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To be confused by 'high earners' complaining about taxes?

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tutuland · 10/02/2026 18:25

So high earners pay lots of tax. The top 20% pay for 70% or whatever the numbers are.

But (beyond printing more money) isn't the money there high income people make just coming from the paying public? No matter who you work for, your company's profit is just an accumulation of normal people paying for things.

So ultimately, isn't it all our money anyway? Just beacuse the game is rigged and you get paid 400K for management whatever, it doesn't mean you're more deserving of that money than anyone.

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tutuland · 11/02/2026 10:39

Wellthisisdifficult · 11/02/2026 10:04

yes this is capitalism, but no other system provides a better system. All systems will have people who rise to the top. Humans, by their nature are hierarchical creatures. All the different systems do is decide who rises to the top and who doesn’t. There will always be the haves and have nots. Arguably capitalism is one of the best ways to structure the system as it’s easier to split the value tokens of money between all members of the group so everyone can participate in the system to some level. We could have military, religious leaders, manipulators of people (communism) or feudal lords at the top. Much harder to share what they have to split power, and trying to do this, will often cause that system to collapse. Capitalism allows a much greater split of power than say a theocracy.

Your arguments are ones that have run through 6th form common rooms and copies of socialist worker for decades. By the time people hit the real world most people realise how ridiculous the arguments are.

Funny how anything that questions who ends up on top suddenly becomes sixth form debate.

Yet, capitalism pretends to offer participation while locking people out with inequality. It only works for the people with money, influence and power.

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NoisyViewer · 11/02/2026 10:39

Elgenius · 10/02/2026 18:28

Im a high earner, no we absolutely are not all equal and yea I do deserve it more than some

My husband is a high earner. Runs a company and to get there had a full time job, part time uni course and a newborn baby on the way. Whilst our friends where living their best early 20’s life going to New York etc. we used our annual leave separately as he would be doing his assignments. To then starting at the bottom of a company, working long hours, sacrificing weekends, going away would still see him checking emails, leaving the pool to take a work call & basically working 2 hours everyday still. Till now made a director, the anxiety, the sleepless nights the clucking, the worry. I do sometimes think was it worth it. To then have the same people enjoying their 20’s making sarky comments about how many holidays we have, how privileged our daughter is to not have uni debt, to the cars we drive etc. it boils my piss because we didn’t do it before. We sacrificed & whilst I appreciate not all hard workers are successful I’d say it’s like winning the lottery & the cost of the ticket is hardwork and sacrifice.

TestingDaily · 11/02/2026 10:50

NoisyViewer · 11/02/2026 10:29

you pay 40% of tax when you earn over 50k & 45% over 125k. Thats mental that should you earn 49k any pay increase in pay is detrimental to your income.

high earners who get a million pound dividend will pay the tax man over 400k in tax. To think you wouldn’t complain about that is outstanding and I applaud your moral superiority. Especially when the value of services you most likely don’t use is so dire. These people who pay the most are also likely taking the least out of the services. They don’t clog gp appointments & their kids will attend a private school. They’re likely also providing you all with work. I don’t get the isn’t it all our money. Well of course it isn’t, a good analogy for this I’ve seen on social media. Imagine you & a mate was doing exams and you’ve sacrificed your time, not gone out, worked late and lost sleep worrying about them. But your mate has been to every party, watched several box sets and on the morning of the exam spoke about her blissful restful sleep. You get an A she gets a C & the exam body then says to make this fair we giving you both a B because your success is nothing but luck & it’s not your mates fault she didn’t study.

its why places such as Dubai is appealing. Because you get to keep your A & youre not penalised for achieving it. High earners are demonised in this country.

I see so much anger and venom directed towards the high earners. Like how dare they enjoy the fruits of their labour.

Thequiveringpossum · 11/02/2026 10:50

DH and I clawed our way up from one of the roughest, most dangerous and more deprived council estates in the country, going to absolutely shocking schools to go to university to earn decent money. We did it with no contacts, no help, no support. Just hard work, determination and taking every opportunity that came our way.

People now whinging that they have it harder, and they can't claw their way up, annoys me. You can. But, if all you do is whinge about how unfair it is, and you don't work hard, then of course you'll never succeed. There were days I didn't want to work full time in a pub whilst going to University, and it was unfair, but I still stuck with it.

Why should I want to contribute to a society, or to people, who spend all their time slagging me off? I did nothing wrong except work hard to be successful, but apparently that's a crime these days...

TestingDaily · 11/02/2026 10:58

tutuland · 11/02/2026 10:39

Funny how anything that questions who ends up on top suddenly becomes sixth form debate.

