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Is Keir Starmer a misogynist?

103 replies

Bertiebiscuit · 09/02/2026 13:30

Starmer seems endlessly surprised that anyone cares about girls being preyed on by grooming gangs, or women and girls being trafficked for sex by Epstein. He is the classic Lefty male for whom women's issues are always "jam tomorrow", who can't even bring himself to admit he knows what a woman even is, despite being married to one,the mother of his children.

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JHound · 09/02/2026 21:39

Bertiebiscuit · 09/02/2026 13:30

Starmer seems endlessly surprised that anyone cares about girls being preyed on by grooming gangs, or women and girls being trafficked for sex by Epstein. He is the classic Lefty male for whom women's issues are always "jam tomorrow", who can't even bring himself to admit he knows what a woman even is, despite being married to one,the mother of his children.

I have never seen him express this surprise.

I think it’s all in your head.

MandingoAteMyBaby · 09/02/2026 22:19

threescoops · 09/02/2026 20:20

232 days after he caved into pressure it still has no start date set

The Chair is consulting on the draft terms of reference. The final terms of reference will be agreed with the Home Secretary and published by 31 March 2026, when the Inquiry will be formally established.
In the meantime, the Chair will set up a secretariat to deliver the work of the Inquiry.
This will include the appointment of:

  • a secretary and deputy secretary
  • a solicitor to the Inquiry
  • a counsel to the Inquiry
MandingoAteMyBaby · 09/02/2026 22:23

stringseleven · 09/02/2026 21:22

He's also such a mansplainer premising everything with - "I want to be very clear" and "this is very important". Do all MPs now take voice coaching these days? It gives me the creeps every time he makes a statement - almost like he is talking down to us all because he is somehow more educated and understands things better than the rest of us. I'm not sure to what degree that was designed by Morgan McSweeney - there is basically a massive underestimation of the electorate happening in politics right now.

Theresa May was queen of “very clear”.

Very Clear

SidewaysOtter · 09/02/2026 22:25

He may not be a “classic” misogynist but he’s trotted out the “Trans women are women” line via his statement that some women have a penis (spoiler alert: no woman has a penis, no man is or can become a woman).

And his government has not laid before parliament the EHRC guidance that will specify how women only spaces are to be protected and enforced.

So he can fuck off.

Valeriekat · 10/02/2026 08:22

LaurieFairyCake · 09/02/2026 13:35

No

and he’s not ‘Lefty’. He’s as centrist as it gets. ‘Lefties’ who don’t know what women are include Billy Bragg.

Actions speak louder than words He has done nothing about the grooming gangs or women's rights to privacy. He only decided that he did after all know what a woman was when there was an election.

CurlewKate · 10/02/2026 15:26

stringseleven · 09/02/2026 21:22

He's also such a mansplainer premising everything with - "I want to be very clear" and "this is very important". Do all MPs now take voice coaching these days? It gives me the creeps every time he makes a statement - almost like he is talking down to us all because he is somehow more educated and understands things better than the rest of us. I'm not sure to what degree that was designed by Morgan McSweeney - there is basically a massive underestimation of the electorate happening in politics right now.

Don’t understand the use of “mansplainer” in this context. He does speak slowly and clearly. I don’t think he’s doing it for the benefit of the ladies, is he?

stringseleven · 10/02/2026 15:56

CurlewKate I don’t think he does anything for the benefit of the ladies. Quick search for definition of mansplaining should sort you out.

CurlewKate · 10/02/2026 17:04

stringseleven · 10/02/2026 15:56

CurlewKate I don’t think he does anything for the benefit of the ladies. Quick search for definition of mansplaining should sort you out.

I know what mansplaining means.

Tonissister · 10/02/2026 17:13

5128gap · 09/02/2026 14:40

I very much doubt it. Like a lot of politicians from all sides of the debate, he is trying not to be accused of transphobia and bigotry. We all know how easy it is to gain those labels, and how damaging it can be.

So he prioritises not being called a bigot by the tiny trans population instead of standing up for the 50% who are biological women?

And he didn;t see the glaringly obvious problem with making Mandelson ambassador despite his very close connections with a known paedophile?

OP you are getting roasted but I actually wondered the same thing myself when listening to the news. I don;t think he thinks of women at all. We don't feature in his policy making and decision making. And yes, that level of disregard is a kind of misogyny.

DeepBlueDeer · 10/02/2026 17:29

Oddly, I think I've seen more support for Starmer on here these last few days than in the preceding year.

I think its a response to the absurd level of criticism, which has tipped into comical.

Longtalljosie · 10/02/2026 17:44

It’s one of the weirdnesses of modern life that two people who have done more than most for women and girls groomed and raped - Jess Phillips and Keir Starmer - are seen as doing least, after a campaign by Elon Musk. It’s the tactic of abusers everywhere- accuse people of being the thing they’d least want to be seen as.

