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To not get the visceral levels of hatred people have for Keir Starmer

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LastChristmasigaveyousomesocks · 29/01/2026 19:58

I’m not suggesting he’s the greatest prime minister ever. I’m not even suggesting he’s good at all. But some people really, really passionately hate him.

He is a bit insipid and doesn’t have much charisma but overall he seems like a decent enough bloke who perhaps lacks the political skill and acumen he needs. He’s out of his depth basically.

But that’s not a reason to actually despise someone is it?

When did we get to a point where we can’t just disagree without painting the other person as the devil incarnate?

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BIossomtoes · 31/01/2026 12:56

BundleBoogie · 31/01/2026 12:46

Yes I was. No she didn’t. She broke the stranglehold of the unions that had our country on its knees. I don’t think anyone can realistically argue that she didn’t leave the economy in a far better state than when she started.

Privatising industry to drive efficiency and investment as per her manifesto is not ‘selling things off to her mates’.

She destroyed the industry the Victorians created and which made the country wealthy. Shipbuilding, steelworks, mining all gone and had no strategy for replacing them hence laying waste to huge areas of England and Wales. North Sea oil revenues were pouring in at that point and instead of investing in deindustrialised areas and creating new jobs she squandered the money on tax cuts. As if that wasn’t enough she privatised everything in sight and created our current housing crisis by selling off social housing. The mess we’re currently in is directly attributable to Thatcherism and no such thing as society.

ChickenPet · 31/01/2026 12:57

cardibach · 31/01/2026 12:45

They’ve been there a week. I very much doubt this is the case
Anyway, I’m sick of every single thread becoming about asylum seekers. It’s not the topic of this one and yet again it’s been twisted around by the Farage fan girls. I’m out.

They've been in the general vicinity for longer. My friend told me this sometime towards the end of last year. Asylum seekers are not the only issue in the country, but they are one.

MunicipalDarwinism · 31/01/2026 12:58

BIossomtoes · 31/01/2026 12:56

She destroyed the industry the Victorians created and which made the country wealthy. Shipbuilding, steelworks, mining all gone and had no strategy for replacing them hence laying waste to huge areas of England and Wales. North Sea oil revenues were pouring in at that point and instead of investing in deindustrialised areas and creating new jobs she squandered the money on tax cuts. As if that wasn’t enough she privatised everything in sight and created our current housing crisis by selling off social housing. The mess we’re currently in is directly attributable to Thatcherism and no such thing as society.

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MunicipalDarwinism · 31/01/2026 12:59

ChickenPet · 31/01/2026 12:57

They've been in the general vicinity for longer. My friend told me this sometime towards the end of last year. Asylum seekers are not the only issue in the country, but they are one.

Ooh nice drip-feed there after your claim was blown out of the water.

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iloveecats · 31/01/2026 13:02

Somersetbaker · 31/01/2026 12:50

I think the hatred is due to the fact that he's a decent person, not a thick as mince, bone idle, serial adulterer with a bad haircut, and he's never claimed that his parents, while sending him to an expensive private school, were too hard up to have Sky, or had a wife non-domiciled for tax-purposes.

Who do you think, PM-wise, is ‘thick as mince’?

ChickenPet · 31/01/2026 13:04

BIossomtoes · 31/01/2026 12:56

She destroyed the industry the Victorians created and which made the country wealthy. Shipbuilding, steelworks, mining all gone and had no strategy for replacing them hence laying waste to huge areas of England and Wales. North Sea oil revenues were pouring in at that point and instead of investing in deindustrialised areas and creating new jobs she squandered the money on tax cuts. As if that wasn’t enough she privatised everything in sight and created our current housing crisis by selling off social housing. The mess we’re currently in is directly attributable to Thatcherism and no such thing as society.

The industries were naturally declining due to economic conditions. Countries change and economies change with them. I like tax cuts. I like to keep more of the money I earn.

We needed quite a lot of the privatisations. No reason on earth the government should own an airline.

ChickenPet · 31/01/2026 13:06

MunicipalDarwinism · 31/01/2026 12:59

Ooh nice drip-feed there after your claim was blown out of the water.

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What? This person from Crowborough told me about their direct experience. I feel sorry for them.

