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NHS calls in exorcist

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scorpiogirly · 29/01/2026 21:12

That's correct.

An exorcist has been called in by the NHS to a hospice because of many paranormal incidents and sightings of the ghost of a girl in a red dress, witnessed by staff and also patients.

You'd think there has to be something in this right? And if not, what on earth could be going on?

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Millytante · 30/01/2026 12:31

BigKissByeBye · 30/01/2026 09:30

I’m not making any assumptions, simply pointing out that no evidence of any kind has ever emerged for the existence of ghosts in any setting. I’d be fascinated if it did emerge, or if I encountered something I couldn’t explain, and am open-minded to it, but zilch — even though a notorious murder took place on my first floor landing, the house is a perfectly ordinary, creaky, draughty Victorian house. I also spent many months living entirely alone on an island in the only habitable house in a ruined village that had been evacuated in the 1950s, after some horrible, needless deaths because the sea was too rough to get the person to a doctor. I was often cut off for weeks at a time in bad weather, and there was no electricity. Still no ghosts, though the sound of the seals on the rocks could sound very eerie.

Peig! Is it yourself? 😆

CelticSilver · 30/01/2026 12:32

My Dad was a CofE vicar and was occasionally asked to do things like this. I asked him about it once and he said although he didnt believe in hauntings, the people he was serving did. He saw it as just part of his ministry. Often the people who asked for his help were lonely, had unresolved loss or trauma, and a chat over a cup of tea and a biscuit helped them much more than the blessing did.

BigKissByeBye · 30/01/2026 12:36

Millytante · 30/01/2026 12:31

Peig! Is it yourself? 😆

Don't bother me now, I'm too busy balancing with one foot in the grave and the other one on the edge!😀

ShortyShorts · 30/01/2026 12:36

IndigoIsMyFavouriteColour · 30/01/2026 00:41

Oooo I love a creepy ghost story

And this is the problem.

People find them thrilling and entertaining so the people who tell them start to feel important, with people hanging on their every word.

Eventually they end up believing their own stories and they love the attention it brings.

So in their own minds, they don't feel as though they're lying or hugely exaggerating - whichever term you prefer.

Millytante · 30/01/2026 12:41

BigKissByeBye · 30/01/2026 12:36

Don't bother me now, I'm too busy balancing with one foot in the grave and the other one on the edge!😀

Ooh, Barry Murphy ❤️!

BigKissByeBye · 30/01/2026 12:44

CelticSilver · 30/01/2026 12:32

My Dad was a CofE vicar and was occasionally asked to do things like this. I asked him about it once and he said although he didnt believe in hauntings, the people he was serving did. He saw it as just part of his ministry. Often the people who asked for his help were lonely, had unresolved loss or trauma, and a chat over a cup of tea and a biscuit helped them much more than the blessing did.

Absolutely. My priest friend saw it in exactly the same way -- as a cry for help.

Evolutionarygoals · 30/01/2026 12:57

BigKissByeBye · 30/01/2026 11:46

No, I've always wanted to go to St Kilda too -- this was off the west coast of Ireland, and much closer to the mainland, but in a dirty bit of sea where it did get cut off fairly frequently.

Sort of a missed opportunity for a haunting really. Sounds like it was just crying out for a ghost story. The spirit world could really do with getting their act together and identifying these areas of potential expansion

TheNinkyNonkyIsATardis · 30/01/2026 13:00

EveryKneeShallBow · 29/01/2026 21:48

What a bloody waste of money! You’d hope the nhs had a more scientific approach.

The placebo effect IS scientific.

BigKissByeBye · 30/01/2026 13:04

Evolutionarygoals · 30/01/2026 12:57

Sort of a missed opportunity for a haunting really. Sounds like it was just crying out for a ghost story. The spirit world could really do with getting their act together and identifying these areas of potential expansion

Exactly! Just think, the supply boat could have found me, running naked and mad along the beach, gibbering, or lying dead at the bottom of a cliff with gulls picking out my eyes, and an unfinished diary entry raving about rappings on the door, howlings in the wind, the phantom faces of drowned sailors pressed against the windows begging me to come out and help them.

I mean, wouldn't it make a change from turning the lights on and off, moving small objects around and occasionally whispering through baby monitors in Surbiton?

Come on, spirit world. Don't be so pedestrian.

Bloatstoat · 30/01/2026 13:54

ChurchWindows · 30/01/2026 11:04

WOW. I just posted about an experience at Bristol General Hospital on another thread about places that make you feel uncomfortable. I'd gone for a chest xray and was all alone in a waiting room hung with old photos of nurses and patients in bed - early 20th century photos I imagine. God the atmosphere there was horrendous...I couldn't get out fast enough. Totally agree I couldn't live there.

That's so interesting, i know how a lot of staff felt about being there (I think someone else posted up thread too), I never saw anything myself but I know people who did, but given we did discuss it I suppose it may have influenced our feelings, but very interesting you felt that atmosphere from being there without anyone saying anything.

Zebralele · 30/01/2026 14:02

HeddaGarbled · 29/01/2026 22:21

Mass hysteria assuaged by an astute manager.

This^

Sunloungerhogger · 30/01/2026 14:18

Daygloboo · 30/01/2026 02:16

People have been on this land mass for thousands of years, and so logically every inch of ground has had a death on it at one time or another...so there should be spirits everywhere

Maybe there are……Grin

Jimmyneutronsforehead · 30/01/2026 14:20

Don't get many stories about Neanderthal ghosts or any other early humans. Can only homosapien sapien become spectral spirits?

ChurchWindows · 30/01/2026 15:42

Jimmyneutronsforehead · 30/01/2026 14:20

Don't get many stories about Neanderthal ghosts or any other early humans. Can only homosapien sapien become spectral spirits?

