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To think people are missing the main point that Brooklyn Beckham is trying to reveal ?

263 replies

Thistooshallpass. · 20/01/2026 15:01

Firstly I know the goings on of this family are not important news and there are more important things to worry about in the world .
But I’m finding it surprising that people are fixating on things like the wedding dress and the dancing . There are a couple of points in his statements when he is clearly saying what I have always believed- that David and Victoria are not a couple as they like to portray . I’ve always thought David’s disdain of her is quite obvious in the way he talks to her and that she appears lost and soulless but intent on preserving the brand .
BB says “ 'The performative social media posts, family events and inauthentic relationships have been a fixture of the life I was born into.”
Then - “ media, mostly at the expense of innocent people, to preserve their own facade. But I believe the truth always comes out.'”

To me it seems obvious what he is hinting at ?

OP posts:
Starlightsprite · 20/01/2026 21:12

KeepPumping · 20/01/2026 20:57

She used to be in the Spice Girls so ridiculous dancing is fine, just please don"t sing, anything but that.

😂

GloriaMonday · 20/01/2026 21:12

KeepPumping · 20/01/2026 21:05

Fair enough, if you want top drawer musicianship though look at Deep Purple 😎

Are you a mindreader? I was thinking 'Jon Lord, Jon Lord' when I posted. He was classically trained though.

Favourite track?

EspressoMachiato · 20/01/2026 21:20

Netcurtainnelly · 20/01/2026 19:48

I expect the Beckham's are hoping that Harper will get with Prince George.
Best thing they can do now is stop putting Harper in her nighties and leave her out of the social media.

You never know - a see-through dress worked for Kate.

BeLoyalCoralHiker · 20/01/2026 21:23

FuzzyWolf · 20/01/2026 15:27

I thought everyone viewed them as brand and most people were aware enough to know celebrities and those in the media are rarely as they are portrayed, so I can’t see why people would have thought otherwise.

I also think that just as a result of his upbringing, Brooklyn will have a very different and distorted view of what things like control and privacy actually are. His life has no reflection on what most his age have experienced but his perception will be genuine to him, even if not to others. That doesn’t necessarily make it true or false.

Same! Are people actually naive enough to think that a celebrity’s public persona isn’t carefully curated, especially when that persona is their brand and their income?!

Usernamenotav · 20/01/2026 21:28

Thistooshallpass. · 20/01/2026 15:08

i think lots of people believe they are a devoted couple ! Especially after recent documentaries selling this .
and yes I agree lots of people are disinterested - as I said it’s not that important just interesting that I think the main point has been missed .

I genuinely don't think that a lot of people think that, but maybe it's just that I don't know anyone that does.
To me, that's obvious without his statement, the interesting parts are the wedding dance and the dress.

Soonenough · 20/01/2026 21:30

Just thinking that the Beckhams are small scale UK celebs . Many people say in the States wouldn't know David as football a peripheral sport.

They absolutely could have kept their kids out of the media . Many more famous people have done so and their kids have chosen their own path . For instance Bruce Springsteen son is a firefighter, daughter and equestrian.

What's scary is that they have more kids coming along . How do they think it's OK to parade Romeo or Cruz age gap girlfriends? Still in teens with 29 year olds . Do they approve or are they afraid they will push them away like Brooklyn. Once wives come along, Victoria will be just another MIL . And wonder how she will like being a granny?

Thanks to the Beckhams for the Comic Relief

PinkPanther57 · 20/01/2026 21:30

Veganornotvegan · 20/01/2026 20:47

Marketing companies use this tactic (spelling and grammar mistakes) intentionally to make statements such as this one from the Beckham kid seem more genuine.

It’s the same as when celebrities (particularly the likes of the Kardashian’s) release photos with photoshop ‘errors’. It’s intentional because a perfect new photo will get a certain number of comments and interactions, but a ‘photoshop fail’ will get exponentially more.

Nothing in the world of celeb, PR, and marketing is accidental.

‘Eleventh hour’ isn’t BB speak.

exse24Londoner · 20/01/2026 21:36

EspressoMachiato · 20/01/2026 21:20

You never know - a see-through dress worked for Kate.

to be fair, I suspect it was loyalty, secrecy, lack of social media & a stable family that worked for Kate

Veganornotvegan · 20/01/2026 21:40

PinkPanther57 · 20/01/2026 21:30

‘Eleventh hour’ isn’t BB speak.

Oh sorry, didn’t realise you knew Brooklyn Beckham personally and know what he talks like. My mistake.

GloriaMonday · 20/01/2026 21:41

@Veganornotvegan ,there's no need for that.

CremeCarmel · 20/01/2026 21:48

Christwosheds · 20/01/2026 20:43

To me it sounded as though his wife may be pregnant, or that they are trying for a baby. He sounds very protective and comes across as wanting to have a very different family situation now.
Looking at photos of him last night, he does often look very stressed. I don’t think he was exaggerating that at all.

Yes. I hope that is the case. I wish them every happiness.