BIossomtoes · 31/01/2026 13:12

The industries were naturally declining due to economic conditions.

They weren’t. The world still needs ships and all kinds of industries need steel. In any event, even if you were correct, there was a responsibility to invest in the regions where jobs were lost to create new ones, particularly at a point when the country was awash with money. Norway created a sovereign fund with its oil revenues, the UK had the opportunity to do the same but myopic Thatcher used the money to bribe people like you to vote for her.

BundleBoogie · 31/01/2026 13:12

MunicipalDarwinism · 31/01/2026 12:49

terrible shortages of basics

There were very short term sugar shortages and IIRC bread shortages.

water shortages

Due to a very unusual heatwave!

bun end strikes

?
3 day working weeks

For two months.

Bin men strikes. Waste piling up in the streets
There were shortages of basic goods like toilet rolls etc.

Heatwave or no, it’s not an excuse. Standpipes in the street for ages.

I stand corrected, it was gravediggers striking - bodies left unburied.The Winter of Discontent ring any bells?

Heres a more comprehensive list:

  • The Winter of Discontent (1978–79):Widespread strikes across the public sector, including garbage collectors (binmen), hospital workers, and gravediggers, caused immense disruption, resulting in uncollected rubbish and significant public service shutdowns.
  • Other Major Disruptions:
  • Dockers' Strike (1970): A major strike affecting shipping and trade.
  • Firefighters and Municipal Workers:Various strikes throughout the late 70s impacted emergency services.
  • Bread Strike (1977): Industrial action by bread delivery drivers caused shortages and panic buying.
Context for the Unrest:
  • High Inflation: Rising prices led to a decline in real wages, fueling worker demands for higher pay.
  • Union Power: Trade unions held significant sway, often challenging government economic policies.
  • Economic Strain: The combination of strikes and inflation led to a, at times, paralyzed economy and a "three-day week" to manage power cuts.

Are you implying that our country and its economy was in good shape in the 70s?

ChickenPet · 31/01/2026 13:13

iloveecats · 31/01/2026 13:02

Who do you think, PM-wise, is ‘thick as mince’?

PP would probably say Liz Truss. Whilst her economic policies were atrocious, she's not stupid. She just made a careless mistake in a job.

She's Oxford educated and had a successful career in the private sector. She was decent enough at times as a minister.

BundleBoogie · 31/01/2026 13:16

MunicipalDarwinism · 31/01/2026 12:59

Ooh nice drip-feed there after your claim was blown out of the water.

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In what way was her account ‘blown out of the water’ ?

Does anyone have any sympathy for the women and girls directly impacted by this or does that get in the way of the virtue signalling? What happened to ‘believe her’?

Warmlight1 · 31/01/2026 13:17

SquirrelSoShiny · 31/01/2026 11:22

The problem is people think that knee jerk change will automatically be good. They think 'Things are bad so they can only get better.' That's false. They see flames and grab the nearest jug of clear fluid to pour on the flames, assuming it's water, then find out it's petrol and oh fuck now YOUR face is on fire, EVERYTHING is now on fire.

Sometimes the centre just needs to hold and course correct. I think this is what Starmer is trying to do. His fucking sixth form back benchers need to wake the fuck up before we get our own version of Nazi Germany or Mao's China. Let him do his job.

Tend to agree with this

ChickenPet · 31/01/2026 13:19

BundleBoogie · 31/01/2026 13:12

Bin men strikes. Waste piling up in the streets
There were shortages of basic goods like toilet rolls etc.

Heatwave or no, it’s not an excuse. Standpipes in the street for ages.

I stand corrected, it was gravediggers striking - bodies left unburied.The Winter of Discontent ring any bells?

Heres a more comprehensive list:

  • The Winter of Discontent (1978–79):Widespread strikes across the public sector, including garbage collectors (binmen), hospital workers, and gravediggers, caused immense disruption, resulting in uncollected rubbish and significant public service shutdowns.
  • Other Major Disruptions:
  • Dockers' Strike (1970): A major strike affecting shipping and trade.
  • Firefighters and Municipal Workers:Various strikes throughout the late 70s impacted emergency services.
  • Bread Strike (1977): Industrial action by bread delivery drivers caused shortages and panic buying.
Context for the Unrest:
  • High Inflation: Rising prices led to a decline in real wages, fueling worker demands for higher pay.
  • Union Power: Trade unions held significant sway, often challenging government economic policies.
  • Economic Strain: The combination of strikes and inflation led to a, at times, paralyzed economy and a "three-day week" to manage power cuts.

