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Cases of measles in school

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Savanna669 · 20/01/2026 17:36

My DS son has seen two cases of measles. In nursery but apparently they have siblings in different year groups. Children who are immuneocomprised are being told to have three weeks off. Parents are keeping their kids off now due to various things. school is stopping mass gatherings such as assemblies. Should we worry?

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PuzzledObserver · 22/01/2026 22:54

MigGirl · 22/01/2026 21:56

You should have had the separate vaccination as a child. I'm older then you and did, the measles vaccination was available in 1968. Although may have been a few years before the NHS rolled it out. 🤔

Was it? I had measles in 1970. My dad was a doctor, and we were vaccinated against everything available - but not measles.

tougholdbirdy · 22/01/2026 22:59

I work in social care. I have lost count of the number of people I have worked with over the years who have had profound multiple physical and learning disabilities caused by their mothers catching measles during pregnancy. It is imperative that women are aware of this risk before they start a family and get vaccinated if they aren’t already.

suburberphobe · 22/01/2026 23:07

And anti-vaxxers saying they’ll just homeschool then, that should no longer be an option. IMO it’s too easy to homeschool in the U.K. - who ever checks that parents are competent, never mind it being a cover for neglect/abuse?

Homeschooling is not allowed in the country I live in. And rightly so I think.

My son had all the vaccinations as a child. I have no medical training, why would I go against medical advice?!

LadyGreySpillsTheTea · 22/01/2026 23:35

MigGirl · 22/01/2026 21:56

You should have had the separate vaccination as a child. I'm older then you and did, the measles vaccination was available in 1968. Although may have been a few years before the NHS rolled it out. 🤔

It was certainly generally available on the NHS by the time I was vaccinated as a baby in 1970/71. I still have my vaccination card from back then. Only a single dose of each vaccine was given, unlike the two for MMR now, but it was enough to stop me getting anything when there was a simultaneous outbreak of measles, Mumps and German measles in our area in the late 70s. Just about all the unvaccinated kids got at least one of them.

I remember visiting a family member in hospital and then being taken to see a friend’s son who had been hospitalized with measles at the same time. My mum clearly hadn’t realised how desperately ill he was (or she wouldn’t gave turned up with me aged 7 in tow) - he was in an oxygen tent, obviously in isolation. He recovered, but it was touch and go for a while.

sittingonabeach · 22/01/2026 23:39

I had mumps as a child. I remember my brother and my dad being kept well away from me.

I can remember having rubella vaccination at secondary school.

I think my brother had measles when he was young.

We are in our 50s

OhDear111 · 24/01/2026 19:58

German measles, if caught by a pregnant women, is very dangerous for the baby. Sadly too few people care.

Thatcannotberight · 19/02/2026 12:41

OhDear111 · 24/01/2026 19:58

German measles, if caught by a pregnant women, is very dangerous for the baby. Sadly too few people care.

When I was at school all 12/13 yr old girls were vaccinated against German Measles. They also used to test to see if you still had immunity when you went for MW appointments during pregnancy.

Sassiskt · 19/02/2026 12:46

I’m totally deaf in one ear and have partial deafness in another from flu. Hearing loss is much more common following measles though. Get your kids the immunisation. Hearing loss is really disabling, missing out on conversations that your friends are having.

MrsBennetsPoorNervesAreBack · 19/02/2026 12:47

It's a massive concern, but if your child is fully vaccinated, then they will be fine.

I understand why the school has advised immmuno compromised children to stay at home, but it's outrageous that these children should be denied the ability to access education because of the irresponsible decision-making of other parents.

I don't support a general ban on unvaccinated children attending school, as that is effectively punishing the children for having feckless parents, but where there is an actual outbreak, surely schools need to be telling parents of unvaccinated children to keep their kids at home as well? Or at the very least, schools should have the right to know the vaccination status of all pupils so that they can segregate the unvaccinated ones appropriately.

Hiptothisjive · 19/02/2026 12:48

laserme · 20/01/2026 18:50

If your kids are vaccinated then try not to worry

If someone else wants to put their kids at risk of death from an entirely preventable disease because they’ve watched a few tik tok videos from crackpots and done some “research” (googling) let them get on with it

it should be compulsory to vaccinate to be able to send your kids to school like it is in Australia

Totally agrees Some provinces in Canada are the same including Ontario which is the largest with 1/3 of the total population. You have to show verification or valid exemptions.

RudolphTheReindeer · 19/02/2026 12:58

steff13 · 22/01/2026 15:10

I know your immunity drops off, but I got vaccinated when I started kindergarten (around 1985). I got tested last year and I'm still immune. So hopefully any kids who got it more recently than 46 years ago will still be immune.

Hopefully but it's not a certainty. My measles immunity wore off by my early 20's.

The mmr jab is 95% effective. In 'high risk' situations (where family members have it or it's circulating in close contact communities like schools) the chance of it preventing you from catching it actually drops to 92%.

