02/2026 13:10

That's fine with me. And if my income is higher than yours, I will continue to pay a higher amount of tax than you towards the things we both need and are better accessed communally due to economies of scale, on the basis that I can afford to do so without struggling financially. Which may not be the case for you.

I doubt it is. Even so, we aren't happy with how much we have to pay. We'd like to keep more of what we earn. It's only natural.

PrismRain · 11/02/2026 14:13

tutuland · 11/02/2026 09:59

No one asked you sweetie

You really are being a total dick.

Statsquestion2 · 11/02/2026 14:14

PrismRain · 11/02/2026 14:13

You really are being a total dick.

yep…

5128gap · 11/02/2026 14:58

TestingDaily · 11/02/2026 14:07

I doubt it is. Even so, we aren't happy with how much we have to pay. We'd like to keep more of what we earn. It's only natural.

I may be confusing you with the person who is a GP receptionist. Apologies if so. I'm actually quite happy with what I pay.

Northerngirl821 · 11/02/2026 15:05

But higher earners also spend money - in shops, cafes, gyms and everywhere else. So you could argue that we’re paying people’s wages there?

At any rate the issue is not paying tax, it’s paying proportionally a lot more tax for the same or less services ie 40-45% tax and no benefits, cheaper childcare etc.

I’m not a higher earner through any kind of privilege or advantage, I put myself through a professional degree as a mature student and I do a really difficult and stress job with a high proportion of antisocial hours including nights. I am happy to pay tax but is it fair that I have to pay more than double the amount proportionally that lower income workers pay?

TestingDaily · 11/02/2026 15:06

5128gap · 11/02/2026 14:58

I may be confusing you with the person who is a GP receptionist. Apologies if so. I'm actually quite happy with what I pay.

I'm taking about our household income. We aren't happy with the high levels of taxation.

5128gap · 11/02/2026 15:12

TestingDaily · 11/02/2026 15:06

I'm taking about our household income. We aren't happy with the high levels of taxation.

Ah. When you said how about you live off your income and I live off mine, I assumed we were speaking about the income we actually earned and paid tax on, one tax payer to another as it were.

Lifeofthepartay · 11/02/2026 15:22

I am not saying everyone that earns a lot deserves it, but surely what you are proposing makes no sense, because we don't live in utopia. For example, why would anyone go through the expense, pain and effort to become an engineer or a surgeon, or any other specialised career if all the money is everyone's anyway? Let's all put minimum effort then shall we?

AirborneElephant · 11/02/2026 15:24

There have always been skills and attributes that are rarer and more highly sought after than others. It doesn’t matter if you’re a monkey, an indigenous tribesperson or a western capitalist. The concept that everybody’s contribution is equal is patently ridiculous and always has been.

If you are paid very well it generally means that you are highly skilled or highly intelligent. Most people would not be able to do highly paid jobs (Those skills might indeed include being able to game the system or fabulous media communication skills, but that also takes intelligence). If the work you do can be done by almost anyone then it’s quite rightly a minimum wage job. To me “fair” is giving everyone as much opportunity possible to fulfil their potential, not making everyone’s outcome equal.

So coming back to tax, no high earners are not paid by society other than in the meaningless general concept that everyone is paid by everyone else. Most high earners do deserve more money, and tax needs to be a societal construct that works for those paying as well as those receiving. I’m happy to pay tax to fund education, police, public healthcare and a safety net for those in difficulty, but many aspects of the welfare state have gone way to far and removed any sense of personal responsibility for your own lifestyle as shown by the OPs posts.

Jellybunny56 · 11/02/2026 15:34

Lifeofthepartay · 11/02/2026 15:22

I am not saying everyone that earns a lot deserves it, but surely what you are proposing makes no sense, because we don't live in utopia. For example, why would anyone go through the expense, pain and effort to become an engineer or a surgeon, or any other specialised career if all the money is everyone's anyway? Let's all put minimum effort then shall we?

This is the issue with it. I enjoy my job, I enjoy the work but it is difficult work with high stakes and can be a lot of pressure, the work we do impacts the lives of lots of people including vulnerable people. Would I do my current job for the same salary as I did when I worked in a pub while getting my degree? No, I wouldn’t. It wouldn’t be worth it.

onpills4godsake · 11/02/2026 15:58

It’s not fair that some pay way more into the pot and other avoid doing so by being self employed / fiddling their tax or not working

imho you should get a public service equivalent to the time and money you give to society

a nurse pays tax but also works hard for society so should get priority in doctor appt for to enable them to keep contributing

if you don’t work and don’t pay in then in my opinion you should be back of the queue

however that isn’t how it works

those who code society the most and contribute the least get premium service in my experience forcing those who can to go private and therefore resent the nhs.

onpills4godsake · 11/02/2026 16:01

there are people who give their time and money to society by work and tax and there are others who do not- but try to squeeze every drop out of the system them complain how ever thing is the systems fault

this is what causes resentment and a harsh political shift to the right

MissConductUS · 11/02/2026 16:09

a nurse pays tax but also works hard for society so should get priority in doctor appt for to enable them to keep contributing

Wouldn't the same be true for firefighters, police officers, farmers, etc.? Perhaps it would be better to train and employ more doctors so that more appointments are available.