Are you implying that our country and its economy was in good shape in the 70s?

It fills me with happiness seeing how Thatcher planned for the strikes and broke the unions.

MunicipalDarwinism · 31/01/2026 13:24

BundleBoogie · 31/01/2026 13:12

Bin men strikes. Waste piling up in the streets
There were shortages of basic goods like toilet rolls etc.

Heatwave or no, it’s not an excuse. Standpipes in the street for ages.

I stand corrected, it was gravediggers striking - bodies left unburied.The Winter of Discontent ring any bells?

Heres a more comprehensive list:

  • The Winter of Discontent (1978–79):Widespread strikes across the public sector, including garbage collectors (binmen), hospital workers, and gravediggers, caused immense disruption, resulting in uncollected rubbish and significant public service shutdowns.
  • Other Major Disruptions:
  • Dockers' Strike (1970): A major strike affecting shipping and trade.
  • Firefighters and Municipal Workers:Various strikes throughout the late 70s impacted emergency services.
  • Bread Strike (1977): Industrial action by bread delivery drivers caused shortages and panic buying.
Context for the Unrest:
  • High Inflation: Rising prices led to a decline in real wages, fueling worker demands for higher pay.
  • Union Power: Trade unions held significant sway, often challenging government economic policies.
  • Economic Strain: The combination of strikes and inflation led to a, at times, paralyzed economy and a "three-day week" to manage power cuts.

Are you implying that our country and its economy was in good shape in the 70s?

I was there. I remember it. I don't need a chatGP generated list!

I think you need to read my response again. I haven't denied what did happen, but challenged some of your slightly exaggerated claims.

Can't say I remember a loo roll shortage. I do remember we were only allowed to buy one bag of sugar for a short time. Ditto bread shortage for a short time. The early days of Covid were much worse in terms of shortages (and a thousand times worse in terms of panic buying).

MunicipalDarwinism · 31/01/2026 13:30

BundleBoogie · 31/01/2026 13:16

In what way was her account ‘blown out of the water’ ?

Does anyone have any sympathy for the women and girls directly impacted by this or does that get in the way of the virtue signalling? What happened to ‘believe her’?

One can have sympathy for women and girls who are harassed, abused and worse at the same time as being wary of people posting unverifiable anecdotes on social media. Especially in the context of their other posts on this thread. One of which has been deleted for hate speech.

ChickenPet · 31/01/2026 13:31

BIossomtoes · 31/01/2026 13:12

The industries were naturally declining due to economic conditions.

They weren’t. The world still needs ships and all kinds of industries need steel. In any event, even if you were correct, there was a responsibility to invest in the regions where jobs were lost to create new ones, particularly at a point when the country was awash with money. Norway created a sovereign fund with its oil revenues, the UK had the opportunity to do the same but myopic Thatcher used the money to bribe people like you to vote for her.

The UK manufacturing industry was on a long term decline. The UK economy was changing and the world was changing. We exported services and imported goods. The UK still has niches in higher value manufacturing.

Regarding a sovereign wealth fund the UK gov at the time used oil receipts in a time of heavy fiscal pressure. Also the revenues fell drastically after they peaked.

BundleBoogie · 31/01/2026 13:31

MunicipalDarwinism · 31/01/2026 13:24

I was there. I remember it. I don't need a chatGP generated list!

I think you need to read my response again. I haven't denied what did happen, but challenged some of your slightly exaggerated claims.

Can't say I remember a loo roll shortage. I do remember we were only allowed to buy one bag of sugar for a short time. Ditto bread shortage for a short time. The early days of Covid were much worse in terms of shortages (and a thousand times worse in terms of panic buying).

Edited

Ok cool. What did I exaggerate?

I was quite little but I remember how stressed my parents were about it and the shortages/strikes. Yes loo roll was a problem. Our water was off for ages and mum had a small baby. Maybe other areas of the country got pick of the deliveries that hit through the dock strikes and Cornwall lost out as usual.

