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Cases of measles in school

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Savanna669 · 20/01/2026 17:36

My DS son has seen two cases of measles. In nursery but apparently they have siblings in different year groups. Children who are immuneocomprised are being told to have three weeks off. Parents are keeping their kids off now due to various things. school is stopping mass gatherings such as assemblies. Should we worry?

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HoppityBun · 19/02/2026 13:59

budgiegirl · 19/02/2026 13:51

It makes me very angry that some people don't get their kids the vaccines (medical exemptions aside).

We are so, so lucky in this country to have a vaccine programme that has the potential to (and has in past) eradicate some very nasty, sometimes deadly, diseases. And yet we are throwing away our privilege, because some parents would rather listen to social media than a doctor. There is also, imo, a growing trend for parents to just think about themselves and their kids, rather than seeing the bigger picture that herd immunity provides.

I find it staggering that we are allowing an almost eradicated illness to raise its ugly head again. I can only assume it's because the parents are too young to remember what it was like before the measles vaccine/MMR. How could we, as a nation, be so ignorant? I agree that it should be a requirement that all children starting school are vaccinated, if it's possible for them to be so.

I think that, as with a lot of diseases, people just don’t realise how damaging they were before modern vaccines and treatments. You only have to look at old photographs of smallpox to be absolutely horrified, but we just don’t see that now. It’s been eradicated but who understands that? same with rubella and scarlet fever. Same with measles.

I have heard so, so many people say “oh I had measles as a child and got over it what’s the big deal?“. Well, I had it as a child, too, quite badly and I also got over it. But, at the time, I’m almost certain that we had no idea of the long-term damaging effects that the disease could have. Also, it’s very, very unpleasant for babies, who catch it and for many children. Unfortunately, people generalise from the particular and if they didn’t have it too badly then they just assumed that that’s it, and there’s no more to be said.

It was the same with German measles. People would self righteously send their children to school to pass it on. Completely oblivious to the fact that a teacher might be pregnant or someone’s mother might be pregnant or that the child might sit on a bus with someone who was pregnant. All that could have devastating consequences.

Same with TB. Absolutely no understanding of the complete wreckage of lives that this disease caused. I was very disappointed that in the remake of All Creatures Great and Small, Siegfried Garnon’s first wife was said to have had cancer, when the reality is that she died of TB. It would be much better if people had understood what really happened.

Again, with diseases such as rheumatoid and psoriatic arthritis. Nobody now realises that only a few decades ago people used to die of these diseases. The photographs that you have in textbooks show what is now the exception, but 50 years ago these contorted limbs were the reality for many, many people.

The human race will bring its destruction on itself.

mycatcontrolsmewith5g · 19/02/2026 14:18

I had the measles jab as an adult a couple of years ago worth doing if you didn’t have it as a kid not only for yourself but the herd too

Katemax82 · 19/02/2026 14:36

jamandcustard · 20/01/2026 17:39

Why would you worry? Presumably your DC is vaccinated?

That's quite an assumption seeing as anti vaxxers are rife (not saying op is but I know loads)

IAxolotlQuestions · 19/02/2026 14:37

People stop worrying about things when they don't see them regularly. We removed measles, mumps and rubella from general circulation, so people forgot the horror.

Sadly, it won't swing back the other way until the horror has returned for a while.

Katemax82 · 19/02/2026 14:40

Getching99 · 21/01/2026 09:00

And you are the sort of parent who I expect would be most angry about anti-vax movement who put kids like yours at massive risk. It’s just so awful.

Yep. Anti vaxxers can get in the bin

CrispySquid · 19/02/2026 15:03

If your child is vaccinated you have nothing to worry about. In the rare chance they do get it, because of their vaccine, their symptoms will be very mild. It’s the poor immunocompromised children who want the vaccine but can’t get one that I feel most sorry for. And the children of the parents who have refused to vaccinate them. So angry that outbreaks are now happening for former eradicated diseases because of this current nonsense.

