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Cases of measles in school

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Savanna669 · 20/01/2026 17:36

My DS son has seen two cases of measles. In nursery but apparently they have siblings in different year groups. Children who are immuneocomprised are being told to have three weeks off. Parents are keeping their kids off now due to various things. school is stopping mass gatherings such as assemblies. Should we worry?

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3rty · 21/02/2026 11:28

3rty · 21/02/2026 11:27

Which communities?

Middle class hippy mums?

FredbassetOT · 21/02/2026 11:51

A child in DD's year had measles in reception. They were vaccinated (and their mother didn't broadcast it because she didn't want any anti Vax criticism). Nobody else caught it.

I had it as a kid. It wasn't nice. GP advised not to vaccinate and apologised to my mum when he was doing daily home visits and I had a temperature of 106.

Thatcannotberight · 21/02/2026 12:05

3rty · 21/02/2026 11:27

Which communities?

If you read the BBC article posted upthread, you can see which demographics have the lowest vaccination rates.

FaintingGoats · 21/02/2026 12:10

Some issues are bigger than discrimination

ThatFairy · 21/02/2026 12:17

metalbottle · 20/01/2026 17:45

Idiots who don't vaccinate should worry

They're not idiots. Vaccine damage is a thing. It's dare, but it happens. I'm sure most parents just do the best they can with the information they have available. It's not your problem or place to get angry about. Vaccinate your own kid and mind your business.

3rty · 21/02/2026 12:21

ThatFairy · 21/02/2026 12:17

They're not idiots. Vaccine damage is a thing. It's dare, but it happens. I'm sure most parents just do the best they can with the information they have available. It's not your problem or place to get angry about. Vaccinate your own kid and mind your business.

Unfortunately not vaccinating undermines and compromises herd immunity risking others alongside your own family, so it is everyone's business.

3rty · 21/02/2026 12:23

Thatcannotberight · 21/02/2026 12:05

If you read the BBC article posted upthread, you can see which demographics have the lowest vaccination rates.

I read the whole thread but can't see the linked article.

ednaclouda · 21/02/2026 12:25

dont roast me but parents should be fined if they put 31 other kids at risk for not having their sprogs vaccinated fined as in benefits blocked or wages garnished.

FreddysFingers · 21/02/2026 12:29

This is the result of antivaxers.

FreddysFingers · 21/02/2026 12:30

ednaclouda · 21/02/2026 12:25

dont roast me but parents should be fined if they put 31 other kids at risk for not having their sprogs vaccinated fined as in benefits blocked or wages garnished.

It's a fair comment to be honest, why should other kids be put at risk because some irresponsible parents don't vaccinate their child?

JustAnotherWhinger · 21/02/2026 12:32

ThatFairy · 21/02/2026 12:17

They're not idiots. Vaccine damage is a thing. It's dare, but it happens. I'm sure most parents just do the best they can with the information they have available. It's not your problem or place to get angry about. Vaccinate your own kid and mind your business.

Not all of us can vaccinate all our kids. Vaccine damage is incredibly rare - the number of parents choosing not to vaccinate now is not remotely proportionate to vaccine damage numbers.

Their decision to not is now putting more children, including their own, at risk of measles damage because the herd immunity that protected children like my DS who cannot be vaccinated and the previously smaller number of children whose parents chose not to do so is broken.

Applecup · 21/02/2026 12:34

Savanna669 · 20/01/2026 18:44

Worryingly, my friends Dchild is in nursery and the parent of the child actually tried to bring their child into school this morning. Obviously the child was turned away but parents over heard and he said it didn’t matter as the rash was under clothes.

Jesus.

Muret · 21/02/2026 12:37

ThatFairy · 21/02/2026 12:17

They're not idiots. Vaccine damage is a thing. It's dare, but it happens. I'm sure most parents just do the best they can with the information they have available. It's not your problem or place to get angry about. Vaccinate your own kid and mind your business.

I can see both points of view. I understand the fear of vaccine damage. But I also have a child whose immune status means they could die quite easily from a virus like this, despite having been vaccinated as a baby, so I would hope people might take that into account if they were able.

Thatcannotberight · 21/02/2026 12:40

3rty · 21/02/2026 12:23

I read the whole thread but can't see the linked article.

Maybe it's disappeared or was on another similar thread. The lowest vaccination rates are in African and Carribean communities. Verified on UK Govt. Website.
Reasons cited are distrust of institutions, lack of representation in clinical trials and racism.
Not the "thick as mince" take of previous posters.🤷‍♀️

ThatFairy · 21/02/2026 12:54

Muret · 21/02/2026 12:37

I can see both points of view. I understand the fear of vaccine damage. But I also have a child whose immune status means they could die quite easily from a virus like this, despite having been vaccinated as a baby, so I would hope people might take that into account if they were able.

I am sympathetic to that but you can't expect a parent to consider your child over theirs when making a serious decision on whether to vaccinate there own child, while having fears of the vaccine ?

lasagnerosesponge · 21/02/2026 13:00

I don’t understand why parents are allowed to put their child at risk like that, tbh, or why there aren’t consequences for it? What about the rights of the children to grow up healthy?