Yet, capitalism pretends to offer participation while locking people out with inequality. It only works for the people with money, influence and power.

Capitalism has been the main reason global absolute poverty has fallen.

NorthXNorthWest · 11/02/2026 11:00

GrumpyFrogg · 11/02/2026 07:27

That's not the way these threads tend to go though is it? Of course we shouldnt accept the waste. 13 years of Tory miss management has left us up shit creek. But all these threads seem to do is pit us against each other, high earners complaining about the amount of tax they pay and how hard is it for them to a bunch of people who earn a fraction of what they do. It always ends in a bun fight between the two when the real people at fault are the Tory party.

The Tories, Labour and The Lib Dems all bear some responsibility for the problems that have led up to where we are now. Meaningful damage is meaningful damage regardless of whether it is a bit less damage than what the other lot did.

Mishmosher · 11/02/2026 11:01

tutuland · 11/02/2026 09:54

“I need your watch” is one person taking from another for private use. Tax is a collectively agreed system that funds the systems we all use.

Courts that protect your property rights, roads you use, education that makes sure your employees can read, healthcare that so your employees can be fit enough to work. Police, fire services, national defence etc.

You can think that 45% is too high, that’s a legitimate policy critique. But framing all taxation as envy skips over the fact that wealth is generated within a system that taxes help maintain.

Are you suggesting that we scrap public funding and just let the market decide who survives?

We’re not getting these things are we though? We’re not getting a good court system etc as too much money is spent pandering to the workshy.

LastMohecian · 11/02/2026 11:06

TestingDaily · 11/02/2026 10:50

I see so much anger and venom directed towards the high earners. Like how dare they enjoy the fruits of their labour.

It’s just basic envy wrapped up in virtue signalling.

balletflatblister · 11/02/2026 11:09

I agree. A checkout assistant at Aldi, a health tech CEO and a GP should all earn exactly the same amount because people are all equal at the end of the day and everyone would therefore feel happier and more motivated in their exactly-the-same jobs where they can reward themselves and their families by buying exactly the same things as everyone else💘

balletflatblister · 11/02/2026 11:10

tutuland · 11/02/2026 10:39

Funny how anything that questions who ends up on top suddenly becomes sixth form debate.

Yet, capitalism pretends to offer participation while locking people out with inequality. It only works for the people with money, influence and power.

There are systems for a reason in this world. Economic stability. Interest rates. Growth. It's not all a conspiracy to keep you in little boxes, all right? It's only the miracle of consumer capitalism that means you're not lying in your own shit, dying at 43 with rotten teeth. And a little pill with a chicken on it is not going to change that.

Mishmosher · 11/02/2026 11:11

Thequiveringpossum · 11/02/2026 10:50

DH and I clawed our way up from one of the roughest, most dangerous and more deprived council estates in the country, going to absolutely shocking schools to go to university to earn decent money. We did it with no contacts, no help, no support. Just hard work, determination and taking every opportunity that came our way.

People now whinging that they have it harder, and they can't claw their way up, annoys me. You can. But, if all you do is whinge about how unfair it is, and you don't work hard, then of course you'll never succeed. There were days I didn't want to work full time in a pub whilst going to University, and it was unfair, but I still stuck with it.

Why should I want to contribute to a society, or to people, who spend all their time slagging me off? I did nothing wrong except work hard to be successful, but apparently that's a crime these days...

Certainly in my estate a lot on intergenerational poverty comes from an ingrained attitude that success and high wages aren’t for you, you can’t do it, your face doesn’t fit etc whereas the opposite is true. Companies are bending over backwards to widen the social spectrum they recruit from. Kids from rough estates can get recruited straight from school into big 4 accountancy apprenticeships and be fast tracked to high wages in no time but they don’t believe it, because their parents tell them that people like them don’t do that.

It’s learned helplessness and easily available benefits aren’t helping this, they’re hindering. Roll back PIP to severe disability only or force recipients to volunteer full time. 65% of 25 year olds are claiming PIP for mental health conditions, many of which would be far better served by getting a job or getting out and meeting people rather than staring at the walls of their bedroom all day..

Mishmosher · 11/02/2026 11:13

LastMohecian · 11/02/2026 11:06

It’s just basic envy wrapped up in virtue signalling.

100% this. So many people choose not to put any work in but expect to be earning the same as a high earner. Ain’t going to happen!

5128gap · 11/02/2026 11:29

TestingDaily · 11/02/2026 10:50

I see so much anger and venom directed towards the high earners. Like how dare they enjoy the fruits of their labour.