If you’ve read Nazir Afzal’s book The Prosecutor, you’ll know that he and KS worked together to change things so fewer historical abusers would escape justice. Weirdly (and it is weird, as he’s spoken of it often) the only article which comes up on a Google search is here: https://uk.finance.yahoo.com/news/nazir-azal-keir-starmer-first-boss-093948408.html

As for Jess Phillips and the inquiry - I think that after the difficult birth of the Jay Report (very similar to what we have now), it was felt that the Jay recommendations ought to be implemented before government got bogged down in another inquiry. That’s not to say the subject isn’t fully worthy of an inquiry - but they do slow things down. Kemi Badenoch had done very little on this issue in her time in parliament until she saw the opportunity via X to stick something on the government. It’s shameful actually, she ought to be better than that. Here’s Jess Phillips talking about it here https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/electoral-dysfunction/id1613562765?i=1000683244323

Nazir Afzal, former chief crown prosecutor, on Keir Starmer

Nazir Afzal, former chief crown prosecutor, on his former boss Keir Starmer.

https://uk.finance.yahoo.com/news/nazir-azal-keir-starmer-first-boss-093948408.html

MunicipalDarwinism · 10/02/2026 18:17

DeepBlueDeer · 10/02/2026 17:29

Oddly, I think I've seen more support for Starmer on here these last few days than in the preceding year.

I think its a response to the absurd level of criticism, which has tipped into comical.

Very true. Even parts of the media are starting to ease up on him a little. I wonder if it has started to occur to them that constant political drama is not good for the UK, even if it does generate clicks and views etc.

I am beginning to wonder if Reeves is safe, though.

CarbonArtist · 10/02/2026 18:24

He doesn’t hate us, he is just indifferent to our suffering.

MandingoAteMyBaby · 10/02/2026 18:29

CarbonArtist · 10/02/2026 18:24

He doesn’t hate us, he is just indifferent to our suffering.

What suffering ?

Thedevilhasfinallycaughtupwithhim · 10/02/2026 18:37

I think he doesn’t think women are as important as men… which makes him a misogynist in my view.

EasternStandard · 10/02/2026 18:38

I think he’s the version Rosie Duffield and Kim Johnson relay.

lifeturnsonadime · 10/02/2026 18:46

5128gap · 09/02/2026 14:40

I very much doubt it. Like a lot of politicians from all sides of the debate, he is trying not to be accused of transphobia and bigotry. We all know how easy it is to gain those labels, and how damaging it can be.

If you are right then he is a coward.

Who wants a Prime Minister who is too cowardly to stand up to activists?

I think it is more than that though, the Labour Party generally doesn't have a fantastic track record with women, we've never had a female Labour Leader though that might change in coming weeks.

Current policies aimed at impacting disabled people and children who have SEN will disproportionately impact women.

Terip · 10/02/2026 18:47

I agree with a lot of the positions taken by Rosie Duffield, but some people on MN treat her like the Delphic Oracle or the font of all
wisdom.

EasternStandard · 10/02/2026 18:51

Terip · 10/02/2026 18:47

I agree with a lot of the positions taken by Rosie Duffield, but some people on MN treat her like the Delphic Oracle or the font of all
wisdom.

Edited

Not really. But she’s right on Starmer.

Clavinova · 10/02/2026 19:00

MandingoAteMyBaby · 09/02/2026 19:40

He started the national audit in January 2025. After that concluded and delivered findings, he agreed to an inquiry in June which was put in motion and ready to kick off in December.

More details from the Guardian -

June 2025
Keir Starmer makes U-turn mid-air over grooming gangs inquiry.

PM forced to cave in to clamour for statutory inquiry despite earlier dismissing them as amplifying far right demands.

This was, it should be remembered, not just one of the most toxic debates in British politics during 2025, but one where Starmer and his ministers had continually pushed back against demands for such an action.

https://www.theguardian.com/politics/2025/jun/15/keir-starmer-makes-deft-u-turn-mid-air-over-grooming-gangs-inquiry

Keir Starmer makes U-turn mid-air over grooming gangs inquiry

PM forced to cave in to clamour for statutory inquiry despite earlier dismissing them as amplifying far right demands

https://www.theguardian.com/politics/2025/jun/15/keir-starmer-makes-deft-u-turn-mid-air-over-grooming-gangs-inquiry

JohnnyMcGrathSaysFuckOff · 10/02/2026 19:19

MandingoAteMyBaby · 10/02/2026 18:29

What suffering ?

What suffering?
Are you serious?

A thread about the victims is just not the place for this, it really isn't.

MandingoAteMyBaby · 10/02/2026 21:04

JohnnyMcGrathSaysFuckOff · 10/02/2026 19:19

What suffering?
Are you serious?

A thread about the victims is just not the place for this, it really isn't.

An inquiry is lined up, already in motion.
Led by women.
Inquiries take time.

JohnnyMcGrathSaysFuckOff · 11/02/2026 14:16

The PP said (paraphrasing) that the PM ignores women's suffering. You replied "what suffering?"

It is obvious there is suffering. Why would you question it?

An inquiry is in response to the suffering. I am well aware of it and have followed it in the press. I personally think it's been badly managed and alienated a number of the victims, but yes, it's in train.

Happyher · 11/02/2026 14:19

No. And I’m guessing you’re a Farage fan

MandingoAteMyBaby · 11/02/2026 15:06

JohnnyMcGrathSaysFuckOff · 11/02/2026 14:16

The PP said (paraphrasing) that the PM ignores women's suffering. You replied "what suffering?"

It is obvious there is suffering. Why would you question it?

An inquiry is in response to the suffering. I am well aware of it and have followed it in the press. I personally think it's been badly managed and alienated a number of the victims, but yes, it's in train.

What I responded to was a claim that Starmer is “indifferent to our suffering”.

Who is “our” ? How is setting an inquiry in motion indifferent ?