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StabbyCat · 06/02/2026 21:38

Inspired by a clip I just saw on Instagram.

Deep breath.

Here goes.

Robin Williams wasn’t particularly funny.

ETA “Start” obviously.

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Daygloboo · 07/02/2026 12:37

StabbyCat · 06/02/2026 21:38

Inspired by a clip I just saw on Instagram.

Deep breath.

Here goes.

Robin Williams wasn’t particularly funny.

ETA “Start” obviously.

All alcohol tastes of rot

MissingSockDetective · 07/02/2026 12:37

ladyamy · 07/02/2026 12:35

Parent is a noun, not a verb.

In the OED it is both.

Reallyneedsaholiday · 07/02/2026 12:40

Public transport should be free and funded through in increase in council tax

ladyamy · 07/02/2026 12:41

EarthlyNightshade · 07/02/2026 11:52

Saying that the most vulnerable should come last is pretty horrible.

Doesn’t mean you should also say something horrible. Jeez.

BeanQuisine · 07/02/2026 12:41

x2boys · 07/02/2026 12:34

Im in my 50,s and loads of kids wore glasses when I was youg they got national health glasses, pink for girls ,blue or brown for boys ,
I was very jealous I always wanted to wear glasses 😂😂😂

You weren't allowed to be a scientist or professor unless you wore glasses.

Reallyneedsaholiday · 07/02/2026 12:42

x2boys · 07/02/2026 12:29

Most earning that wouldnt get it .

Actually they will. Average salary is nowhere near the cut off of £80k as in individual. A couple, both earning £70k is still entitled to child benefit.

ladyamy · 07/02/2026 12:43

JHound · 07/02/2026 12:24

Why is wishing on somebody what they wish on others bad?

The poster who said it in the first place didn’t wish anything on anyone. They stated a thought.

Beachtastic · 07/02/2026 12:44

1000StrawberryLollies · 07/02/2026 12:22

In what way would it be useful?

Hard to explain if you haven't experienced it yourself (?), but:

(1) it dissolves the illusion of separateness, making you acutely aware of the interconnectedness of everything around you, so you grasp (among other things) the impact of your actions on others

(2) it confronts you with your inner landscape (in a way that can greatly assist with resolving fear, grief, and childhood patterns of relating) and highlights your latent strengths, as well as "weaknesses"

(3) in tribal cultures that embrace this rite of passage, adulthood isn't something you declare - it's something an elder recognises in you. Having their guidance for the ceremony would help you interpret what arises, rather than get lost in it, and interpret the insights

(4) a clearly defined threshold, marked by such a ceremony, would underline the serious responsibility that comes with adulthood (moving from "I am the centre" to "I am part of a larger web") and reinforce values to live by

(5) it would address the existential anxiety and spiritual emptiness that are at the root of so many problems in our society

Not sure if I've explained it well, but all that sort of thing!!! 😜

ladyamy · 07/02/2026 12:45

shuggles · 07/02/2026 11:52

I think saying that vulnerable people should come last is a horrible thing to say.

If someone experiences it first hand, then it generally brings them back to earth and allows them to learn strength and compassion. A lack of compassion is generally the result of weakness, a lack of maturity, and not having enough real world experience.

I completely agree but it doesn’t give someone the license to wish bad upon them.

bananafake · 07/02/2026 12:45

plsdontlookatme · 06/02/2026 23:14

Anne IS the best one!! Couldn't get through any of her sisters' books but The Tenant of Wildfell Hall is a delight!

It really is. Couldn’t understand why she wasn’t proclaimed the genius. Nearly had a breakdown trying to finish Bleak House and agree about the George Elliot misery fest.

Daygloboo · 07/02/2026 12:45

daisychain01 · 06/02/2026 22:19

Oh sorry I forgot MN doesn't do nuance and perspective. Silly me.

Epstein nuance and perspective😂😂😂😂

Beachtastic · 07/02/2026 12:46

Strictlyshortly · 06/02/2026 23:10

Prince Harry was never good looking. His eyes are too close together.

I don't care. For some reason that I cannot explain, I think he's pretty hot 🫢

clarepetal · 07/02/2026 12:46

NeededANameChangeAnyway · 06/02/2026 21:53

Porridge doesn't fill you up. I'm starving again by 10am.

Yes

ToWhitToWhoo · 07/02/2026 12:47

rememberingthem · 07/02/2026 09:13

The mainstream media and its shit stirring ways cause much of today’s problems!

I agree, but the not-yet-so-mainstream social media/ Internet propagandists are even worse.

ladyamy · 07/02/2026 12:47

MissingSockDetective · 07/02/2026 12:37

In the OED it is both.