Have you seen the comedy series Ghosts on TV?

Robin in that is a neanderthal man.

Carla786 · 30/01/2026 15:49

BigKissByeBye · 30/01/2026 07:21

The Vatican is (1) offering training and (2) bears little resemblance to Catholicism on the ground. Technically every diocese is supposed to have an exorcist, but in practice they don’t. An old family friend in his late 70s is one of only two priests in my home country who is a designated exorcist (others died off years agoand weren’t replaced), and he says he’s conducted precisely two in the last 30 years. The default assumption is that someone is suffering from MH problems.

Superstitious people, often not Catholics, who have seen horror films, think a crack team of Catholic priests is awaiting their call like some kind of Ghostbusters in cassocks. They aren’t.

I know it's rare and that the Vatican isn't necessarily representative of everyday Catholics. My point is that it IS a thing to some degree, it's not a wholly baseless stereotype.

Carla786 · 30/01/2026 15:52

Cerialkiller · 30/01/2026 08:19

This. I have a friend who is an exorcist (part time). He's a priest who works for a university and most of his 'exorcist' jobs involve 'performing' an exorcism for students who have freaked themselves out using qujii boards or similar. Even he is perfectly honest that it's just an easier solution to get the kids back in their rooms asap to avoid paperwork. He doesn't believe in ghosts and has never seen one.

Does he read the bit where Jesus casts out demons as more metaphorical then for mental illness?

Officially the Catholic Church believes in both angels and demons but in practice I expect many are like your friend...

JackJarvisEsq · 30/01/2026 15:55

scorpiogirly · 29/01/2026 21:16

Well that is one theory I suppose.

Surely in a hospice though, this would be checked and kept on top of? Also, it doesn't explain people seeing the same thing...

I wouldn’t count on it. Our local school had a severe CO leak, it could have been so much worse

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/cly2y3wzyw4o

A three-storey white and grey primary school building

Families claim damages over carbon monoxide leak at Balmuildy Primary School

A Scottish local authority is facing nearly 30 damages claims following a carbon monoxide leak at one of its primary schools.

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/articles/cly2y3wzyw4o

CharlotteLightandDark · 30/01/2026 16:06

I’m in Bristol, what do you mean by the old Bristol General?

the Dower House by the M32 that used to be an asylum? That’s all posh flats now and I wouldn’t live there - always thought it would be the ideal spot to be in a zombie apocalypse though!

Evolutionarygoals · 30/01/2026 16:11

BigKissByeBye · 30/01/2026 13:04

Exactly! Just think, the supply boat could have found me, running naked and mad along the beach, gibbering, or lying dead at the bottom of a cliff with gulls picking out my eyes, and an unfinished diary entry raving about rappings on the door, howlings in the wind, the phantom faces of drowned sailors pressed against the windows begging me to come out and help them.

I mean, wouldn't it make a change from turning the lights on and off, moving small objects around and occasionally whispering through baby monitors in Surbiton?

Come on, spirit world. Don't be so pedestrian.

😂 I would watch this film!!

ChurchWindows · 30/01/2026 16:17

CharlotteLightandDark · 30/01/2026 16:06

I’m in Bristol, what do you mean by the old Bristol General?

the Dower House by the M32 that used to be an asylum? That’s all posh flats now and I wouldn’t live there - always thought it would be the ideal spot to be in a zombie apocalypse though!

It's this building in Guinea Street (St Mary Redcliffe/harbourside)

www.zoopla.co.uk/to-rent/details/71876871/?search_identifier=bcaf238c25914f3751ebc4a68325a5a8ee0a8543c457c939bf40634dc1b13ff8

Cerialkiller · 30/01/2026 16:27

Carla786 · 30/01/2026 15:52

Does he read the bit where Jesus casts out demons as more metaphorical then for mental illness?

Officially the Catholic Church believes in both angels and demons but in practice I expect many are like your friend...

He's not Catholic he's Anglican. He's a Chaplin so does all kinds interesting pastoral things. I think he fully believes in all the Christianity stuff, blood of Christ etc but ghosts are a step too far it seems.

I suspect that he believes in a lot of the demonic stuff as a concept but doesn't believe that his students are being possessed.

Tbh I'm an atheist so it's all bizarre to me...

Teacup40 · 30/01/2026 17:36

Chocolatefrenzy · 30/01/2026 08:19

I remember when I was a student nurse, the South block lifts at the QMC in Nottingham had to have an exorcism

I find the qmc so bloody creepy my grandad was on the major trauma ward in 2024 so I spent a lot of time up there, it was so creepy I hated walking the corridors in the evening. I've spent loads of time at the city hospital and never felt that way there except for the stairwell up to the maternity ward.

justasking111 · 30/01/2026 19:12

Years ago someone put up a link to a nurses forum re ghost experiences there were pages of tales of happenings. Some of them overlapping where another nurse had worked at the same place.

I lost a lot of time reading those.

Bluemin · 30/01/2026 20:49

I'm pretty sure every CofE diocese has someone who is the designated exorcist, but they call it "spiritual wellbeing" now. A lot of this kind of stuff goes on without the general public being aware. After all, if you are having problems with spooky spiritual stuff happening in your home or are seeing weird stuff you're very unlikely to want to go to the mainstream media and publicise it.

I think it's kind of arrogant to think that these things don't happen or that it's all down to mental illness. I believe that there are both good and evil spirits. If you haven't experienced it then you won't believe in it. Fair enough. But I've seen things myself and heard similar things from others enough to be convinced that the spiritual world is real. I dont go around talking about my experiences because people are so quick to scoff about it. I suspect most people who've experienced spiritual stuff are also reluctant to make it public. It doesn't mean it doesn't exist.