If you think that's anger and venom you might want to check out the benefits threads. Like, how dare people be ill, disabled, a carer, old, have a child with additional needs, have a low paid job..?
At least high earners can step away from the forum to the comfort and peace of mind their salaries afford them, believing thenselves to be harder working and altogether superior to those with less.
The people being insulted as lazy, despised as scroungers, who have their work disrespected because its poorly paid, their opinions and politics sneered at as 'envy', they have no such compensation.
If 'venom' is directed at high earners, its not typically because of their salary. Many people manage to combine earning a high salary with retaining a social conscience and empathy for others, and the ability to apply critical thinking in order to conclude its really not as straightforward as everyone 'getting off their arses'. It's the ones who don't do this who tend to arouse feelings of anger.
Partly because it's hard to see how someone with such a limited capacity for thought can be performing at a level that justifies their income.

NotMeAtAll · 11/02/2026 11:32

It's not "all our money". When you pay for something it's not your money anymore. Are your wages your employer's money?

stargirl27 · 11/02/2026 11:40

This is one of the cringiest threads I've ever read on here with an extremely bitter OP - what's your job @tutuland ?

MissConductUS · 11/02/2026 11:43

TheCurious0range · 11/02/2026 00:40

But then poor people can't afford to call an ambulance

Ah yes, the old trope that the poor have no access to healthcare in the US. I'm sure you think this is true based on the MN echo chamber or something you read in the Guardian years ago.

In fact, the government provides health cover to 80 million low-income Americans through a program called Medicaid, and it covers prehospital transportation.

https://www.aha.org/fact-sheets/2025-02-07-fact-sheet-medicaid

https://www.emedny.org/ProviderManuals/Transportation/PDFS/Archive/Transportation_Manual_Policy_Section2006-1.pdf

But thanks for perpetuating the misinformation.

Fact Sheet: Medicaid | AHA

AHA urges Congress to reject reductions to the Medicaid program that would not only strip access to health care from some of the most vulnerable populations but also destabilize hospitals and health systems, leading to a loss of services that would imp...

https://www.aha.org/fact-sheets/2025-02-07-fact-sheet-medicaid

Salmonhighfive · 11/02/2026 11:54

So wait a minute, do you not think someone earning £400k a year, who has likely worked extremely hard, taken risks, and made sacrifices to reach that position, could be seen as more deserving of that income than someone who chooses to do nothing and rely purely on benefits? Before anyone moans I am not generalising everyone on benefits but I’m sorry, that person who is making 400k likely does deserve it more than someone who has chosen to do nothing.

MissConductUS · 11/02/2026 11:55

tutuland · 11/02/2026 00:41

Or insulin

Medicaid covers insulin as well.

https://airtalkwireless.com/blog/does-medicaid-cover-insulin

stargirl27 · 11/02/2026 11:56

Salmonhighfive · 11/02/2026 11:54

So wait a minute, do you not think someone earning £400k a year, who has likely worked extremely hard, taken risks, and made sacrifices to reach that position, could be seen as more deserving of that income than someone who chooses to do nothing and rely purely on benefits? Before anyone moans I am not generalising everyone on benefits but I’m sorry, that person who is making 400k likely does deserve it more than someone who has chosen to do nothing.

No, she just thinks the 'game is rigged' 😂

TestingDaily · 11/02/2026 12:07

MissConductUS · 11/02/2026 11:43

Ah yes, the old trope that the poor have no access to healthcare in the US. I'm sure you think this is true based on the MN echo chamber or something you read in the Guardian years ago.

In fact, the government provides health cover to 80 million low-income Americans through a program called Medicaid, and it covers prehospital transportation.

https://www.aha.org/fact-sheets/2025-02-07-fact-sheet-medicaid

https://www.emedny.org/ProviderManuals/Transportation/PDFS/Archive/Transportation_Manual_Policy_Section2006-1.pdf

But thanks for perpetuating the misinformation.

One of the reasons I said each state in the USA does healthcare differently

andalon · 11/02/2026 12:45

Thequiveringpossum · 11/02/2026 10:50

DH and I clawed our way up from one of the roughest, most dangerous and more deprived council estates in the country, going to absolutely shocking schools to go to university to earn decent money. We did it with no contacts, no help, no support. Just hard work, determination and taking every opportunity that came our way.

People now whinging that they have it harder, and they can't claw their way up, annoys me. You can. But, if all you do is whinge about how unfair it is, and you don't work hard, then of course you'll never succeed. There were days I didn't want to work full time in a pub whilst going to University, and it was unfair, but I still stuck with it.

Why should I want to contribute to a society, or to people, who spend all their time slagging me off? I did nothing wrong except work hard to be successful, but apparently that's a crime these days...

I'm someone else grew up on a relatively rough, tough, deprived council estate (big northern city). Likewise, no contacts, help, etc., etc. Married someone from another council estate in another northern city.

