I ironically work in a knowingly undervalued industry, childcare, I earn very well because I specialized, am willing to work (very long) hours and abroad and do my job very well. I was earning below minimum wage when I started and now can earn up to 200k per year.
So technically anyone could do my work, and have my salary as it’s not a « high-skilled» job, most would likely have the ability to do it, but don’t because they wouldn’t be willing to work the hours I do, live as far away from home as I do for as often as I do it, and sacrifice as much as I do.
My mom actually work in Childcare also, but she doesn’t earn what I do because she chose to have kids first, so has always needed work to work around her, rather than being able work around her work, limiting her earning abilities and pretty much making her dependable on the benefits system from the get go as most childcare related salary isn’t really made to afford 5 kids.
Often, many hard working people would be deserving of higher wages, but they also make choices that stop them from being able to reach those threshold (having children before establishing their career and therefore needing a job that fit their personal schedule for example) or that make them start thinking in term of « is it worth it for me to get back to work after kids if I am going to need to pay X for childcare/in taxes when I could just stay home and get Y from the states? » and many people actually chose not to earn past a certain threshold due to the taxes or loss in benefits.
So, you do have plenty of hard working people stuck in low-paying jobs through not fault of their own in a tough economic market and who do deserve a raise, but you also have a good chunk of the population who chose to do things in the wrong order and become co-dependent of the system because they, for example, want multiple children but earn minimum wage so can’t afford childcare for their children nor really afford their multiple children and therefore are stuck working part time or not at all, and yet begrudge their financial situation on others who made different choices.
Most women would be better off financially if they established themselves FIRST financially and then brought out the new generation but the reality is that still most don’t. I think you now have more high earning women than ever before mainly because now slowly women are either choosing not to have kids (as unaffordable + current climate feels extremely uncertain) or chose to have them much later when they can afford them.
Most of people’s financial situation can be explained either by what they prioritize(d) or how they spend and while there are other compounding factor’s to one’s finances and financial situation and work situation, a lot of the root can be found in those two elements.