Carbooboo · 19/02/2026 15:34

What about communities who dont take vaccines for cultural reasons?
I think we would risk discriminating against minority groups if we banned non vaccinated children from schools.

itsthetea · 19/02/2026 15:36

Carbooboo · 19/02/2026 15:34

What about communities who dont take vaccines for cultural reasons?
I think we would risk discriminating against minority groups if we banned non vaccinated children from schools.

if we had a community that abused children for cultural reasons would that be ok? FGM is seen as abuse even though it’s cultural. Culture isn’t an excuse for not using your brain. It’s a reason to think but not a reason to automatically accept as a good answer

twinkletoesimnot · 19/02/2026 15:40

Carbooboo · 19/02/2026 15:34

What about communities who dont take vaccines for cultural reasons?
I think we would risk discriminating against minority groups if we banned non vaccinated children from schools.

Honestly…. Tough!

CuriousKangaroo · 19/02/2026 15:42

If your child is vaccinated then they are much less likely to get it and even if they do, it will be much milder. Also, it sounds like the school are on top of this, and I imagine will be keeping a very close eye on the children for any signs of measles. So try not to worry.

gototogo · 19/02/2026 15:44

I had measles vaccine as a small child then rubella (girls only) before leaving primary, this was the norm in the 70’s and 80’s. Dh missed the measles vaccine completely as older than me but caught it as a child, he remembers feeling really miserable with it. When getting travel vaccines last year our health practice gave us a full set of boosters including the mmr as it’s better to be safe, the nurse here said they are offering boosters to every 40+ year old as and when they come in for other things due to high rates in our health authority for measles and concerns about people picking other conditions up travelling

MabelAnderson · 19/02/2026 15:46

nocoolnamesleft · 20/01/2026 17:49

If your child is fully vaccinated, he has about a 5% chance of catching it if exposed. If unvaccinated, there is an incredibly high chance of catching measles if exposed.

Agree with this. Vaccination doesn’t mean your child definitely won’t catch it, it just makes it far, far less likely.

MabelAnderson · 19/02/2026 15:50

HoppityBun · 19/02/2026 13:59

I think that, as with a lot of diseases, people just don’t realise how damaging they were before modern vaccines and treatments. You only have to look at old photographs of smallpox to be absolutely horrified, but we just don’t see that now. It’s been eradicated but who understands that? same with rubella and scarlet fever. Same with measles.

I have heard so, so many people say “oh I had measles as a child and got over it what’s the big deal?“. Well, I had it as a child, too, quite badly and I also got over it. But, at the time, I’m almost certain that we had no idea of the long-term damaging effects that the disease could have. Also, it’s very, very unpleasant for babies, who catch it and for many children. Unfortunately, people generalise from the particular and if they didn’t have it too badly then they just assumed that that’s it, and there’s no more to be said.

It was the same with German measles. People would self righteously send their children to school to pass it on. Completely oblivious to the fact that a teacher might be pregnant or someone’s mother might be pregnant or that the child might sit on a bus with someone who was pregnant. All that could have devastating consequences.

Same with TB. Absolutely no understanding of the complete wreckage of lives that this disease caused. I was very disappointed that in the remake of All Creatures Great and Small, Siegfried Garnon’s first wife was said to have had cancer, when the reality is that she died of TB. It would be much better if people had understood what really happened.

Again, with diseases such as rheumatoid and psoriatic arthritis. Nobody now realises that only a few decades ago people used to die of these diseases. The photographs that you have in textbooks show what is now the exception, but 50 years ago these contorted limbs were the reality for many, many people.

The human race will bring its destruction on itself.

TB killed so many people in my family. My great grandfather was orphaned at 12 due to TB, his father was also orphaned young, his parents died of TB six months apart.

fairislecable · 19/02/2026 15:52

The type of people who don’t believe in vaccinations are usually too ignorant to educate on the benefits.

A family I know of 3 young children, all unvaccinated, the youngest 2 years old caught whooping cough and was in hospital for 4 days and was very poorly.

The fact the child eventually recovered was cited as proof that vaccination is unnecessary!!

metalbottle · 19/02/2026 15:58

It's very very unusual to get measles if you're vaccinated and it is very mild when it does happen. So no worried as you're clearly one of the sensible ones!