We were both lucky enough to be born clever. So, we went to university, had a good time. (That's when we met.) Travelled the world. Got jobs we enjoyed. Made money gambling on various stock exchanges/financial markets (easy when you know how, perhaps lucky there too (though I suspect not)), enough to set our children up and to not have to work for pay any more. Settled down in a nice house in a nice suburb; children scattered here and there, decent lives all.

Of course I didn't deserve my nice life and lots of money. I was just lucky. Like you, @Thequiveringpossum. And we ought to contribute to society, to other less fortunate people, whether they slag us off or not. We did that in our jobs, for a bit, but that's really not enough.

No-one says you did anything wrong. You were just fortunate to be born the way you are, hard-working and all the rest. Did I do anything wrong? No. (Certainly nothing illegal!) I was just lucky, like you.

Why should you (and I) contribute? You ask. --Because it's the right thing to do. Morality, if you like. Or just call it fairness. You and I both should pay high taxes ... or, failing that, and while we wait for our fellow citizens to see this and make the democratic choice so we have to, we should contribute via charitable donations to help those less fortunate than us. Of course it'd be better to pay tax. But, well, ...

It's only fair.

LastMohecian · 11/02/2026 12:52

andalon · 11/02/2026 12:45

I'm someone else grew up on a relatively rough, tough, deprived council estate (big northern city). Likewise, no contacts, help, etc., etc. Married someone from another council estate in another northern city.

We were both lucky enough to be born clever. So, we went to university, had a good time. (That's when we met.) Travelled the world. Got jobs we enjoyed. Made money gambling on various stock exchanges/financial markets (easy when you know how, perhaps lucky there too (though I suspect not)), enough to set our children up and to not have to work for pay any more. Settled down in a nice house in a nice suburb; children scattered here and there, decent lives all.

Of course I didn't deserve my nice life and lots of money. I was just lucky. Like you, @Thequiveringpossum. And we ought to contribute to society, to other less fortunate people, whether they slag us off or not. We did that in our jobs, for a bit, but that's really not enough.

No-one says you did anything wrong. You were just fortunate to be born the way you are, hard-working and all the rest. Did I do anything wrong? No. (Certainly nothing illegal!) I was just lucky, like you.

Why should you (and I) contribute? You ask. --Because it's the right thing to do. Morality, if you like. Or just call it fairness. You and I both should pay high taxes ... or, failing that, and while we wait for our fellow citizens to see this and make the democratic choice so we have to, we should contribute via charitable donations to help those less fortunate than us. Of course it'd be better to pay tax. But, well, ...

It's only fair.

It is unfair that some people are cleverer than others, at 16 we should test intelligence and partially lobotomise the top 10%. For equality. I bet selfish people with no empathy would complain about that as well!!

TestingDaily · 11/02/2026 12:55

5128gap · 11/02/2026 11:29

If you think that's anger and venom you might want to check out the benefits threads. Like, how dare people be ill, disabled, a carer, old, have a child with additional needs, have a low paid job..?
At least high earners can step away from the forum to the comfort and peace of mind their salaries afford them, believing thenselves to be harder working and altogether superior to those with less.
The people being insulted as lazy, despised as scroungers, who have their work disrespected because its poorly paid, their opinions and politics sneered at as 'envy', they have no such compensation.
If 'venom' is directed at high earners, its not typically because of their salary. Many people manage to combine earning a high salary with retaining a social conscience and empathy for others, and the ability to apply critical thinking in order to conclude its really not as straightforward as everyone 'getting off their arses'. It's the ones who don't do this who tend to arouse feelings of anger.
Partly because it's hard to see how someone with such a limited capacity for thought can be performing at a level that justifies their income.

Edited

I can never blame a disabled person for being disabled. But apart from disability, major health issues and serious catastrophic life issues.. How about my income is mine, yours is yours and we each make do on what we earn.

Thequiveringpossum · 11/02/2026 13:06

@andalon you're a better person than I am, because I certainly don't want to be supporting people who can't be bothered and instead of grafting, like I did, spend their time whinging about how unfair things are.

Being hard working isn't something I was 'born with.' It's a choice. Just as being lazy is a choice.

5128gap · 11/02/2026 13:10

TestingDaily · 11/02/2026 12:55

I can never blame a disabled person for being disabled. But apart from disability, major health issues and serious catastrophic life issues.. How about my income is mine, yours is yours and we each make do on what we earn.

That's fine with me. And if my income is higher than yours, I will continue to pay a higher amount of tax than you towards the things we both need and are better accessed communally due to economies of scale, on the basis that I can afford to do so without struggling financially. Which may not be the case for you.

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