GETTINGLIKEMYMOTHER · 21/02/2026 13:02

tougholdbirdy · 22/01/2026 22:59

I work in social care. I have lost count of the number of people I have worked with over the years who have had profound multiple physical and learning disabilities caused by their mothers catching measles during pregnancy. It is imperative that women are aware of this risk before they start a family and get vaccinated if they aren’t already.

Do you mean measles, or German measles (rubella) which is well know for causing serious problems for the foetus in early pregnancy.

Agatha Christie even based one of her murder plots on a case of rubella thoughtlessly inflicted on a pregnant woman. (The Mirror Crack’d)

Muret · 21/02/2026 13:04

I think WRT the schools question, ie whether schools make it a condition of accepting a child that that child has been vaccinated, this could result in a lot of unvaccinated kids not having anywhere to go. Which is probably why we don't do it in this country.

It's a difficult problem. I also understand that most people don't know about immune suppression and so on, and I've always said to my child's schools that I would not blame them if he came into contact with something that then caused him significant harm. They do their best but other parents are often unaware of the dangers of sending a sick child to school.

We all do our best. I keep mine away if there's an unusual risk of infection that I know about, and school will also inform me, so that's how we roll. And obvs being super across the prophylactic treatment should he be exposed (only happened once so far)

eurochick · 21/02/2026 13:21

Savanna669 · 20/01/2026 18:44

Worryingly, my friends Dchild is in nursery and the parent of the child actually tried to bring their child into school this morning. Obviously the child was turned away but parents over heard and he said it didn’t matter as the rash was under clothes.

Are you aure they weren’t talking about shingles? As that is only contagious from the blister fluid if the blisters are covered people with it can usually go about their usual day as long as they feel up to it.

Ophir · 21/02/2026 13:27

Thatcannotberight · 21/02/2026 12:40

Maybe it's disappeared or was on another similar thread. The lowest vaccination rates are in African and Carribean communities. Verified on UK Govt. Website.
Reasons cited are distrust of institutions, lack of representation in clinical trials and racism.
Not the "thick as mince" take of previous posters.🤷‍♀️

This is why outreach and education is urgently needed

Leolady11 · 21/02/2026 14:00

Does anyone know if one dose of the MMR is sufficient? My toddler is on the old schedule, so won't be getting the 2nd dose of MMR for a few months yet. I read that the 2nd dose is only given to cover those rare cases in which immunity doesn't develop from the 1st dose, and that it doesn't actually increase/boost protection. But there's some conflicting information out there... Waiting to speak with my practice nurse next week for clarification, it's concerning!

Thatcannotberight · 21/02/2026 14:25

Leolady11 · 21/02/2026 14:00

Does anyone know if one dose of the MMR is sufficient? My toddler is on the old schedule, so won't be getting the 2nd dose of MMR for a few months yet. I read that the 2nd dose is only given to cover those rare cases in which immunity doesn't develop from the 1st dose, and that it doesn't actually increase/boost protection. But there's some conflicting information out there... Waiting to speak with my practice nurse next week for clarification, it's concerning!

1 dose is supposed to give 93% protection and 2 doses give 97% protection. As to whether you can get the second dose earlier, it looks like it depends on where you live. It wouldn't happen in the South West as we're not considered an outbreak area.

Thechaseison71 · 21/02/2026 14:54

AffIt · 22/01/2026 06:34

I'm 46, so too old to have had the MMR.

Fortunately I managed to avoid measles as a child, but I did catch mumps when I was nine and remember being very ill, to the extent that our GP made a home visit (it was my bloody birthday too!).

I travel a lot for work, particularly in SE Asia, and was advised to get the MMR as an adult as measles remains endemic in that region. Damn straight I took it!

It's a horrible disease and I'm so glad that I live in a time and place where medical science allows me to both avoid catching it and prevent transmitting it to vulnerable members of society.

Edited

There was a measles jab since the late 60s though so I'm not sure why being 46 means u didn't get it

Thechaseison71 · 21/02/2026 14:58

RudolphTheReindeer · 19/02/2026 13:39

I've always been tested when pregnant. That was back in the early 2000's though, i don't know if it's still routinely tested for.

I don't think so. Mt DDs have all been tested for rubella immunity when pregnant but not measles.

One of them showed no immunity ( had mmr at a year) so they gave her another after baby boNext pregnancy no immunity again so one more jab

3rd pregnancy no immunity. I think they gave up at that point. 4th pregnancy still no immunity ( she told midwife this would happen before taking the test that time lol)

Lmnop22 · 21/02/2026 15:37

SecretSquirrelLoo · 20/02/2026 21:18

Thing is, that means 3% of the vaccinated children in the school are vulnerable to it. You can hope your children aren’t in that 3%, but I actually would worry. Three per cent isn’t a super low risk. In a school like ours with 1000 kids, that’s 30 children. This is why herd immunity matters - the vaccination rate needs to be high enough that the disease falls out of circulation.

Also have to consider that even if vaccinated and still get it, chances are the child will be fine.

There were two measles deaths in 2025 and one was an adult and one was an immunocompromised child. Not saying it’s negligible because I 100% agree herd immunity should be a thing and every child should have the vaccine.

BUT if vaccination gives 97% chance measles will never be contracted and 2 out of 4.5 million children died last year, I wouldn’t expect OP to be worried