MunicipalDarwinism · 31/01/2026 13:38

BundleBoogie · 31/01/2026 13:31

Ok cool. What did I exaggerate?

I was quite little but I remember how stressed my parents were about it and the shortages/strikes. Yes loo roll was a problem. Our water was off for ages and mum had a small baby. Maybe other areas of the country got pick of the deliveries that hit through the dock strikes and Cornwall lost out as usual.

Fair enough re: loo roll, it may have varied according to area. I am sure I would remember it otherwise.

ChickenPet · 31/01/2026 13:38

MunicipalDarwinism · 31/01/2026 13:30

One can have sympathy for women and girls who are harassed, abused and worse at the same time as being wary of people posting unverifiable anecdotes on social media. Especially in the context of their other posts on this thread. One of which has been deleted for hate speech.

Guess what happened to Rhiannon is just an "anecdote".

Calliecarpa · 31/01/2026 13:41

MunicipalDarwinism · 31/01/2026 13:30

One can have sympathy for women and girls who are harassed, abused and worse at the same time as being wary of people posting unverifiable anecdotes on social media. Especially in the context of their other posts on this thread. One of which has been deleted for hate speech.

Being wary of unverifiable anecdotes online is fine, but that's not what you originally said, is it? You said that another PP voicing suspicions that men hadn't been in Crowborough long enough to behave in the way they were being accused of was 'blowing a claim out of the water' - though I'm not sure why only being in a place for a week means that men can't hiss at women and girls they see out in public. In what way is that 'blowing a claim out of the water'? You're talking as though strong evidence was provided that completely disproved the story rather than someone saying 'I doubt they've been there long enough to do that'.

Talking about 'slightly exaggerated claims'...!

MunicipalDarwinism · 31/01/2026 13:44

ChickenPet · 31/01/2026 13:38

Guess what happened to Rhiannon is just an "anecdote".

If you mean Rhiannon Whyte, of course not. Why would anyone in their right mind say that?

ChickenPet · 31/01/2026 13:45

Calliecarpa · 31/01/2026 13:41

Being wary of unverifiable anecdotes online is fine, but that's not what you originally said, is it? You said that another PP voicing suspicions that men hadn't been in Crowborough long enough to behave in the way they were being accused of was 'blowing a claim out of the water' - though I'm not sure why only being in a place for a week means that men can't hiss at women and girls they see out in public. In what way is that 'blowing a claim out of the water'? You're talking as though strong evidence was provided that completely disproved the story rather than someone saying 'I doubt they've been there long enough to do that'.

Talking about 'slightly exaggerated claims'...!

My friend is from the area and told me about his experiences late last year. Seeing then deliver drug parcels, and treating his wife and daughter horribly.

SeekingAlpha · 31/01/2026 13:52

To not get the visceral levels of hatred people have for Keir Starmer

I have been giving this some further thought, and without wishing to over-intellectualise matters, I have concluded it’s easiest to put this way; if people do feel ‘visceral hatred’ towards Starmer (I personally don’t), then perhaps it’s because the bloke is simply a massive wanker.

BundleBoogie · 31/01/2026 13:55

MunicipalDarwinism · 31/01/2026 13:30

One can have sympathy for women and girls who are harassed, abused and worse at the same time as being wary of people posting unverifiable anecdotes on social media. Especially in the context of their other posts on this thread. One of which has been deleted for hate speech.

You didn’t answer my question.

I don’t know who has been deleted but I didn’t see any hate speech from that poster. Some PPs are extremely sensitive to reading things they don’t like so I tend to assume the deletion was to be on the safe side.

MunicipalDarwinism · 31/01/2026 14:08

BundleBoogie · 31/01/2026 13:55

You didn’t answer my question.

I don’t know who has been deleted but I didn’t see any hate speech from that poster. Some PPs are extremely sensitive to reading things they don’t like so I tend to assume the deletion was to be on the safe side.

I did answer your questions.

But to be clear, if a woman tells me she has been harassed or abused by a man my starting point is that I will believe her.

But that is not what happened in this instance. Chickenpet offered a second and third hand anecdote. Even then, I would have been inclined to believe him/her, but the wider context makes me rather doubtful. As does his/her deleted post. I can't say 100% either way, though. And nor can you.

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