It's disingenuous to say there's no need to worry if someone is immunised. Does it need to be a big worry, no, but there is still a risk.

wishingonastar101 · 19/02/2026 13:01

I don't think unvaccinated children should be allowed in mainstream school. Of course there should be an expiation for immunocompromised children.

BoredZelda · 19/02/2026 13:09

AffIt · 22/01/2026 06:34

I'm 46, so too old to have had the MMR.

Fortunately I managed to avoid measles as a child, but I did catch mumps when I was nine and remember being very ill, to the extent that our GP made a home visit (it was my bloody birthday too!).

I travel a lot for work, particularly in SE Asia, and was advised to get the MMR as an adult as measles remains endemic in that region. Damn straight I took it!

It's a horrible disease and I'm so glad that I live in a time and place where medical science allows me to both avoid catching it and prevent transmitting it to vulnerable members of society.

Edited

I’m 51 and had the MMR vaccine. We were given MMR rather than the single rubella vaccine in 1988.

I also had mumps when I was about 6, it was utterly miserable.

lazyarse123 · 19/02/2026 13:10

laserme · 20/01/2026 18:50

If your kids are vaccinated then try not to worry

If someone else wants to put their kids at risk of death from an entirely preventable disease because they’ve watched a few tik tok videos from crackpots and done some “research” (googling) let them get on with it

it should be compulsory to vaccinate to be able to send your kids to school like it is in Australia

Exactly this. Unless they are not vaccinated for medical reasons.

twinkletoesimnot · 19/02/2026 13:29

What about tiny babies and those under one (yet to have MMR.) It’s terrifying frankly.

SugarC · 19/02/2026 13:31

All children should have vaccinations and it should be law (unless against medical advice or immuno comp backed up with evidence). If you want your child in mainstream school, you should have to provide their vaccination evidence.
Enough is enough. All the idiots online doing their "research" are putting their kids at risk should be done for medical neglect. I hope their kids never have serious, long term complications from infection and disease that could have been prevented.

Soontobe60 · 19/02/2026 13:31

RudolphTheReindeer · 19/02/2026 12:58

Hopefully but it's not a certainty. My measles immunity wore off by my early 20's.

The mmr jab is 95% effective. In 'high risk' situations (where family members have it or it's circulating in close contact communities like schools) the chance of it preventing you from catching it actually drops to 92%.

It's disingenuous to say there's no need to worry if someone is immunised. Does it need to be a big worry, no, but there is still a risk.

How did you find out your immunity was no longer effective?

Thatcannotberight · 19/02/2026 13:36

twinkletoesimnot · 19/02/2026 13:29

What about tiny babies and those under one (yet to have MMR.) It’s terrifying frankly.

Maternal antibodies should give young babies some protection, they definitely interfere with vaccine effectiveness. This wains at around 7 months , so there is argument to vaccinate earlier than 1 yr old. I seem to remember reading about a Dutch study into this. It might also depend on the duration of babies receiving maternal antibodies.

RudolphTheReindeer · 19/02/2026 13:39

Soontobe60 · 19/02/2026 13:31

How did you find out your immunity was no longer effective?

I've always been tested when pregnant. That was back in the early 2000's though, i don't know if it's still routinely tested for.

Thatcannotberight · 19/02/2026 13:41

RudolphTheReindeer · 19/02/2026 13:39

I've always been tested when pregnant. That was back in the early 2000's though, i don't know if it's still routinely tested for.

They stopped rubella titer testing in 2016 in the UK.

RudolphTheReindeer · 19/02/2026 13:42

Actually now I've said that it may have been the rubella immunity aspect they test for rather than measles. I remember I was advised to get an mmr jab after baby was born.

RudolphTheReindeer · 19/02/2026 13:44

Thatcannotberight · 19/02/2026 13:41

They stopped rubella titer testing in 2016 in the UK.

Sorry, I misinterpreted your post and am clearly a bit dolally today!

Ophir · 19/02/2026 13:45

twinkletoesimnot · 19/02/2026 13:29

What about tiny babies and those under one (yet to have MMR.) It’s terrifying frankly.

Yes, agreed this is just awful

Ophir · 19/02/2026 13:48

I understand that some immigrant populations are more likely to be concerned about side effects of the vaccine,and less likely to vaccinate their children. This also needs to be addressed, if it’s correct.

budgiegirl · 19/02/2026 13:51

It makes me very angry that some people don't get their kids the vaccines (medical exemptions aside).

We are so, so lucky in this country to have a vaccine programme that has the potential to (and has in past) eradicate some very nasty, sometimes deadly, diseases. And yet we are throwing away our privilege, because some parents would rather listen to social media than a doctor. There is also, imo, a growing trend for parents to just think about themselves and their kids, rather than seeing the bigger picture that herd immunity provides.

I find it staggering that we are allowing an almost eradicated illness to raise its ugly head again. I can only assume it's because the parents are too young to remember what it was like before the measles vaccine/MMR. How could we, as a nation, be so ignorant? I agree that it should be a requirement that all children starting school are vaccinated, if it's possible for them to be so.

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