Solost92 · 19/02/2026 16:32

Lmnop22 · 20/01/2026 17:38

Not if your child is vaccinated

Not true. Not all vaccinations are successful.

Solost92 · 19/02/2026 16:33

If there were measles at DS school I wouldn't send him 🤷‍♀️

Eggdilemma · 19/02/2026 16:38

MyDenimBird · 20/01/2026 18:00

Yes, worry. Keep them off - the school should be doing way more according to current regs. Even 5% chance of developing measles (if vaccinated) is too high - it can and will kill. It also can cause deafness, brain damage, encephalitis. A specific feature of measles is that it also wipes out your immune memory so that your body forgets how to fight every single infection it's ever learned and your immune system is decimated.

Measles can stay in the air for 2 hours and people are infectious for four days before they even have a rash. One person with measles will infect 90% of the people they come into contact with.

We've forgotten how dangerous this is because we pretty much eliminated it, it's very very dangerous for children.

This . It’s incredibly dangerous. I had to be vaccinated as an adult as my mother was anti vax as soon as I got to 18 I got them all done !!!

OhDear111 · 19/02/2026 17:12

@Solost92 No they aren’t but it doesn’t matter if the vast majority of others are vaccinated. We now know this isn’t the case, hence dangers.

Measles is a notifiable disease and it’s classed as urgent by the uk government. I assume the health professionals should be contacting parents.

Solost92 · 19/02/2026 18:13

OhDear111 · 19/02/2026 17:12

@Solost92 No they aren’t but it doesn’t matter if the vast majority of others are vaccinated. We now know this isn’t the case, hence dangers.

Measles is a notifiable disease and it’s classed as urgent by the uk government. I assume the health professionals should be contacting parents.

Edited

Exactly. So all parents should be worried about the measles outbreak, even if their children are vaccinated.

Playingvideogames · 19/02/2026 18:15

There was measles at DS nursery last year, he was vaccinated at that stage but not everyone in the baby room was (a handful too young). Selfish c*s

Devilsmommy · 19/02/2026 18:18

MyDenimBird · 20/01/2026 18:00

Yes, worry. Keep them off - the school should be doing way more according to current regs. Even 5% chance of developing measles (if vaccinated) is too high - it can and will kill. It also can cause deafness, brain damage, encephalitis. A specific feature of measles is that it also wipes out your immune memory so that your body forgets how to fight every single infection it's ever learned and your immune system is decimated.

Measles can stay in the air for 2 hours and people are infectious for four days before they even have a rash. One person with measles will infect 90% of the people they come into contact with.

We've forgotten how dangerous this is because we pretty much eliminated it, it's very very dangerous for children.

Jesus Christ I didn't know all of that. Anyone who thinks it's ok to not vaccinate their child against something like this should be prosecuted for severe neglect/abuse because that child has no say in the matter and could very possibly end up either dead or severely disabled because of their parents stupidity

nocoolnamesleft · 19/02/2026 18:24

Devilsmommy · 19/02/2026 18:18

Jesus Christ I didn't know all of that. Anyone who thinks it's ok to not vaccinate their child against something like this should be prosecuted for severe neglect/abuse because that child has no say in the matter and could very possibly end up either dead or severely disabled because of their parents stupidity

It's incredibly infectious. You remember all the talk about R numbers with Covid, before vaccination, with the average infected person infecting 2 to 3 people? In an unvaccinated population for measles, the R number is 12 - 18. So if you have a co located group of anti vaxxers (or children too young for vaccination) and they get exposed, measles rips through them. And although most will survive, some won't, and some of the survivors will have lifelong effects. There's a reason a vaccine was invented for this. And there is no specific treatment, it's just support the kid and pray.

Kirbert2 · 19/02/2026 18:28

Unvaccinated children without medical reasons should be the ones that have to stay at home for 3 weeks.

YYURYYUCICYYUR4ME · 19/02/2026 18:48

Having seen my husband seriously ill with chickenpox, a work colleague hospitalised with measles caught from his children, another friend's daughter die at 20 from.post measles syndrome and my mum in-law and her sister both affected by post-polio syndrome, vaccinations save lives and suffering, plus increase herd immunity. Measles is incredibly infectious and before a spot appears.