QuietComet · 20/01/2026 21:55

I think that this isn't The Great Gatsby and we're not 14-year-olds in English class trying to dissect it.
Who knows what's really going on.
By the time we're old enough to be parents, and therefore old enough to be on Mumsnet, we should have realised that there are way more than two sides to every story.

CleverButScatty · 20/01/2026 21:59

BruFord · 20/01/2026 16:20

He has had aot of opportunities to move in famous and wealthy circles but actually his family's fame will have stopped him pursuing a normal job/life etc.

@CleverButScatty Many children of famous people have normal careers though-a couple of Gordon Ramsay’s children have chosen to do this, for example, whereas others have chosen to stay in the public eye.
Wealth gives you immense choice.

Not many famous people have kept their children in the limelight as much as the Beckhams. Being instantly recognisable makes a lot of 'ordinary' options difficult at best and unsafe at worst.

Itcantbetrue · 20/01/2026 22:04

@CarminaBiryani interesting choice of words he uses "allowing children to make mistakes *.

Of course BB is always going to be his child but he's an adult and not under Dave's control to be allowed to make mistakes .

pavillion1 · 20/01/2026 22:07

I think you could tell this in her documentary, a few of the scenes between them she was embarrassing herself and playing up to the cameras the end scene where she was behaving coy when he was complimenting her really made her look an idiot

BruFord · 20/01/2026 22:08

Christwosheds · 20/01/2026 20:43

To me it sounded as though his wife may be pregnant, or that they are trying for a baby. He sounds very protective and comes across as wanting to have a very different family situation now.
Looking at photos of him last night, he does often look very stressed. I don’t think he was exaggerating that at all.

That may well be the case. I think that he’d be well advised to carve out some sort of career and independence for himself though as presumably he’s entirely dependent on his in-laws to support his future family.

BruFord · 20/01/2026 22:10

CleverButScatty · 20/01/2026 21:59

Not many famous people have kept their children in the limelight as much as the Beckhams. Being instantly recognisable makes a lot of 'ordinary' options difficult at best and unsafe at worst.

@CleverButScatty I think he’s got a better chance of a career in the US, tbh, they’re not as big here.

Itcantbetrue · 20/01/2026 22:11

@QuietComet two sides to a story ,😁my goodness this is why I love mumsnet you get every side and more !

EspressoMachiato · 20/01/2026 22:28

exse24Londoner · 20/01/2026 21:36

to be fair, I suspect it was loyalty, secrecy, lack of social media & a stable family that worked for Kate

The see-through dress caught William's eye first.

KeepPumping · 20/01/2026 22:58

GloriaMonday · 20/01/2026 21:12

Are you a mindreader? I was thinking 'Jon Lord, Jon Lord' when I posted. He was classically trained though.

Favourite track?

Edited

Pictures of Home stands out, as does When A Blind Man cries (nobody can touch the feeling in that guitar solo) Lazy (nicked note for note from Clapton`s The Stumble though, maybe EC also nicked it I don"t know?) too many to mention really, the amount of talent that went through that band with all the member changes is incredible.
Lord and George Harrison were neighbours in London and good mates from what I have read, there is YouTube footage of George onstage with them in Australia doing "Lucille", he is the most sober person there.
PM had a band in the early 2000"s with Ian Paice on drums, easy to find on YT and although IP said that even with his reputation you still audition for PM and you are out very quickly if you are not cutting it the joke at the time was that finally PM gets to know what playing with a true legend is all about!

TicklishLion · 21/01/2026 04:15

Thistooshallpass. · 20/01/2026 15:11

Er the point that I made in the opening post ? That the subtext of his statement is that they are not a couple !!

This is a pretty odd claim… They’re still husband and wife. They may not be as loving as they portray themselves, which their kids could call inauthentic. Do you know any authentically lovey-dovey middle-aged couples? How are they different from other middle-aged couples staying together for the kids or for the house, except they’re staying together for their joint business.

What do you think is going on with them then? They both have lovers on the side or…?

Newsenmum · 21/01/2026 07:44

Trump and melania are also still together. Doesnt mean anything.

Gowlett · 21/01/2026 13:13

BruFord · 20/01/2026 22:10

@CleverButScatty I think he’s got a better chance of a career in the US, tbh, they’re not as big here.

That’s why this will ultimately benefit BB & Nicola.
Their profile has changed overnight, with all of this.
Her family will have top PR people in, ready to roll.
Hope BB gets a slice of the pie. Otherwise, he’s Harry!

BruFord · 21/01/2026 13:41

@gowlett Yes, I hope he’s successful in the US. Being dependent on your spouse’s family is an uncomfortable position to be in because you know that if the relationship ever fails, you’re out in the cold.

Plus as it’s not his wife’s money, he wouldn’t have any claim on it, it’ll be all wrapped up in trusts. So he really does need to make his own way.

Itcantbetrue · 21/01/2026 14:05

Yes I had not thought of that side re boosting his profile ! Wow that would be canny

.
Who knows maybe all this is a ruse between them
All to boost profiles !

Has anyone seen the wedding dance yet ?