Cool, but I don’t think it should be.

Daygloboo · 07/02/2026 12:52

Fodencat · 07/02/2026 11:22

Why have so many kids these days got glasses? Is it a trend? No kids had glasses when I was a kid.

I remember a lot of kids bumping into lampposts when i was a child

Beachtastic · 07/02/2026 12:54

Bunny44 · 06/02/2026 23:34

This is a fact rather than an opinion, but a fact that most people willfully choose to ignore: men are statistically significantly much more in danger of violence in public and from strangers than women.

Women are much much more in danger of violence in private spaces and from someone they know. Yet the yarn of stranger danger is spun out again and again - it's a form of societal control of women and is actually quite misogynistic.

If someone tells me to be careful about going out on my own at night/in the dark, I tell them this and head on out on my merry way.

Yes, but I think the reasons behind it are different. Men (especially young men) can get into drunken fights or clashes over drugs. Women can simply be hunted down for sport.

Luckyingame · 07/02/2026 12:56

Daygloboo · 07/02/2026 12:52

I remember a lot of kids bumping into lampposts when i was a child

Screens, probably. Before they walk or talk.

Daygloboo · 07/02/2026 12:57

GETTINGLIKEMYMOTHER · 07/02/2026 11:47

From all I've ever read or heard, it’s often the relatives - rather than the medics - who ‘can’t bear to let Mum go!’ - and become furiously indignant if anyone suggests that it might be kinder to let Nature take its course, with palliative care.

That's a generalisation. Relatives know their kin better than medics. If you get a ' oh they are a bit past it with too much wrong' then you are on a slippery slope. Would you say the same about all vulnerable groups ? It's dangerous.

WaitingfortheThingtoHappen · 07/02/2026 13:00

That Diana, Princess of Wales who was a good looking woman who scrubbed up very nicely in her expensive clothes and makeup, wasn't the great beauty we are expected to pretend she was.

That tattoos never flatter anyone and always look cheap and grubby.

That trans people ever "pass" with more than the smallest amount of scrutiny.

JHound · 07/02/2026 13:01

ladyamy · 07/02/2026 12:43

The poster who said it in the first place didn’t wish anything on anyone. They stated a thought.

Ok why is wishing somebody would be in the position to experience what they are suggesting bad?

Daygloboo · 07/02/2026 13:01

usedtobeaylis · 07/02/2026 12:09

I find that many trans identified males who look 'passable' in heavily filtered and edited photos don't at all when they're in motion either in real life or on videos. I can make myself look like a Barbie in photos too but not in motion.

Trans identified females also can look 'passable' in photos but in real life tend to be very small and unmistakably female despite the benefits of testosterone. You of course can get small men but they don't tend to look like girls who have taken testosterone. The two youngest trans identified females I know (both lesbians, who'd have thought) have still been on T for years despite their ages and still look, at best, like trans identified females.

Ive never understood it . It sounds exclusionary and competitive within the community itself..Maybe i dont understand but does it mean some trans people tell other trans people that they dont ' pass' ???

usedtobeaylis · 07/02/2026 13:03

ghostofchristmaspasta · 07/02/2026 12:26

Not arguing with your opinion but I fear you may just be missing the trans people who do pass.

I grew up with a trans woman and luck was truly on her side, she’s about 5’2, dainty proportions and has more ‘naturally feminine’ mannerisms than I do. You couldn’t tell when we were young (sometimes even before they started presenting as female as a teen) and with age you certainly can’t.

A relative has a trans son, he’s about 5’9 so not particularly tall but you would never guess. He’s in his mid twenties now and has a deep voice, bushy beard and a gym bro physique. His fiancée is straight and didn’t even know, until they had started dating, that he was born female.

I have come across others that didn’t pass as well but more and more it’s become harder to tell. Especially in the cases where they transitioned early or are naturally more similar to the opposite biological sex.

The only way people who pass do so is by extensive surgery. And that is no gotcha.

TheActualQueen · 07/02/2026 13:03

Daygloboo · 07/02/2026 12:52

I remember a lot of kids bumping into lampposts when i was a child

Erm NHS pink and blue plastic ones?!

FranticFrankie · 07/02/2026 13:05

Early Queen (faerie queens etc) much better than later Queen (we are the champions, fat bottomed girls etc)
Taylor Swift is over rated- especially with Shake it Off 😳
Claudia Winkleman needs a fringe-trim

I'm fine with legal immigration
Salad cream is awful
Ditto sweetcorn
One cannot change sex

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