All important points.
You’re right, people do choose to tell their stories in public all the time. But, isn’t it usually to campaign for, or achieve, something: justice, inquiries/investigations, better systems/services, public debate on a subject, to help others in similar situations?
And don’t they usually wait a while to process and get perspective on it, seek expert advice and carefully consider how to go about it (e.g. to avoid harm to themselves or others), unless it’s urgent to save lives etc.?
BB’s motivation appears to be to inform the public of his perspective during a live and emotive family relationship breakdown. It’s not clear what he hopes to achieve. He claims it’s privacy and peace. But why then fuel public/media interest by going public, surely resulting in less privacy and peace? Of course, he should talk to people he knows and trusts, therapist etc.
I guess people have different approaches to how they deal with gossip and rumour, whether in media or community (e.g. workplace). IMHO why need to explain yourself? As long as the people you care about know, who cares what anyone else thinks? As long as you’re not being libelled or slandered in a way that’ll impact your reputation/earnings, in which case you can sue. Otherwise, gossips gonna gossip. Who cares?
100% agree parents (famous or not) should think v carefully about the risks and long-term impacts of sharing photos or details of their children’s lives in public. The child can’t give informed consent. Once online, things are difficult to eradicate. Kids have much more freedom if they’re not recognised, e.g. employment. There are many famous people who share nothing about their children and avoid taking them to places (like red carpet events) where they’ll be photographed.
As for sides, I suspect most people can empathise with everyone embroiled in this salutary tale of living life via social media, including siblings, grandparents and family friends. A healthy and supportive family is one of the most precious things in life. So is privacy and freedom.